...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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Ok, everyone thinks that I have the perfect life. people are always telling me that i am a dumb blonde who never has any problems. They think that i have always been rich and always have been perky and all that stuff. That is not my life storym there is so much more than that. How do i get them to understand without telling them that i had a bad life?
Blondie (link)
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That means that they look up to you as a role model. Try to bring something up about how bad your life is in a conversaition if you really want them to stop.
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i tried to make hot cocoa on the stove and welded some kind of not-so-much chocolate substance to the bottom of a pan... my question is, how do i get this stuff off? then... is it still good to eat? it looks chocolate colored. (link)
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Try it! See if it tastes like choclate if it doesnt soak it with lots of water and soap for about half an hour. After that it should come of really easily with a spounge.
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Hey, it's lizzy, i have an advice collumn, i was wondering, i want to dye my hair because i am a blonde and it is getting really boring. I want to dye my hair like a maroon color, but not to whacked out, and not so it is auburn like everyone else's is. My skin is kind of pale and i don't know what to do about it. Will a dark red look good on a sort of pale person? Thanks
Lizzy (link)
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Me too! I think that darker red/orange looks good. Im not a big fan of maroon though. Thats a little too wild. Go to Sallys beauty suply or some other beauty place to see all the cool colours they have.
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thar is this boy he is 15 i am 12 i went on 1 date with hem and then i dompt hem put he still wont stop calling me and it is heard because he is my brouthers frind and he comes her every day and i realy dont like it when he dose how dew i get him to stop calling me and tell my brouther that i dont wont hem over her eaney more. (link)
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What turc said. I think you and that 15 year old boy are very immature. Oh and start listening to your LA teacher. They teach you how to spell!
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i like this boy in my class and thar is this outhe girl that likes hem to but i like hem more he sead that he did not like her but she still wont leave hem a lone he sead he wood reather go out with me then her but not this year what dew i dew when i now he likes me but he wont tack to me i haft to tack to hem and we have a lot in komen but he still wont lisean even thoe he likes me what do i do.
Sinded love is heard (link)
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That was very hard to read and really I for one think that it made no sense. This really pisses me off!
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Okay, lately in school I've been kinda failing. But within the past week I've brought some of my grades from an "F" to a "C" or "D". But, my mom says that if I have any "F"s on my next grade report I can't go on to high school next year. Even though I still have 1 more trimester left. I have 1 "F" and there is no possible way to bring it up because my next grade report comes out next week and the teachers had to turn their grades in yesterday. I really want to go on to high school but I won't be able to with this "F". What should I do?
Grades (link)
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Get a tutor or spend more time reading your text books. Make sure you listen to absomlutley EVERYTHING the teacher has to say because they are there to teach you. Try not to day dream so much.
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This guy I like knows I like him but he tends to leed me on sometimes. I don't know if he really likes me or hes just messing around.what do I do.
signed,
confused (link)
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It seems like hes doing this because its fun for him and he likes the attention. He needs more people to carew for him so he wants to see what he can get out of it.
Your Truly,
Shay
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Ok, for awhile I wanted my ex back, but I see how him and his new girlfriend are, and I can't help, but laugh. Is this me getting over him, or do you think it's jealousy? (link)
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You are definetley just barley getting over him. Once you can laugh about a bad situation you know that you are over what happened.
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I'm in high school. Guy #1, "DJ", is a real sweetheart. He asked me to a dance. He can make me laugh and he's not hard to talk to. Guy #2, "TJ", shares many of the same interests that I have. He and I can talk for hours without ever really getting anything accomplished. We spend most of our time laughing. I like both DJ and TJ, but I am not an assertive person. I am very afraid of rejection, and also that if I "made a move" that either of theim wouldn't be my friend anymore.
What is your advice for this situation? (link)
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Maybe go on a date with each one of them. See which one you'd like more and either you sink or swim. I have faith in you!
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hey yo what up i wanted to say i go to your school and i really like you an dall you act lik eyou never even see me ,i would really like to get with you but my friend's say to just fuck you eat you out let you suck my dick and mother fucking dump you but i don't wanna do that cuz i like you 4 real 4 real i can't find the courage to come up to you and ask you out what do i do?????????????
sined:don't know what to do!!!!!!! (link)
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WHAT! Are you kidding me! Who are you? because right now Im really not believing this. Just to see if you're telling the truth... What school do I go to?
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Well, the category isn't actually right. He was more than just my boyfriend, he was a really good friend. And today, he moved and transferred schools. He said he still wanted to go out with me, but it will just be so hard. I may get to see him on the weekends and stuff like that, and we'll e-mail eachother, of course. But it will be hard not being able to see him everyday as usual. So, do you think we should break up? Because I know for a fact that other guys like me and want to go out with me...What do I do? (link)
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You should tell him how you feel. Tell him that you would rather just be friends for now so that the both of you can expierience other people for a wile, but theres room for him in the future.
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Today my imaginary friend ran away. I've been crying ever since. Sometimes I lick my friend's house to cheer me up. IS THERE ANY WAY TO GET MY IMAGINARY FRIEND BACK??!?!! (link)
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Like I said, therapy
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Crazy
A lonely girl wonders why she feels so broken hearted.
He doesn't feel the same and her heart is split in two.
She feels like a fool.
She holds her head as high as she can.
