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Hey, My name is kendra. I go through a lot in my life and I love to give good advice to people who have experienced what i have been through. Im not the type of girl to tell you what to do, that's not my job. I just give advice and what you want to do wit it..is ur decision. I'll do my besT to understand every problem or question that is being asked. I take any questions and I dont judge. So drop some letters on my page and i will definitly give the advice thats besTT for ya..smoochiez..

~*I give good advice..to all the people who wanna rate me high thanx alot, but i dont care too much about the ratings as long as you have my advice then im alright*~

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i can't really explain my love for this one guy. And it's not like teenage-i-like-you thing. i think about him all the time, and some nights i literally cry myself to sleep about him. i don't know what to do. my friends say i should ask him out or they could ask him out for me, but i just can't. i talk to him a lot but it's just not enough...please help. what should i do?

askin him out is probly the second worse thing you could do becuase he probly will reject you unless you noe how he feels about you.. which is what you should find out and thne go for it..but then again you could wait for that perfect moment when he askes yoo out..and you defiantly should put it out there that you like him aloot..

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And yes it does make sense..if u think about it

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My bf (well...ex bf), Mike, and I were dating on and off for about 2.5 years. When ever we broke up, it was only for about 2 weeks or so and for a stupid reason.


Well last time we broke up (before this time anyway) was in Aug. and we stayed broken up for almost 2 months. We went to our homecomings together (we go to different schools) and got back together then. For the first months of getting back together, the relationship was great, almost perfect.


Then around the beginning of Feb., it started to drag on. It just wasn't there anymore. We started seeing each other less, I wouldn't care if he hung around other girls (which is crazy because I get overly jealous), just drifting apart. In the whole 2 years, that's never happened before. So, we decided that it was time to end the so called relationship, for good. The happened 2 weeks ago. One week before spring break (our spring break was the first week of March so it just ended)


Even though we go to different schools, we hang out with the same people. So we still see each other constantly. We also went on our spring break trip together with all of our friends. We had a blast except for that fact that we just couldn't be civil to each other. It was like one argument after another. And I have no idea why. Our break up was mutual and we were both okay with it. But know, out of no were, we can't stand to be around each other.


We cannot ruin our friend's good times because or our arguing. What's going on here? We're both 18 by the way.

Well maybe you guys shouldn't see one another at all you need some space from seeing each other even tho you're no longer in a relationship..you probly just miss being with him and he probly misses you being his girl but you both are showin mixed feelings. Then again you could really not like him and he doesnt like you, but the best thing is time apart from being in contact with each other even when you still have the same friends...

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okay so my friend is mad at me and shes using all these things ive said to her or other people out of context b/c when u hear them yea they sound bad but if u think about why i said them and what was going on it all makes sense. she wont listen to me tho i keep trying to explain to her why i said the things i did but she just wont let me say it. i dont want her to be mad at me or anyone else but how do i get them to listen?

maybe you should watch wat u're just sayin to ppl..if ur friend and other people are takin what you say and how you say things offensive "out of context" then y would you continue to say things that way. And if they are not listenin to you and are mad then you should probly give them some time and come to them in anotha way so they wont get mad at you anymore, so you can have a chance to explain to them y you said wut you said.

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okay well i have a friend who is 16 and pregnant (about 7 weeks if that matters at all)

well she just started coming to my school at the beggining of this year and i would say im one of the people in the school who is closest to her.

ive havent accually met her bf but ive talked to him online a few times and hes really worried about her and wants be to help her but i dont know how. they have been together for 3 years and i would say they really are too layed back. they have unprotected sex alot and have gotten high and drunk on several occasions and atleast once since shes been preggo (her dad has drug problems as well) and they dont have the greatest background so i really dont expect much from them. but i dont know how to get her to chance her ways! her bf has tried but i guess she wont listen. she doesnt eat well and do what she could to help her baby out..

and she doesnt even have a job or plan on getting one b/c her mom is paying for anything but i think she still needs some resposiblity and so does her her bf (who realizes this atleast)




what can i do?

talk to her and let her knoe how ya feel about her situation and how much you care...dont go down on her about the things she's doin wrong, because thats only gonna make things worse. Dont tell her wat to do because its her life and she has to make her own choices. Explain to her some facts about wut the future may be for her and her baby if she keeps actin the way she does..Let her understand da consequenses and everything...She can change her way on her own but she needs somebody who can help her thur it all.. so be a good friend even when she probly dont agree wit cha
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I need a bit of help with this homework.

I need to know if the following are acids or bases. ( or neutral)

coffee
coke
water
gatorade
Kool- Aid
Tea
alcohol (like beer or rum)

I tried using the litmus paper but I can't see any change of colour because I suffer from a form of colourblindness and nobody around my house wants to help me.

Thank you guys so much.

bases-coffee,gatorade,kool-aid,tea,alcohol
neutral-water
acids-coke
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I'm trying out for a school talent show and could someone answer this question? Does anyone know where I can get karoke music for Bonnie Raitt songs? Also, is there a website that doesn't require purchasing or downloading to listen to move soundtracks?

LIME WIRE.com download lime wire and get all the music you want trust me. ask me any advice on my column..u welcume..

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will first time sex hurt even if your hymen has broken? will you still be tight or will it be good the first time?

NOOO its not tru that your first time hurts cuz it doesn't...unless you n the guy dont now wut ya doin then, yea. but most girls who claim to have had sex say it hurts but it's really not soppose to...but like i said if the boy is new at it there mite be a chance u will feel pain..but it'll be a pain that'll feels good. Also it depends on the pressure and the position, most likely virgins loose it at missonary...ask me any advice anytime on my message board..SMOOCHIEZ..

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