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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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I'm a 14 year old girl, turning 15 in 2 months. My first period still hasn't come...Should i worry?

not to worry at all. some people are late bloomers. some people get their period at like 11 or 12 and others get it at 17 or 18. usually girls get it around the same age their mother did

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ok i have a friend and were like sisters we walk talk and eat at the same time we even finish each others sentences. i love her to death but she stayed over at my house for a month how do i tell her she is getting on my nerves with out hurting my feelings ?? Plz give me advice

just like sisters you will get on eachothers nerves. if she does something that bothers you then just tell her nicely, maybe you could tell her that since you gonna be together for awhile that if you do anything to bother her then for her to tell you

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which colour eye shadows suit green eyes?

well if you want the green to stick out then you should do a color opposite green on the color wheel. that would be red but since thats not really a nice eye shadow color i would suggest like a pink. a brown might look nice too tho

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this summer i want to read a bit more. (about 15+ books.) so far, the only book i have is TWiNS by William Morrow.
anymore books? thxxx much

Go Ask Alice
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Where the Red Fern Grows
Breathing Underwater
Breaking Point
Twelve
Give A Boy A Gun
Almost Lost
A Child Called "It"
The Five People You Meet In Heaven
The Lovely Bones
Leslie's Journal
Define Normal
Crooked
Stargirl
Fade To Black
Kim: Empty Inside
Cut
Darkness Before Dawn
Runner
It Happened to Nancy
Speak
A Crack in the Line
Shattering Glass
Catalyst

i have read all of these books and they are all like my person favorites

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well is it a mental illlness going into it? and not stopping? or going into then stoppping once you have reached the weight you want to be which is normal size?

it doesnt matter. either way you look at it if your throwing up your food to lose weight then its a mental illness

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plz dont deleat i need to know porn websites plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

meatspin.com

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hello,
my name is kelsey and i am 13 years old....ive been a cutter for as long as i was 11 or so. i cut for many reasons...my moms ex....was a mager alcohalic..and one night he cam into my bed room..and he was toaching me in ways i didnt like..i was only 8 years old...and lots of times he would beat my mom..and i waould hear her screams in mybed room...one day it was so bad i had to whatch i didnt no what to do....but the neighbors caled the cops..thank god..and my mom was taken to the hostbital. she was sent to a place so she could recover but she ran away...i had to stay with my grand parents for a week. when my mom left him 3 years ago i was so happy...but i still cut my self becuz i think of how how so many kids get a normal family and have a great child hood.but i dotn get to now.and now she has a new bf i will admit i love him hes very nice but some day i hate him with a pasion..please help me i dont want to cut anmore but i still love the pain....my mother knows i cutshe found out twice but doesn do anything about it...i dont think she loves me....please help me!!!!!
thxz..kelsey

in order to change you have to want to change. ask your mom to take you to a therpist so you can talk it out and stuff. try writing your feeling in a journal. instead of cutting put a rubber band on your arm and whenever you feel like cutting put the rubber band

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16/f

I have horrible cramps. They are so bad I can't stand up straight and I'm almost in tears. How can I lessen the pain? I tried ibuprofen but it's not helping and a heating pad doesn't work either.

a warm bath
strech (cant spell)
exercise if possible
advil works for me but you took medicine already
try laying on your bed and laying your legs across the wall

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my lips are swollen from being so chapped.. i try chap stick and it doesnt seem to make it better. what can i do?

Petroleum jelly (vasoline) is what i use and it really works

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My Boyfriends Birthday is comming up really soon and I can't think of anything to get him (hes my 1st b/f so I've never got a guy anything) I can't even think of anything at all please help.

colonge or something
a mix cd
photo of you guys
jewerly (may be too expensive)
take him out to eat
you could buy him a bathing suit and then take him to a water park

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what would you guys reccomend, the ipod nano or the ipod mini? what is the difference between the two? and more facts. please no websites. thanks

i have the nano and i love it. the only thing is that you have to make sure to get a case because it scratches easily and it could break.

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I don't know what happened to my ipod. I was turning it on like I usually would, then it turned on.

After that I couldn't move the cursor circle thing around, and it kind of froze up. The screen started fading away slowly. And now it won't turn on.

Please help, I rate high. =]


try holding down the menu button and the middle button at the same time. this resets the ipod (dont woory it doesnt delete songs or anything). if that doesnt work try charging it. if it still isnt doing anything then the battery is probably dead and needs to be replaced

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So I have a crush on this guy I've been friends with benefits with. Good idea or no? and why?

friends with benefits are usually not a good idea because your both basically using each other. since you like this guy, tell him that you no longer want to be just friends with benefits but want to have an actual relationship

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so me and my friend used a tampon for the first time last weekend and it was really uncomfortable until after i was in the pool, after that it felt comfortable...
it kept, like, falling out a little i guess?? cuz i kept having to push it back up..
i am pretty sure i did it right.. so what could have happened??

maybe you didnt push it in far enough the first time, make sure you push it in all the way

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does baby oil help you tan?

yes, but it will make you burn if your not careful. laying in the sun for a tan isnt healthy tho.. why not try a spray tan or something

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does anyone know any sites i can get to any website? for example, kproxy.com, stealth-ip.com? my parents blocked myspace and it would be nice to have other ways of getting in! even with kproxy.com im limited to what i can do on there. for example i cant post up a blog i have to ask my friends to do that for me. give them the password and everything.

you can get your parents to unblock it, but if they dont then use https://www.ninjaproxy.com then just scroll down and use the http:// box

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This is probly a really stupid question but.

Im a level 1 moderator. Amd i read that we rake the question by choosing one of those faces. Do we do do that for all the questions? And if we do, do we have to answer the question also?

thank you.

you dont have to rank all of them and you dont have to answer all of them. as long as you do some or else after awhile you wont be a level 1 moderator anymore

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Why do people get ticked if someone sighns them up for an IM prank bot?

the first time you get it its okay. but your probably not the only person sending this person a bot. so after awhile it just gets annoying and old, fast

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13/f
I know im only 13 but theres this kid I really like. We went out before but he broke up with me because we "needed a break". Im almost certain hes over me. So What can I do to get over him?

just go on with daily life. eventually youll find someone else that you like. why not keep busy and try a new hobbie or sport

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Does anyone know any not common bands that are emo. I don't mean the kind that scream, but the depressing songs w/ good lyrics. Please, not common ones like fallout boy or hawthorne heights!, some bands no one knows pretty much!!thanks!!I'll give 5's for anyone who tries!

Dear whoever
blue october
scary kids scaring kids

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