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Hey guys! I'm mallory...17/f from cali. I live with some friends in cali, and very often go to Tx to stay with my parents! anyway, if you need advice or w/e, just ask! =)



Ok, for the girls that need advice on their friendships- girls are and always will be bitches! lol...My best advice to you is...get guy friends! They are the best, they don't judge, they dont date your ex's...and theyre cute! =)


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My friends: I LOVE YOU!! i honestly dont know where I'd be in life without you all.

Hayleigh- I love u so much...You know I'm always here for you, and I'll be by your side (like all of our friends) helping you through this. =)


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If someone dares you to stick your hand in one of those ice despenser thing on the refridgerator/freezers and you happen to get your hand stuck in the ice machine.. what do you do??

lol..um call someone to help, and then get a life!! =D

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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on???

Well its a good thing to a certain point. After a while..a couple weeks or maybe even 1 week, it gets to be too much! We, well most of us, get bothered by it! With me, I can open my own doors...i dont need to be walked to my doorstep...and the guy paying for the ticket and dinner...well it's nice once in a while, but not all the time!! So, I guess it all really just depends on the girl! Cause I know that I'd rather a guy that wasn't "too nice" =)

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i know its early, but i already got my homecoming dress (GOOD sale) .. i dont know if i like it or not tho, im gonna decide today if i wanna keep it or return it. but one of the prblms is, it has a really low back that kinda like, laces up, but its open .. u know what i mean?? wat kind of bra can i wear with it .. its too low for a strapless one (but it would hafta be strapless) .. and the "backless" styles come like all the way down to your belly button and are kinda constricting, and i dont wanna be like that for homecoming .. so do you know of any other types that would hold up good for the whole night but still be comfy??
thanks TONS
xOxO*
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at victorias secret they have the backless bras...and they dont come all the way down to your bellybutton...they are exactly like a normal bra...just no straps or back! =)

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ok,i've been having these wierd dreams. ever since i heard the word "rape",i always dream about it. after i dream about me getting raped, i dream that me and my ex bf (who i still luv 2 death) are making out on a cloud. sry if i confused people. can you tell me what it might mean? pleez helpp! thanx

ppl dream about their fears...maybe thats what it is? and if you still love your ex, then thats why you dream about him!

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o ok so ya wat do u look for in a guy?

weeelll, a good personality, a reeeally good sense of humor...idk im not too picky...i just have to hang out with the guy and see what happens! =)

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i am a 17yr old virgan is that bad? do girls like that? and dose it hurt a relationship?

no its not bad!! most girls would probably like that...it just depends on the girl! and no...it probably brings more trust and closeness into the relationship

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My boyfriend and I have done almost everything there is to do...What else can I do to him or what else can we try to keep ourselves "occupied" haha! I love trying new things! Help Me!!

get a kama sutra book

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I'm 15, and I'm a 32D/DD. I wear a pant size 3 tho. I'm not FAT. I need to know if anyone knows any good stores for swim suits! I have a problem where I can never find a good suit because either the top is too small or the bottoms are too big. I like it when they sell them seperately. A lot of stores dont sell Xlarge tops too. I NEED HELP

easy fix: switch them out...take the right size top and put it with the right size bottom...then put the 2 sizes you didnt need and put those together...be sneaky =)

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Ok, Well, my boyfriend is 19 years old and he*s in the military..I*m still in highschool..we write letters to each other often and i think about him every single day, but most of my friends say that i should break up with him, I really love him, but he's going to be gone so long! I have 2 years left of highschool, and if I stay with him that means i have to be faithful for 2 years! I dunno what i should do...

I hope you can help..xox

sux...but if you really love him...being faitful to him will be simple!! But, if youre not sure that you can be faithful, then maybe you need to break things off cause thats not fair to him! When he comes home, you guys could always get back together...so i'd say keep in touch!! =)

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My friend Cecely smell`z reallyy bad ---ยป realllyyyyyyyy bad - and i want to tell her to take a shower so badly.. but i feel if i tell her .. she will get mad. please help! PLEASE

haha.. You can buy her some perfume...or like a shower basket thing...with soaps n stuff!! or if you don't have money to buy her something then bring some of your own perfume and spray it on her!! =)

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every times i wear a shirt you see on my sides sticking out.. any moves wrok on abs??
i am like 4.11
wight105

run...and do crunches! also watch what you eat....

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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE?

most of the time it's true...but i guess it just depends on if the person really has changed..

