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i have been having sex with my boyfriend for over a month now. we have sex just about 6 times a week. i have yet to orgasm. we are trying. but what is something that i could do to help out? and i have never masterbated or experienced an orgasm. i would like to experience one. haha

just some kind of tip for us. thanks.

try different possitions first off like in different directions,ect. try slower deeper breathing.

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wen you give a guy a hj..do you want them to cum or not? how long do you do it for..not "whatever feels right" just maybe an estimate? thanks =]

You want to give him the hand job until he looses his boner, then if you wants more then just do it longer. The whole point isn't for him to cum it's for him to enjoy it.

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Not sure if this is in the right category but whatever. I'm getting my bellybutton pierced in a couple of weeks and I need to know the risks involved. Please only answer if you've actually gotten it pierced. Also what's the pain like compared to getting your ear pierced. Thanks.

Clean it everyday with provon (or some other soap they PIERCERS offer at the piercing salon) and do the salt water solution soak everyday twice a day (if you don't know what that is or them just message me back) and you will STILL get a little puss. Your body is trying to recognize the new piercing so a little swelling, puss, ect. doesn't require getting crazy over. Just don't touch it with your hands regularly.

I'm really good with pain but to me it felt just like a lot of pressure not much pain. Like the one in your ear but longer lasting. If this helps: the after pain is worse then getting the piercing itself.

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Haha, okay I'm 14/f and I've been a vegatarian for over a month now and I'm very, very happy. My mom finally caved in and let me be one. But my question is what are some easy foods that can fill me up but I can make easily and quickly. Any recipes or foods that I should be eating? I like lima beans...lol Thanks

I'm vegedtarian as well, over 11 years. Some of my favorites realllllly easy things are...

Quesadilla's: made with cheese and some green unions on whole wheat wraps.

Eggs: I just do egg whites (sometimes i use egg substitude) because i don't like the yolk and i like to put some green unions and small sliced tomatoes in it and maybe cheese and i eat it on top of a piece of toast.

Blueberry soy shake: You just take 4 ounzes of vanilla or plain soy milk and ice cream and put in a 1/2 cup of blueberries.

Garbanzo tacos: The recipe is pretty simple you just take some garbanzo beans, it can be out of the can but i would make sure to read the lable carefully. lettus, lard-free tortilla or just a hard taco shell, tomatoes, unions, salso, ect. (i like putting some soft tofu in them for more flavor you can do this by buying a square of organix tofu and frying it up until it's light brown)

Need anmore recepies just inbox me.





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Ok I am not fat, but I have gained a lot of weight since the beginning of the year from stress of school and things like that and I am still gaining more and more.

Summer is almost here, and I really want to "wow" everyone at my school next year. I don't want to like starve myself, I just want to start eating a lot healthier and maybe go on daily jogs around my neighborhood.

I need to know of good/bad things to eat. so if someone could help me out a little, that would be appreciated. :)

You will want to combine cardio with muscle workouts. About 75% of loosing weight is what you eat so...

GOOD:
any lean meats such as boiled chick, tuna and salmon (fresh or out of the can), grilled chicken, vegitables like cabbage,cucumber, carrots, brocoli, leafy vegitables, fruites such as apples, oranges, tomatos, blueberries, tofu, boiled beans (NOT out of the can), whole wheat, cottage cheese, eggs, nuts, ect.

BAD FOOD:
pretty much anything along the lines of french toast, pancakes, waffels, anything like jam or something packed with sugar or corn syrup. stay away from french fries, hamburgers, chips, cookies, white bread, ect. the one huge thing is soda just by not drinking it you are keeping over 100 calories per meal out of your body so STOP DRINKIG sodas and juices unless they are hand squeezed.

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i can't wear sandals or flip flops to school because my feet start to sweat really bad, is there something i can do to fix this?

Keep your feet clean with regular washes. Try experimenting with different things like deoderant, yes it is okay to use on your feet and foot powder/baby powder. It will suck up the moisture.

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Alright, so I started stretching my ears just this past sunday. I started at a 20 and bought 16 and 14 gauge earrings from spencers. The 16's went it like nothing, so I tried to put in the 14's. They went in a little tighter, but it didn't hurt at all, bleed,or anything. It's been a couple of days now, and I know normally you're supossed to wait like a week or two before you put new ones in, but I can move it around freely cause i play with the ring a lot. Is it alright if I gauge up another size like today or tomorrow? Oh yeah and what size is it once you go past your ears don't close up anymore?

the person below me answered pretty well however i just want to put in some input.

be careful when changing gauges too quickly!
i know many people who don't feel pain or blood or anything and changed sizes real fast and now they have the most disgusting scar tissue. so take your time, it's really worth it. i stopped at 12 gauge but i went slowly and it went beautifly i didn't wear them for like a year and it shrunk a size so it really does depend on how elastic your ear is.

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so i'm a ballerina and i go to a really strict ballet school where you can't wear any type of chiffon skirt or shorts or anything with your leotards and tights- and i've always worn underwear under my tights.

yesterday my ballet teacher saw it and she got so mad and told the whole class that you can't wear underwear with a leotard. Well, here's my problem. My vagina leaks a ton of vaginal discharge all over the place during ballet, and so if i didn't wear underwear it would get all over my leotard and tights. Also- right now I'm about to start my period so I'm afraid i'll get it during ballet tonight.

What can I do about my vagina???

should i tell the ballet teacher this?

help thx

I use to take ballet too but we wore the ballet thongs if we were on our periods we wore Tampons. If she won't let you wear one, when you're on your period just wear a tampon you should be safe. And about the vaginal discharge, if it's comfurtable just stick a pad right in there and it should catch it.

