I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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Im 13 and a girl
I like am always having discharges even when im not close to my period and there always really heavy and my period has never been light never, its always been heavy is this normal or do I have a problem? (link)
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Most girls when there your age just start of with periods so if you have just started getting your periods dont worry they tend to be heavy the first couple of times and will lighten up throughout the years and if youve been having them for awhile its still quite normal some just have heavier bleeding then others because thats just how there bodies work but if you just feel like something isnt right talk to your mom ask her your questions or if your not comfortable with that have your mom take you to a female doctor and im sure they can help you out. Hope i helped :)
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16/f
My mother is a very confrontational person. I love her but she is. Well, just in the car we where talking and nearly everything I had to say she had the completely opposite view on.
For one, we talked about piercings and tattoos. I love both, well my mom is a different story. I was talking to her about what kind of body art I would want in the future and how I would also like to stretch my ears (aka gauges/plugs). She completely flipped and started telling me how if I get piercings and tattoos I won't get a job and be homeless. Also, that I should want to make myself look like a freak. Completely blowing it out of proportion. I was really offended by this because I love it and do play on getting it done to myself when I am eighteen and can without her permission. I told her I wouldn't let other people's opinion get to me because I like it and that's all that matters to me. She said well you should! And I don't agree with that at all. What do you think?
I think that body art has become more of a common thing and is more accepted.
She got me kind of upset. I don't want to make her not proud of me. She said when I am out of her house I can do whatever the hell I want but she will still have the same opinion and so will I. (link)
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All mothers are very confrontational when it comes to body piercing and tatooing its just one of those things they feel strongly about because they dont want there child to be poked with needles and stuff so dont take it to heart eventually she will be able to understand and accept it i would just start of with one either the tatoo or piercing and let your mom just get use to the idea and then move on to getting the other one done but ya all moms are like that so no need to fight to much about this because its just a part of there nature.
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I have curly/wavy hair. I really want it to be straight but i tried everything! Is there any hair products i could use after or before i straighten my hair? (link)
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You could get your hair permenatley straightened it does cost a bit of money and may damage your hair a little unless you take good care of it but its worth it because it looks awesome and lasts about a year to a year and a half depending on how well you take care of it but if you dont want to do that what i suggest doing it trying the herbal essence straight hair products those just tame the hair a little to make it easier to straighten also try a straightening balm or gel thos work great as well and you overall just need a good straightener because more that hair products the tools matter and lastly i would suggest blow drying your hair before straightening it and when blow drying brush it straight so it will come out straight and because your using so much heat use a heat protectant spray. Hope i helped :)
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Hello! 14 f
Okay well to start off, I'm the shy type I don't ujust well to new things..when I first started middle school..I was terrified and I couldnt handle it to well. Now I will be a freshmen and I'm freaking out..I'm stressing and worrying..:/ My boyfriend has been in the high school for a few years now, he told me I'll get use to it and I'll be fine. He said I shouldn't worry because he'll be there for me. :x Well Still..can someone give me an insight? How was your peoples freshmen year? How did you get use to it! Thanks for all the advice you share! Thanks! (link)
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Its honestly not that bad it just seems like its going to be terrible because your just nervous and scared because this like other points in your life is new and is a fresh start for your future so sure it may seem scary now but trust me once you start attending your classes and meeting new and old people your going to feel more comfortable it takes a few days to feel comfortable or just fit in but it happens on its own just give it a chance and take deep breaths and just think of it as your first day of kindergarden and how nervous you must have been but things had to have gone good because your not finally a freshman. GOod luck :)
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my boyfriend and i will have been dating for 6 months on june 30th. im terrible with ift giving and planning romantic days and he is like the best ever, but this time i really want to do something special. we go to college together but during the summer we are 3 hours apart. the 30th is on a wednesday & we will be together the weekend before, but i was thinking about going to visit him on the 30th as a surprise. but that is also a lot of driving, so right now idk if i can do that for sure. I was thinking of surprising him & then making reservations at the restaraunt we had our first date at. if i do all this then i also just want to get him a small gift...or making something that will really just show him how much i love & care about him....but im really not creative so i need some help please!!
also...if i end up not being able to drive down there & surprise him will you please give me some bigger ideas i could do from three hours away?
also...he lives in a house with a couple other guys but we hang out a lot there & watch movies and get to sleep togehter...so i want to do something more special and different from the usual.....thanks in advance! (link)
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get him something he will like such as clothing, cd's poster, calogne basically something you know he likes as a present think back to what he may have mentioned throughout your relationship that he liked. Or you could always cook him dinner and do a candle light dinner for him at home and just make it super romantic like that.
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Hi, my girlfriend's birthday is coming up soon and I was trying to think of a unique gift to buy her. I once read online that there are Hello Kitty condoms available but I'm not sure where. My girlfriend really loves Hello Kitty and I thought it would be funny to get her these condoms as a gag gift.
