I have had my fair share of life's lessons and learned from them. I come from a family filled with divorce and family problems so I have a rough idea on how to personally handle things.
As for matters of the heart I can tell when a relationship is or isn't going to work. I understand the importance of communication and give and take after spending around two years in a relationship were I almost ran my ex boyfriend's household and looked after his siblings.
I understand that in certain parts of the world I am not yet of legal age to have a sexual relationship and that in some religious circles it is frowned upon for an unmarried woman to do so. What can I say? I have been in love and I have expressed that love but I have always been careful to avoid any trouble. I know how most contraception works and how the system works so don't be afraid.
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Age: 22
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Ok so I'm 16 years old and yesterday I was with my boyfriend and we were "doing stuff" like we do a lot (fingering/blowjob or handjob) and I really love this boy so I figured I could try to get his penis inside me just cause I wanted to see what it felt like.. Me being stupid nd not thinking I let him put it in nd it just say there for like 10 seconds with out even doing anything.. But I'm worried because I got my period on Wednesday may 9 and it only lasted about 4 days nd yesterday I guess u could say I kinda had sex but it just sit in me for 10 seconds nd I told him to take it out because I got scared..he didn't cum but I'm worried about the pre cum? When I was giving him a bj before he inserted it I did kinda taste like saltyness so I figured that ws the pre cum... I had like a quarter siZe blood in my panties after but I'm just really nervous nd I stress out and get paranoid over the littlest things... What do you think? (link)
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personally I think that you will be ok. Ten seconds and the fact you have actually had your period tends to suggest that you aren't pregnant. Periods can last anything between 3-7 days depending on your lifestyle and body.
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I can not remember the name of the story.
I read it around 3rd grade. The story was about a poor man who was eating a sandwich or something and the food was gross so the poor man went and sat near the richer man's food so that his food tasted better as he smelled the scent of the better food nearby. Then the rich man gets on to the poor man for smelling his food or something. That's all I can remember but I swear it's a real story. I can usually find anything I can't remember on google search but not this so if you're familiar with the story I described, tell me what you got. (link)
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http://www.bibleexplained.com/Gospels/Luke/Lu16b.html I think its the one I have linked above, its a biblical story. Hope it helps.
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I was just wondering how late 19+ kids get to stay out.
Because my mom is trying to enforce a curfew on me. I'm 19 years old, and I really don't go out too much, i don't drink or do drugs, but i like to go to parties and hang out. is that so bad?
is it wrong that i don't think i should have a curfew? its not like i'm staying out till 4 in the morning. its like 230 tops.. & my mom freaks out and won't talk to me.
maybe i'm being ridiculous, but it's pretty embarrassing when you have to leave a party at 1.. when people are just getting there. (link)
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I am 20 and I have a curfew of half ten. Its simple I miss it and I don't get let in as I have no key (another story) part of it is my house my rules, another is that we don't live in a great area and I have already been in a spot of bother in the past. Its parent's way of saying they care.
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So, I started my period last thursday on the 8th, and usually my period lasts a full 7 days. which means i wouldn't be off of it until tomorrow, the 15th. My first 2 days are pretty heavy, and then i have a regular day, and then the rest of the time is really light, or even almost nothing at all. (but still necessary to wear a tampon just in case) Or i always do until im sure its over. Anyways, monday I wore a tampon, and took it out later in the day and it barely had anything on it (sorry for the gross detail) same for tuesday, so i thought i was off of it early which i usually never am. so i didnt wear anything today and i was releaved to find i didnt bleed at all..so pretty much i went 3 days without bleeding at all, and then when i got home from school today at 4 i went to the bathroom and when i wiped there was blood. just a little, and it was a lighter color. but wtf? I thought i was off of it. Idk why this could be?
anything helps.. (link)
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Periods can change through age, stress, diet and lifestyle.
When I first started I seemed to go for eight days or more.
However lately it can be anything between three and five days before there is nothing there (similar to you, first day or so, unbearable and then lighter).
Also beware what I call 'the phantom' where you can bleed one day, nothing for a couple of days and then actually start a 'normal' period.