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so I use a venus vibrance razor to masturbate along with the flat end of a sonicare toothbrush on my clit (razor in the vagina- the non-razor end)

and well i don't use the razor that often anymore because the next day after i use it i get these weird excruciatingly painful vaginal cramps (much like premenstrual ones) when it's not even during my period or close to it.

I don't feel any pain during the penetration- and i don't bleed or anything.


so what could i be doing wrong?

If you're a virgin then you may have ripped part of you vaginal wall, parcially broke it. It's perfectly normal when it breaks or in other words, get's popped. It happens when you have sex, you get a "cherry pop". It may just get a little more ripped each time. If you are not a virgin and you really want to continue doing this then try some other device haha. Sometimes after rough sex women feel discomfurt like around the pelvic area/lower stomach it's normal.

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i REALLY want to be a model. I'm not pretty or anything and i dont fit the height and weight requirememnts, but im obsessed with americas next top model (the show) and i love posing and stuff. I took a few pictures of myself with high fashion makeup i tried by myself. can you give me your honest opinion: If i got some training could i be a good model? (and lost some weight)?

http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc4.jpg



http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc3.jpg


http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/mcc1.png

(the thir dones kinda bad)

first of all, the third picture is the best picture in my opinion. second of all, lip liner NEVER makes anyone look good.

for casting for americas next top model they ask for the girls to wear as little makeup as possible because anyone can look good in tons of makeup, it's those who look good without that count.

to be on americas next top model you need to really stand out they don't care if you aren't a size 0 but the ones who are plus size on that show have to be just as good as the ones who are a size 0, but still never last as long.

honestly, i'm not sure if you do have what it takes because the makeup is so overdone try taking some natural shots.

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my SAT is a 2000. is there any way i can make it higher? i suck at math. i have many books but they dont really help

2000 is a very good score.
A school such as Harvard needs a 2100 to be accepted so you are only 100 points away from that!

i suggest a tutor, they help so much. you can ask for help on particular things or go over other things.

go to your teacher and ask if you can stay after school/class for some help.

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how far in could you go for fingering?

How long is your finger... you can't stick your fist up a vagina is it's pretty much just the length of your finger. NO you cannot pop a cherry by fingering.

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my body is so... different. I have a very hard time finding jeans and shirts that fit or look good. i have a very small waist, and long skinny legs. all the jeans i find are too big and if i get them a size smaller they're too small and i get holes in the pockets in the back. and for shirts i'm not TOO big in the chest but i can't find shirts that look good and aren't too short or too long. =/ anyoneknow where to find good clothes? thanks

Urbanoutfitters.com : they have a range of sizes for 00-13 and 24-32 (24 is the smallest and 32 is the largest) you are bound to find something if you are between those sizes. They have TONS of different style shirts, long, short, medium, tube, tank, long sleeve, short sleve everything.

I also recommend... nordstrums, old navy (wich has a lot of different sizes and come in long, short and regular lengths), gap and wet seal (which has millions of tops you are guaranteed to find one).

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Hi.
I'm a long time honor roll student, and I've just recieved a Who's Who Outstanding Stundents in America letter.
It says to register for the website and stuff, and a scholorship is possible if I'm accepted..
Has anyone had experience with this? Is it a good program? Is it even legit? lol.


Infortunetly I believe you're in a scam.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Who%27s_Who_scam

It's actually kind of weird, I'm not sure if this is real or a fake because the actual website looks really real. I suggest you just go along with it, HOWEVER, if they have you PAY FOR ANYTHING it is a freud!!! If you do end up getting whatever scholorship how will it help. I mean you have to be in what like 5th-9th grade? It won't help you get into college because it's only your 11th and 12th grade year that they look at (sometimes your 10th depending on what AP classes you take).

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What is the most you did in a 9 month relationship if you ever lasted that long and what was your age also? or a 7 month relationship any long period of relationship is good

I've been in a 10 monther and that was in sophmore year of high school (16 years old) and I had sex. I'm not encouraging you to have sex however, 16 is the average the girls loose their virginity so I wouldn't consider my self a slut for doing so (which is why gynocologists recommend you start seeing them at 16 years old).

That was my longest.

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when your going "down there" to finger a girl. Is the clit the place to focus alot of your time? Like will that gaurantee an orgasm? Thanks

Nothing gaurantees and orgasm but the clit is rather sensitive so it helps producing one best.

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When you masturbate (finger) my self how do i make my self cum give me hints someone! i know how to finger myself but i dont know how as good as my boyfriend does it!?

Well it's called vaginal fluid different to the cum guys produce. You get it when you are masturbating or about to orgasm or when having sex, your body produces it as a natural lubercant. You can't do it yourself it just happens.

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Hey

Okay so I know someone who lost 10 pounds in the first 2 weeks of the diet and then slowed down to about 2 pounds a week just by eating 3 healthy meals.

So I was wondering..would I be able to lose 5 pounds in a week if I eat 3 healthy meals and then exercise well?

Thanks! =)

Honestly, this person must have been on a really strict diet. However, the more overweight you are the faster it will come off in the first few weeks-months. I think you should definitly try though a diet with with proteins such as tuna/salmon, veggies, and calcium are what you need. I suggest you do not drink any ANY SODA. Seriously, that is the best thing you can do to help yourself easily. It will take off atleast a pound a week if you don't.

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Is it true that wearing a wired bra to bed stops your boobs from growing as much, and wearing a sports bra makes them have room to grow?

No, it's completley NOT true.

I've been wearing regular bra's (not sport bras) to sleep since I was 12 and I have C/D's. All that happens when you wear a bra to sleep is it helps shape them so they don't get so saggy haha.

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are new seasons of laguna beach or the hills going to come on tv? i know hills season 2 just ended, but i mean in the future.

I heard that there won't be any new season of Laguna Beach. There will definitly be a new season of The Hills.

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