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My friend whos a guy, lets call him nick!
His uncle commited suicide and his grandma just died a week or two ago. I feel tereble and need something to say to him when he has his moments. I also really like him and he kind of likes me but not enough to go out...yett so help me? with things to say to himm && hurry. I could use all the possible feedback I can get. Im afraid hes going to loose it and do the same or run away (link)
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try to convince nick dat there are great reasons to live and dat you can and want o be apart of those great things
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okay, well. i started a new school back in like, September. and I still dont' have many friends. I have a group of people i talk too and stuff, but i kind of want to make friends with other people too. I'm normally really shy and hate to start conversations. and i'm always afraid of messing up or embarrasing myself.
any tips on how not be shy? (link)
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1.don't be afraid to embrass yourself if you find yourself in a embrassin pradicament jus start laughin and make it seem like you did it on purpose laugh away your embrassment.
2.try hangin out wit da ppl you tlk 2 more often.
3.don't b afraid to b who you really r dats how their gonna end up lovin you 4 bein you.
4.have fun and don't stress it jus go wit da flow.
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i'm trying to get as many peoples opinions as possible, so please answer honestly: if you went to a school that is pretty open minded and liberal, etc, (this is a question about two girls, so ignore the homophobic aspects, pretend thats not an issue, what i'm talking about is age) do people think it would be weird for a junior and a freshman to go out? you see it all the time with older guys and younger girls, but would any of you think it was strange if it were two girls? (link)
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no da only difference is gender and dats not a big thing if you like sum1 u like em
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i thought this guy liked me, actually, i was pretty positive he did. & then today, he wasn't as friendly as he usually is with me. which made me like tottaly sad. i was practically positive he liked me, everyone told me it sounded like it. idno, maybe i just got my hopes too high? i dont know..anyways, what do you think was up with that? i mean i didnt talk to himn alot today, but he was kinda mean on the phone, even though he was kidding. anyways, what should i do? (link)
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mayb he wasn't so friendly because every1 keep tellin you dat he likes you andhe didn't want you to kno so he started bein a bit unfriendly to throw you off track or mayb he jus wanna stay your friend.but 2 b sure you shuld try confrontin him on da subject but don't b so hard on him so u don't push your friend away
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ok this is probably a weird question but i really dont have any one to turn 2 but theres this boy who ive been liking for 4 months now....in december me and him hung out and on that day we held hands and even made out a few times but we arent going out we werent going out back then either...i told him how i felt more than once but he still insists that we remain friends and now its getting to the point were i cry because of this one boy and i cant stand to see myself not with him but then again i dont want to feel this anymore i dont want to like him anymore how do i stop liking him ? (link)
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you can try being extremly flirty wit sum otha guy/s so dat 1 guy can get off your mind and i kno you don't want to but tell him dat if you can b his girlfriend den why should yall keep bein friends wit benefits sure you can stay his friend but don't go back to bein his friend wit benefits
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Okay.I really like this guy. we've known each other for about 3 and a half months. Everyone thinks we would be a great couple. We talk alot at school but barely have anything to say on the phone.So my question is can someone give me the longest list of questions they can think of of conversation starters. Please. (link)
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it always come down to wat kinda guy he is if he like sports talk about sports.like electronics talk about electonics.get wat im sayin
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I was talking to my guy friend that I have a crush on and I asked him if he'd been gone the previous weekend because I'd called him and left a message with his brother but he never called me back. He asked why I called him I and I told him because my cousin wanted me to bring him on a double date, and he said ok and turned back to his work. he started passing me notes that said stupid stuff on them, and then like 45 minutes later he passed me a note with his cell number and said that he wasn't home very much so if I wanted to get a hold of him to call his cell. Do guys normally arbitrarily give girls their cell numbers, or do you think it had something to do with my reason for calling? (link)
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it really depends on how da guy is cause so guys jus give out their numbers for fun but he sounds like he gave it to you cause of your reason for callin
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i want to get abs by this summer. i'm a girl, and i'm 15. is it ok to do about 5 different ab excersises mon-friday about 20 of each..equaling about 100 abw/o's a day? my friend thats a guy says that i should do it every other day to let my muslces rest and stuff...