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I'm not sure of the answer to the question that's why I'm asking you guys for help. (link)
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It means what have you learned from the older people in your family? Is there a pattern as to how they lived their lives? Do you think you will be different?
Example: Grandma and mother have both been divorced but had a successful marriage second time around. Do you want to break the chain? Maybe marry older? Etc...
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What are the safest condoms for your first time having sex? (link)
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Durex extra safe (blue box) They come in packs between 3 and 12 I think. Hope this helps.
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My little sister's birthday is coming up and I want to get her something that is Bella Thorne related. She loves her and I want to get her something related to her. So is there any Bella Thorne online stores or something? Please help (link)
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Make her a collage poster, its handmade and quite easy to do :)
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I suffer from very severe depression, im on sertraline 50mg I want to die but i am too scared to act upon it, i love my boyfriend who is going into the army and im scared i might do something while im not with him, can anyone give me advice? (link)
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Being with a service man is difficult. I was once with a man in the RAF and I will admit that I struggled with counting the days until he came home and the sudden separation.
All I can suggest is to keep busy. Take on some hours at work, see good friends and family who will listen to how you feel about it all.
Think how your boyfriend would feel if you were not around to love him anymore. Life can be hard but just think of those who would suffer if you really did leave them in such a way.
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So, me and my boyfriend are deciding to take it to the next step. and we were talking about fingering and handjob but the thing is i get really wet when we do stuff and i feel like he will be grossed out how to i stop myslef from getting really wet or aviding it when it comes to the moment. (link)
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I doubt he will be upset by this. Being aroused is quite important for sex and sexual activity because it makes penetration much easier and is the body's natural way of allowing it to happen.
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I masturbathed last night around 11 ,had a bath in the morning and even washed my hands at 4 in the evening after that i went to my girlfrnds house,we were home alone we started kiss each other i put my hands in her pants not sure if i put them in the vagina,but was definitely around it for around 10 min,it did happen the next day too,can this in any way make her pregnant? (link)
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I doubt it. Semen would have to travel deep inside her for it to have any effect. Sperm has to travel quite a way to get to the egg and it is difficult to get pregnant by using fingers.
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He gets a boner by just looking at me, or being around me. I don't have to do anything...is this weird?
He said i just really excite him and just thinking about me has given him a boner.
i didnt think this was possible. lol
he's almost 18. (link)
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Men can get easily aroused you sometimes don't have to do anything, it can be as simple as a smile.
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hi im sure u have had many questions like this but im going to ask anyways. i apologize for the spelling.and its kinda jumpy sorry.
my boyfriend who i have been with for 3years & 2months so far, (we've been together sense i was 15 and he was 16, we are now almost 19 and 20) anyways he keeps haveing dreams about me being pregnant and not just a few months pregnant i mean like 8 and 9months pregnant, to where im about to have the baby, he has them all the time ah and hes also having dreams about us already having children its always a girl with blue eyes,blond hair, lightly skined and etc.he has always had these dreams about me, and im not sure why. yes he wants a baby girl so i know that could be a reason why, i know its not because hes afraid to get me pregnant because we both want to have a baby yes we do plan on getting married next year so you guys know. i dont know i was just wondering if there could be an actuall reason why hes having these dreams or is it just because there random? please dont have rude comments im just curiouse. and thank your for your answers or even just reading it. i want honest opinions though. (link)
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I think this is a promising sign for you. Dreams often reflect our inner feelings and this clearly means he sees a future for you both.
I am F 20 and my boyfriend had a similar dream before we were even together and woke up laughing because he could see us running a bar and having two children.
He has also caught me in mid-dream actually naming what I believed to be our son. He said he could tell it was not a sexual dream by the way I said it because my voice was soft and caring the way he explained it.
I honestly believe all of this is because we want to spend a long time together and raise a family because we are on the right track.
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how to help a friend get over a guy? (link)
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Whenever anything is wrong with a friend, you can just be there for them and listen to them. Make them a drink and take some food around to let them know that despite it all they are not alone.
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I am really interested in playing games with others online. I really enjoy lifestyle themed games. I don't necessarily mean "normal" life. I enjoy fantasy. I also can appreciate a good arcade style game.
