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Hey. I need a lot of help with deciding what to get my family for christmas. First of all, I know that I have to get my mom 2 presents because her birthday is December 29, and my dad also needs 2 because his birthday is December 21. I already have the gifts for all of my siblings. I've asked my mom and dad what they want and they said, "You being with me for Christmas." So I have no clue what to get them. I don't spend much time with my mom so I don't even know what she would like, and my dad is kind of the same..What should I get? Thank you.

-I rate high for anything unobvious-

you can go in their bedroom and see what kind of stuff they got and like what they need new of.MERRY CHRISTMAS

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Hello There!

My name is Lauren. My birthday and Christmas are coming up really soon. I'm turning 14 years old. My only problem is, I dont know what I want! Can I have some ideas?!?

I like:
- body sprays and lotions
- jeans
- make up (only mascara, eye liner, and eyeshadow.)
- picture frames

anyone know any good things along those lines? Im looking for specific things. 5's for prices and store. 1's for sarcasm. 3's for trying but basically repeating what everyone else said.

thank you!
-lauren =)

you can get some reall good deals at Victoria's Secret there sprays smell good their lotions are the same thing
1 for $9
5 for $35
7 for $37
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My hair is such a hassle. It's naturally wavy and frizzy. I try blow-drying it straight, but it just makes it more frizzy and ends up being wavy again by the end of the day. I like it best when I let it air dry because it gets some curl, but it is still is sort of frizzy. I've tried some different products, but they make my hair look greasy and weigh it down. So I was wanting any tips on how to keep the frizziness down without smoothing out my curls. Thanks!

hair spray have your hair wet a little and hair spray it how you would like it and it shouldnt take very long for your hair to dry if it does do it about a hour for whatever your doing that day and it should dry a little in a hour.
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Me and my best friend,kay have been friends for 4 years and were totally close. Around Christmas, birthdays, or special occasions i tend to get big gifts. Like on time i bought her a green flower necklace ($20) and earrings ($10). At christmas i gave her a adult make up kit ($30) and her birthday this year i got her the black eyed peas cd (monkey business)($14), a unique black shimmering purse ($50), green 7up label shirt ($6) and a black shimmering belt($3) to go with the black purse. Then for her last year birthday i got her Nordstrom pajamas ($20-$30)and a piggy bank with her name panited on it ($40). Is that too much? But thats how i share my love for her. That's just the way i am i go a little over, but there neccessary. I hate if someone else got the gift i wanted to give her before me or i see something perfect and i don't get it. I don't really look at the cost that much. Everything i gave she liked because of her personality and the way she favored them. When she buys my gifts she feel there like 5 levels under mine. She doesn't have the money like my parents do, but i love and cherrish whatever she gives me. I love everything she gives me even if it was a damn peanut. I just the thought of her thinking about me. She wants me to tone it down. It will kill me! My mom even thought to give her a coach purse ($198- $300). I said no that's no what she would like that's something i would lik so. This is just the way i amd and my family we go overboard. Basically we go to the best stores for the gifts we know won't fall apart. I never had anyone complain about me giving them too much. She always talks about the cost all the time like a she's an adult and it gets annoying and takes the fun out of a few things. What should i do should i ddown size or just stay me? HELP ME (i rate high*)!!!!!!!!

i would downsize it because your making her feel bad about what she gives you give her about that same amount of money she would pay on you.
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okay well i use to be gonig out with this kid for about 6 mouths and i dumped him but yeah but i like him now and all my friends says he likes me coz he startes and other stuff. But he says he likes this other girl. but evryone says he just says that to make me mad but w/e..but shes a huge sluttttt she walks around and lifts her skirt for everyone and she doesnt wear liek anythinggg under it and she calls him a fish all the time and shes just really annoying , but now all the sudden she says she likes him. BUT shes just desprite for a b/f..and she thinks shes hte best and everyone likes her so yeah..so basically shes a huge tramp and she thinks shes the best..so if you got any of that..any adivse

well you can tell him that your starting to like him again and ask why he likes her if its because of the slutty part than try and get over him unless you want to turn out like that girl.

