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Hey, the names Jasmina. I'm 17, & a senior. I have 6 months left of school, & then will be attending UMSL. I love sports, & cheering. I love my boyfriend

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Is it common for your vagina to make noise from being too wet when being fingered?

Yes it's very normal, It's just the air. It might sound kind of funny, but toally normal.

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16/f I have a little hair on my stomach and back, thats only really noticeable in the sunlight. Well, I'm going to be a camp counselor this summer and spend pretty much 3 months running around in a bathing suit. I'd like to wear a bikini, but i'm worried about how noticeable the hair would be...

I don't know how to get rid of it! its mostly on my lower back, which is hard to reach. suggestions!?! pleaseeeee. its kinda embarrassing...

Either..
1. You can go get it waxed, but it'll still grow back after like 1 month or soo.
2. Just leave it alone because it's normal 7 people won't really look at it as a 'weird' thing.
I mean every girl & guy have it, but some have more then others.
So I don't know, Hope I helped.

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My boyfriend and I had a talk last night about how he wants our relationship to go. Ironically, after we spoke about it, we watched That 70's Show and the episode was literally about exactly how he wants our relationship to go. He sent me some of the quotes once he got home. I don't really understand what he wants, so hopefully you can help me understand.

"See! Remember when our relationship was the most fun thing in our lives? And then we put all this pressure on it. Wish we could just...y'know just hang out and forget all about that stuff."

"Donna and I have decided we're not gonna talk about our relationship anymore!"

"It's going to be so great to be with Donna without all the talking and the decisions and labels. Y'know like am I your fiancé...y'know am I your boyfriend..."

As far as I can see, he just wants to try and have a perfect relationship, which isn't possible, but he's trying HARDER then usual. In one of the quotes I think it's saying that the minute you guys do fight, he wants the next minute to be all better because he doesn't like the fact at you two being mad at each other.
I actually think it's kind of cute how he put it.
Hope I helped.

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ok this is really gross but i pooped today and it had like these white spots in it...is this normal?

Yes, it's totally normal. It might have just been something you ate that effected the color.
Hope I helped.

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I'm about to start my own channel on YouTube (I'm a 14f) with my best friend(also14) and I need some creative ideas. What do people enjoy watching? What are some tips on making a channel etc. Anything will be appreciated! Thanks!

Usually when I go on YouTube, I usually look for like funny videos, & something that could enetertain me, (:
Hope I helped.

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hi im a 16 year old boy and me and my x girlfriend were playing with eachother about a month ago. i didnt cum inside her but i mite have got seamen on her vagina she has never had sex before, so she is still a virgin, and as soon as i did she changed her cloths. Her period is late but she took a pregancy test and it said that she wasnt pregnent but her period is still late could she be pregnent?

There might be a chance, but unless it actually went in her, she can't be. Even if it did touch it & didn't go in. I mean if she took the test & she's supposed to get it soon it should of still showed positive because of her hormons acting up because of it comming soon. If there was no sign of that, she most deffinatly isn't.
(:
Hope I helped.

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14/m

theres a girl that I like that im pretty sure likes me, but i only see her once a week. We hang out sometimes on other days but mostly Its only once a week. Im wondering if its even worth it asking her out even if she says yes because I wouldnt get to see her a ton
your thoughts?

I think you should ask just to see what she would say, I mean if she says yes, there's a bigger chance of her liking you. I think it's totally worth finding that out. & Plus you'll still get to see her :) that's a plus.
I hope I helped.

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i really want to have sex with my boyfriend of a year....i absolutely love him but if i got pregnant it would be the end of the world...im so afraid of getting pregnant i dont think i ever wanna have sex until im married =/
what should i do?

I don't think you should be scared, I mean yes,it's a big risk. But there are always things you can do to prevent it & also get rid of it.
Plan A: Use protection.
Plan B: Take the day after pill.
I hope I helped, & good luck ! (:

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Do tannning beds cause cancer ? ...

Yes & No.
You just have to watch out for how much you tan, & for how long you tan.

Hope I helped.

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I want to buy nair - is it effective "down there" ? thanks

No it's not but just don't put it like "IN." If it does happen, it burns, & it may bother you a bit.
- Jasmina.

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okay so i really cant afford the ugg cleaner right now, how do i clean them?!

They have a mix of dirt and throw up(new years lol)

Can someone like clearly explain to me how you clean them!?

im so desperate,i love my boots :(.

thank you.

