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hai everyone.
I'm in my teens but very mature for my age.
i can help you in any way possible.
i absolutly love helping people.
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i feel like a lump

what do you guys *really* do each day? (not counting eating, showering, sleeping of course)

i hate when people ask me what i am up to because really, i don't do anything except like watch tv. and being at home during the summer while in college sucks bc no one else is around and its hard to get a job nowadays

a lot of people do that.
don't feel left out!
but there are websites to find somethin fun.

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I met this guy last semester and I developed a crush on him, but I thought he saw me as just a friend. We accidentally ran into eachother a few weeks ago, and got to talking and we both admitted to liking eachother the whole semester. We started "dating" and I found out he's looking for something serious and has become overly eager and wants to call/text all the time. I don't want a serious relationship but I like him and want to hang out. I told him that and he seemed to accept it but continues to act like I'm his girlfriend. How can I draw the line and get him to realize that he needs to backoff and relax? I admitted I'm a sort of a commitmentphobe, but he thinks he's seriously going to change my mind! (21/F)

just explain to him that you're not ready.
and if he doesnt stop, i suggest hanging out with him with friends. making it not seem as if you are going out.

ignore him a little?

i hope i helped(:

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are there degrees of horniness for guys or once they are erected, that means they are already turned on?

i dont thnk so!
once he's there; he's there!

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Junior in high school to be. 16f.

I met this guy in eighth grade and we became really good friends. We had a couple classes together. Unfortunately, when he told me he liked me the summer after eighth grade (I had liked him the first half of eighth grade whereas he liked me the second half), nothing came to be out of it since this other guy liked me at the same time, and I didn't want to hurt the other guy since he was my friend, as well. Although I don't regret making the decision that I did, I definitely have strong feelings for him again after two years; maybe it's better now than two summers ago since recently, we've discovered that we have a lot in common, and we connect better than we have ever before. We've hung out a few times this summer with our mutual friends. I leaned on his shoulder as we lay watching the fireworks on July 4th, and held onto his arm during a movie we watched together. The most memorable time with him was a couple days ago when we watched another movie, and I held onto his arm, just as I had before. In return, he put his hand on my knee. Slowly, though, he reached for my hand and interlocked fingers with me (I read online that that's a signal that he wants to be serious with you), and kept and smiling the whole time. He has complimented me before and helped me with troubles with another recent past crush (the getting over the last guy resparked my interest in this guy), saying that normal guys don't pass up girls as funny, smart, and attractive as I am. My worry is that he wouldn't ask me out again and waste time, especially since that awkwardness a few years back. I'm not ready to tell him I like him just yet, though. What do you think of the situation? Do you think anything will come to be out of it, or am I wasting my time just like on my last crush? I feel like I'm making it pretty obvious I'm interested without being pushy or forward, but is there something that I'm doing wrong or should be doing more / less of?

tell him!
you may regret it if you don't.
but whatever choice you choose.
all of this is fate!

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i have this rash type with a couple zits on it between my breast, i think it's from the heat and the sweat gets caught in there. i've tried to wear bigger bras and sports bras too but it doesn't help. is there any home remedies i can rub on it. i've heard tooth paste on pimples/zits but i still have the rash going on.

you could use corto.(cortozone)
it's like this cream.
i think it only gets rid of rashes tho.

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Hi all =) I'm kinda stuck with this guy that I really like. Usually I ask my friends for advice for this sort of stuff but they seem just as confused as I do =/ I'm sorry if this is long!

Basically I know this guy who I really like, I met him through a close friend a couple of months ago and we were just friends at first but we got close and he told my friend he liked me, and his friends told me that he had told them he liked me. So I told him I liked him and he said it back =)

anyway more to the point, lately we have just been talking and kissing, but he when I was at his house with his friends and we had been drinking, he will just go in a mood with me. I used to ignore it b/c he only does it when he's drunk and it doesn't last long. But since the last time I went to his house and he was a bit moody with me when he was drunk, he hasn't spoken to me properly. I have text him and he didn't reply so I left him to it as I gathered he was still in a mood. (His friends say he isn't in a mood with me, and that they don't understand him sometimes). So he text me days later and asked if I wanted to go to his house for some drinks but I couldn't b/c I was working that night. So I text him a day later and asked how he was, and he hasn't replied to me. Does this mean he doesn't like me? I'm so bad at telling whether guys like me, like the worst! I wish guys were simple, i'm sure you girls agree.

