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Im a jazz dancer and i love dancing! i also love singing. Im the youngest out of my 4 older brothers and i live in indiana. I want to be a performer when i am older and i also want to be a journalist. Feel free to AIM me because i *LOVE* to chat on it! Im also good at giving advice too. =]

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my underarms get sweaty a lot! and ive heard secret is the best brand to use a lot but it doesnt work well for me.. i need something stronger..do you guys think using babypowder would work? why or why not.. thanks!!

that happens to me sometimes. i wear a shit under my shirt and i also bring a zip up hoodie just incase it gets sweaty!

Love,
Cierra

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my friends keep making fun of me,but i know there are just joking but it makes me feel bad, can anyone help

tell them you dont like it. and dont sugar coat it.

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I am taking a weekend trip to San Fransisco for the first time. Does anyone know any "must sees" or great resturants?

go to the beach. and that really big bridge.

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i don't get this

its like everyone knows tanning causes skin cancer and ages people skin through time.

why is people still doing it?

its bcuz they are stupid.

♥ Cierra

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Ok, Ive never ever in my life felt this way before. I am IN LVOE with a guy named Tony. I think the reason I like him so much is cause he actually liked me back. he liked me a lot. i liked him a lot. All things were going well. yet, another girl came into the picture..named Kiri, he likes her now, and she likes him, hes asking her out this weekend and i know shes gonna say yes. I might just MIGHT have a chance once they're over. He is homeschooled she isnt. they live far apart. honestly, i dont think they are going to last long. but you never know. so what im asking is, should i keep on liking him, and wait, cuz i might still have a chance, or just forget about him, and try to move on (to me, thats hard) please help.

-Rachel

be extra flirty around him. give him attention. boys like that. dont let her get in the way of you two. hang around him more and if he starts to ignore you ignore him back. because guys HATE that. and look extra cute too.

hope i helped!

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Me and my friend want to give my REALLY nerdy other friend a makeover at my house. She's the sensitive type, so how do I approach it? She has a unibrow, HIDEOUS nails, she wears pokemon shirts and granny jeans, her hair is frizzy, heavy, and waist length, and she desperately needs makeup. She desperately needs a new look, so how do my best friend and i approach her and give it to her? What things do I need to change to make her not-so-nerdy (nothing like cutting her hair)? I rate 5's

have her and ur friend come to your house. have your un nerdy friend give u a make-over and then give her one. and ask her if she wants one too. she should bcuz it would look fun!

hope i helped,
cierra

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I feel emontionally unable to control my self at times . Im only 15 and I have to go throught menopause. I very stressed and I just wanna give up. My bf wants me to change a part of myself for him (stop datting girls) but i dont even have enough feeling for that him and im a female. Im really need to stop doing overdose and im going to cut myself. What shoud i do?

talk to some one who you can trust.
hope i helped,
Cierra

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i am a 14 yr old girl and of my boyfriend always wrestles with me what does that mean ?

hes flirting..

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i have a friend. she has had a hard time lately and she has made bad decisions. she told me everything she has done. now she says that she feels like im judging her becouse of what she said. so she doesnt want to tell me stuff and i think she is a suicide risk and if i tell someone now i will never know if it comes up again becouse im the only person she has told but if she wont talk to me becouse she thinks im judging her i wont know anyways. but she did tell me she was goin to do it the other day so i talked her out of it. but i dont know if im sopposed to tell someone now or try to talk her out of it everytime. i rate for GOOD answers

talk to your parents about it! tell them that your concerned about her. and then tell her parents. they *NEED* to know whats going on.

hope i helped,
Cierra

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Me and my boyfriend kissed for the first time a while back, and now he keeps wanting to do it every day. I'm afraid if we keep kissing every day, we'll soon grow bored of it and move of to sex. I don't want to take things too fast. So what should I do?

talk to him about it!

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13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH

go along with it. if he wants to kiss you let him. and let him hug you. talk to him more like friends but still make it romantic. and take it slow..if hes moving to fast let him know.

hope i helped,
Cierra

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Does anyone know where I can find cute,girly icons? I want something with quote saying and iconator doesnt have any new ones. Thanks!

www.buddyicon.info

or

www.iconator.com

=] Cierra

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i have this friend who is only 14, but weighs 140 lbs. she swims for 2 hours 3 times a week and does an hour of Phys.Ed. 3 extra times a week. she might weigh alot because she is like a little less than half muscle, and the rest fat. she eats pretty healthly, but she can't keep her mouth away from junk food. how can i help her?

take her out on a girls day and go to some whree with healthy food. get a salad and maybe some pasta. and then go shopping! it will be fun!

=] Cierra

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Okay well im graduating this year, and we have to make a speech... i need a quote to start it tho (its manditory) and well i want one for graduation (obviously) if anyone knows any by and ACTUAL person, famous .. or some excerpt from a song i'd realy appreciate it.. with the artist/person attached so i know who said it..thanks a bunch!

"some one will always be watching over me." ~Hilary Duff

"friends are the people who can make you laugh even when you want to cry." ~Ashlee Simpson

hope i helped,

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I have MSN and my mother is the "Primary account holder", I.E. pays the bill. Well for some odd reason I have forgotten my password, I don't know how since I use it every day but I can't remember it. I was able to get online fine till last night. I have it marked for automatic sign in and remember password. Well I decided to see if I was useing the right password and unclicked that little box. So now I have to use my mothers name to sign in. I have also forgotten my secret question answer, I went on to the "help" thingy for MSN and it says if I'm not the primary account holder and have forgotten the secret question answer then I have to call custumer sevice. I'm actually affraid to call because I don't know what I'm going to have to do/say. Is it a automatic voice thing? does anyone know and can they tell me if there is actaully way to break into my own account? I doubt there is but it's worth asking to see.

Advice is welcome if you speak/spell right.

get AOL instant messenger! its WAY better than MSN! and for you little msn account..you probly will never get it back.

Love,
Cierra

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I have to write a "Dear Reader" Letter Dedication Page for my portfolio, for school all 9th grade have to do this in order to pass the 4th quarter in English. Can I have some ideas to put in it please?

talk about whatever you talk about in you portfolio. make it interesting though.

Love,
Cierra

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ok well theres 2 guys Jake and keith. well yeah im going out with Keith but before i went out with Keith i really im mean really liked Jake and i think Jake is going to ask me out agian and i dont think i will be able to say no but im not going to break up with Keith because i like him alot to and cheeting is not an option for me because i aways tell the truth (to my BF'S) and i dont kno if i still have feelings 4 Jake or not because he asked me out once before and i had said no because i needed him to meet my mom cuz he waz older then me like 3 years well he meet my mom and i dont kno what to do i like Keith so much but i like Jake to i just dont kno how much Help plz....

he hasnt asked u out yet..just say not now i have a boyfriend wait until were over.

rate high..
Love,
Cierra

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okay i'm a redhead and i HATE having pale skin. i use a fake bake called "neutrogena gradual tanning lotion" and i really like the color it gives me but my back always seems to get messed up. no one at home can help me with it b/c the only one who could doesn't like me tanning and just got out of surgery. so how can i get my back a more smooth color instead of jagged. i already exfoiliate and use lotion before i apply the tanning lotion. either that, or a way to tan naturally without going to a tanning place and without getting a sunburn. i rate good.

have a friend go with you! they can help!

rate high and i hope i helped.
Love,
Cierra

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i need a man!

okay!

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why wont my mom let me wear a bikini? i mean im 11 and i want to wear one!

please help me cierra!

your young! and 11 is young to be skipping around in a bikin..try a 2 piece with boy shorts. those are cute too!

Love,
Cierra

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