I had puke on mines too ! Ahh, what I did was take a paper towel & then put water on it, and the I just slowly cleaned them with that, yes they got wet, but then I just put them aside & everything dryed up & when it did, all of it was gone (: & I was happpppier then ever.
Good luck, hope I helped.

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Ok me and my bf have been together for alittle more than 6months now and everytime we have sex something goes wrong. We live a little far away so we see each other two or three times a week at the most, and he gets so backed up because we have sex everyweek and finishes very quickly. Sometimes when we have sex he wouldnt even go up ill give him a bj and everything, he just doesnt seem to get into it. What can i dO? He loves when i bite his neck and ears but it doesnt seem to get him up, am i doing something wrong? I wanna have good sex and it just doesnt go my way. I sometimes breathe real hard in his ear and it seems to turn him on i kinda wanna moan in his ear cause i think thatd help but i feel akward what would i say. Someone help i dont know what to do

Well I don't think your doing anything wrong. Maybe you should try a new position that he would like more, & enjoy, and get into it more. Also, don't be afriad/shy to moan, trust me the more you moan, the better feeling they get because they see that it feels good for you as what he's doing to you. So I think you should moan, well if you really have to, don't fake moan it, but if you want him to like it better you can.

Hope I helped. :]

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[i didn't know whether to put this under love life or sex]

so last night me and my boyfriend were making out and somehow i ended up straddling him. he took off my shirt then my bra so then i took off his shirt. he started going down on me (still had pants on) and started taking off my pants...there i drew the line and said "not yet"..then he looked at me and said that he wasn't gonna do anything bad, so i said well what were you gonna do? and he said "idk i didnt really plan it i was just gonna wing it" ...what do you think that means? im almost positive he was planning on having sex because we didn't have a condom and he said he wasnt gonna do anything "bad"

my second question is, we were kind of like dry humping...like sex with pants on...i wouldnt be able to get pregnant from this right?

thank youuu for answering any of my questions

and were 17/f and 17/m if that has anything to do with it.

Well if he didn't have his pants off yet, then he was probably going to eat you out. He peobably didn't know how to for real do it so that's why he said that he was just going to wing it, or try it.

Also no, there is no way you can. I mean you both have pants on so there is no way that he could get cum anywhere near your vagina, right?

Well I hope I helped, (:

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I am a 19 yr old girl. My major conern, my period. To get straight to the point. It comes when it wants, sometimes it will skip a month, or two. I am overallly concerned. This has been happening since i was probably.. 16-17 of age. I finally went to get a pap smear at age 18 (in Feb of 08) and I have another apt. scheduled for this Feb. of 09 and my last apt in 08 they said nothing was wrong and everything was completely normal and i had nothing to worry about. Although i had just gotten my period 3 weeks before i went in there so i thought it was regulating.. My mother says its because I have been off and on and off and on again and now off birth control so its got everything all funky.. my questions..


1) Shouldn't i be regulating?
2) Should I be worried?
-If so, what could it be?
3) Do I have to bring it to their attention, I will this time, in order for them to know if something is wrong or not? Or would they (tests) recognize something was wrong with or without me telling them that my period is irregular?
4) Anybody else or know somebody with a similiar situation?
5) Could I still have kids?!

1. No, everyone is differnt. It's totally normal, it's just the way it cycles for you. Trust me, you're not the only one, some people don't get it for like 4 months & then finally do get it, my friend is like that, & her doctor said it was normal. So yeah..

2. You shouldn't worry 1 bit. It's toally normal, I promise you that.

3. I mean you can, but there really isn't a reason since it's normal. But if you just want to be more sure, go ahead and ask that.

4. Yes, one of my best friends goes through the same thing. She gets it like every four months. But when she does get it, it's very heavy. She used to be concered as well, but then she talked to her doctor, and she just has a different cycle, & he told her how she had nothing to worry about.

5. Yes, it doesn't effect anything.

Hope I helped.

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okay my boyfriend and i had sex on monday. i took the morning after pill on tuesday at 8:30 PM. i took the second pill wednesday at 8:30 in the morning. we had another slip up on wednesday night. the condom broke. will the morning after pill still be in my system and cover me for that slip up or should i buy another dose of the morning after pill? please don't judge or say that i'm stupid. i just need advice please.