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
"Am I too ugly? am I too loud? Or is he just crazy?"
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
with tears in her eyes she smiles and says, "HE IS JUST CRAZY!"
I am not the one in the wrong, HE IS JUST CRAZY!
~K.J.B.~
For those of that liked this. (CRAZY) Its not depressing its about a gurl that just told a guy that she liked him and he thinks she is totally weird! she first feels emmbarrised then the pain sets in and then the final thought... HE IS JUST CRAZY!!!! she settles with herself that she is NOT ugly, NOT too loud, she is beautiful and that he is CRAZY that he does not like her. so for those that thought that this was depressing, sorry that you think that! anyways I feel that sence its not THAT bad of a poem i will sign my REAL advice name. sincerely advice~gurl aka: K.J.B.. (link)
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I do have my own opinion you know! If I thought it was depressing, that is how I feel about it! You cant just go change my feelings about a poem, because everyone has their own opinions and thoughts about things.
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i just wanted to ask what do you do if you really ,really ,really, like someone but you can't go with them because u go with someone eles but then when your free an dwant to go with them and you hook up with them but then they stat tring to have sex with you and eat you out and they try to make you suck there dick or pinus or whatever but you realy dont feel comfortable doing anything like that but you don't want them to think that you scared to ......well you know what i mean have sex with them but you really don't want them to think that your scared and what if you think that if you tell him that your not comfortable doing that sort of thing he will tell everybody.. whta do i do????????????? please help me?????????............ (link)
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If you dont feel comfortable with someone you really shouldnt be doing anything so close. You have the right to make your own decisions, so you really shouldnt be forced. Tell him how you feel about whats happening and that you dont feal very comfortable around him. If he is very forceful you should let an adult know.
I really hope I helped!
Shay
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I have an advice column on this very same website. I give eqaully good a dvice and I really understand where people are coming from.So, why didn't any ask me a question yet?Or ever?
Also, how did you get that girl on you page???
ASK KENDRA is my column. (link)
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Well you have to show people that you really are a great columnist. If you are new here that is resonable because mostley people will not know who you are. Just maintain a good reputation by updating frequentley and giving good answers.
I got the girl on my page by some webpage cartoon doll maker. I though she was just the cutest thing so I had to put her there!
Lots of love,
Shay
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I know this person, he's not a real being, more like an anthropomorphic manifestation, but I feel he doesn't like me. What can I do? (link)
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What? I think you may need therapy because knowing imaginary people... well its not normal.
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I have a problem, I put posters all over my walls, I act depressive & miserable, just because thats how I am, and I write poetry & i do things I want to do, and I wear black nail polish and tons of bracelets, But I dont have much money to buy the clothing, and everyone thinks Im weird becasue I act what they say I am *goth* but I dont really dress like one, I try to explain that I dont have alot of money right now and Im not poor, but my mom doesnt like paying for me, because I liek to get these clothes that are exspensive at hot topic. . I like the music too. . I dont know why I just do, so I decided that maybe My heart is telling me I should be. . Gothic. I wouldnt mind being gothic either, but is it the right path for me? I dont care much whne people make fun of me, I just ignore it, like they are invisiable, its like I enter my own world and I am just staring at things, I dont see outside of my head and someone said i looked like I was possed by the devil! I like love satan! I cant help it, it is just my beliefs Im not trying to fit in, im not trying to be cool its just how I freaking feel! I like to wear dark make- up and black is like my fave color, I try to mix my clothes ot make i look funky, untill I get some money to buy more clothing. . I just got a bass/guitar too . . I am also ina school with tons of ghetto people, they always make fun of me and make me go through a life of torture, I only have acouple friends there, and thne I have 3 others outside of school who live where I used to live, I have 7 friends in school, 10 friends total, but 2 out of 10 are guys and the rets are girls, and htey guys r kidna my firned but not really like they act like my firned but they barely talk to me, well one of them makes me laugh all the time and talks to me. . Well
All I wanna know is, am I following the right path? LyA, Bye!
Signed, Confused. (link)
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You seem to following the right path since it apears that you can stand the tortur. I mean you are the first person here to seem to be *goth* because you just feel like it. So that wouldnt exactley be the path for me, but you sound like it fits you great!
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Crazy
A lonely girl wonders why she feels so broken hearted.
He doesn't feel the same and her heart is split in two.
She feels like a fool.
She holds her head as high as she can.
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
"Am I too ugly? am I too loud? Or is he just crazy?"
She crys and crys. Wonders why?
with tears in her eyes she smiles and says, "HE IS JUST CRAZY!"
I am not the one in the wrong, HE IS JUST CRAZY!
~K.J.B.~ (link)
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Okay...Good job! but kind of depresing.
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my friend ........ likes me and i dont like him and i heard from my friends and alot of other people that he is going to ask me out but i dont like him. i dont know what to do i dont want to go out with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings because he really likes me and a laot of people say i should go out with ........ but i dont like him what should i do ???????? (link)
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Well you do have the right to make your own decisions. Let him down easy and be sure to tell him that you and him can still be friends.
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i want to get a gutar, but i dont no what to get? i dont want it to hurt my fingers but i want to rock!
what should i get? (link)
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Your fingers dont really hurt, but they will get A LOT of streching done! Mostley with any kind of guitar will that happen unless you get an extra small one. Go to a music store to see what some good brands are.
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