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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)



♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.

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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.



♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.



♥ [ PERSONAL XANGA SITE. ]


♥ [ XANGA LAYOUT SITE. ]


♥ [ MYSPACE. ]



♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!



♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥



♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥

advice

I'm a 17 year old dude. I've got hair growing everywhere on my chest (NOT gross thick like in 40 yr old virgin or anything), just a lot of testosterone.
Anyway, do girls prefer unshaved or shaved chests?
If I shave my chest and stomach, what about my underamrs?
I don't think shaving legs and arms is good idea. I mean, I'm a Texan and shaving my body is hard enough.
What about, down there? That region. Shaved or unshaved. (I'm trying to stay 'young person' friendly with this question).

alright ...

chest - if its really bad, a little bit of hair is okay.
stomach - like happy trail?? no keep it
armpits - no
arms - no
legs - deff. not
and down there - NO!! lol.

good luck , hope this helps. x3

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hey im not really good at sports and have been on the bteam on every sport i play. this is totally fine with me but for once i made the a team. i was really happy but now i can't keep up with the players on the team. i don't know if im paranoid but i always feel as though they are talking about how i do not deserve to be there. i have never played with these girls before and we have only had like 4 practices but i don't want them or the coach who picked me to think it was wrong decsion. Once again i could be paraniod but i think they don't even want to pass it to me. I don't want you to get the wrong idea and to think i stink because i don't these girls just don't like change and have had no new additions to their team for about 5 years. How do i fit in and show them that i belong there? i will rate high.

just like act really nice around and to them. practice your hardest and try really hard. this should help a lot...just show them that you really want it.. good luck xoxo allie x3

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When I first found out I was pregnant, My boyfriend and I automatically started coming up with girl names. As I got further along, everyone just knew that I was having a baby girl. My boyfriend wanted a boy over a girl because he says that they have more attitudes, but he kept saying girl names. Well, when I went for my ultrasound at the end of my 19th week, the lady that did it seemed crazy. First, when she pulled out the leg part on the table that I was suppose to lay on, she pulled it all the way out and it fell. She started laughing like she was nuts. Anyway, she asked us if we wanted to know the gender and we said yea, then she said it was a boy real fast, and that was that. The thing that made me feel like their could be a big chance that she could had made a mistake is that she found out the sex a little too fast but she acted like she couldn't find my baby's head!!!!! Her excuse was that the baby was moving alot. It took her about 10 to 15 minutes just to get a wierd angle picture of it and give it to us. When I showed my doctor my ultrasound picture, she said "why did she even give you this?" So basically, she really had me confused. So do you think I should believe her completly about my baby's gender when she couldn't even find the head?!!!!!

well, if you can i would just go back and get a different person to check for you. xoxo allie x3

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Well. this is really nasty. But i was just wondering if you knew nething bout it. well i smell down there. bad. well its really strong to me newayz. and idk how to fix it. and i get discharges like everday. I dont wanna go to the doctor because they probably would find out if i had sex n my momw ould get all mad n all of that. But is their nething i can do?. Cuz i hate the smell and the discharges all the time. But maybes it normal. but it doesnt seem like it.

well, discharges are normal. the smell, well it can get that way if you don't clean it. you really just need to make sure you clean really good 'down there' next time your in the shower. you need to wash it regularly just like you wash the rest of your body. that should take care of the odor. xoxo allie x3

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alright, i dno if this is allowed, but when i have sex, the guys penis doesnt always go into me where its supposed to go into easily. It always takes quite a while, and it really bothers me, because i love sex, and it takes up more energy trying to do that than anything else. please help w. any ideas and i rate 5`s all the way unless its a smart ass answer

Hey, well this is because your not very loose, maybe meaning you haven't had sex very many times before. The more you have sex the bigger and more stretced out you will get. Sounds gross, but it's true. Have fun, but be safe!!! [♥]Allie[♥]

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ok i love this 1 guy and i have asked him out twice and at one point he liked me but today i found out that he likes me as a friend

awe, i'm reallly sorry i know its tough super tough. but pull through it, try to think about other things and keep busy so you'll keep your mind of off him.

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hey.. this mite sound like a really stupid questoin but.. will you loose ur virginity if you use a tampon during ur period? thanks

alyssa

no ma'am. you only lose your virginity when you have sex.

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is it weird when the girl is taller than the guy in a relationship?

if you don't care, then it isn't wierd.

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theres this guy that i really like. i didn't realize i did until about a month ago. he goes to my school. its a private school so its really small. hes in almost all my classes and in some i sit by him [assigned seats]. anyways. he's so shy. well.. not really in front of other people, but around me. i dont really have a problem talking to him.. its just kind of awkward sometimes. and i know he's not like afraid of girls because he's had girlfriends before. does anyone know any good icebreakers or anything like that that would make us not so shy to eachother?? thanks. anything else i need to know would be great! I RATE ALL FIVES

well, tell him jokes or something, make him laugh so he will relax a little bit, then invite him to do something with you or if you want with you and your friends. Then when you think he might like you a little more, than ask him about it and let him know how you feel! =]

x3 Allie x0x

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i liked him.
and now hes an ass.
and he liked my bestfreind.
and he just wants to have sex with me.
PLEASE HELP.

tell him hes a jerk.

well, just tell him how you feel.

and if you don't want to have sex with him. or you don't think you will get anything out of it, Don't do it.

