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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.
on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!
well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.
my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.
well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata
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14/f hey does anyone know what i should wear on valentines day? nothing pink or anything like that-- i absolutly hate the holiday but i want to look cute .... maybe get a guys attention? lol nothing black either
thanks!
where a jean skirt (short) a red girly shirt with hearts on it. thats so cute or a shirt from the body shop that says i
Im 14.. i know .. a little young to be in love. Anyways.. My best friend (ex boyfriend) is movin back to tennessee then joining the army. he promised me he would be back for me .. but i'm goin to miss him so much! I cried my eyes out when i found out he was going. Hes been kind of a jerk, and he said its because he didn't want to break my heart when he told me. We've talked about it.. and ive done alot of crying.. im really depressed.. Im not suicidal depressed..but depressed..
how do i get him off my mind. he was my first love and i want him to stay here with me.
I dont want to hear that im too young for him or anything like that.. i just want to know how to make the crying stop! everytime i think of him.. i remember all the fun we had together and i start to cry again.
its not bad to cry. you need to cry and miss him. your in love! he said he will be back for you. you can't get him off your mind its impossible. you just have to cry it all out till you can't cry anymore. thats what i did when my first love moved away. it took me the whole summer to stop crying but i finally did. but i still love him and my minds always on him. i just don't cry anymore and i'm not depressed. hope i helped
*airhead*
ok well my friend dean sit near me in homeroom. And hes a big flirt, he loves to pinch my but?? I dont know y its kind of a joke and stuff, and well yesterday he did it infront of my b/f. And my b/f is, well not happy about it.
How do i explain this to him?
hmmm whatever you do don't say it was a joke. then he will think you like it when dean pinches your butt. just tell him if dean does it again you'll tell the princapal or something.
hey. im going to ask my dad if he will take me to a dermatologist. im not scared about asking him though. what i really want to no before i do ask him is what they do when i go? (i have acne) and can they put me on pills or some lotion that will clear my face up?
yep i went to a dermatologist about 3 months ago and my acnes almost gone. they put me on this face wash that i use 2 times a day and this thing called differin. it really works but the first time you use it will make your face pill i hated that but i stuck to it and my face is almost clear. my second visit to the dermitoligist they poped most of my acne off but it left red spots all over my face, but i didn't care aafterwards because my face was clear. hope i helped
*airhead*
well me and my best friend have been friends for 9 months. and i love him to death! i was thinken of asken him who he liked/loved or something today but then i found out he was talking be hind my back!!! calling me a slut and a bitch! he gets mad at me very easy. what should i do talked to him about it? i don't want him to get mad at me ! please help
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hmmmmm well he doesn't really mean your a slut or a bitch so you should talk to him. if you can tell hes getting mad just say sorry and talk about something else.
There's a boy that used to be the kind of friend that I would tell my problems to when me and my b/f were going out. But after my b/f and I split, my friend completely fell in love with me. I don't like him that way, just as a friend, but he's trying to control my love life by being over jealous.He says he won't stop until I go out with him. I have a new b/f now, but I can't let anyone know because I don't want my friend to find out and he'll be hurt.He gets mad whenever I'm on the phone with my b/f. What should I tell him? I don't want to lose his friendship, because he is a really good friend.
Sorry about the length, but please help!! Thanks!
hmmmm well if hes that good of friend to you, i think you shouldn't tell him. yeah i no its wrong, but you just can't his little heart will be crushed.
*airhead*
ok, i am a 17 yr old female, and my best friend, Ashley, is,or should i say WAS, in this relationship with this guy to where everytime we had plans, he would mess them up. like make plans or say thigns like "well, i gotta work the rest of the week" so she will hang with him. we have tried hanging out as a group, the three of us, but he gets so...controlling...of ashley and i dont even get to spend tiem with her!!! well, they split up about 2-3 weeks ago, BUT, she still sumtimes ditches me like we have plans and she juss doesnt show, so i call her house and she is with her friends (used to be hte guy) and then hse claims she "forgot". what can i do to get this to stop
tell her that your getting sick of it. you feel like you don't excist anymore to her. tell her how you feel. if she gets all b****y then shes not worth the dissapointment over.
