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when you take one.. is there any way you can get it to come out to negative? ive always wondered that.. (link)
Not really, they are pretty accurate.


http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=139944396&albumID=772133&imageID=6409442

if seen them in black also does anyone know where there from?? --- thankss xoox (link)
I have seen some just like that on alloy.com


I just recently learned there is a number on the inside of every real ring, made of a precious metal. That number represents how long the metal was in the refinery, being heated, and that determines how much its worth. The number inside of a cheap silver ring i have is .985. How can I figure out how long that is? How long is that compared to other rings? How valuable is this ring to more expensive ones, and how long do expensive ones stay in a refinery? A chart on the internet would be nice, or if you just know, please do tell me. Thanks! (link)
Take it to a jewelry shop they will be able to tell you everything you need to know about it.


Hey heres my qeustion.How do i get you to be my frinds?:P (link)
LOL...


make a myspace...

add me


www.myspace.com/mastaassgrabba

start talking to me


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how much is the Juicy Couture Sidekick II (link)
They are out of stock. They were only sold while supplies lasted. Unless you get one on ebay or from a friend you won't find them. There really is not exact price try searching on ebay for them they can range from anything.


okay well,
for a while, ive been itching 'down there' and when i itch it, it gets red spots where the hair is. i dont know if its just because of my hair down there because i shave but i was reading something on yeast infections and now im freaking.

it says you get a whitish discharge, like cottage cheese. and i do get discharge, and its kinda white, but it dosent look like cottage cheese.

so im freaking out.
do i have a yeast infection or am i just being a normal 16/f?

please help. (link)
You probably just have razor burn.
Unless your...

1. urine smells weird.
2. actual vagina itches
3. you have a white discharge
4. it sort of burns to pee

you should be fine.


18/f
so i bought some "booty shorts", tried them on, and realize i have major cottage cheese-ness going on back there. is there anything specific i can do for this or jus cardio exercise? im about to leave for college so a gym will be right there. ANY SUGGESIONS WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED =) thanks so much! (link)
Lunges really helps with those a lot it tightens you thigh muscles so putting weights on the bottom of you angles.


which condom is best to be used during sex? (link)
Well there is really no best they have all the same effectiveness. I use trojan i just like those the most.


is it normal when you're first being fingered it hurts and when being switched to 2 or 3 fingers it feels like your about to bleed or blow up?!
and is it natural it hurts when you're dry down there? (link)
Well if you are not wet than before being fingered you should use lube or wait till your wet because it does make it hurt if its not lubricated.


so, i was wondering. im interested in like, modeling. i love getting pictures made of myself and im photogenic.[sp] so, what does it take to be a model? im not talking about on the cover of 'seventeen' mag. or anything. but just like, modeling clothes or something for a company and what not. what age do you have to be, height, weight, looks...just what does it take to be a model? and are there any websites i can visit to give me info? btw, im a girl.

thanks everyone! (link)
Typically on the taller side skinny... an appealing look it all depends on the type of modeling you do. There is no specific look but just go to model searches.


is there a way to have sex and make sure that the condom doesn't break at all during having sex? (link)
Not really.

The best way to not get pregnant is to not have sex but the condom is pretty effective if you that worried don't have sex because there is always that chance.


where can you find them exactly? (link)
You have to get a prescription... and before you can get a prescription you have to have a physical.


14/f

My boyfriend wants to have sex, he's BEEN ready actually. And I've been together with him for about 4 months. The thing is, I want to, but yet I don't. I don't want to end up regretting it. It's kind of hard for me to explain why I don't want to do it with him too. I mean, I don't just want to get loose my virginity like it's nothing, seriously. -_____-" I don't want to end up regretting it, it might change my life in some what way, I think I'm too young, and it's also too early, well I just don't really want to. He bought condoms just in case also, and he says that if I'm not ready, he'll wait until I am.

But should I? My decisions go Yes & No now and then. >. (link)
You need to decide are you ready. If you feel uncomfortable about it than don't do it or you will regret it.



okay so i have a concern....
now, my boyfriend is bisexual and im perfectly okay with it. now if we have a threesome with another man, and my boyfriend gives the other man oral sex and THEN oral sex to me directly after, is it possible for me to get pregnant? (link)
Not through oral sex as long as no penis was put in your vagina than you should be fine.


so i currently have mono and i'm also sexually active and starting yesterday i've had a very strong smell to my urine...i'm worried that it could be something more but i also have issues with my mother that she can't know i'm sexually active. so any help or ideas of whats going on would be appreciated! thanks so much! =) (link)
You could have a yeast infection or a urinary tract infection.


what does it mean when you have your cherry pop can it pop when your using a tampon and is it a bad thing and like cuase you to not have your period anymore (link)
Um...

