A little bit about me...
*Name Stephanie Njunuri
*Age 17
*Height 5'4
*Hair brownish blonde
*Eyes drk brwn
*Location H-Town
*Stats SINGLE!!! all the way baby!!!!
*SCREEN NAME QtWitABooty00721... if someone is on a different sn other than QtWitABooty00721 pretending to be me... then YOUR NOT TALKING TO STEPHANIE NJUNURI your talking to an IMPOSTER!!
I belive lyf is only wut u MaKe of it, so love lyf cuz it dont last 4 eva
~When U Have A Problem KiSsEs Can Solve Em~
Gender: Female
Location: Houston Tx
Age: 18
AIM: QtWitABooty00721
Member Since: June 24, 2004
Answers: 143
Last Update: December 16, 2004
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i started goin out with this guy- and it was only 2 days.. and on the 3rd day i broke up with him for somebody else.. but he had told me he loved me n' all this stuff and when i broke up with him i told him he seemed too attached.. do you think he seemed to attached already or he was just saying that? (link)
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In my opinion i think he was just attached becuase yall only went out for two days. *love* is a strong word and he really shouldn't be using it cuz he dont seem to know how powerfull dat word is. but it all depends how long yall were talkin befor yall hooked up. ~KiSsEs~
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Ok well there's this guy i've been with for 5 months.. and he ended things in march.. and then he started going out with a girl i really hated over alot of stuff so i got mad at him.. and so we didn't talk for a while~ But then we started talking again- but not about those kinda problems.. but recently he told me " wuts it guna take for me to get u back- and for you to like me " and i said i dont know- and he said you need to break up with keith tho - ( i was going out with a guy at the time ) and so i did! stupid me! lol.. BUt then the next day he completly ingores me ( not keith ) and then i tried talking to him about why he told me he liked me when i think he doesnt and he just wanted me to not have a boyfriend.. I really like him alot- even love him but then he told me that " look im tired of this stuff.. look when im ready we'll go out " What should i do? wait for the guy i really like.. or move on but still be friends with him??!!!??! * PLEASE HELP * THANX! (link)
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I say move around....it's ok to move on and be in new relationships, its apart of life. But i think you should stay friends with this guy because he seems comfused and he may change his mind soon. He was prolly just jealous to see you with someone else. ~KiSsEs~
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theres this guy that i like..but i feel like hes way out of my league. i'm kinda shy but i really like him and i dont know how to start talking to him or get him to notice to me. any suggestions of what to do? (link)
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You'd never know if he was the right guy for you or not if you don't talk to him! Don't be shy just let him know the real you and if he doesn't like that, it's his problem!!! ~KiSsEs~
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ok theres this one guyz that ive liked for a long time and when skool was goin on most of my friends said that he liked me cuz we were in the one class together and he sat behind me and we talked like all the time and my friend to me we flirt way to much so she said that i should tell him i like him and so i did a few days ago online and he acted cool about it but then he wouldnt talk to me except he said bye to me when he had to go so then i talked to him like yesterday and we talked for a loong time and then when he had to go he said lyl which means luv ya lotz but i think he was kidding or something but i dont know cuz he says he doesnt like me? wut do u guyz think does he like me and hes hiding it or not? (link)
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I think he likes you and just doesn't no how to tell you how he feels. Give him sometime and he'll eventually come around ~KiSsEs~
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I'm the person with the "Boyfriend issues".. anyways everytime I think about breaking up and I think about not being with him in the future, I cry! That must be really messed up because I dont feel the same for him like I used to! Maybe we should just break for a little, but I'm afraid that might be worse for him because he'll want to see and talk to me!
WHAT DO I DO? (link)
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Boyfriend issues are very common....All you have to do is just be a little patient relationships tak time..It's ok to cry..But if u really love him no matter wut u'll let him go that way your not in a realtionship you dont want to be in. If he wants to talk to you then let him, you can't have a realtionship if your afraid to communicate, thats what relationships are based on
Good luck, ~KiSsES~
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My boyfriend recently told me I was acting alot different and not being myself. I can see why he says that because I have been thinking about taking a break with him and I have SO much on my mind.
