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yeah so only seventeen, but ive got a pretty good idea about giving decent advice. anything from serious relationships, not-so-serious relationships, friends, family problems, what looks good & what doesnt, and how NOT to be a bitch! i love to have fun, but im not an idiot! im just your typical clowner and i pretty much know it all - well, kinda : D ask anything!!

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Hi. A little while ago you told me you straightened your hair with a real Iron and i thought that was sorta wierd. Like don't you burn your hair??? DOes it really work? does it take a long tijme!!??? can you please tell me how ?

ok well i kno it does sound wierd, but it doesnt burn your hair as long as you dont keep the iron on there for too long. lean your head on an ironing board, or on your bed or something and spread out your hair evenly and then just iron it like your ironing clothes really! lol then flip your head over so your like looking down and i recommend having a friend or your mom do it for you, cuz its really hard to do it by yourslef. brush it thru and redo it if you think u missed a spot. it works really well and makes your hai really straight! if you need any more questions IM me at H1P213L7 k
much love,
amI*

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how do u get ur page with a whole bun ch of lkike dolls nd stuff??
dont delete this please!!

go to www.minklerealm.com or www.dolliecrave.com and look for the dolls with codes and copy n paste the codes onto your profile info on the column. n e more questions, drop one in my inbox k
ami*

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Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?

Signed,
A girl in desperate need!

wait is he gay?

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hey im 16 years old/male

ok one day my girl friend came over to meet my parents. My psrents loved her till i mentionrd that she was my girl friend. They kicked her out of the house snd told me to never see her again.ONe night i snook out to see her and was caught. I just love her to much. HERE ARE MY QUESTIONs


ONe should i say forget my parents and go out with her?
Should our relationship go on?
WAt will i do if her psrents want to meet me

woah thats strange of your parents to actually kick her outta the house. i sayt forget your parents and go out with her. they are acting like freaks and thats not fair to you. you should ask them why they have a problem with you going out with this girl. they must have a specific reason...

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kay im 15 and kinda have gurl probs.

1) every time 1 tries to kiss me i shy away because im scared that a might do somthin wrong
2)im afraid to go on a date again because i might do somthing wrong.
3) i dont no y but there are alot of hot gurls in my area and im ntimidated by alot of them


PLease help me!

dotn worry about it, just be yourslef. if any girl is worth your time, she wont be a jerk and not understand. theres not much to do "wrong" so dont stress about it. good luck*
ami*

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What should I do I like alot of boys and one is my friend but should I tell him or keep it to my self??

Go FOR IT! HOWS HE GONNA KNOW IF YOU DONT TELL HIM??

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Hey Im Kristen. I just wanted to say that you give some GREAT advice ;) lol Anyways, I also hava ?. My mom has been REALI rude lately..I mean shes NOT actin like a mom..She is acting like a frickin RUDE teenager!! lol I know this sounds Crazi, but its def. tru! I tri ta talk to her, but she just says mean things bak to me, or she ignors me ..I dunno wat ta do..She was never like this before!! :( Shes always down grading me and saying that i look fat n stuff..I know im not SKINNY, SKINNY. lol But im not FAT! >:( Does your mom ever act like that?? PLEASE answer this..I dunno if its jus me, or it reali is HER.lol THANKS SO MUCH..ILL RATE YAll GOOD! ;)**

dont let it get to ya. yeah its really not cool for your mom to be acting like a shallow teenager. next time she tells you your fat ro something be like "MOM why do you care? your acting really shallow? what is the deal?" hopefully she will understand. but if i were you and she still kept it up, whenever she tells you that just stuff your face with junk food to rub it in. (wow that sounded really mean) but hey thats the truth your mom doesnt need to be saying stuff like that.

