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hey i'm courtney! :)i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.
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so me and my boyfriend are 17 and we have been dating for three years. I really love him and we both think it is time for the next step. I want to give him head, but do not know how. How do i give him a blow job, what is the process? I have a pretty small mouth, is that a problem?
firstly, relax. it's new to you both, so don't worry about messing up. things happen. secondly, what you do is put your mouth over his penis and move it back and forth in there. don't use your teeth at all. don't have your teeth even touching his penis, because it definitely hurts them. also, they like when it gets wet, and and love when you go back far. of course you don't want to gag, but you might gag once on accident. good luck!
i'm a 15 yr old who's lives in new york and i was wondering if theres any way that i can get birth control without my parents finding out.. i don't have a job yet so i don't have too much money.. is there any way?
search for planned parenthood online. it's a place for girls who can't afford to pay for insurance for birth control. search for the website online. it's free, and good birt control. you could find a place near you.
There's this girl, she's a jerk, I really don't like her, she flirts with my boyfriend, and like 5 of my friends boyfriends, and we're all sick of it, what do we do? We shouldn't have to compete with our own boyfriends, so don't say "flirt a lot" because trust me, WE HAVE. Please help!!!
seriously tell her to back off, and tell your boyfriends to ignore her. you can't really threaten her or you'll get in trouble. i mean, tell her to quit being pathetic and get her own life, boyfriend and etc.
17/f.
bf is 18
hi...i need some advice =].. my whole life i've let my mom intimidate me and control it... when she feels like she loses control of me she goes on a rampage.. a couple of months ago, my bf and my mom had an encounter... she was talking and he just walked out... from that day on she dOESNT want me with him. but i care for him alot.. we been through alot of things even though we've only been dating for 6 months... what should i do? i stood up to her, and told her i was still dating him... she was mighty pissed... but i cant let her run my life forever... any advice?
tell her your respect her, and what she wants but it's also your life too. and she can't tell you how to live your life. tell her that dating him ultimately is your decision. and she should give him another chance.
okk so what does an orgaism for a girl feel like?? and i dont want any of that, "oh it feels really good." ya, ik it feels good. i want details. like, what you actually feel.
it's a certain pressure in your vagina, and it feels like an explosion in your body, your toes will curl, your body will tighten and you will feel like screaming, but in a good way.
okk. so. i was friends with these two girls. lets call them M and J. J said some really bitchy things about my other friend. we'll call her A. we'll A got really upset, so i simply said to J that i thought what she said was totally uncalled for. and then she gets all pissy and mad at me. then M gets all mad at me. so i email her, and apoligize for whatever i did. then M emails me back and she says that she thinks i've changed alot. she said that she missed the old me who gossiped and care about what social standing her friends were at. i told her that i thought that i changed for the better. then she said that it might be better if we were not friends. so i said fine and i cut off contact with them and sat with my other friends at lunch. and it should've stopped there. but it didnt. they constantly talk about me. all the time. they said that i talk shit about them and that i'm a bitch. i cant take it anymore. i had a breakdown the other day. i was bawling. its just so hard when you have a whole group of ppl out to make ur life hell. i cant ignore it. everyone says that i should just ignore them and they'll leave me alone. well they dont care if i ignore them or not, they still do it. M and J ran by my house yesterday laughing and screaming to get me to hear them. they write mean notes about me. they talk about me in the halls. what the hell can i do to make them stop?? i swear i'm at the end of my rope. i really need help. please.
it sounds like totally pathetic, but really it's more about your maturity level. clearly you have risen above and not stooped down to their level, congrats to you really. but i think that since they are harassing you at school, you should seriously consider getting some sort of parental help. or ask the guidance counselor for advice. if those girls got yelled at by an elder maybe they'd stop, or tease you more. they are just pathetic, and i think jealous of the fact that you're being the true you, and don't care what people think. so don't think it's 'cause they don't like you, they really idolize you dear.
lol okay so im a 17/f and umm i added this guy i went to elementary school with on facebook. he's really cute and umm we go to different schools since i moved. b ut yeah.. what should isay to him on facebook because he's so hot and i really wanna talk to him haha. so how should i start the convo?
be like..