Having your cherry popped is like when you have sex for the first time its like a first type thing. Usually your hymen breaks... something to do with sexual intercorse


i'm 16 years old and a female and me and my boyfriend have been doing things since mid june. this wasn't the first time i'd done things with a guy, but the first time i've been fingered and such. i never find pleasure out of it and i almost find it tedious and the same thing when he eats me out. we just recently started having sex (safely!) and i know i'm still really tight so i figure that's why i'm not enjoying it. it hurts a lot at the start but after a little while it just feels uncomfortable not so much painful. is there something wrong with me?! or is there something wrong with the way he's doing it? thanks! (link)
Try being on top that helps a lot.. and it's not about you being to tight.


k i put a tampon in (first time) and when i stand up i don't feel anythin but when i sit feel it so is that normal and what if it's not far in enough and you don't notice will you get a desease or something (link)
No.
If it's not in far enough it will just be uncomfortable and it will feel like its going to come out.



14/f

SORRY THiS MiGHT BE LONG, BUT THiS iS A MAJOR PROBLEM.

Facts you need to know; I have a boyfriend, let's call him "Billy". (we've been together for 4 months now). And I have a best friend, let's call him "Bobby". Bobby's liked me for almost a year now. I just haven't noticed the things Bobby has done for me, until now.

The Story;
Me & Billy has been going GREAT! But, we have our ups & downs, but what relationships hasn't? My friends don't like Billy, because they say that what he seems to do is make me cry & mad all the time. But then, they don't see him as I do, he isn't all that bad of a person. And Bobby, my friend's seem to like him more, they say he appreciates me more than Billy does. So I'm going to get STRAiGHT to the point. I like Bobby now, but then yet I also like Billy. My friend's says I have to make a decision. Ever since Bobby comment myspace out of notice saying, "You're more adorable, sweeter, and I love you more! I love you hunny bunny." (Billy reads my comments). Billy doesn't know about Bobby, because I know trouble will be on it's way if he finds out. Billy said that I needed to tell "my little boyfriend down there" to ease the fuck off. Yes, those were his exact words. My choices are very complicated, it's hard for me to make the decision myself, so I don't want to make the wrong decision either, but yet, I don't want to regret it. Billy, yes he makes me cry & fustrated, that's true, but we get through it.. which makes our relationship stronger too. Bobby, he hasn't done me wrong at all, and he's always there for me. When he said "Whatever happens between us, you'll always be in my heart." WAS SOO TRUE. Billy's complicated because the way he treats me, I know him VERY well too. But then, he doesn't know me well, because he doesn't even know my favorite color. Or my birthday, he got the month wrong too. Bobby, he knows how to treat a girl, and he knows me well, and yes.. he knows when's my birthday & favorite color. Billy, he's more opened... so if something is bothering him, he'd probably talk to me about it. Bobby, he's kind of closed, so if something was bothering him, he'd probably keep it in, and not talk about it. So it's kind of hard for me to figure him out, because I heard some things about him in the past, but he hasn't told me about it. That's what makes him complicated. I get to see Billy more than I get to see Bobby. Because Bobby works, but he'll be going to the same school as me next year. Billy, will be moving kind of far from me, when he goes to the same school for ONLY two or three months, but I'll be able to see him on the weekends (if i have no homework, of course). I can't really trust Billy when he's with girls, especially if his only bestfriend is MY ENEMY. AKA also his last girlfriend before he and I started going out with me. But I can trust Bobby about hanging out with girls and stuff, because I'm already the only girl he's talking to. But then yet, if i do have to break up with Billy, it would be hard for me, because I still like him, but it wouldn't be fair to Bobbly. And because, I don't want to throw away the things we've been through. But not just that, I'm scared he'll find someone else, someone else that's better then me. Because the thing is, I'm his longest relationship, his second longest relationship would probably be a month and two weeks. I'm the first on everything to him, you know, first kiss, first to celebrate anniversaries, etc. He tells me that I'm the best girlfriend he's ever had, but I want to be his BEST out of all the girls he would be seeing, or meeting. Plus, Billy says that he's going to try to be the best boyfriend he can be. And he's actually improving, not that many problems, and he's actually taking care of me. But it still bothers me he's bestfriends with my enemy, and yes I talked to him about it, I understand. But yet, it still bothers me.

SOOO HELP?! (link)
You can't choose someone's friend and you shouldn't judge people by who they hang out with everyone is an individual. If you are truely happy with 'billy' than stay with him.


I'm a 19 year old female and I'm getting married in a week. I love the man I am marrying I do but last week we went on a trip to meet his family for the first time. I have tried so hard to please and impress his family but sometimes it feels like nothing I do is good enough for them. At this point I don't care anymore but since we have been on this trip my fiance has been acting differently towards me. He makes fun of me which sometimes gets annoying and a lil hurtful, and he wants me to do everything for him but whenever I ask him to do something he won't do it but throws a fit when I won't do shit for him. It seems like this is a completely different man than I fell in love with. What do I do? Should I still marry him or should we take a break? please help me... (link)
If you feel like this I honestly wouldn't marry him. You guys need a some more time to make sure it's right. You don't want to get married and not even a week in you can't stand him. I'd push it off till you feel he can treat you right.




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