Suggestions please! (link)
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On fb there is a few like Pet society, me to you myplace and sims social all with pages that you can add others from.
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Could I get pregnant from sucking a mans dick? (link)
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No and not even if he ejaculates inside your mouth.
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I'm a 21 y/o virgin, which I realize nowadays is rare. I guess it's somethig I'm proud of, too. I originally wanted to wait till marriage. But, as I got older, I realized that it wasn't as important to me to wait till marriage as it was to wait till I was in a relationship where I felt comfortable with someone. My first very serious relationship was when I was 16. It was so bitter/sweet because this guy stayed in my life for about four years, not always good because of the way he was with me and the things that happened. We were also a lot younger and at that, we didn't really drive or have privacy to ourselves. In between one of our quarrels, there was a rebound guy. This guy tried to push sex on me constantly and almost forced himself on me. One day, I was studying for a final, already in college, and a guy who was studying with me pulled out his penis and ejaculates on the garbage can, cleaning his hands in the walls. It was gross. And obviously, he got in trouble. But, my views of sex have been a little screwed up and I've been kind of scared. But, with my boyfriend now, it's different. I feel so comfortable and i want to be with him. I wanna share this special moment with him. But part of me is scared about Ehat to expect, how it's gonna feel. What it's like. Period. Advice is appreciated please and thank u! :) (link)
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I was 18 and had a few on off boyfriends were I just didn't feel like I could give it up. We aren't together anymore but I know that I do not regret it but I will never forget it as we were both first timers so we were both trying to relax each other which is quite important (plus contraception use).
Eventually we got there and it was a little uncomfortable at first. If I am honest around the first three times it was with a little light bleeding (nothing to rush to the doctor over).
I am almost 21 and onto my second sexual partner. I wanted to wait until marriage as I attended 2 catholic schools and assumed it was the way of the world until I got into it.
Every girl and guy is different though, what affects one won't another and what gives pleasure to one might be uncomfortable to another. Its all about trial and error, there is no textbook answer to what to expect.
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I don't tan, all I do is burn. I NEVER tan because my body just doesn't do it lol. So I was wondering if there was something I could do to help it besides spray tan or burn. Are there like herbs or something that could help? Also do guys like pale girls? Becuase ir seems like every guy I know doesn't like it...Thanks! :D (link)
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I have always been white and had the same problem, however most guys I have known, even friends have told me NEVER to use fake tan and that's fine with me as I have seen it go very wrong.
In some stores there is body lotion with gradual tanning lotion in it that can take weeks to show, perhaps try that? I think Johnsons do it.
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If a married woman is cheating with a married man and she hears him tell his wife he loves her and 5 minutes later is having sex with the other woman what does this mean? (link)
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I think it means he is saying he is not in a position to leave his wife for another woman or he is covering his tracks to his wife.
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What is your opinion on age gaps? I'm talking 16 and 21.. is it wrong? is it okay if you've known them for a long. Is it okay to be friends with people that much older than you. I'm 16 f and hes 21 m. im worried even being friends makes him look like a bad guy. (link)
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As I don't know where you are from its hard to answer this question. Here in the UK it wouldn't be so much of a problem but I think in the USA it would be less acceptable.
It has happened with me so many times where an older male friend of mine has become something more one way or another, I am not saying it will happen it just seems to be the case sometimes and that is when people will judge.
As age gaps go it isn't that much, but I remember when I was 17 and my male friend was 24 my parents weren't too happy about it and I was accused of all sorts and my parents aren't even religious. I just found it unfair.
Hope this helps.
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there is this guy that i lke and we broke up. we both scred up alot but youknow everone makes mistakes. the other day i was talking to him and he told me that his father died so he was upset , thenhe told me to suck my mother and then called me a b***h. should i forgive him (link)
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It is difficult to judge as I don't really know the guy in question but I can say he is probably a little all over the place with the death of his father.
A death of a family member can have emotional consequences on anyone and can make people feel as though their loved one is somehow still with them and wanting them to do the right thing or follow their heart.
I think you should either give him time to calm down or talk to him about how he feels.
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