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ok...i could tell a whole novel about this...but i`ll make it short. there is a friend i`ve known since...4th grade (im in 6th now) and she is not so true. she always gets made at me for stupid reasons. she just dumps all kinds of shit on me. then i just act like...ok idc (when shes all mad) and she gets even more pissed..so she says OH WERE NOT FRIENDS ANYMORE and she`ll come crawling back to me in a few days. she`ll blame it on all kinds of crap like OH I HAD A BAD DAY. i dont like to take this shit because she is the biggest backstabber i have ever met. but somthing inside wants to me to stay friends with her. also, she is mean. she gets in trouble all the time. she always makes fun of peopel and there things. she thinks if she makes fun of their stuff it makes her look better...well you should get the point...please help! thx bye!

okay well you could tell her that she must be having a bad day a lot of times because she seems to do this a lot just tell her that you cant be her friend any more anything like that.

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hey! mmkay. so this may be confusing but ill try to be ask clear as i can. lol. ohkay. so i have two best friends. like BEST BEST friends and i tell them everything. they are lets say S & L. so L is mad at me and she wont tell me why. ive called her a couple times and apoligizing...but she just gets even madder. so i decided if she wants to tell me what i did wrong...the she can. so i stopped talking to her. its been like 2 weeks now and its TERRIBLE. i really dont know what to do. now about S. she thinks i show off about everything (i dont). she critisizes me on EVERYTHING. i do like IM madpro contest and stuff so she goes...what do you do contests? i go bcz its fun i guess. she goes your weird. i go thanks. she goes i wasnt kidding...then she walks away. then shes like ughh i dont know. EVERYTHING i do theres something wrong. and in the beginning of the year and ALL last year S & L hated eachother. now S&L are like really good friends and they leave me out of everything. im happy that they are friends now but i feel like my two best friends ditched me for eachother. i have NO idea how to handle this/what to do...i hope you can help me!


MiSS DANCER xx

ok this will probaly fade away in about a year but for now you can try and hang out with other people and see if your two other friends start to get jealous they probaly wont cause they have eachother but you can just try and find new friends for now. hope i helped

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okay so there is this huge deal!! haha.

okay so i'm a freshman and the boy i like is a sophmore [in high school] and i dunno if he likes me like we see each other in school and everything but we don't realliee talk to each other during school but we talk ALL THE TIME online. and online he seems like he likes me. i dunno what to do i've always wanted to say hello to him in school but like right before i do it's like i freeze. hope you can help

than online ask him if he likes you and tell him that when you try to talk to im in school you freeze up so he knows your not like not talking to him.
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Well, my two cousins im in a fight with them and this isnt the first time i got into a fight with them. They always seem to start the fights with me and im the one thats always getting hurt. So, one of my cousins told me that my other cousin was talking about me in a bad way and then i told my cousin that was talking about me that i wasnt talking to her anymore. Then she told me my other cousin was talking about me too. So i just told them both that i dont want to talk to them anymore. One of my cousins we were so close like no other.. and when we started talking to my other cousin she left me out and we started getting into all these fights about them talking about me and say i jock off them and all this stupid things. Me and my cousin that was close we never got into one fight at all and when they started becomming friends everything messed up they started doing all this stuff to me. Then they told me they wont ever talk shit about me and i dont have the heart to trust them anymore. I told them i dont want to talk and they said i would feel very guilty if something happened to one of them, and i told them i wouldnt because i would just remember everything they did to me. but anyways the point is do you think i should talk to them after everything they did to me?

I wouldnt talk to them because this happened more than once right so tell them it happened more than once and you wouldnt feel guilty if something happened to them because you know it wasnt your fault.well that what i would tell them. hope i helped!!

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ok i have this friend & her friend told her she got her period but she doesnt know like anything about it .... so she asked me how long does it last then she saidl ike 2-3 minutes rite i had to say yess she is a worry wort but now i feel bad so wut should i do?

just tell her not to be worry all women get it soon tell her to look it up on ask.com or google.com periods dont last only 2-3 minutes

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my friendships with my lifelong 'best' friends are really fading away . for example, they were gonna leave me out of this thing we have done every year since grammer school .. some friends :[ when i found this out i broke into tears because i really don't know what to do i want friends but not if they treat me like this and make me so angry & upset and everything . any advice ? i rate fives

tell them that you know they lefted you out and you dont want to be their friends anymore. or when they talk to you just walk away and talk to someone else if they call you hang up on them they do deserve is well hope i helped!!!

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theres this kid matt im in love with and he lives in north carolina and i live in florida and i only see him on thnxgivings!what do i do i cy bout himm every day

call him email him stay in touch try and find someone new once a year thats not much try and find someone new.

