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Yes its satorty rape and for him not to get charged with rape. The 13 year old's parents have to sign all these papers in order for them to be able to date and then more papers for them to be able to be like to kiss or have sex.

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Does anyone know of a website to post pics on. Like either a photo album one or an actual website one. I don't want Picture Trail, EasyDesigner, Xanga, or Xprofile. If you know of any others that are user friendly, let me know! Thanks! -Free2bMe :)

webshots.com and photobucket.com

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How many hours of sleep should a 14 year old girl get each night?
Thanks--

between 8 and 9 hours for teenagers and 7-8 for adults

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Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop???

Sadly, you can't stop him but just ignore it. People will tire of hearing it soon enough. Until then just act like it doesn't make you mad. He will do it more if he sees it upsets you.

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what is the exact purpose of the gyno? I know that they look at your parts and crap, but what the hell are they looking for in general? do all people go there?

~thanks~

They look for tumors and anything that is wrong. Most women do go just to be safe

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ok me and my boyfriend haven't made out yet and everyone is telling me to make the first move! lol how do you really make it lmao?! I never did before and I don't wanna but I'm gonna! any suggestions? please I need help! lol thank you sooo much!!!

when your hanging out just lean in and kiss him. Or if you really wanna shock and surprise him while standing push him agaist a wall and start making out with him. Guys like a aggressive girl.

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How long can sperm live outside of the body?

it can't as soon as it touches air it dies

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I got my first period at the end of July (thankfully right before HS started) and it lasted about 2-3 days and that was it. Haven't gotten it since. Now, I am scared that i am gonna get it some random day at school, and i don't know how heavy it would be or anything. So here are my questions::
1. Is it normal to take this long for the 2nd period?
2. If and when i do get it, will it go down my leg at school or will it just be a little on the first day that it comes?
3. What is the maximum amount of time between one period and another?

Thank you!

1.Yes bc for the first 2 years of your period its irregular
2.It depends but it most likely won;t be running down your leg unless you didn't care of it
3.It depends after 2 years its between 21-28 days but for you it can be anything

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my best friend is always singing this song and she really wants to put it on her tripod but she doesnt no what its called. its goes "Hey ya"..... "hey yaaaaa" "hey ya" "hey yaaaa"
thanx

Its "Hey Ya" by OutKast

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Okay, I'm a girl show I should know, But what exactly does PMS stand for, I know pretty much what happens when your PMSing, but what does it mean?

Oh boy do I feel stupid lol.

its Pre-menstrual syndrom

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There is this one kid who goes to my school and his name is Jamie. He's been at my school since second grade and I have always just thought he was kind of an annoying and weird kid. He used to like me and he still flirts with me but I have always sort of acted like I hated him (because i thought i did). Anyway I figured out that all this time I have liked him. It seems like a good thing (because he might still like me) but there is a problem...He's moving to Hong Kong in January! He's kind of a geek in my grade but he thinks he's really popular and stuff and I was going to tell him right away that I like him but then I decided that it would be really weird if he didn't still like me too and then he would tell everyone that I like him and then I would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my life at school. So after that I thought that maybe I would tell him on his last day of school but I'm not sure if that is the right thing to do....Please help me...SOON!

The only way to know if he still likes you or not is to ask him and tell him how you feel. If the feelings are mutual then why not try a long distance relationship. It doesn't matter how much time you spend together just make whatever time you have special. Don't worry what other people will think of you. Your living to please your self not them.

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If your a virgin (( girl )) then how can you get pregnant?

you can't get pregnant if your still a virgin. even if a guy cums in that area its very unlikely you can get pregant bc once sperm touch air it dies.

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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?

Your friend first needs to grow up. Wearing a tampon is nothing like having a dick in you. Its all in what you prefer maybe they like sitting in their own bodly secreaions. You just like to wear tampons, no big deal tell your friend to get over it.

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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old?

A 13 year old and a 16 year old is very different. Those 3 years are very important. At 13 your in 7th grade and just beginning to get a little freedom. At 16 your a soph. or junior in HS and your getting your lisence and a lot more independent. Its fine to be friends but relationship wise its too much a difference, your in 2 different worlds.

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well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me..

If he really likes you then he probably didn't mind that you aren't as experienced as him. Don't worry most people the first time they kiss someone its not perfect.

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This may be a stupid question but...

I want to start wearing tampons but never wore them before and i dont know how to wear them. Do they hurt or feel weird? How do i put them in?

it will show you how to put them in on the box and don't wear one for more than 4 hours at a time and make sure its in all the way od you will be able to feel. If it in all the way and in propertly you won't feel a thing. One last thing relax, if your tense it won't go in and don't get frustrated if its not perfect at first just use a new one

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i have homecoming in a while do any of you know any good sites for good/not so expensive CUTE dresses shoes accesories thanks.

Deb has really cute dresses and for shoes I like DSW and accesories either Kohl's Clairs, or Afterthoughts or even Target

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Do u use an eyelash curler on your bottom eyelashes ? I dont think u do but my friend says ur supposed to.

I've never heard of using it on the bottom lashes bc it makes them go up and they're supposed to go downard and plus I dunno how you would even cutrl them without hurting your self since they are a lot shorter than the ones on the top

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