Does anyone know if the Hello Kitty condoms really exist and, if so, where I can purchase them? I don't mind having to order them online or having to spend quite a bit of money on them. I really think it is a great idea and that she would get a kick out of it.
Thank You All. (link)
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check out this website its the only one i really checked out if you want other websites go on google and check them out suprisingly theres a lot of places that send them but i dont know how safe or effective these will be since there being bought online but anyways heres the link to the site
http://secure.condomania.com/render.asp?number=FAQ-HELKITY
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Many people will say the best relationship is one that happens to be your best friend. Not me. I've known my guy for 15 years and we've been 'dating' for almost 8 of those years. Although we don't have kids together, we both have a daughter from a previous relationship. Our relationshp is kinda rocky. He's had unprotected sex with someone else and I took some racy pics for someone else. We both agreed to work on our relationship but I've realized I can't fully trust his words when he says 'I love you' and in turn I am unable to want or even enjoy sex with him. Any advice??? (link)
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maybe go see a couples counsellor or sit down and talk to eachother and try sorting out any problems you have either of these ways are effective and will for sure solve your problems and fix your relationship if not then maybe you two just dont belong together and maybe this is the end and maybe you should just move on. but try talking it out first.
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so my parents won't buy me a car & i need one. what is a good website to find cheap used cars in good condition? (link)
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craigslist
kijijji
also your local newspaper or go to google and search cheap used cars in and then right your city name to narrow it down.
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I want to be stunning hott next year at school. I figured I would take the summer to make myself prettier and hotter. What are some great tips on creating beauty that the guys will go crazy for? I'm thinking make-up tips, outfit ideas, and hair styles probably. I'm already trying to tone my body so I have more definition or whatever they call it. What else is there to be beautiful? Picture suggestions are welcomed too (link)
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Im sure your plenty pretty but if you still want to make yourself look better try checking out this website for outfit ideas
www.forever21.com
www.amiclubwear.com
www.hotmiamistyles.com
www.cutesygirl.com
for makeup go to your nearest drugstore and go the cosmetic section and the lady that will be there will help you decide what you need and how much you need and also give you a lot of tips.
for hair go to a salon and get a stylist to recommend something for you that fits your style and look.
if you need any more help feel free to ask :)
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When I get my period I always feel so sick like I have to throw up. Sometimes I even get diarrhea and it's embarrassing and uncomfortable. I don't know why I always get so sick throughout my whole entire period. My mom doesn't seem like her period even effects her when she's on it and my friend said her period never makes her feel different like sick.
Why do I get sick during my period then? (link)
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Maybe thats just the way your body reacts to having a period some girls bodies react differently then others but if you feel concerned talk to your mom and ask her to take you to the doctor just to get the concern out of your head and to make sure everything is fine.
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We were talking about our rights as Americans in my class today. Now, we have the right to freedom of speech so that means we have the right to say whatever we want then, right? I'm a little confused on it because somebody got into slander and other things that you can get in trouble for saying.
I don't want to raise my hand tomorrow and tell the teacher I don't quite get it. Can somebody explain if we have the right to say what we want to say or not? And is that the same as freedom of speech? (link)
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Freedom of speech means saying what you want when you want whenever you want it basically means you can say whatever you want and of course sometimes what you say may not be right or may have consequences afterwards but freedom of speech means saying anything freely without worry. I hope you understand the meaning of freedom of speech better now.
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Alright, I had this past "fling" I guess you could call it. It was but it wasn't because we never talked face to face. I initiated everything, I wrote the notes first, I made the phone calls first, I set up the time and place we could talk but every time, he was to nervous to talk. In his note he expressed everything, I actually still have his note that's how near and dear to my heart it is. He said in it that he likes me so much and he never felt this way about a girl before. That I'm his only one, that every time he wanted to talk to me he couldn't because he would get this knot in his stomach. We cared about each other a lot, I know you're probably laughing reading this seeming as it isn't a real relationship if he couldn't talk to me. I wouldn't talk to him because I initiated everything, I couldn't do it all, ya know, he needed to step up. My friend was a mediator I guess you could say. They talked on the phone pretty much all the time and they would always talk about me. He said he can't get me off of his mind, that he's going to talk to me soon. He's a singer for my church and one time we had battle of the bands, I looked him dead in the eyes when he was singing and he messed up and had to start all over again. Now, I explained that it's time to get to my point. We are over each other, of course we're always going to have that care for each other but he now has a girlfriend. My question is, why was it so easy for him to ask out his current girlfriend when he couldn't even talk to me? (link)
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Maybe because this is a girl he just likes and is just dating for the heck of it but he felt nervous talking to you because he really liked you and had more feelings for you that are true but honestly to figure out whats really going on send him a message or a note or go talk to him or have someone talk for you so you can figure out whats up its better to know then not to know im sure he will tell you if you just ask.
