|
Hes leaving me.. again
Im 14.. i know .. a little young to be in love. Anyways.. My best friend (ex boyfriend) is movin back to tennessee then joining the army. he promised me he would be back for me .. but i'm goin to miss him so much! I cried my eyes out when i found out he was going. Hes been kind of a jerk, and he said its because he didn't want to break my heart when he told me. We've talked about it.. and ive done alot of crying.. im really depressed.. Im not suicidal depressed..but depressed..
how do i get him off my mind. he was my first love and i want him to stay here with me.
I dont want to hear that im too young for him or anything like that.. i just want to know how to make the crying stop! everytime i think of him.. i remember all the fun we had together and i start to cry again.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
Hi Sweetie,
You are never too young to have feelings. I understand that you are depressed-you have every reason to be depressed. I am terribly sorry that you have to go through such a loss. The process of moving on will be difficult... but very much possible.
First of all, since he has notleft yet, spend as much time with him as you can. Don't think it like "he's going away and this may be the last time we see eachother until I don't know when" but just spend time with him... enjoy the time you spend together.
Once he has left cry if you feel like crying. Let it out of your system. Take time... get your space... sleep the day away if you don't feel like doing anything else. This phase should only be for a short time. It's the phase when you allow yourself to be sad. Slowly start trying to do something else... get distracted... go out with friends... go watch a movie. Don't be too quick because if you don't let the feelings of sadness out they will always be inside of you. After you have been sad, and tried to be happy, and your effort is not good enough because all you want to do is stay home and feel sad, start forcing yourself to go out and have fun. This is just an example. Just remember to get the tears out of your system first. I promise the actual healing will only be done by time itself.
My best wishes for you! Take care! I hope you will be happy again ! ~Blessed Be...
]
Try not to think of him as much. But try this: ask ur mom if u can go 2 tennessee for the summer or spring break! Good luck!
]
well i see that he will always have a part in yor heart. but while hes gone.. have fun.. dont dwell on things. when i say have fun i dont mean find another guy just gain more friends go out more have parites.. if he does love you he will come back and then things will be go0od but in the mean time have fun and go out!
]
At least you got a chance to be with your first love. Anyways...just don't think about him, throw yourselves into studies, activities, or watch tv and read a book! And it's not so bad to cry or be hurt by this. Hope ya feel better!
-Hope I helped!-
<*>bUtTeRfLiEs<*>
]
its not bad to cry. you need to cry and miss him. your in love! he said he will be back for you. you can't get him off your mind its impossible. you just have to cry it all out till you can't cry anymore. thats what i did when my first love moved away. it took me the whole summer to stop crying but i finally did. but i still love him and my minds always on him. i just don't cry anymore and i'm not depressed. hope i helped
*airhead*
]
Well, keep thinking of all the fun you had together...and keep crying. There isnt a way to make him dissapear. You'll get over it will just take a while. Go out buy a ps2 buy a couple game. I recomend Katamri Damacy, its a crazy odd game, and video games always take your mind off things specilaly ones that are weird or music oriented. Also get parappa the rapper, its good in music too.
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>>
|
|