'hey, long time no see. '
or 'hey, i haven't heard from you in forever.'
or, 'wow you're just as cute as you were in grade school.'
what are these kinds of t-shirts called: http://img129.imageshack.us/img129/8908/dsc08983ll0.png
the shirt that is red, i would call it a rocker/life teeshirt. it's just a tee shirt, then whatever is on the shirt it how it usually gets it's name.
the black jacket is called a cropped jacket/hoodie.
i usually get very gudd grades in school, but i dont really get why i dont get as high grades as some of my friends, who do all their homework and pay attention and study but dont participate much. for me, i participate a lot more than them, i do most but not all my homework, and i pay attention and never not pay attention, i dont study alot, but i do study a little(lol not more than 15 minutes 4 any test/ quiz) and i get higher grades than my friends that do study (most of the time, except 4 once or twice), and yea my teachers luv me. but i dont get why i get lower grades than some of my friends and i want to know how 2 improve. thankx plzz answer.
maybe consider studying for longer than 15 minutes. if it's something really important to you than you should. you can't only study for about 15 and hope you get an a. you did about an average amount of studying there for, an average grade you'll get. so study more, and try to not lose the determination. when you keep getting them a's and feeling good, it's a moment you'll never want to lose. also, getting a decent amount of hours of sleep is very crucial.
When I was little and did something bad, my parents used to beat me with a leather belt, however, they only did that when I did something bad (threw a tantrum, talked back rudely, wouldn't listen, etc). When I got these whippings, they hurt (a lot, like somebody slashing your butt numerous times with hot sharp knife).
In my parent's country, that was just the way you disciplined children who were bad. But they did it here, in the USA. (So I really believe they thought they were doing the right thing.)
Now, my last whipping was when I was 11 (I'm 17 now), but I was just wondering, was that abuse? And my parents are wonderful parents and I love them a lot, so don't tell me to report it or something.
Also, my brother never got that punishment,no matter what horrible thing he did, which makes me feel kind of like my parents don't like me as much.
I don't know. I would just like some feedback. Tell me what you think. Oh, and I'm a girl.
well maybe your parents expected more from you as a child,and they thought that whipping you would make you try harder for suceeding. also, your parents aren't perfect, they might have regret this now. mybe that's why they aren't doing it to your brother. you could try asking your parents about this. they can't get mad at you, you are curious and deserve the right to know why they hit you. it would definitely be considered as abuse though. and there really wouldn't be a point in reporting it anyhow, even if you wanted to. i mean it was so long ago, and you said they don't do it now.
I am dealing with a huge weigh on my shoulders. Last year I went through the hardest time of my life. I had been with my ex-boyfriend on and off for almost a year and a half. He moved away for school but we hook up when he would come home. I ended up pregnant and he made me feel like there was no way to keep the baby. I was in a horrible state with my hormones running wild and all the added stress of school. I was 2 months away from receiving degree. But I knew it was going against everything I believe in.
I feel totally depressed. Its been a year and I still have the pregnancy weight, I feel totally guilty for what I did. It kills me inside to think about what I did. I have no one to talk to because its such a sensitive issue. My friends haven't been through this and I dont want to dwell my issues on them. I lost all my confidence i feel fat and ugly because of what I did. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel totally alone :*(
honey the decision you made was only yours. your boyfriend had a right to his opinion, but you shouldn't of let it influence you that much. you feel bad now probably b/c you know what you did was wrong, and you only want to get better. just try and do things that slowly take your mind off of it. i know obviously it won;t completely leave your mind, but it can help if you start exercising, you know? or try some yoga. it's very relaxing, and suppose to help you find your center. and even though you don't want to trouble your friends, that what they're around for. i think you should definitely vent to them more, they could help you through the difficult time, and be a shoulder for you to lean on so you don't have to deal with the weight.
My parents snooped through my stuff. they said that i hadnt been acting myself, and yes, i wasnt. i was really depressed and i had written some suicide letters. well... they found them.
they took me to the hospital for a mental health evaluation and now i have to go to a cousler. I dont tell my parents anything so why would they expect me to tell a total stranger whats going on in my life? I dont know whether i should open up. or if I should just keep my business to myself. Any adive on coping with depression would be nice. and answeing my question is greatly appreciated. Thanks.
honestly you're in way over your head here. if you wrote suicide notes then on some level of your subconcious you wanted someone to find them and help you. the counselor isn't there to judge you, just help you cope, they are there for you to vent, them also could give you really beneficial advice for feeling depressed.
i play sand volleyball and im thinking about getting my belly button pierced. I see a ton of people with theirs pierced who play, but since sand is starting up i feel like if i get it right now itll hurt bad if i dive on it/get sand in it, or will it be okay? thanks
obviously if you dive on it it's going to be a little painful. but you could put tape, or a bandage over your belly when you practice volleyball or anything like that.
