Hey, first of all, thanks so much for reading this.
My parents fight ALL the time. I feel so terrible for my mom because she raises all three kids without any of my dads help. My dad is always out working..i think. He hates spending time with the family. Also, if he is having an issue with anyone in the family, he does not talk about it. He is one of those people that does not talk about how he feels. It is very irritating because there is always tension between my parents and I can always sense it. Last night, my dad told my mom that marrying her was the worst mistake of his life. Today, (mothers day) they are not speaking. At all. I would rather them get a divorce then them staying together unhappily. What should I do?
Thanks~
my parents fight all teh time. im kind of used to it by now. my dad has sed the same thign to my mom n it scared me bc i aws only a little kid. when i heard them yellin when i was little i would run upstairs n cry my eyes out. i had a sisetr n older brother but they didnt do much help to me. now im older n i have a little brother who is 3. when ever my mom n dad fight my brother gets scared n startes to breath rele heavily. when isee this i grab him n bring him up to my room. i play loud music so i can block my mom n dad oout. i try to comfort him n i hodl him tellin him everythings alright. gfiannly when they stop talkin i go bak downstiars. sumtimes they get into hUGEEE fights n others just little. i think you need to tlk to your dad about his behavor. he might say SCREW U.. but then he'll think about it. and he will say worry. also if he says that dont tlk to him. if he asked a ? just be liek hmm i dont tlk to people that are mean to me. he'll get the message. trust me. if he is will to tlk, trry to tell him how is actin. tell him that it is affectign you. no dad could take the pain of his child. i hope everythings turns out okay.
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well I am pretty stressed out with everything like my parents yelling at me and breaking up with my b/f and school so when i was telling my friend about all this she said cutting herself worked for her she told me to try it well i did and it didn't work but i just kept doing it i have a total of 59 cuts on my arm and my other friend found out about it and told my spanish teacher so i am in big trouble what should i do?
wow well your friend is a bitch!!! dont listen to people that tell yu to hurt yourself!!!! yu should do those things! wat if yu cut tooo deep n cut your vain! you could of died!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and trust em you would have some sad people at your funeral. but anyways never ever ever ever cut or hurt yourself((on purpose))!!! tell your teacher that yourve been under stress. tell her that u tought it woudl help yu relieve it. but make sure to add that it didnt! tommorrows another day. yu justt gotta pray for teh besst. also yu need ot thanks those friends for tellin. even though they get u intouble they were trien to help you out! thye obvously cared enough to try to get help!!
hoped ii helped
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This whole thing is probably going to sound really werid and its going to be long but here goes:
It's my last year in this school I've been at for 3 years, but it feels like forever. It has so many memories, from the good like meeting my best friend to the bad like dealing with her boyfriend's near death experience. (literally) Well, this year has been going by so fast and its been so much fun. You know when it feels like you and your friends rule the school (hopefully you dont act like it)and you can walk around like you don't care. Your friends are crazy and its just perfect. I don't want to leave.
Well, I have a feeling things are going to change in high school. All my friends are so different that there is no way we are all going to see each other all the time like we do now. For example, in school I take all honors and my best friend doesn't take any. After school, I'm busy with track and horseback riding and she has swim practice. Also, I'm afraid of having to make new friends.
So I guess my two questions are how do I stay friends with my current friends and how do I make new friends in my classes?
okay well you gotta make time to tlk ther. yu have to manage your times. dont worry if yu guys are true best friensd it will show. talk to her when yur at home after your long day at school n practices. make sure yu tell her about your day. n have her tell u about hers. also dont be scared to meety new peopple!!!! i kno you might be shy but there are many people who are shy to. it might take you a while to talk to some grls. but all you have to do is smile n try to have confidence. walk up to them. introduce yourself liek hello im ____ ____. trust me they wont be liek ewww get away((unless yourl eik desgusting.. but i dont you are))
i hoped i helped!