i need advice
i want a flat stomach by this summer
because i have like a small like..you know
im not fat AT ALL
i just have a little meat from the holidays
i want it flat
help! what to do?! (link)
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yeah you can do wat your doin now but you will need lots of time to let your muscles rest from working out so much and you will have to drink a lot of water to keep your body movin so keep doin wat you doin jus don't forget da essentials
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okay so my bf is a 7th grader and im 8th. and well i think i like him but idk becuz we dont really talk that much and everyone makes fun of me since im going out with a 7th grader so should i break up with him or what should i do? (link)
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look who ever make fun of you jus say fuck em they aren't you and dey aren't datin him you r so it's your choice you should never change jus cause of wat a few people think it's your life care only wat you think.aand if you wanna break up wit him cuz it's not goin where you want it to go right ahead there's no use for stayin wit one guy dat you hardly speak wit when you can b wit a guy dat worships you
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okay so i hate school becuz i dont get anything! and so most of the time my friends just give me there papers to copy off of and whenever i read a book or something i always dooze off and daydream and so then ive got no idea wat i just read and i can never get myself to do my homework like idk if im just reallly lazy or something but i just get frusterated when im doing it and have to take a break but then i never go back to doing it i just tell myself ill do it tomarow. is there anyway to change my habits since im already farrr behind. and how do i confront my parents about this? (link)
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instead of tellin your parents you can jus ask your teachers if you can still get credit for turnin it in late i mean gettin bad grades won't get you outta skool and where you wanna b livin a good life
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ugh okay so im only 13 and i hate my life. like its not bad or anything but im always depressed and ive had a lot of stuff happen to me latly that i just cant handle and it doesnt take much to make me sad or mad and ive already tried to commit sucide but that didnt work and i want to run away so bad but i dont think i could go through with it and im just to confused as to wat to do becuz i dont wanna see a counserlour and i really dont think im depressed so i dont need to take any pills but is there something wrong with me and if so how can i fix it? this has been going on for way to long and i just want to give up and run away so bad (link)
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well runnin away from your problems don't ever make them better dey jus make them worst.i don't think anythin is wrong wit you jus need to find ways to stay active,happy,and take your mind off da bad and try to focus on da good dats wat im doin cause im goin through da same thing as you and i haven't been feelin dat bad since i joined my school swim team
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I've asked this before but let me clarify before getting more answers that won't help me that much. There's this girl, let's call her Jenny. Jenny and I were okay friends in 6th and 7th grade. At the end of 7th grade we were really good friends. But over the summer she did things that was hypocritical and such that got us to drift apart and we had a horrible history in 8th grade. Well there's this girl, let's call her Kelly. Kelly and I were good friends in 6th grade and half way through 7th grade, we were best friends. Well, me being stupid, I let Jenny get the better part of me which resulted me in breaking the friendship with Kelly. Jenny kept on saying how annoying and weird Kelly was. Now I wanted to be Jenny's friend although she had said pretty rude stuff about Kelly. (This is in the beginning of 7th grade) Jenny kept on ignoring Kelly and me whenever we were sitting together at lunch. She said that she didn't like her at all and made all theses faces when she came around, etc. Yes, the immature stupid stuff. So finally I just told Kelly that we couldn't be friends and that made KElly really sad and after a week I started to regret it everyday...and I still somehwat do. We're all in 9th grade now and Kelly and I are friends again...not good friends but just friends. Well, Kelly is using Jenny at lunch and basically at school whenever she didn't have anyone to hang out with...like she did in 6th grade with me. Kelly really thinks that Jenny is her friend but I never told her that Jenny criticized her, talked behind her back, and urged me to stop haning out with her. Kelly still doesn't know but I know that Kelly will either go through what I did with Jenny at the end or will just be used over and over again. I really want to tell Kelly the whole truth about everything but I don't want to come of sounding as if I was jealous or was just saying that to get back at Jenny for last year. I'm not into the direct confrontation thing. I am horrible at talking when it comes to matters like this. I don't know what to do and now I'm just questioning myself whether I'm really doing this just to get back at Jenny..what should I do? (link)
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you should talk to kelly and ask her wat wuld you do if sum1 you thought was your friend talked a whole bunch of crap and didn't like you before and see how she responds then tell her dat kinda happened wit jenny last year and dat your not doin it too be envious but to try and be a good friend and dat it took you so long to tell her cause you didn't kno how to
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ok i'll first start this off as i am 19 years old and not immature. i just dont get how some s enjoy giving head i mean it just seems completely disgusting. like sucking on someones dick then all that cum going in your mouth? it just seems really gross. if anyones ever done it can you tell me about it and if you havent can you tell me what you think? thanks lots. (link)
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i haven't done it and i think it's gross too.i think of it da same way as you and i think any girl dat does it is tryin really hard to keep her boyfriend pleasured either dat or she likes cum or dick alot
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i have liked this boy alll year. i am really shy. what are some ways that i might can hint that i like him. the only time we ever talk is when me and my friend gets together...and he jokes with us. we also talk when we sit beside each other in some classes. if we aren't sitting together he occasionally stares. well i just wanted to give you some details...so how can i kinda hint to him that i do like him? (link)
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you can start actin all flirty if your to shy to tell him dat you like him you gotta be brave sumtime cuz if you don't you'll end up for da rest of your life thinkin back to your teen years sayin wat if and dat will jus keep botherin you and thinkin wat if is really annoyin.and if it don't run smoothly then there will always be another guy and you'll get over him easy