Tonight on the phone he kept saying he loved me and he never wanted to lose me AND our 8 month anniversary is this Saturday. Should I wait to call it off between us until after this Saturday or what?
I REALLY NEED THE ADVICE!! (link)
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Follow your heart, but if your having ANY doubts at all then you should let him know BEFORE your anniversary how you feel and that you dont wana go any further into the relationship and that you need time to yourself to sort out your feelings. If you wait after then you'll only be making the situation worse by misleading him. ~KiSsEs~
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well i juss got a new bf today.. and you know how u hab those awkard silent moments at the begining of a new relationshp?!! well i dont like them!! what can i talk to him about htat will make him open up more..and not be like "so..yeah.." LOl. PLEASE HELP.
OH and we already takled abuot music and sports... LOL.. any other topics!!??
thanks alot you guys. (link)
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I went through the same thing once, just start talking about what your day was like or what you plan on doing. If that dont work just try and find out some of his intersts then see what yall have incommon then soon a conversation will come up. After yall get comfortable with each other and get to know each other it'll b easier.
good luck ~KiSsES~
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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If you want to be 100% sure that you will not get pregnant, then don't have sex, but I do suggest you take some type of birth control besides using just condoms if you want to feel pretty secure. Because no matter what your taking your NOT 100% safe. Condoms DO brake, But if you really feel he's the guy and your willing to face the consequences....go for it.
As for the additional question... yes the condom can break but i doubt it'll get wild cuz its just your first time and you can't ride the first time cuz its basically all pain. just follow your
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hey ok i like this guy alot..i have for a while. he lives next door to me. the other day my friend chelse asked for his sn and gav it to her bff sam. sam took it and started talking to him, sent him her pic and now he likes her and she likes him altho she has a bf. he said that if they break up he'll go out with her. sam and him always talk about eachother to me. like he is so nice/hot w.e im so sick of it. i dont no what to do... :( help!
thanks love youu* (link)
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Tell this boi how you feel, because he may lyk you too and just not know how to tell you. Let this gurl know that you lyk him and she has boyfriend so she needs to move around! Hope all ends well, much
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hey, i was thinking about getting some posters for my room that are of tv shows i like & movies that i like... does anyone know where i could get them where they aren't too expensive.. (link)
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For posters you could always check out Warehouse Music, but if that too expensive there's always Wal*Mart,Spencers,FYE (For Your Entertainment) or Foot*Action
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hey, can you tell me how to get those stars listed above your name when you click on columnists? they tell your average rating, you know? thankz a bunch!! (link)
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After people read the advice you give them they rate you. so the more advice the more stars.
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this slimy clear (sometimes milky) stuff is comming out of my vigina and i think its cum but i dont know. is it? and how do i make this stuff stop comming!!!????PLEASE HELP! SOMETIMES SO MUCH COMES OUT THAT MY PANTS GET WET SO IT LOOKS LIKE I PEED IN MY PANTS! :( (link)
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Don't worry! its normal...its just vaginal discharge. most all girls have it before they start their period and between it after it starts. But Since its goin through your pants you may want to see a doctor...nuttin serious but jus to make sure! ~KiSsEs~
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What is cum? what does it mean? what if you are a girl, can u still cum? if so, are you abnormal? (link)
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"Cum" is just a word often used to mean orgasm or ejaculate..... Yes girls can cum, but it does not mak you abnormal ~KiSsES~
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13/f- heyy!! does have a tattoo on their left shoulder??? if s0o does it hurt when you got it done, cause im gettin one sometime this year.. and im really scared that its gonna hurt really badd :'(!!!! its not just that... its something for my brother, he had my name tattoo'd on his arm.. with a design and he passed away and i want to get the same design on my shoulder to show him how much he ment to me!!! s0o i really want to get this done, even if it hurts!! the pain will eventually go away.. PLEASEEEEEE SOMEONE..ANYONE?! (link)
