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i like him..he likes her..she likes everyone.
k so heres the problem. i like this guy..he likes my best friend as much as i like him which is ALOT! my friend said that i could have him cause she just wants to be friends with him but then him and her text message each other all the time. i wanted to know what the texts said so when she was in the shower i read them. he asked her when he was gonna get the first kiss from her and he called her beautiful and things like that. she replyed that he is gonna have to work hard to get and she called him sexy. she knows i like him. i liked him before she started talking to him. but one thing i dont get is why she still lies to me when she clearly knows that i know she is starting to have feelings for him. she send him the texts right when im sitting next to her. then on friday night me, her, him and his friend hung out. and i could tell that he liked my best friend ALOT! so i decided that if he really wants her im not gonna get mad over it even though i am jealous. but i could see that if they did go out then it really wouldnt work out just because there way too different. like she flirts with EVERY guy that she comes across of and he is one of those guys that like long relationships. so i think once he finds out what she is REALLY like then he wont like her. i feel really bad for saying this but idk. i just really like him. she and her bf just broke up last night so i think he is gonna ask her out real soon. but if they do go out i dont know how that would feel for me. i dont know.. what should i do?!?!?
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just so you know i don't do this for the rates and stuff, i just like helping people. right anyway, i think in this situation you should tell your friend how you feel about all this, trust me it'll help, and if she genuanly likes him too then i think you should let her go out with the guy when he likes her back.
i know it seems suckish but its the right thing
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If feelings developed AFTER she became aware of the fact that you liked him, she might have just been afraid to tell you. One mistake doesn't make her a bad person or a bad friend all around. If she's a worthy friend to you minus this one incident, I would let it go. It's one guy. You aren't in love. Don't let it ruin your friendship.
Now I'm not saying that she is totally in the right. She could certainly be more understanding of your feelings (which she may very well be doing by not telling you about this...not the best way to do it though).
What you need to do is ask yourself whether or not you feel this friendship is worth it. If she makes it a habit to screw you over, I'd deeply question why you are friends with her to begin with.
There is always the option that you could talk to her about what you're feeling. She might not realize how bad you have it for this guy. If you open up a little about how you are really feeling about all of this, she might back off a little.
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Walk away and have no regrets.
If your b/friend is like that now - at the start of your relationship, it doesn't bode well for the future.
If your friend was any sort of a friend she would have either been honest with you as her feeling changed (or she lied); or she would have put an end to the sms and any other flirting between them; or she would have told you about the texting between them both and worked through it with you. She could have chosen to ignore the texting, he would have got bored and stopped or moved on to doing it with someone else.
My advice is to wait for someone who will be honest as well as faithful in his actions. After all...aren't you worth it? :-)
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well first off that isnt a good friend. friends shouldnt lie. she probably lieks him as much as you do, and obvously he lieks her too. u just neeed to let it go and if they go out let them, because chances are they wont stay together. something will happen. liekin sumone can take sum time. yu just gotta wait.
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