Good Luck

Allie x0x

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I want to get my boyfriend something really special this year,but I don't know of something thoughtful i could get him, can someone please give me some romantic gift ideas that my b/f would like?? GUYS---what would you like your girlfriend to get you for christmas that's romantic??? please help me!! budget is pretty tight too, please help!! thanks

Cook him dinner.
Make a scrapbook.
Get hima giftcard to his favorite store.
Cologne.
Clothes.
Necklace.
Love.

Those are a few ideas. Good Luck, hope you find something amazing

Allie

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how can you tell the difference between an authentic christian dior bag from a replica? i know how to tell the authenticity from brands like fendi (ex. metal tag under the inner zipper) and prada, but does anyone have any words of caution for dior bags (other than an authentication card, serial number, etc)? thanks a bunch!

I have no idea, I bet you could google it somehow or just look at pics. of a real one and a fake one, and see if you see anything different.

Good Luck, sorry I wasn't much help.

[♥]Allie[♥]

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Sorry if this is to long for you, i just need some help. My mom has been having problems with her health lately, and she has not been doing very well. She went to the doctors about 5 days ago and she found out that she might have cancer but they are still checking, the thing is she won't know until monday or later and i don't think i can wait that long. They think she might have cancer because she has blood in her urine. It is not visible blood but they do know that it is in there. They have checked her for other things such as urinary track infection and they do not believe it is that, and i am really worried. The doctor says she is extremely scared that it is cancer. I live with my mom, i dont know what i would do with out her. If you have any info about what type of cancer this maybe if it is cancer please let me know, and i know this may sound incredibially cheesy but if you could pray for my mom that would be a huge help to. It seems like everything in her life for her has been messing up lately, and i just want things for her to be better. I would appreciate it, if you did not send me back things calling me stupid because i am doing this, i'm just a worried daughter afraid of loosing basicially her everything. Thank you so much, i rate 5's for anyone who even attempts to help.

Hi, sorry I do not have any advice for you I just want to say sorry, and I hope everything turns out okay, if you need any one to talk to about it, I would be more than happy because my dad had cancer, and my uncle also has cancer now, I know how tough it is, but seems to me, that if they can't even hardly spot it right now, they should be able to get it out soon, and everything will be okay, and it won't have time to spread, but once again, i'm sorry, try not to think about it so much, God Bless you.

My screen name is : GLiiTT3R X GLAM, i am almost always on, so just IM me sometime and we can talk about this.

[♥]Allie[♥]

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PLEASE HELP ME! ok well i use the software ares to download music to my MP3 player, i have had no problems until today. When i go to transfer the file from My SHared Folder to Removable Disk {F:}
it has a pop up saying "Cannot create or replace "name or song": the directory or file
cannot be created"
WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!?!?! this isnt good and i have no clue whats going on! please help me!

blonde911,

Well, try just downloading that same song, but get a different one then you tried first, if that made sense to you?

Also, are you illegally downloading them? cuz that might have something to do with it...

Anyways, good luck and I hope you get it fixed.
[♥]Allie[♥]

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okay kids i gota ? do you think paola (or the americanized version , paula) is a mans name ???

um i guess it could be.

[♥]Allie[♥]

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Situation: My mom basically got mad because my older sister gave my little cousin glitter, and it escalated into a big fight. Evantually my mom said (right in front of my grandma and little cousin) that my sister smokes and she found her butts downstairs. I called my mom a bitch and flipped her off and ran to my little sister because she was crying. I told my mom I lost all respect in her because what she did was downright rude, saying it in front of company. Then she told my little sister that I was the one that told her (which is true, I am worried for her, but I told my mom that in trust, not so she could tattle) and now...I can't even trust her. It just, I can't believe she'd do this rude of things.

Well, now my mom is saying that all of this happened because she shouldnt have to take the dog out (the dog was practically a mini-part in the fight!) she said everybody here was wrong because she shouldnt have to come home and take the dog out (which would take less than a minute to do, plus everybody else in the house has been doing it all day). She won't even admit she is wrong! She wants an apology from us.

Should I suck it up and apologize. Am I in the wrong, because I feel awful for calling her those names. I don't know what to do...

Well you should apologize just say, mom i think we were both wrong, i was wrong for what i said to you, but i don't think that was the right time and place to bring that up. Something like that. You all should talk about it, you, your mom, and your sister together...

Good Luck, I hope everything turns back normal..

[♥]Allie[♥]

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So I really like this guy.. I think he likes me too! I am 14 and he is 17 but he is really sweet and I saw him tonight and when his friend was givin us a ride home he held me the whole time and was warming me up. The thing is I think he miiiight like someone else but im not quite sure.. I am starting to like him though.. what should i do?

1. Def. keep flirting
2. Ask him how he feels, although it sounds like he likes you
3. Build up the courage to ask him out! x3

Good Luck. Hope this works.

[♥]Allie[♥]

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whats your favorite thing to have a girl do to you. cus i mean i tried stuff w/ my boyfriend and he didnt respond too much. any tips of what exciting things to do?..thanks.

i'm not a guy, but try just giving him a simple hickey. hehe. me and my ex used to make jokes about that all the time

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how much does a 14 year old guy grown in about 6 months? like how many inches?

depends on the guy, but only in months, nothing to miraculous.

[♥]Allie[♥]

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hery girls umm i just got my period and it sucks but i wanted to know how many days u have ur period in a month

kk ty

anywhere from about 5 to 10 days..

congrats good luck, sorry. =\

[♥] Allie [♥]

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