I think it'd just be better if you bought another pill & took it. Just to be sure, because then you know that you're not pregnat for sure, but now you might be worried. So just to make everything better, buy another dosage of pills.

Good luck, I hope I helped.

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well i'm 15/f and i've been wondering for the longest why does my *ahem* give off a smell. it's not a BAD BAD smell it just confuses me because I do take baths and I make sure I was . you know down there with soap and warm water? you know but I can still smell it. i'm a virgin because not only am I afraid to show my full nakedness to another guy because I don't really like that I have big thighs . (i'm african american by the way) i'm not fat or anything I have stress marks on my thighs and it seems very unattractive. that's besides the problem though . i'm just afraid to have sex when a guy because of the smell .

so what could be the problem? & how can I fix it? will the smell every go away?!? if not i'm goin to be a virgin my whole life :-( ughhhh !
I wanna do it sooooooooooooooooo badly . (hehehe ^_^)

Well I don't think there is much you can do, I mean it's something very normal. You shouldn't let it bother you that much, because it's something A LOT of girls go through. You might have this smell for a while, but it will go away.
A night, sleep naked. & let it breathe, I know it sounds dumb, but my doctor has told me to do it & for me it worked. Don't worry, it'll go away.

I hope I helped.

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Hey ; i wanted to know if theres any good make that would cover belemishes , scabs , & redness on skin ? Also is there any good eyeliners that rub off easy and dont smeer ? And is there any in a good price range ? Hope you can help me . -torii babiiee*

Any make-up/foundation will cover it, you just have to find the right color for your skin. Don't get anything too light, but try & get something that has a little tannish color to it, so that it'll cover up whatever, & you won't be able to see it. To cover up even better, try using a bronzer, & you could probably get all this at like walgreens, the lady that works around the make-up can help you, just ask. Also a good eye liner that I use is a Loreal eye liner. It comes in a black little container, & has a top to it. It's very smooth, & goes right on, comes off easily as well. Try this & I hope it works.
Hope I helped.

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I was a virgina nd me and m boyfriend had sex on the 23. I took plan b 75 hours after we had un protected sex. I am really nervouse becuase 5 days after taking plan B {wich is today 12/1/08} i had blood in my undewear. I have been having cramps, hotflashes, and moode swings. Is this suppose to be my period or is tis just an effect of plan b? Also could tis be implantation bleeding? ow soon should I take a pregnancy test? I am a 16.

I have taken it, & that's what's supposed to happen. Those signs seem like they are comming because you're supposed to get your period. After you take it, there's usually a slight change when you're supposed to get your period. You might get it a little latter then usual, or even a little earlier. It's normal though, so you don't have to worry.

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Hi! ok so i'll just get to it.. i had my period from sunday dec. 21 until fri. dec 26. and ok so that was that. and now its dec 31. and all of a sudden i have started bleeding again.. not a lot but a little and im having cramps too. i dont know if its normal for that to be happening.. its never happened before. and im not sure why it is.. any thoughts on what could be happening? should i go see a doctor? i figured i didnt need to see a doctor if it stopped . and its only been 1 day.. but still not sure whats really going on.. any ideas? thanks!

Oh don't worry, it's normal. It's just maybe it didn't get it all out the first time you had it, & of course it has to come back. Sometimes it changes, thats why there's sometimes changes in the dates that you get it. It's just how your body is functioning, but it's normal, don't worry (:

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okay my bf broke up with me not even a month ago. i was devastated and under the circumstances that he was telling me i shoulda said fuck you, but i stayed around and i messed around with him even though he had another gf already. bc he said he 'still loved me' B.S. right? i didnt know whether it was or not. his best friend tyler begain talking to me after he broke up with me. he told me that he has had a crush on me. i told my ex and he got really pissed (the purpose of telling him). but as i talked to tyler i learned he cheated on me 3 tiems while we were datng and he is tellling me all theis stuff about my ex that i didnt know and it pissed me off. do you think he maybe exagerateing bc he likes m e or telling me the truth. im kind of in the middle because i don't really know/.

I don't think he is lieing, sorry to say but if you ex already found a new gf & it hasn't been even a month yet, he moves pretty quick. He seems like one of those "playa" guys, from the way you describe him.
I think to get revenge back onto your ex, it'll make him very mad if you went out with that Tyler guy. Guys hate that! & I think it would just get him, you don't deseve to get hurt like that.. No gurl does.
I hope I helped, if you have any other questions, just askk (:

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