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ok heres the thing theres this kid and last year we were best friends but like more then best friends but not offically together we were always all over each other and everything and if people would be like are they together ppl would just say yes like thats how we were and then we went out and we went out for like 8 months but then summer came and i didnt see him that much becuase i traveel with camp so i broke up with him in the middle of the 8 months i definitly lost him as a best friend and yeah we talked and hooked up but i liked being together but not together oiffically i feel like that scared us away from each other now that its a new year and once again hes my best friend i dont no what to do i wanna be offiaclly with him becuase this time im willing to risk anything is that wrong please help me

well if he wants to be with you also i would be with him just like dont go to summer camp long and keep in touch with him over the summer and on weekends thats mostly what you can go good luck
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ok, my friend likes this kidd bob* & he liked her, but then i started talking to him, and he asked me out a few days ago. i feel kind of bad for my friend because she still likes him alot, & i fell like i`m being a horrible friend. but now that we`re going out, he like doesn`t talk to me in school anymore, & he doesn`t act like he likes me =( & it`s upsetting, because i like him so much, and i have for the longest time. it seems to me that he still likes my friend. i liked it so much better when we weren`t going out, over now. i wanted to seek advice from you, because i see that you`re pretty good at that sort of thing. unlike my friends who tell me to break up with him, & that if we still like eachother, there`s always friends with benefits.

oh and i forgot- my parents have been telling me that i can`t have a boyfriend, so i lied to them saying that we broke up. now i`m having second thoughts about it, & i`m not sure that he is really worth lying about =/

OK he probaly likes both of you thats why hes not talking to you in school because he wants to let your friend know that he is still looking. Well you can asking why he doesnt talk to you in school but he will talk to you not at school that or if you want to find out if he likes you and your friend invite your friend over and him over like 10 mins later and see if he will talk to you do this when your parents arent home like have your friend upstairs waiting the time your expecting him to come and tell her to come downstairs. something like that
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How can I make my friends like me and think of me as a good friend?

well i would be yourself cause if you lie just to get them to be your friends they will find out soon and not want to be your friend at all and most likely hate you.
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I recently started going out with a friend of mine who I have known for about 2 years and really liked his personality, however I have only been going out with him for about 4 days and he has already become really clingy and needy, saying he misses me a lot and saying things like he only wants to talk to me. Its really putting me off him so how can i tell him without hurting his feelings to stop being so needy?

ok he probaly liked you before and wants to push it just next time he says that say we have only been going out for about 4 days dont you think thats kind of rushing it. if you tell him this and he doesnt change in about a week tell him you have been thinking about breaking up with him.
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i am over weighted and I want to lose weight but if i tell my mom or anyone I know they are going to make fun of me. What should I do

your mom would make fun of you if you tell her umm ok just eat better and less if people are asking why you are eating less just tell them your not that hungry but if you are hungry eat fruits dont starve yourself.
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I like this guy Mark. I told my friend James that I liked him and he told Mark about it. Mark always acted like he liked me too. He told James that he sort of liked me back and that he would think about it. A few days later, he got another girlfriend. Nobody thinks they will last that long because they were never even friends and they dont seem "right" for each other. Ever since he found out I liked him, he stopped talking to me. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him how I feel or leave it alone?

Ask him why he isnt talking to you i think it could be because he has a girlfriend and he wants to stick with her so he doesnt want his girlfriend getting mad if he is talking to you cause when he starts talking to you maybe he starts flirting and doesnt want to flirt with you cause of his girlfriend. Just talk to him and say hey if he doesnt say anything just leave it alone.
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I have this friend. And we spent the whole summer together being best friends. We are both really nice and fun when we are not mean to each other. Sometimes we get in these huge fights but the next day she wants to be my friend! What do i do?!

Ill rate 5's for good answers!

Well it matters who starts the fights if its her always starting ask her why.. but if she is a good friend than i would still be her friend good friends are hard to find so just let her know how you feel about these huge fights.
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Well I have 2 best friends and we all use to goto middle school together until we got to high school cause all 3 of us goto different high schools. Well they made these plans leaving me out and I barly see them am I in the wrong to be mad cause I don't see them and on top of that they leave me out.should i be mad or am i wrong? I think one of them is mad because I told her that her ex and I have been talking alot lately and i think I like him. But i would never let a boy in between my frienships so am i wrong to be mad.
thanks for anyone who answers!

You can make plans with them and I would be mad to if they left me out try and make new friends in the school you are going to now cause your friends in a different school you never talk to them and they dont even bother to invite you. Talk to her boyfriend if you want its her ex and she left you out before.
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