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Tattoo's REALLY do hurt. I mean theres a needle sticking in and out of you really fast. So its going to hurt. But the pain is really worth it, especially in your situation....thats soOoO sweet your going to get the same design of your deseaced brother. but make sure you take care of it and clean so it don't get infected or nuthin because dat would suck. ~KiSsEs~
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hello my freind had sex and well just call him Bob and bob has pressured all his g/f into sex ! and my best friend well call her Jackie has just started dateing him and i dont want her to do the dirty deed yet cuz shes soo sweet and shes kinda gullable so shell prolly go and do it like dont get me wrong i love both of them soo much as friends but i dont want Jakie to have sex with bob but jakie knoes about bobs pressuring his other gfs into sex but she wont dump him wut shud i do i dont want her to get taken advantag of so shud i talk to her ? i need help cuz im soo stuck on wut to do ( ps were only 15 i dont want her to have it this early except bob is like 16) (link)
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Since your friend seems to know about "bob's" reputation then i think she know what shes getting herself into. Hopefully she's mature enough to make the right decision. But if you really feel concerned then talk to her and make her realize that he's NOT the right guy for her.Let her know your there to help and not criticize. *Stephanie* ~KiSsES~
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i hit him to i know i should nt it is me that hits out first please giv me more advice (link)
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Well if its the alcohol that makes you violent and hit him first then stop drinkin. because your not just putting yourself in danger but also your children. i KNOW its hard to stop but at least limit yourself to not as many drinks. *Stephanie*
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ok since im older than you and im more mature i shudnt be askin J/K.....
Ok i can draw right but im not sure if i wanna be a car designer, Architectand not exactly sure wat college im goin to be goin to and i have two years to think about it. I know thatsa long time to think but you will help me out in my thinkin so halla back will ya.... (link)
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First of all your not more mature then me so be for real!But n*e*ways....Two years is a long time to think about this but the earlier the better right........Well i say go with what you really wanna do and what works best with your financing.hope i helped ~KiSsEs~
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hey im a 14/f and i wanna knoe if this guy is into me he always smiles , winks , holds doors , laughs , jokes , stares i think he likes me but im no expert i realli like him but not in an obsessive way should i tell him how i feel ? please help me i realli need some advie cuz im gunna see him this weekend and i need to knoe if i should tell him or not . but the thing is is taht i think if i dont let him knoe he wont knoe i like him alot and hell move on to another girl (link)
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It sounds like he really likes you. i think you should go ahead and tell him because you'll never know if you two had a chance unless you go for it. ~KiSsEs~ *don't b nervous*
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female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice (link)
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STOP with the alcohol....it could only make the situation worse! If you stoped drinkin then you wouldn.t be such a nervous wreck. But as for the violence, you need to LEAVE him. A REAL man would never lay a hand on another women, he would also know better than to put you down and call you names. Hes abusing you and one day he could hurt/injure your kids. If you cared for them you would get them out the situation while you still can. Ya it hard to be a single mom but at least you and your family would be out of danger. There are also gvt funds that could help you if you really needed it. but leaving him would make you stronger and an independent women! ~KiSsEs~
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Hey my names Katie im 14 going on 15 and i have a friend named Jenn and weve been pretty much best friends since grade 6 and she has been awesum always there for me and understanding and laughs at my jokes ..but now ever since her boyfriend she has pretty much stopped being a good friend she makes me look stupid in english class by saying out loud KATIE UR SO STUPID THATS NOT RITE and the guy i like is in our english class and she knows that ..everytime i try to tell her wut i feel she laughs at me and i get so upset ..what should i do ? please help me (link)
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Sit your friend down and tell her how you feel...if she starts to laugh then let her know your serious and you feel your friendship is falling apart. As for the boyfriend issue, if she was your true friend she wouldn't let a boy come between yallz friendship. Boys COME and GO but TRUE friends are FOREVER! Also...ask to watch how she talks about u in English becuase if she cared about your feelings she'd stop. *Stephanie* ~KiSsES~
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