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i tried out for dance team with my relle good friend and i found out i made it but she didnt i was relle upset and liek couldnt relle be happy formyself the next period she was mad at me becuase i made the team and she didnt nd i tried to talk to her about it but we got over it but still she also liek hits me liek shes joking but she relle hurts me so i hit her backl nd she gets all pissed but i dont let people jsut hit me without me doing anything how should i deal with her??

yeah omg shes being immature. she shouldnt hit you and theres nothing wrong with beign happy for yourslef that u made the team. i mean dont rub it in her face but it isnt your fault she didnt make it. tell her that next time she hits or whatever, dont take any shyt..

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I was really good friends with this girl named madeline.... today she came up to me and punched me in the face in school(i still am in school right now) for no reason at all! I fell on the ground and didn't hit her back! I should of (well i think so at least) And i didn't! Should i of went after her or did i do the right thing by not hitting her back?

PsYcHo!! jeeze man that girl has some issues. it sounds like it was kinda random. she mustve been mad at you for something. yuo should ask her what the deal was. but she doesnt sound like a very good friend.

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Hey!! I'm 14 andI wear my hair in a low pony tail EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! im not kidding!! I do this because it is always sticking up somewhere. I can't get a straightener ( im not allowed to) and i can't blowdry it straight. I have brown hair, below the shoulders and it curls alot at the ends. Does anybody have any suggestions on ANYTHING i can do with my hair!!?!?!??!?! Thanks so much!! I'll rate you high:):)
Thanks!

hey use an iron to straighten it! like an iron you use to iron your clothes. have a friend iron it straight an believe me it works, i do it all the time. just dont do it when your hair is wet. it will look awesome and very straight. it works better than a straightener.

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well, im not depressed, but lately ive been really sad. i miss my best friend that goes to the other middle school in our town, i dont have a b/f, never been kissed, and basically all my freinds are biotches. i dont know what to do. i cant talk to my mom cuz i just cant, and the only person i can talk to is my friend at the other school. can someone help?

hey try to makenew friends. you are going to have to be freindly to other people besides your bff becuase life is really not fun when u dont have a bunch of friends to hang out with. cheer up and join a sport or something and make friends with people that like the same things as you or are completely different. WHATEVER, it doesnt matter but dont just sit there feeling sorry for yourslef. things will get better.

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Ok first of all Im changing this guys name to No One Special or N1S. Ok see its a long story but I met this guy over the summer. He is really really hott. People always ask me how I know him. Hes just so incredibly hott and everyone thinks so. Its a curse for him and I know what he needs is someone who likes him for him. I do like him. Hes really nice and he can be sweet. He always makes me feel better and I think I might possibly love him. I think he likes me too. I am two years younger than him though. I am also freakishly tall for my age, about 5'10" to be exact. Hes about 6 foot I think. hes told me I look his age which is 15.He also is in a band. He kept sorta staring at me and looking away when i looked back and kinda blushing. (that also could be cause hes the singer) He also really cares about my opinions and stuff and he got really close to hugging me one time. (i got scared and he apologized) Then again he hugs alot of people. he hugged my stepsister the last time he saw her before she went to New York and he hugged my friend. But he was just kidding around. He even hugged his teachers! He also gets really deep when we tak on the phone and he told me that he liked the fact I dont need to be dating someone to feel complete. He does stuff like this all the time. He is a really good friend and I want to be friends with him forever. I just dont want him to think Im only his friend cos hes hott. He has really good taste in music too. I always get in trouble in school cos Im constantly thinking about him. I dont want to be rejected also. My friend is also "in love" with him but she is in love with both of her ex's as well. I feel a great attraction to him. Like I said, I dont want to be rejected plus I dont want to ruin our friendship. So if you can tell me what to do, with him and how to deal with my friend, please do! Thanks!

okay well u need to talk to him, let him kno that u think hes good looking but then be like" ur really fun to hang out with n stuff" if he starts sayin nice things about u, then he probly likes you. then ask him if that would ever work out. sounds like he already likes you, hope i helped!
x*o*x*o ami*

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My mom doesn't think I should have a boyfriend but I'm 13!!! I think this unfair because a lot of my friends have boyfriends. I had to reject three people I might have said yes to, including the guy I like.I try talking to my mom about it but she just won't budge. I can't have a boyfriend until highschool!

okay this might not be the best way to handle the situation, but i say go out with who u want whether your mom will let u or not. theres really nothing else you can do. its not your fault that u like someone and they like u back. u cant help it. so u should just go out with *whoever* and keep it on the down low. sooner or later your mom will igve in and then u can mush about who ur goin out with.