okay well me and my boyfriend have sex alot but we had sex while i was on my period then right when i came off of my period and both of those times he cummed a little inside me beacuse he didnt pull out in time .
i cant remember if your more likely to get pregnant while your on your period , right before or right after your period ? some people say you cant get pregnant if you have sex during your period ? i need to know when your most likely and least likely to get pregnant !
you are likely to get pregnant the same while on your period or off. truth is all woman ovulate only like five days out of each month. which means technically there is only five days out of the month you can get pregnant. you also have to be tested to know when you are ovulating. so you could be pregnant right now, you need to wear protection. as soon as sperm hits air though, it dies. so if he tried to pull-out of you and did a little i wouldn't worry as much.
So what are some good ways to drive a boy insane? what are some ways to tease him in such a way that it annoys him but at the same time he loves it!?? What are some things i can say that will drive him crazy and make him really interested? im super curious! =P oh and most importantly of all, how do u tease a boy with a huge eho who seems to have an answer for everything and nothing seems to bother him?
maybe you should just be extra flirtish with him, call him names like babe, honey, sugar, or sweetheart.
also, find out their favorite color and wear it to school, maybe try to make him jealous, take about a different guy in-front of him. also you could just try playing hard to get, push him lightly around when you see him. keep him wanting more.
i head that you can get your drivers permit 6 months before your 16th birthday, and then get your liscense on your birthday.i was wondering if this was true because i always thought that you needed to be 16 to get your permit. can anyone help me out? i live in easton, pennsylvania. thankssss!
you get your permit when you're fifteen and a half months old. then you can get your license when you turn sixteen. with classes of course.
okaayyy so this saturday i'm going to king's island with my class and well my ex is going to be there and i want to at least try to have a conversation...with him. but well i'm affraid to..he wont talk to me he avoids me and i dont know why..he ended things and he knows well enough that i dont want to go back out with him..but i still care about him and want him to be in my life some what..and i wanna talk to him just like friends do..
but idk how to..should i just wait until we pass by each other at King's Island???! we are going to be there from like really early in the morning until like 8:30 at night!!! help meh!!! plzzzzzzzzz
f/14
why don't you just give him space? if he's avoiding you it's for a reason, you know? i mean you can still have him close to you and in you're life, just try and stop thinking about him so much, and meet someone new.
Well me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago and its been 8 months. And we were soo happy and we never fought once. I love him soo much and he told me he loves me and he'll never forget about me and im an amazing girl and any guys would be lucky to have me and so on.so we hung out for a couple of hours and it was the hardest thing ever. but we didnt break up because we cheated, or fought too much, or anything like that. we still love eachother very much, and have these strong feelings for eachother. its just we went to fast. and im thinking, like is it too late to fix. we can start from the start and go slow.He tells me he tries so hard to keep me off his mind, and when we see eachother and look in eachother's eyes, we get emotional. i just need to know, is it over? does he just want space, and then he'll realise what he did? do i move on? i'm so hurt here, i love him soo much, and he told me he loves me and he always will. And he wants s to be friends and still talk when we can?. but Will he realise his mistake?
you just need to let him have his space, afterwards if you're ready to forgive him and move on from the mistake you two can finally be together. just let him know what you're feeling.
I've been working on a layout (tweaking it and what-not) and I finished it, and it looked great in firefox, but in I.E. it shows up to the far bottom right and there's this big black space in between the layout and the page. i've hidden everything and i positioned the DIV image at 0 top px and 0 left px, so i have no idea what the problem is.
that's always how it is. you can't make it show up the same in both areas. firefox is more advanced. you just have to leave it alone.
Okay, I'm so annoyed with my supposed "bff's". I have two of them Josh and Katie. We are all attatched to the hip as most people would say, but latley I've got the sense of otherwise! You see Josh is my cousin, and Katie is just my bff, but since the begging of the year weve been all three friends. But now it's like I'm invisable. They'de rather be together then with me. I feel so depresed, I wanna be with them too! I know that Katie likes Josh but I've got feelings too! I don't know what I Should say or do. HELP!
well maybe let them have their time together. i mean if they like each other as in girlfriend/boyfriend..then they need time alone together. you know? also, try explaining to them that you do have feelings too, and lately you've been feeling left out, rejected, and it hurts your feelings. then they will include you in what their doing. or try making plans yourself, and inviting them along.