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okay so I'm 13/f name JJ my friends and I used to be so very close, now ever since they tried out for cheerleading and I didn't(I'm more of a tomboy) they leave me out, it's always come on KK* let's cheer, come here KK* I want to tell you something that I dont want JJ to hear. And KK* always tries to includ me but CC* never tries to, KK* knows how it feels but CC* always whines because the boys are calling her gay and stuff, she talks to me like I care about her more than anything in the world then gets mad at me that I am more popular.... Do you think CC* and KK* are good friends or should I stick with my guy friends and other friends?
i dont think there good frends. they seem liek if you told them a secret they woudl spread it all around just to stab u in your bak. stick with your guy friends and other friends. they seem liek all they will do is start drama. and from my past experiances i HATEEEE drama.
hoped i helped
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okay so i have this shirt and i am having ppl sign it for the end of the year well my ex b/f keeps wanting to sign it so i finally let him and he said "ass" so i changed it to "ask" well after my last period at school he was waiting outside my door for me and he asked me how i liked what he wrote i said i liked it but i changed it to "ask" then he was like well let me wright something nice on it so i let him it said "fuck u" and he was laughing well then i changed it to "have fun u" and now he wants to change it again he is even trying to get inside my pockets to get the marker is this a sign that he likes me still (he was the one that dumped me)
well it could be. he could be beign mean bc he liesk you. or he could be beign mean just to get a good laugh. honestly i dont think he does. dont rele show intrest in him. if he tries to be noticed then he liesk you. if he stops trin to be then he doesnt.
hope i helped
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For some reason everytime my ex boyfriend is around I make sure I'm all over my current boyfriend. Why is this??
Its because you still liek your ex boyfriend or your tryin to make him jelous, he might of broken up with you or cheated on you. u wanna show him that your over him n that he means nothin to you. your tryin to make him want you. or you could of broken up with him but you still want to make him be liek damnnnn that grl is hot. a lot of ppl have the seem probablem that you doo. i hope i helped
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this always happens to me i start liking someone and then when they start liking me i stop liking them. guys ask me out everyonce in a while but i akways turn them down even if i like them , i have had 3 boyfriends bf not serious tho. and always end up dumping them, so for the past month i have been liking this guy chris, hes really funny and nice. but... he does drugs. lots. and hes not a virgin. so hes starting to like me and is like all over me, but now i have stopped liking him, i am practically giving false hope, if he asks me out and i say no. he probably end up hating. but i would like to be friend, i just dont kno if tahts even possble what should i do to get him to stop flirting with me so much so we can just be friends:/
well i think you need to stop hanging out with him. kind of avoid him. liek if you kno hes goin to the movies dont go. go someplace else. also if your online n he is too, dont rele talk to him. let him IM you. all you have to do is say hey bak n tehn if he askes wats up just be liek nothin. donttry to make your convos long with him. also dont ask you, because he could tlel you sumthin about his day that he hopse for both of you too tlk about it. he;ll probably be liek cool and then run out of things to talk about. if you aviod him then he will kind of get the message and he will probably meet sumone else who is pretty ((not sayin your not prety))n will start to liek them. hope i hlepd you :)
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ok so i really liek this guy. hes super hott and nice and funny. we met not to long ago and whenever we see each other we talk and we also talk on the internet. i am not sure but i think he likes this other girl or he maybe has a girlfriend. i want him to know i like him and i want him to like me. what should i do?
okay well i kno who this is.. n i think u should get to kn him. tlk to him online, but dont be to obsesive liejk right when he gest onlien dont just im him n be liek HEYYYYYY!! bc ehll think thats annoing. wat alil.. think of things yuo can tlkto him about. liek whens the next mixer or watever. you just need to get to kno him n do more things wiht him. trustme you got the looks. now u just gotta getch him n role him in((hahah leik a fishing pool. heehe)) well anyways good luck with him n i hopedi helpoed
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ok so theres a girl i really like and i dont know if i should stay with her. i like girls a lot because they are not pretty but they are very pretty. kookoo ka choo. poop. haha just playin. its dylan. hey libby!
your a loser!!
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ok... my friends ALWAYS do things during the weekends but NEVER invite meh, and i`m sitting here crying rite now because my friends are out right now and i`m home BOREd! this is the 4th weekend in a row that they`ve done this to meh...... WHAT DO I DO??