I'm sorry this was so long ha! What do you guys think I should do? Some people are telling me to walk away but it's easy to say that when you aren't involved. Thanx =)

well first off im not to sure you should go out with someone who drinks excessivly amounts of alcohol.

next thing is when your texting him i'm guessing he is drunk, and probably has a hangover the next day.

i suggest not going out with him.
he might like you, it's a big posibbility!
but i'd stay friends for now.

hope i helped(:

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Blessthefall
Hopes Die Last
Enter Shikari
Silverstein
The Number 12 Looks like You
Heavy Heavy Low Low
Greely Estates
Attack Attack
Oh, Sleeper
A Skylit Drive
Alesana
Emarosa
Eyes Set To Kill
Every Time I Die
Before Their Eyes
Pierce The Veil
The Devil Wears Prada
Bring Me The Horizon
A Bullet For Pretty Boy
Chiodos
A Day To Remember
Drop Dead, Gorgeous
Emery
Escape The Fate
The Fall Of Troy
Four Letter Lie
Lovehatehero
From Autumn To Ashes
From First To Last
Haste The Day
Hopesfall
I Am Ghost
In Fear And Faith
Inhale/Exhale
Norma Jean
Sky Eats Airplane
Senses Fail
Saosin
A Static Lullaby
Underoath
We Are The Ocean
With Broken Wings
Alexisonfire
As Cities Burn
The Bled
The Blackout
Scary Kids Scaring Kids

What good screamo/post-hardcore bands don't I have? Those are all the bands on my iPod.

Dance Gavin Dance.

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16.f

I have this wart on my hand and its been there for a few years but I just don't seem to know how to remove it..how do you remove warts?

duct tape, a subscription.
my doctor actually put this bug juice stuff on my warts.
it worked really well.
ask him/her about it!

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okay so a couple days ago in the uterus area when i peed not during urination but as soon as it was done it hurrt REAALLY bad. ive had a urintraction b4 and i told my mom wher it hurt and such she tole me to drink lots of water i have and the pain has gone down to a min. well now in the morning inside the vaginal hole its kinda itchy but it goes away. im peeing lesser but more. i do have sex but with one guy hes my boyfriend. so i dont know i wouldnt think he would be having sex with other girls but what do i know its possible but doesnt seam that way. we have only had unprotected sex like twice in a while but we have had it unprotected before and nothing. i looked down there and nothing seems to change so...

i agree with vanity fair.
get that checked out, and don't have it unprotected again.
do you really want to take care of a child when you're not ready?

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Well, one of my cousins always comes over to my house, especially during the summer. She's a college student, and she's almost twenty years old; I'm a couple years younger.

Anyways, she lives about 45 minutes away from me, and has a lake cabin a couple miles away from my house. Some days during the summer, she pops in unexpectedly, and walks in the house without knocking or anything.

Her and her brother are nearly the same age, and one time they came over to our house, and my mom ordered dinner. It ended up costing over $40 just for the 4 of us, and my mom and I barely got anything, while each of them ordered a pizza and onion rings. They left after they got done, didn't throw anything away or clean up after themselves, and didn't even say, "Thank you" for the meal!

It's just little things like this; they have no manners, and sometimes my cousin comes to my house with her duffel bag and spends the night without even asking! She just assumes we'll say, "Yes".

Then, we just had a garage sale, and she was selling some of her stuff, and she barely helped at all! She was on Facebook for most of the time we were out setting up for the sale, and one of my friends, who was barely selling anything, was working like a dog! AND WE DIDN'T EVEN ASK HER TO HELP!

My mom and I don't want to say anything because we don't want to create any tension in the family, but it's just getting to the point that something must be said.

Communication is not a very strong point in my family, however, when someone says something, we all take sides, and it just turns into nasty finger-pointing episodes...

What should I do?

ask her to knock before she walks in, and call when she's coming overnight.
let her know that you are uncomfortable with it.
hopefully she'll get the point!
talk to her when no one else is around.
and let her know it's nothing serious, it's just bothering you.

hope i helped(:

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Okay so I was/am pregnant, and yesterday me and my boyfriend has anal sex and he cummed inside of me. (I am not sure if the cum helps) But anyway, and now when I pee, its like tissue stuff. Like the color of tan tape, and when I look its like all in the bottom of the toilet and floating and everything. Is this a miscarriage or is it something because of the anal sex? Please help I am very concerned :(

go to a doctor!
that is not healthy and something bad may be happening.

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Me and my boyfriend have been together 7 months. I'm 15 and he's 16.
And you know them kinda like 'promise rings' guys would give to their girlfriends? Well, I was thinking I could get my boyfriend something similar for our 1 year (I know its quite far away but I do need to save up some money xD). So, I know he wouldn't wear a ring even if I got him one. So is there anything cute like a 'promise ring' I could get him?
He wears necklaces sometimes, he dresses kinda indie-ish I guess, skinny jeans etc. but apart from that he don't really wear jewelry. So I'm not sure what I could get that would go with his style..
Any suggestions?
Thanks :)

he could put the ring in a necklace and wear it?
that'd be nice!

http://promiseringsovernight.com/

there's a nice site.
check it out!
they're probably a ton of money tho.
look around in stores and what not(:
hope i helped(:

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I seriously want to be able to make my boyfriend go weak at the knees! i do a good job but i need variety to keep things fresh. anyone got any fun kinky games or tricks up their sleeve. i need stuff to make him dead horny.
Thanks mucho

HotAndSpicey14-x

well you could have your clothes on while humping?
i heard it's loads of fun.
and nothin bad will happen!

