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i have no clue where i should have put this. but heres my question... what do they do when you go to get birth control? (link)
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hmm well u might get examened but if u dont want to then they wont...but if they do (ive had one cuz im on the shot, the shot is a dream girls..i have like no period lol =D) but u'll lay on a table and put up ur feet on these stir-ups and then he'll feel ur boobs for lumps (ur prolly young but its standard procedure) and when hes done with that he goes down to wear ur ...womanly parts lol are and he puts this metal thing into you and makes it get bigger and takes a cotton swab and puts it in there to see if u have diseases or anything...and then he puts his finger into u and pushes on ur right left and middle lower stomache to check for uterus or ovarie cancer! and they might draw ur blood to check for more diseases...better safe than sorry! it may sound bad but its actually not, and its under a minute long! its not bad at all..and then he'll give u whatever Birth Control you want...like the pill or the patch or the shot..i like the shot!! after 6 months you dont have a period anymore =D and before that its a pretty light flow, its very nice tho...woo i need to stop lol juss trying to be helpful...:)
*jesikuh
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Hey im a 15/f. I really like this boy but all he wants is sex :-/. But I really want a relationship rite now. Hes such a player but I like him more than any boy I've ever liked. All his relationships barely even make it to a month and my shortest relationship was 3 months.Its not like I have a crush on him cuz of his looks.. he has a great personality too. I dunno wat to say to him cuz this kids like irresistable I swear. Wat should I do or say to him ? Please help!! (link)
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i honestly think that u need to find a new guy hun...u even said it urself hes a player! guys may come off soo cool and soo sweet but its an act, and in the end it'll juss get u hurt and we dont wanna see that do we? juss tell him u wanna stay friends, that way u dont do anything like have sex with him and he goes off and tells people and what not..stay friends with him and still like his personality...find some one who likes you for you not whats in ur pants...trust me, he's out there =D
*jesikuh
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i know this is really stupid.. but im 13 and a female.. and ive never had a first kiss. I have a boyfriend.. and i think he really wants to start kissin and stuff but idk if im ready. I think about it all the time.. and I think things like.. i can do this.. but when it all goes down... i get too nervous or scared to do anything... we've been going out for 3 weeks.. and hes kind of a playa.. so im nervous cuz i don't wanan kiss him if he is just gunna dump me a few weeks later... pplllllz help! (link)
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u shouldnt be going out with players in the first place doll =D dump him and find some one else who wont rush u into doing something u dont wanna do! or juss tell him ur not ready and if he gets mad tell him to fuck off =D
*jesikuh
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okie well i was at aparty n this guy got bet 40$ to makeout w. me.. but u see we didnt i was messin w. him cuz i new he was messn w. me soo he started to lean over like he wanted a kiss n i wouldnt soo he would get up n come bac n act the same way soo i finally got tired of it soo i kissed him but u see as we were movin in he moved soo i kissed his chin n well he stands up n gose we did it we madeout but everyone was around n they all no we didnt n hes like ur breath stinks n then he acted liek he was puking.. well i rele like that guy but i was rele mean to him.. was that a thing a jerk would do n should i just forget about him (link)
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forget about him...bets are no good and if hes gonna be like her breath stinks! to everyone thats shit and u deserve better..dont like that douche bag. find some one else whos good to you! =D
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okei well my left boob hurts rele bad my mom says its just gittign bigger but it hurts to run n jump n im very athletic.. n ther is a lumpin there i was wonderin if that happens to everyone.. and i was wonderin if ppl can notice if on boob is bigger cuz i can tell one is but idk if others can
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hmm maybe ask ur mom to see the doctor about it!! i dunno my boobs hurt sometimes but not juss one of them unless i hit it lol sorry to hear about ur boobie problem!
*jesikuh
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There's this little boy and he's 12 years old. His mom got in a freak car accident in which a lighting bolt struck a tree and it fell on her car a killed her. And if that wasn't bad enough his step-dad kicked him out. I really want to help him out because he's such a sweet kid and he doesn't deserve this. Any suggestions about what to do? Thanks for any help I'll try my best to give you good rates! (link)
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talk to your parents about it and see if he can stay with u until he can find a permanite place to live...that stories sad =(
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I was wondering if there was any way that you can see who rated you and what they rated you. I appreciate the help! And if you just want to drop in and answer this to say hello that's great too! I rate.. specially for nice people =c)
Love, RacheL
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u cant see who rated you but u can see the question if u click on the number..u juss go to ur advice column and go under feedback =D
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why do people cut themselves because i have a friend that does and its obvious. my friend always blames it on "the cat" but cat scratches don't make crazy grid patterns. (link)
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i dunno i guess people do it to get their minds off of the things that are stressing them out at the time..i seriously hate it when people do it cuz i dont like cuts or anything having to do with flesh lol i think its nasty buttttt people who do it need help...tell ur friend ur there for her whenever she needs you!