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okay well my boyfriend and i have been going out for 7 months. i'm not going to lie it hasn't been exactly the easiest relationship in the world but i think that happens to about everyone. we get into arguments about stupid little stuff that doesn't really even matter and it sucks because we both hate it, but it just doesn't stop. it's gotten worse lately, we both don't want to break up but feel we may need to if this keeps occuring. i just don't want to break up if it's over this stupid stuff. can anyone help please!? (link)
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then you and him need to sit down and talk calmly about yall realationship tell him dat if yall keep arguin ova non-sense then how r yall suppose to have a good realationship
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well i think the reason me and my boyfriend are fighting is cause of my ex. im not just tryna blame it on him im serious. cause he ims my boyfriend and stuff and says stuff like oh im on the phone with caitlin even tho were not. and like on new years he was like yo i got your girl in my bed and i was like not even in his room, and he tells other people stuff and they all tell my boyfriend. and then my boyfriend thinks i like him and my ex is just ruining everyhing =[. also today was my boyfriends birthday and i completly forgot because last night we were fighitng and my mind was just somewhere else. so hes also mad at me for that. he also thinks i avoid him? i love him very much and im going to be crushed if anything happens. he signs on everytime he gets mad and he wont answer his phone. if i leave messages he wont call back. i dont know what to do. ive tried talking to him but its just not working. HELP FAST! (link)
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your ex is probably tryna ruin your new realationship cause he wants you back(if he dumped you)or he wants revenge(if you dumped him)so tell your boyfriend that your ex means nothin to you and tell him da only reason why he's tryna break you guys up is because he's JEALOUS and dat neva again will you go back out wit such a dumbass and if he don't wanna listen make him listen!tell him da way he's actin is childish and stupid and dat wat you need to talk to him about is vital to you two.and if dat don't work you can threaten him (not wit death or sumthin dat will hurt him really physically)mainly when guys hear their girlfriend threaten them for a first time and it's real bad dey usually listen.
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One of my friends has decided that she wants to run away. She's tired of living with her abusive step dad. She's asked for me to help her go somewhere where nobody will find her, like out of state. We're both only 14... I don't know anything about what to do. She doesn't want me to tell anyone else. What should I say to her? I'm so scared for her! What on earth should I do? (link)
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relax a bit, but don't let her run away dat wil jus anger her father and he'll hunt her down and if he find her who knows wat he'll do to her so maybe you shuld tell your friend to go to the school guidance counselour or you can call a child abuse hotline so ppl can come see about your friend.if dey hear or see dat anything is wrong dey will take her to a foster home or to snother relative too live with.tell your friend running away won't solve anything but only make matters worst.
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I have an issue and I cant seem to resolve it.
I go on a diet and I loose weight , very easily.
I go off my diet and gain it back, just as easily.
I wish I could stay on my diet, i always tend to eat so much after maybe loosing 3-7 pounds.
when I eat, I dont eat anything un healty though.
But I stuff my face with yogurt, fruit, pretzels, trail mix, light popcorn, cereal.
You name it.
But ive been going to the gym and working off 800 calories.
But after that I come home and eat!
I dont know what to do anymore, Ive tried so many times !
can someone help me
13/f (link)
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you sound like sum1 dats not fat and unhealthy, you sound like you stay healthy and in shape.so maybe you won't like wat imma say, but i think you shouldn't diet to lose weight or to look like da media's version of beautiful unless you r at a real high risk of dying your da same age as me it don't matter if your fat or skinny you'll still look beautiful to sum1.
O and P.S since we r da future were all gonna b da new media's version of beautiful:)
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Ive liked this guy on and off for 3 years.
Just last night, he RANDOMLY started talking to me, he was mad at me for about 3 months.
He was trying to make conversation , i could tell.
He told me him and his girlfriend were going to break up but then he was asking me about this other girl, he claims that he doesnt like her though.
Then he brought up the past things we have done together, then today i figured he would talk to me but he didnt ,, unless he does later but i doubt it.
Whats going on here?
15/f (link)
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right now he's basically tryin to debate wit himself if gettin wit you is such a good idea since it waz so easy for him 2 talk 2 you about stuff and he's probably like wuld it be weird arkward,or right goin on wit sum1 dat i can talk to so easily
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I am seventeen and I met my best friend from doing plays together, we have alot in common, like we both like to sing and act. I have always liked my best friend as a brother but I am starting to develop feelings for him. He has always been feminine and people call him gay but I trust him when he says he's not. The problem is that everytime we get drunk he wants my brother. When he was drunk I asked him if he was gay and he said he wasnt and that he did like me but he liked my brother. I told him that I didnt understand that he wasnt gay and he started crying and said that he just wanted my brother when he is drinking and that is it and that he really does like me. He knows what he said and when he is sober he regrets saying it and still says he isnt gay. Because he is my best friend I am trying so hard to believe him but I dont know, he has to be gay. I dont know what to think but I dont want to continue are relationship if he is and I really dont want to loose him as a friend. I will still be his friend if he is gay but no his girlfriend, it doesnt change anything I mean I have other gay friends and I am ok with it. I dont even know what to think. What should I do? (link)
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mayb right now he's still a bit confused and tryin 2 figure out wat he likes but don't push him or force him 2 tell you wat you want or think is da truth if yall are really da best of friends he'll come to you when he made up his mind and is ready to talk
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