Member Since: March 2, 2005 Answers: 96 Last Update: December 9, 2006 Visitors: 4451
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my grandmother and altzemiers(sp?) and 2 brain anerisms(sp?). she lives in an apartment attached to my house. its been ok but seeing the changes in her are getting really hard. she isnt far along w/ the altzemiers, so she still remembers who i am but she still could NEVER live alone bc of everything she does. but recently shes had MAJOR headaches and there probably from the anerisms. but my mom chose not for her to have surgery bc she would go through all that pain juts to come back and not remmeber. shes in so much pain and i cant do anything. i feel so helpless. just a little 14 year old girl who ppl just stare at sympathetically when they find out, but give no helps. does any one have any advice..im a little on the helpless side. (link)
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i'm 14 and my grand mother has very advanced alzhieners. it is very hard, but you might want to consider putting her in a home with nurses that can help her full- time. it will take off a lot of stess from you and your mom. as for the pain, there really isn't much more than asprin that you can do, sorry
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Ok well yesterday i was playin tackle football with my friends well now i am covered in bruises and i am in alot of pain any suggestions to help me get rid of th pain dont say take advil or anything like that because i tried that like a hour ago and it didnt help so any suggestions to help other than that. Any advice will probably be appreciated (link)
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try not moving...
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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused (link)
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girls are having sex younger because they want to. don't think about it and it'll all be okay. and as far as the 8 yr old thing, ya that's probabaly true. i knew a girl that lost it at 9
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my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me (link)
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just don't do anything you don't want to... if it is against your priniples, then DON'T DO IT
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I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out
Lucy (link)
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don't think of him any differently. it just means that he doesn't discriminate. if he's still with you, then he likes girls more and probably won't want you to freak out on him.
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I want to get a cat 2 weeks from now. I know that I will be a responsible owner and that I'm old enough to make my own decisions (20). So even if I know that my mom wouldn't allow me to get a cat (because for her it is a "waste of time and money"), Iam getting one! by adoption..
How can I make her less mad when I surprise her with my adopted cat? (link)
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you're 20, you're old enough to make your own decisions. sit her down and explain that to her. if she doesn't like it, then she'll get over it. fpr your mom to start respecting you as an adult, then i suggest sitting down and talking, adult to adult
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Ok so there is this guy that i really like. And i really wanna tell him i like him, but i don't want to risk the friendship if he doesn't like me back (even though everyone says he does) what should i do? (link)
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just tell him
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hes adorable...and romantic...but taken. hes kindof crazy, like hes convinced hes gonna marry his gf in 11 years (we're all 14!) and anyway....so this girl, lets call her lizzy, is goin out with this guy, will call him shaq...so theyve been having some problems lately, like he kinda cheats on her...and has done it with me a fe times...but she doesnt mind too much. in fact, when she tried to break up with him, he cried! hes so sweet like that...so lizzy and shaq are currently dating, and i am always counselling lizzy cuz shes my girl, but secretly i really want her to dump him. and i can just barely stand it sometimes...no offense to her, but shes really not attractive, kinda bitchy sometimes, not so many friends, kinda racist (even tho shes black)...so i cant help feeling sometimes that i deserve him more! well anyway i could go on and on but still, what am i supposed to do? how can i stand her having him when i want him so bad? and i know he likes me...help please? (link)
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i'd say get over him... if your best friend is going out with him and he's cheating on her, tell her. just don't tell her that it has been with you. then wait about a month, then you can hook up with him again. and if your friend is anything like you make her sound on this, then you might want to consideer a new best friend, some one that you respect
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Heres whats going on...see theres this guy I really like and we go to school together and we have known eachother for over 3 months now and we went out on dates and everything like that and when we went on our first date afterwards he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes and then the next day he told me it was a mistake and that he came on to me to fast and well we hung out some more and everything and we hang out everyday at school because we have to classes out of 4 together and he gets mad whenever someone asks him if me and him are dateing because we kinda act like we are like by flirting and everything and well on our second date we held hands and then the next day he told me once again that he thought it was a mistake and that he was just trying to make me happy by holding my hand and like one minute he says that he likes me more then a friend and then the next minute he says he only likes me for a friend "For Now" I mean I dont know what I should do...because he is playing all of these childish games with me and if anyone could help me out with this it would help me out so much...If any guys out there who reads this knows whats going on with this dude and why hes doing me like this please help me out...Because I dont know if I should stick around or move on and find someone else...thanks to anyone who answers this for me...sorry its so long!!
Signed:Sad, Hurt, And Confused (link)
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try talking to him, he obviously likes you as more than a friend. maybe he's just afraid of commitment or something like that.
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I have this problem because I have hair on my upper lip just a little bit kind of and what should I do about it?? I tried bleaching it should I try waxing it but I am afraid it would hert please help me (age 13 1/2) thanks! (link)
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i'd go with the waxing. it would hurt, but not for very long.
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ok I like this guy and he is like omg hott i went on rides with him at fairs and stuff but he said he ddoesn tlike me but wen i am flirting with other guys he us all like what are you doing to the guy i am flrting with so should I ask him out ( e is soo HOTT!) PLEASE HELP ME BI! (link)
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if he gets upset with you flirting then ask him why.
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OK for the school talent show, aside from singing, an act I will do is dance with my friends. I was wondering if you guys think Helena by My Chemical Romance is a good song to dance to. I was either thinking that or !,2 step by Ciara. We will most likely be doing Helena and I was wondering if you guys think my friends and I should do the moves the dancers do on the video or make up our own. We have until towards the middle of the month. Thanks
P.S~ if you want to see the video of Helena go here http://music.yahoo.com/ar-309929-videos--My-Chemical-Romance (hit the one that just says Helena not Helena laucnh preformance or whatever) (link)
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if you could make up a good dance to helena then go for it. so many people are dancing to 1,2 step, it would be nice to see something other than it. also, try a mixture of the moves from the music video and your own
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okay i don't understnad when people say or its on an icon or something what dose it mean when they say its ther Anti drug? (link)
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it means that it is their reason (or one of their reasons) for not doing drugs
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i saw a girl post how she has hair on her upper lip and she dosent know what to do and so someone said shave it off... i was just wondering... my grandma told me that if you do that it will leave hair like when guys shave not hair but like little bits.. ok that doesnt make sense but if anyone knows what i am talking about-is it ok to shave ur upper lip (im a girl) thanx (link)
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yes, of course it is.
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i like this boy for a while but he never knew. today i walked into my class and he strait out tells me he found something out..so i asked what and hes like "you like me.." and i kinda got all nervous and wwent to the bathroom and when i come back hes like teasing me..like saying "oh. why wont you turn around..?" and cutsy stuff like that.. by him being so forword does that mean he might like me? or am i just crazy and having wishful thinking? (link)
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he might, try becoming friends with him and see where it goes. if he cares enough to bring it up, then it obviously means something to him.
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so there is this girl at my school and we used to be best friends and then now we're just friends but i found out that she is baliemic (dunno how to spell it but its when u make yourself throw up) and im like wow b/c shes a really sweet girl and is not fat at all so im thinking now.. should i just not eat anymore? cause im starting to get a bit chubby... so what should i do? (link)
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don't stop eating, if you think you're getting chubby, then work out, but DON'T do anything unhealty. as for your friend, try talking to her about it. it might just be a rumor, and we all know how much fun those are... and if she is really bulemic, then try to help her get through it, or talk to an adult that you trust and she respects.
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