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Gender: Female
Location: crockett
Age: 13
Member Since: February 18, 2007
Answers: 90
Last Update: June 6, 2007
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my guy friend asked me out on v-day and it was really cuet and sweet but i just dont like him that way . so i turned him doen. the day after he didnt bother me, i guess he was embarrassed, but now he wont leave me alone! he keeps talking to me alllll the fucking time, more than he used to before he asked me out, and insists on calling me. he told my friends he like loved everyhing about me. its like im in a reallty bad movie, seriously. i feel smothered by him... like he s stalking me or sumthing. i reaally need some help. i want to tell him to go away but i dont know how without hurting his feelings. tx in advance (link)
sorry to admit it but this sounds like a stalker in the proccess set him straight tell him hes getting alittle to close you need some room to breath


ok so basically;
i really liked this guy , hes not really ot just cute and really nice, but thats thhe thing:hes too nice. hes a doormat and peolpe keep telling me that im using him, but im not and it only occured to me he was a door mat like today. anyway i guess i just dont know what to do, should i stop flirting with him? (link)
if you know you dont want anything to do with him you should leave him alone but if you got the slightest bit of like for him go for him and nothing eles


this may be a little long but i really need help .

ok so i lived in newnan for nine years with my dad but last year we started fighting alot . i have been back and forth living with him the past year so i have been in and out of newnan high like 5 times in a year. i am 16 and i live with my mom currently in gwinnett county. my mom has custody of me but my dad has joint legal custody of me so he has say on some things. well a couple months ago i tried staying with my aunt but my dad found out and since i wasnt living iwth him or my mom he freaked out so i came back to my moms house. i really want to be in newnan, thats where my life is. but me and my step mom dont get along at all so i really dont want to live with my dad. but if i live with my mom, i have to stay in gwinnett county and i hate it here. i love it at my aunts house. thats where i really want to be. is there any way i can choose to stay with her since im sixteen? i only have like 7 weeks of school left and want to go back to newnan high for the alst bit of my year. so i need to know a quick way to be able to stay with my aunt and go to newnan. my mom owuld let me, but my dad is just an ass and wont let me. but i never have contact with my dad, so i dont get why he wont let me. anyone got any ideas?

HELPP QUICK ! (link)
well me being the screwed up childed i am i know what your talking about but all i got to say is keap your head up never give up and remember you only have a few more years so stay strong


ok ive almost lost my virginity so many times and well i guess i should be asking

how did you know it was right...
and how old where you on your first time... (link)
im still a virgin


14/F
SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!!

tonight was my turnabout dance at school. i asked this guy as a friend to make my other friend happy...its a long story, but that's not the point/problem.

i was having fun dancing and singing at the top of my lungs, when the music changed to a slow dance. in the middle of the dance, it happened....i saw my crush-who i WANTED to ask to the dance....and i REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted to dance with him, instead of my "date". All i could think about was dancing and kissing my crush. when they played 2 slow dances in a row, i was really tempted to "ditch" my date and dance with my crush. i started feeling guilty about my feelings, so i shut them away, and just danced with my date. then, i ended up having to leave, because my ride was there. i was so devistated about not being able to dance with my crush, even if it was to a fast, upbeat song.

the best part of the bad was....my crush didn't have a date,(YAY) and he was looking at my the whole time i was slowdancing!!....man, i just wanted to kiss him!!

i guess what i need help on is....how do i get my crush to ask me out, becuase i think he's intereted, but at the same time, i don't think he is. !?!?!?!

thanks, and again, sorry this is so long (link)
ok youll never know unless you ask thats how me and my babby ended up together


okay so i hang out with a lot of guys. but i cant really help it. i just get along better with guys. girls start too much drama and i hate drama. so some girls at my school think im a whore and are startin rumors that im doin stuff with all the guys i hang out with and that im cheatin on my boyfriend. but thats so not true. these guys are like my brothers. i wouldn't do anything with them. and i would never cheat on my boyfriend! he means the world to me. and he understands that i have a lot of guy friends and he's okay with it. he knows i wouldn't do anything with any of them. but i dont want that kind of rumor about me to spread. i mean. everyone at school knows im not like that. and my boyfriend and all my friends were like dont worry about it, they are just jealous that all the guys talk to you and not them. but idk. what do you think? (link)
ok me living in a small town like i do i realy know what you mean but me being me i dont care about the rumos people spread about me so my advise is to whipe it off your shoulder and look up to you boyfreind and say i got a good 1 because mine would go bilistics and to everyone hattin say if im trippin tie my shoe if im to stuck up pull me down i bet you cant if you hate me thats good but you had to look to hate so obviously you wann perticipate

good luck....


is there anything i can find around my house to maybe get rid of my zits and make them stay gone!!
they keep coming back and more of them then i had before. I wash my face all the time to try and stop this insane stuff!
please if you have any idea how to stop them or get rid of the majority of them tell me!!
is there anything around my house?? (link)
i know this may sound weird but toothpaste but if you leave it on to long just keep it moist


im a 15 year old female.
so me and my boyfriend are taking a break after 9 months. he is one of those guys who knows exactly what he wants, and its me. he always says how he want us to get married, have kids, and all of that. and me being 15(he is 15 also) am not ready to decided who im going to marry and stuff. im ready to have fun! but, he is really sweet and so nice but i needed a break and some time to catch up with my friends that i havent been hanging out with in awhile. so now he keeps saying how he wants to get back together and it hasnt been a week yet and it is driving me crazy. i dont know what to do. he keeps acting like we are still together. and freaks out with i told him that "i dont like anyone yet." so now he is complaining about how he thinks im going to get with someone else and ah! what should i do? should i give in? ignore him? (link)
are you crazy he sounds like a great guy keep him becuse i lost somebody i realy love because of my silly games like you untill i couldnt get him back im ok and taken but i still love the other mann so think about what your doin


i have problems with getting my homework done on time and during class i find it realy hard to pay attention
because i dont really get anything the first time they explain it and well in highschool they say it once and never really go over it agian soo im having major problems do you know what i can do? (link)
think of listening in class like listening to music you might not like it u might just but give it some time

ps. you might have a.d.d attention depicit dissorder you should get that checked because i know i got it and more problems


ok well im a female im 5'6" and my weight is about 115.. does that make me underwieght or overweight or what? cuz personally i think im fat but my friends tell me im skinny i want to diet but im afraid i might become anerexic or somthing. Soo what do you think.
(sp?) (link)
i might only be 13 but listen i think gurls have ther own beauty and yours beleive it or not is your confadince so find it if you want 2 diet do like i did eat 1 good meal {meat,veggies and everything} 4 tha whole day you should see yourself balance out




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