(16/F)
i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.
ummm you can either hang with your girlies and your b/f. or tell him that your friends want to go to the mall this weekend and i think i'm going to go with them is that alright. if he says but i want to spend the weekend with you. then hes not worth it. hope i helped
*airhead*
ok 14/f here..Ok i dont know whats wrong with me, i dont know if its just the whole valentines day thing or wut, but lately i've been feelin really low about my self and usually im very High about myself..but i feel like everyone is is a relationship but me! I mean i have had bfs in the past but they havent lasted very long and most of my friends had already had like 1-2 years with there bfs..its just feels really wierd `round all my friends and they r all tlkin bout there bfs and i hate seein girls and boys in the hall way kissin in stuff and gets really annoying..HeLp PlZ
i feel the same way! it bugs me to death everyone is like you don't need a boyfreind and i'm like i want one. i feel like i'm ugly and stuff and there like no your not. just try and think of valentines day as a unique day where your the unique one. theres lots of girls and guys out there that don't have somebody. i don't think valentines day should be a holiday. try to ignore it. don't get annoyed it'll be over in like 3 in a half days.
ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!!
well it won't be tight if you finger yourself, but if you don't then it will hurt, but just try and face it. he will understand since it is your first time. (use pertection)
well i was given advice to get a g/f, i should go to like the mall or a public place and ask them out soemhow. well, how do u do this? it seems a bit like they might thnk im some kind of a perv. haha. well just to say, how do you start a coversation without freaking them out?
well i'm a girl and don't go to the mall or any public places and do this. in case you do freak a girl out. try talking to a gurl at your school. go up to one and just say hey whats up? they'll say nothing you say cool same then just start talking about interests. if she doesn't sound interested then she'll give you short answeres and you no to leave. so just try that. youll get a girl friend pretty soon.
I've been best friends with a girl named Kaitlin for over 11 years now and we're both 16 (I'm a girl too btw). Lately she's been so consumed with her social status that she doesn't even talk to me or even look at me anymore because I'm not "cool enough". We both play on the volleyball team and she really isn't a very good player, but she gets really jealous because I always play all the time and I got moved up to varsity this year while she didn't. I get the feeling that she talks behind my back because now the whole volleyball team hates me and I'm naturally a very quiet person so I don't know why they'd have any reason to dislike me. I don't have very many other friends. It's really hard for me to talk to other people, and I don't want to be friends with Kaitlin anymore. What do I do? And should I try to get revenge? (she also purposely ditches me at dances and stole my bf just to get me angry...)
ok wow she doesn't sound like a very nice friend. you obviously can't be friends with her anymore, but if you tell her that its just going to make her madder at you and start lots of rumors. you can't get revenge thats not the right thing to do, but if you don't do the right thing then sure get revenge get lots of revenge. you should try and talk to new people even if you are shy just try. thats my moto "just try" or "take a chance" hope i helped
*airhead*
i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet.
who cares what people say if you really like him you wouldn't care. so just ignore them.
Every time someone says I wanna go to Mardi Gras, I'm always like "ME TOO!" but the truth is, I don't know exactly what its for and what you do there. I've only seen clips of people partying on the street... I think it would be fun, but what is it your doing and is it some type of celebration of some sort? It looks fun, but what is it?
well i don't really know what your celebrating all i know is to get beeds you have to flash everyone. it is lots of fun my sister goes every year. i can't wait till i'm old enough to go.
Is it bad to be on the computer for a long time. Is it bad to do that? Thanks!
nope i'm on the comp 9 hours aday it will only make your eyes go bad and get headaches
i have no damn friends that r in my grade what should i do
GET SOME!!! MAN DO PEOPLE ASK THE SAME ?'S NOW ADAYS OR WHAT. (i'm not rude)
ok my best friend (not mentionin ne names) is really pretty funny fun and has a good personality. but when ever i call her i get butterflies or when someone says her name i get all scared. i told my sister and she said it sounded like what i would do with a guy. so im scared about what it might mean please tell me what u think it means
thnx
well i think your sister was just messing around with you. but i think it ment that you wouldn't be getting butterflys for gurls but instead of gurls guys. i'm sure she was just joking. i tryed my best but i dont' know if thats the right answer.
*airhead*
theres olny 1 sport i like thats sk8boarding and all the sk8ers hete me and every 8th grasder hates me and im goin 2 highschool without ne friends wat should i fuckin do
don't cuss that will get you no where. you have to be positive. well you will meet a lot of other friends in high school. i would know my brother told me. you will find frinds i promise you. once you meet one freind you will find more.
the advice u gave me ive been doin but they still hate me wat should i do
well ask your mom or dad if you can move or start new sports go to the YMCA! i met a tone of peeps there. go to the park. idk you have to like not force peeps to be ur friend.
i like this guy but i dont think he likes me likes me. But sometimes i see him staring at me, like not a bad stare. Im too shy to go up to him and like ask him out. WHat should I do?
(not to be rude) but wen i like a guy i feel like hes always staring at me too but really hes not. yeah don't no go up to him and ask him straight out that only happens in cartoons. srry. make him see that you like him with out telling him. start writing him notes and start convos with him.
hope i helped!
*airhead*