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16/f
i just lost my virginity to the boy ive been dating for 9 months. and he moved halfway across america the day after...... yea my life sux. but i was wonderin, do you feel when a guy cums onside of you? we wernt usin a condom n i think he cummed cuz at one point he started thrustin reali fast and hard then stopt and we stopt havin sex. thanks

ooo not smart.
you may have just gotten pregnant!
i suggest getting a pregnancy home test kit.
to make sure.

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Okay, so I am a leader for freshamn orientation for my school and basically i need to think of a theme for my group. I need something very creative but also kinda easy to find decorations for. It has to be PG rated to :)

Again i need it to be super creative

Thanks guys!!!

how bout DISCO!
or umm. rock and roll theme?
with guitars and drums and what not(:

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15/f

I dont know if anyone can answer this. I just dont understand why even though when I hang out with my friends I have a good time and laugh, but when I get home I still go into a depression. I start playing really sad songs and I try to cut myself and I just start bawling and freaking out.

My best friend, who I love more than anything in a friendship kind of way, just moved away about 3 weeks ago. Then the boy I was seeing decided to abruptly end our relationship for no good reason. Ever since then I've been feeling so lonely, like there's no one around I can talk to or relate to and I feel abandoned. Then I always feel guilty cause of done many things Im not proud of (drinking mostly) but its constant and i always feel like my dad can see me and is so disappointed in me (he died when I was three.) No matter how bad i feel though i cant stop drinking and no matter how sick it makes me feel.

I dont really know how this can be answered, but does anyone feel what Im going through? I just dont understand cause, really not to sound conceited, ive been told im very pretty and my mom makes a pretty good salary and when i think of how much worse some people have it i feel selfish for wanting to end my life sometimes but i cant help it i still feel like everything is just going so wrong.

Please help. Im sorry this is so long.

hmmm, you seem to have a VERY tough life.

you can get through it, if you ended your life you would make others want to end theres.
would you want that?

If i were you i'd call the suicide prevention line, they will help a ton for you.

try to convince your mom to go visit your best friend every once and awhile.

you'll make it through this rough patch.
you could turn out to be someone who helps teens deal with this!
and make a foundation?
you can do anything if you set your mind on it!(:

i hope i helped(:

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you really helped alott so i wanted to ask you.. ive done research just to make sure it was the same symptoms and the same coloring as everyone else and it was so thankyou for that! but since i had sex after the plan b pill does this mean i am safe from those times..i mean would i have gotten this is if i was pregnant? ( not from the plan b pill times after that ) justtt wondering if you could helpp. =] thanks!

i might not be the right one to answer this.
I suggest you look into seeing if your pregnant with a home pregnancy test.

i'm almost positive you're not pregnant.
but sometimes you can bleed after having sex to roughly.
sometimes if you're pregnant you get vaginal discharge.
i would look into it just in case.

i hope i helped(:

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i didnt know what category to putt this is on. i got my period on july 2nd and it lasted for about 4 days then today i got it again on july 14. i never got my period twice in one month. can it be anything else other then my period? is it weird or unhealthy that it happened since it never happened before? & if i had sex after my period finised around the 7th ish does this mean i am not pregnant? thanks guys! oh and i also took the plan b pill around the 9th i think can that be the reason? and if i had sex after that does this mean i am still not pregnant? sorry theres a lot of questions!

this has happened to me.
it's perfectly fine!(:

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"Last week I had the strangest dream" that my boyfriend broke up with me. Last night that dream became a reality. I reacted to it monotonously, because in a way I guess I expected it, but I'm still kind of in shock. I didn't beg him to stay with me I just told him to do what he felt was best. The reason he broke it off was that we haven't been seeing a lot of eachother. The last time I saw him was probably 2 weeks or more ago. Normally we would see eachother daily at school but not so much on the weekends because my parents don't really allow me to be alone with him and because they don't approve of us. He told me that he thought my parents would never change and that he didn't want to but that he felt it best to break up. Now I find myself not knowing what to do with myself and questioning my future. I want to be okay and I am confident that I will be but right now I just feel so lost. I never thought he would break up with me because he cares about me so much...I'm still in shock. And now I find myself questioning whether that was the real reason we broke up. What if he found someone else? I just don't know...And he says I'm still his best friend but I don't know how I'm supposed to face him. I've become so attached to him for many months and it just seems wrong for this to happen. I don't know what to do. Please someone help me.

this happened to my sister.
it's normal to feel like this.
she was depressed for some time, but her family would pick her up!
hang out with your girl friends.
they'll make you feel better.
i am sure this is fate.
things happen for a reason.
someone awesome will come along who won't care who your parents are.
they'll love you for you.
hope i helped!(:

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When i try to set up my voicemail on my phone all I hear is dial tone instead of a recorded messege telling me what to do. so what do i do?

this happened to me!
what i did was either you can look in the book that comes with your phone and how to set it up.
what i did was press the star key.
worked for me!
but i dont know if this will work for you!
i recommend calling a technician or someone.
you know those people in those offices that answer technical questions all day?
yeah one of those!

i don't know if i helped much...
hope i did(:

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