*jesikuh
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I am a theater freak. Recently I tried out for the play 'Aladdin'. But, I found out today I didn't get the part I want, and I got a small part instead. All my friends got cool parts like the Genie, Aladdin, Jasmine, the main parts. I feel really rejecting, I've never got rejected from a part I wanted before... (link)
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hmm im sorry to hear that, maybe next time u should try out for a lead role and try something new and big since u love theater soo much =D but atleast u got a part! always remember that! u could have juss not gotten a part! be grateful..there will be better parts in the future:)
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Ok there's this one teacher at my school that i absoultly hate. She's my Spanish teacher and she's always talking about sex or naked people.. and sometimes it makes me really mad that she can't keep the conversation on Spanish so I get in huge arguments with her.. which is actually kind of funny =c). Anyway, I wanted to get back at her for all the times she's talked about non Spanish related stuff, and my friend and I were thinking about emailing her porn or other such stuff just for the heck of it. Does anybody have any good ideas to do to her or any comments? I'd appreciate all the help! **I rate specially for friendly people =c)**
Love, RacheL
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i dont think u should do anything...juss chill about it...she sounds like a gay teacher..if u have her again tell the principal about it or change out of the class..simple as that..she shouldnt be talking about that kinda stuff constantly in school anyways ur there to learn, tell her to save that stuff for sex ed =D
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Hey imm 16 female and wondering if you guys know of any workouts to get your arms bigger and more toned and your legs! workouts you can do @ home. IM pretty thin and have a skinny small figure. I just wanna look bigger and have a toned body and not so thin. got any ideas? thank yah! (link)
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run run run...and do push ups and stuff!! those are easy simple things =D
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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (link)
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okay sorry but ill tell ya i hardly read ur question but i dont like the fact that ur not eating...my friend became an anorexic and almost died because of it and none of us knew...he heart rate dropped so low and stuff..it was bad..it was almost a year ago and she still cant do sports or anything because it like..damaged her heart so much so please dont do that kinda stuff, i kno ur friends would hate it if u were in the hospitial in a diff town for 6 weeks and u almost died =(
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Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??
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juss tell him =D ive said this over and over girls JUST TELL THE GUY!!!!!!!!!!! =D
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Alright heres my problem..me & this guy REALLY like eatchother but the thing is..hes 3 years older then me..but we don't really care about the age..hes scared to ask me out and i don't ask guys out..what do i do?
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k since ur only 13 i think that the age difference is quite significant .... it'd be a little different if u were 20 and he was 23 lol kno what i mean? but i think hes a little too old for you...and hes 16 and i think we all kno what boys at 16 want and ur only 13 and shouldnt be thinking of the things he is...i think u need to find some one else closer to ur age..sorry if thats not what u want to hear =\
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Hey...trust me I know ratings arent everything..but sometimes i think i desserve to get rate for answers i put all my thought,effort,and time into. Im not a rating fanactic...but i just wish people would be courteous to press a simple button and rate me when i really give a good answer. Anyone else agree? I put a lot of time into answering questions for people..i would just like something in return sometimes. (link)
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me too!! i mean sometimes ill whip out an answer or sometimes ill sit here and htink about it for awhile and think of the really smart/good thing to do and ill get like..3 or 4 or nothing..i think its kinda bs cuz it is only going to click 2 simple buttons!! but yeah im with ya on that =D
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hey on the "Did i cheat" ok.. i kno i cheated but look i never see him (my boyfriend) he lives down south and i live in central and the guy i made out with i see everyday at skool and like on the weekends so rly i see him 6-7days a week! ... well the next day i acted like nothin happend b-cz i didnt want my friend to find out right so now hes actin like nothin happend and i want to confront him and ask him you kno why he did this stuff and if he rly likes me but i dont kno how and when i should do it plz help me!!
again sry soo long but plz give GrRrEaT aDvIcE!!
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well since u dont live by ur bf i think u shoudlnt go out with him...i personally think long distant relationships never work out sooo juss tell him u dont think its gonna work out!!
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This may sound pretty gross, but I'm 12 and I masterbate. I just use my fingers and I don't finger myself, but I haven't gotten my period yet. Does this mean I did something that'll make it so I don't ever get my period, or will I get it and does masterbating mess my "lower parts" up if I just use my fingers?
Sorry if this is really gross I just really need to know, and Mods please don't delete this I'm very concerned... (link)
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lol i dont think masturbating has anything to do with ur period? ur period will come when it comes!! yepp i think thats about it lol
*jesikuh
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I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses? (link)
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i had my first kiss in 5th grade lol i guess theres no average...buttt i dunno i think u need to get over ur nervousness and juss go out with a guy and dont break up with him..u have to get over that cuz u cant have that forever!!!
*jesikuh
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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried? (link)
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haha nooo..well i dunno haha im never paranoid about it! u shoudlnt be either!! have funn..juss dont make out with dirty guys lol
*jesikuh
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Mods, please don't delete this, this is really important to me...
Okay, this question is kind of personal but i need to know if anyone else experiences this. I'm a 16/f and I have a boyfriend whom i've been with for going on 6 months now, and everytime we're together, no matter what we're doing, if it's sitting at the dinner table talking, or making out under the covers (most of the time it's more intense under the covers) I get really wet.. "down there" and it's to the point where it's kind of embarrassing.. because whenever we get sexual (not nessicarly sex..) he laughs about it, and it makes me feel really self concious.. Does this happen to anyone else?? Is it normal??? Thanks for the help..
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well its not not normal but he shouldnt be laughing at you for something YOUR BODY'S doing...its not like u can say HAY YOU. DOWN THERE. QUIT THAT. lol everytime he does be like ...soo are you trying to make me mad?? thats no good that hes making fun of you, it should go away tho! thats prolly a stage or something, its not totally bad =D
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