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ok well theres 2 guys Jake and keith. well yeah im going out with Keith but before i went out with Keith i really im mean really liked Jake and i think Jake is going to ask me out agian and i dont think i will be able to say no but im not going to break up with Keith because i like him alot to and cheeting is not an option for me because i aways tell the truth (to my BF'S) and i dont kno if i still have feelings 4 Jake or not because he asked me out once before and i had said no because i needed him to meet my mom cuz he waz older then me like 3 years well he meet my mom and i dont kno what to do i like Keith so much but i like Jake to i just dont kno how much Help plz....
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he hasnt asked u out yet..just say not now i have a boyfriend wait until were over.
rate high..
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Cierra
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I'm going to have to agree with Crazy Girl on this one. I believe that your best bet is to stay with Keith for the time being. I'm sure that Jake will understand if you just tell him that you are with Keith and don't want to screw that up by cheating on him. If Jake is a good guy, then he will understand and respect your decision. And who knows..things might now work out for you and Keith in the future and if so, then see where your feelings with Jake still stand.
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It souds alot like you like Kieth AND jake. Mmm... this souds hard. ok, heres an idea. I did this before. it might not be the best advice in the world that I'm going to give u, but do this:
1) take 2 hats or some kind of bowl shaped things out.
2) get a whole bunch of pennies out.
3)Now pretend like those 2 bowls that you have are Jake and Kieth.
4) name the things about them and what they did for you and each time you name a thing about each, drop one penny in a hat.
5) when you are done, and fresh out of ideas on what they're about, then dump the kieth hat full of pennies out on one side and dump the Jake hat full of pennies out on another side.
6) and whoever has the most pennies you can go with. and if the hats end up with an eqal amount, then come talk to me again and i'll try my best to come up with some thing else 4 u. BYE!
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ok well it sounds like you're as confused as i am. first off.. if you don't know if you like the guy then you probably don't like him that much. I really think the best thing is is to stay dating keith. See how it goes. If jake asks you out then tell him you have a boyfriend right now and you don't want to hurt what you have with your boyfriend but you do care about him. Otherwise keep it straight.. date keith.. hey you never know tomorrow he may do something and you'll break up and you'll hate him and then all systems go for jake.. you just have to let time take it's course.. it won't let you down
hope i helped
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