well uyu need to find out if they are your real friends. if ther not then yu need to find ppl who will include yu not disclude you!!!!! tlk to your friends baout leavin you out!! n babe dont cry, bc in teh end everything will be okay. yu just gotta be nice.. im rele strong in bleivein in carma. n i feel liek if sumone is mean. bad things will happen to them. thats hwy i always try to be nice. yu just gotta put a smile on!! tkl to your friends n see wats up. make sure yu dont say the wrong thing though!! bc people can misunstand you n then yu can get innto alot of drama((past experiances)) i hope everything turns out okay
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i don't like my boyfriend i like my best friend. he lieks me to but i don;t know what to do my boy friend is obsessed with me and i wouldn't want to hurt him i care for him just not as much as my best friend. and now that i have a boyfriend my best friend is a little mad at me. even tohught my best friend had done the same thing to me before knowing i liekd him i feel so guilty doing it to him i just want him i like him so much and i dont want him to loose feelings for me, what should i do? i dont want to be easy because then thatmakes him loose feelings but should i play hard to get? pleaseeee help
okay well i think yu should break up with your boyfriend. tell him that yu just want to be single n that yu need sum time. still be friends with him though. after yu break up with him dont go out with your best friend right away. give it a couple of weeks to show your boyfriend that he ment sumthing((if yu break up with them n go out with sumone right after that it usally shows that your over him n that you dont liek him or care for him anymore) even though yu might not liek him, yu dont want to show that to him because that will make him sad. just try to be sweet and try to explain it
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There's a girl that I like. We go to different schools but live about 10 minutes away from each other. She has a boyfriend but we went out once and I found out that she likes me. She even told me. The time we went out was 2 weeks ago (last weekend she was busy and this weekend I am), and I don't know if I'm wasting my time because I think she won't break up with her boyfriend. They've been going out for 9 months, and she told me that he makes her cry almost every night but she just won't break up with him. What do I do..?
well i think they wont last because a girl can only take so much pain. if he makes her cry everynight then hes not a good boyfriend. stay friends with her. wait a little while. when they break up(if they do) then be there for her. give her surport. shell relize that she is your eevryhting n shell probably start to really liek you. love isnt goin to happen in 5 minutes. its goin to tak a long time
... sorry if this doesnt help much.. if it doesnt ask wat your confused with and ill try to help you out
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i failed my permit test. my test had ridiculous questions like "name an adj to describe a driver" & stuff like that. i feel so stupid & i feel like the only person that would fail this. i have to go take it again, but i juss feel stupid. any ideas??
thanks!!
its okay!! dont feel stupid. not everyone is good at the same things. trust me on that one!!! i totaly suck at english. n i dont get it one bit!!!!! i strugle to keep my grade up. u just gotta study n work at it and prove to yourself that you can pass the test.
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ok so me n my friend r kinda fighting but shes been saying the reason we rnt hangingout so much is b.c of me n shes blaming it all on me. well wthe true reason we havent been hanging out so much is b.c shes not a true friend she gets mad at me everytime i do something good or hang out w. some1 else n she talks about my bff she even has the guts to tell me tht im not good enough for my bf n so ive been hangngout w. every1 but her lately n now shes been crying n trying to talk to me n saying she misses when we hung out n i kinda fel bad but i dont want a friend tht willd o all tht stuff to me so wht should i do? ditch her or be friends w. her again n give her another chance?
please help me im so confused n i dunno wht the hec i should do this is so confusing
okay well ive had that trouble too. i had a friend that would get mad at me for the littlest thing like being in sumone group n not hers for a school assignment. she would also get some other ppl mad at me. we arent friends anymore because she woudl always tlk about everyone, and it all came around neveryone found out everything she sed. you shouldnt be friends with sumone whose fake(( n it rele seems liek your friend is)) u just have to tell her that you cant be friends bc of wat she has done. even though she might be leik i changed in all, she hasnt. n im sorry but she has no right to say that your not good enough for your b/f. chances are your better then your boyfriend.
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k so heres the problem. i like this guy..he likes my best friend as much as i like him which is ALOT! my friend said that i could have him cause she just wants to be friends with him but then him and her text message each other all the time. i wanted to know what the texts said so when she was in the shower i read them. he asked her when he was gonna get the first kiss from her and he called her beautiful and things like that. she replyed that he is gonna have to work hard to get and she called him sexy. she knows i like him. i liked him before she started talking to him. but one thing i dont get is why she still lies to me when she clearly knows that i know she is starting to have feelings for him. she send him the texts right when im sitting next to her. then on friday night me, her, him and his friend hung out. and i could tell that he liked my best friend ALOT! so i decided that if he really wants her im not gonna get mad over it even though i am jealous. but i could see that if they did go out then it really wouldnt work out just because there way too different. like she flirts with EVERY guy that she comes across of and he is one of those guys that like long relationships. so i think once he finds out what she is REALLY like then he wont like her. i feel really bad for saying this but idk. i just really like him. she and her bf just broke up last night so i think he is gonna ask her out real soon. but if they do go out i dont know how that would feel for me. i dont know.. what should i do?!?!?
ILL RATE REALLY HIGH =)
well first off that isnt a good friend. friends shouldnt lie. she probably lieks him as much as you do, and obvously he lieks her too. u just neeed to let it go and if they go out let them, because chances are they wont stay together. something will happen. liekin sumone can take sum time. yu just gotta wait.
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