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ok ive had a crush on this boy for like awile and this new kid came to our school this year and his name is robert and i really like him(he's really hot) idk cuz ive told all my friends that ive liked this boy eric for eva and this new kid comes and im really startin to like him and all my friends say that it would be awesome if u to hooked up(but in the past ive had some jackass boyfriends that all my friends say oh u guys look so cute together) so wat should i do? please help i need to know asap!!!
im 13 and of course a gurl!

well, find out if the new kid likes you. if he seems nice and you think u really like him, then go for it! most likely your friends will say the same thing- but dont let that bother you that theyve said that before. they just want you to be happy! so go for it. hOpE iT wOrkS oUt!!
ami*

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Hey ami. I know you go out with aaron. So I thought you could help me out. I'm a freshman, and I had to start all over in the "guy" catergory. I really like this guy Joe. He's the only guy I like at my highschool right now. He asked out my friend Liz. What do I do to cope with this?

Signed,
Helplessly in love without a chance..

ok well does he know that you like him?? does your friend know u like him?? if Liz goes out with him and knows that u still have feelings for him, then shes really not being fair to you. but if they like each other, then theres plenty of other guys... you've got all year to meet them.

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Hey! im moving into a new house in september. my room there is much smaller than my current room so i will have to change all of my stuff! I was wondering if you knew any sites that gave cute, creative, classy, unique, crazy, or pretty ideas on decorating rooms. I am 14, soon to be 15..and obviously a girl. I am kinda a 'do my own thing...be different' kinda girl. I want a room like nobody elses. Do you know of any ideas for decorating it? Or any sites that could help me out? Please respond quick..i am moving september 20th!

hey* it doesnt matter how much space you have, you can still make your room totally cool. cut out pictures from magazines, buy posters, print out stuff from the internet www.allposters.com haas pics of stars and cute stuff. make your room to fit your personality. o yeah and its not a big deal if nothing matches that just makes it more unique!! have fun! if you need anything else drop one in my inbox k x*0*x*o ami*

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im a freshman going into catholic highschool. we normally have to wear uniforms, but we have orientation on sept 1 and we can wear our own clothes. they said they have to be "dressy/casual" yet approriate, like no skin showing and whatnot. does dressy/casual mean that you should wear nice pants, or can you wear jeans? and im into REALLY standing out, i like wearing stripes, polka dots, bold bright colors, jewelry, bows... what do you think i should wear on that day... without being "inappropriate"?

i think you could wear some khakis with a nice brightly colored shirt and wear accecories too if ou want. cool jewelry, maybe a hat or something. its completely appropriate...

hOPe i HeLpEd!
x*o*x*o
ami

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my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13

well if he cant keep "dirty talk" between the two of you then you shouldnt do. you could end up with a bad rep.

hope i helped!
ami

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OK...muh bf and i are goin good but sometimes i cant take it because hes so immature and i wanna dump him sometimes but then im like i cant hurt him bc jus the other day he told me he loves me..and like i havent said it bakk bc i dont..but what do i do?i wanna break up with him but hes the greatest friend..& i dont wanna loose him

yeah* guys can be immature sometimes- but its not really thier fault. i dont think u should break up wit him because if hes really nice and he loves you then you really dont wanna lose him. its nice to have a bf thats also a good friend. just forget about it.

hope i helped!
ami*

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how much do you think male strippers make ( per show without tips )

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