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My best friend handed me her yearbook today to sign. We're seniors and so this will be our last school year together. She's been a great friend for the past few years and I love her to death. What do I write in her yearbook though? I want something really good but I'm not coming up with any decent ideas that aren't commonly used or complete BS. I told her I needed time to write out something good and that I'd bring it by her house this weekend. Please, give me some help. (link)
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look up a good friendship quote and write that it will be unique and you two can look back at it and remember it and your friendship it can kinda be symbolic also you can say something about your friendship that is unique or a word or phrase that only you two know that is special just write something different like that so it makes your friendship seem special. :)
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when it comes to guys im so picky.. they have to be really good looking and have a good personality... how do i stop being so picky and start liking guys for their personality without good appearances?
also, even when i find a great guy that looks good and has a good personality, i like him and once he starts liking me back i stop liking him for no reason... whats wrong with me?? im 18/f (link)
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It normal to feel this way you just want perfection in a guy which isnt possible you just have to convince yourself that not everything you want is going to be in a guy and if you pick at everything your never going to find a guy you want to stop this habit now before it gets out of control and you end up hurting yourself and someone else emotionally just give yourself a wake up call when you start thinking the way you do and just remind yourself to look deeper into a guy and give him a chance before deciding you dont like him.
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My boyfriend is leaving for the United States Naval Academy very soon and will be gone for months and months.
I want to sing a song at his party, but idk what, I have two songs in mind
1. Faith Hill- There You'll Be
2. The Night Before (Life Goes On)- Carrie Underwood
never used a site like this before so uhh
dont let me down, strangers! (link)
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i think you should sing the night before by carrie underwood it seems more approprait for the occassion and besides it a good song.
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I was driving down the road this evening and this guy in front of me was swirving all over the darn place. It was scary because I had to swerve too when I decided to pass him finally. When I was passing, I could have swore I saw a beer bottle in the guys hand!
I know it might be too late to report the guy now but I did get his liscene plate number. I was told with the license plate numbers they can look the person's vehicle up when the problem happens.
How can I report him though? Even if it's too late to report this guy now I'd like to know in case something like this happens again. Drunk drivers just don't need to be on the road and I want to do my part to keep everybody safe. Is their a phone number to dial or what? (link)
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call the police or go to your local police station thats how you file a complaint besides there the only people that can do anything about drunk drivers.
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I'm going to be babysitting this summer if I can get some people to hire me. My mom said I should make flyers to post around the neighborhood to get clients. I don't have any babysitting flyer ideas though so I'm just stuck with a blank piece of paper. I can buy all the supplies I need but I need ideas really bad.
Help! Suggestions? Examples maybe? Pictures? Tips? (link)
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You should make them on a computer on your word processor or something write your name and the babysitter underneath and then add your info and number underneath and then for pictures add pictures of kids and money and stuff and also charge a decent price and also dont forget to make everything bold enough to see and be creative and make it look good so people will want to have you as there babysitter.
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Wondering what this is on my ear looks like a big pimple and its really ugly, its located on the antihelical fold of my ear what can i get to treat this or should i see a doctor? (link)
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I think you should go see a doctor you always want to go see them first because if you try something at home without checking with them first you could make it worse or infect it or something so the safest way to go about it is to get it checked out by the doctor to make sure its nothing serious and to get the right treatment.
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Okay so about 6 months agon me and my best friend were on the run together. Then when we got caught we werent allowed to talk while we were in rehab because our parents think were too co dependant! Well now that we are both out our parents say we have to take things slow and im still not able to see her yet! it sucks because all our friends either have to hang out with only one of us because of it, And our friend summer which is our other bestfriends birthday is soon and only one of us can go! If you knew how close the 3 of us were you would understand how hard this is. Me leighanne and summer are like the three amigas! lol. But this sucks so bad I just want my bes friend back in my life now. She is everything to me :( (link)
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maybe you can convince your parents to let them come over and hang out at your house i know it doesnt seem to fun but i mean your parents shouldnt have a problem with it because you'll be under there supervision so they know you wont do anything stupid or maybe you could go over to one of the other girls houses either way i think the best way to convince your parents into letting you 3 hang out is hanging out under supervision for awhile to gain back there trust. Give it time things will get better. :)
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yea i already tried that. it only talks to me about membership and how i can pay and stuff. :( do you know about algebra 2 ? i really need help with my assignment :( (link)
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sorry i cant help im not really good at math myself i dont want to give you the wrong answers maybe get a tutor and just pay eduaction is important or just ask your teacher at school to give you some extra help afterschool or at lunch or something.
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