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HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =)

run!! it doesnt seem like it'd work...but it does!! and cut back on sugar..

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okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!!

I would talk to your mom about it!! you can always give her a chance though...it was a long time ago...

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hey. i have no friends becuz my x best friend got the whole elementry school on me becuz i talked to her boyfriend on the phone becuz i asked him wut the homework was. i have no life. wut should i do?

whoa..how old are you? Anyway..youre ex friend is being stupid, does she know that you only called him to see what the homework was?? Tell her to fight her own battles, instead of getting other ppl involved!! shes immature, and so is everyone else if they are following her! eh but its elementary school...everyone will get over it soon!

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hey well i think you should all read this..just think before you act.

....before you make that first cut remember. You will enjoy this. You will find the blood and pain release addictive. Even though you think you can make a few tiny cuts that aren't deep and will heal easily ...they will get deeper. They will scar. They will take sometimes months to heal!!! And years for the scars to fade! IF you think you can limit the cutting to one area of your body think again...it will spread when you run out of skin. Be prepared to withdraw from others and live in a constant state of shame. Even if you are the most honest person ever to live ....you will find yourself lying to the people you love. You will jerk back from your friends when they touch you as if their hands were dipped in poison. You will be terrified that they will feel something under the cloth of your shirt or because it just plain hurts so much to be touched.
Be prepared to get so out of control you fear your next cut because you don't know how bad it will be. Just wait for 10 cuts to turn into 100....Be prepared for your entire life to revolve around thinking about cutting ..cutting and covering up cutting And just wait till that first time you cut "too deep." And you freak out because the blood won't stop...and you are gaping....and you feel yourself shaking all over. You are having a panic attack and you are terrified but you can't tell anyone. So you sit there alone...praying it will be ok swearing you'll never let it go this far again...But you will and further. Don't worry, you will learn how to take care of your cuts so that you can go deeper and deeper and avoid the ER. And the better you get at treating your cuts the deeper they get.
You will lie to yourself and justify it when you find youself spending 20 , 30 or 50 dollars every time you go the pharmacy. You will feel the flutter of your heartbeat everytime you go to the counter to ring up your order. Butterfly strips...3 or four different kinds of dressings...betadine....antibiotic cream..medical tape..scar reducers.....You will tap your foot impatiently hoping the line will just move and no one will stare at you or wonder why you need all these things. And at the same time secretly hope someone will notice...someone who is standing in line with an armful of the same supplies...someone who understands but of course that never happens.
Medical supplies won't be the only thing you spend all your money on. Be prepared to buy a new wardrobe...longsleeve shirts in summer colors, bracelets, wristbands , boots... gloves..the list goes on and on.
You will start looking at everyone in a differnent way...Scanning their bodies for any signs of Self Injury... just hoping that you might meet someone like you so you don't feel so terribly alone. You wont even think about it ..as your eyes scan their wrists arms...hoping just hoping they will be like you....But they are not. You will see their clean arms and feel terribly ashamed and alone.
You will start doing a lot of things alone. You will always have to wash your laundry in private so know one sees the blood stains on your clothes and towels. You will always be cleaning up the blood..Scrubbing your bathroom floor...wiping the blood of your keyboard....
You won't be able to make it through a day without cutting....Next thing you know you are in a public bathroom somewhere breaking open a scab with a sewing needle that you keep in your wallet for emergancies. When you get really desperate anything will be a cutting tool ...scissors...a car key...a needle ... a paperclip..even a pen. Doesn't matter what it is if you need to cut bad enough you will find something.
Say goodbye to things you took for granted. Like wearing shorts or sandals...pedicures...sleeveless tops.
A normal summer day at the beach or in a swimming pool will become a far off memory for you.
Get ready to itch. Beacuase you will itch and itch ..."so much you will look like you have fleas or a skin disease."
You will become an expert on your body as you destroy it carefully.. You will dream about cutting...you will dream about being exposed. It will haunt you day and night and take over your life. You will wish you never made that first cut because while you absolutely HATE cutting...at the same time you love it and can not live with out of it.

wow.. :-/

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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?

Yep..if you wear a condom you wont get pregnant unlessss it breaks!

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i like this guy and he gave me his phone number. but i am too nervous to call him cause i LIKE HIM ALOT! now my friend and i were looking at the number and now we both think that this number is a fake. it just doesnt look like a home phone number or even a cell. and this guy is the kind to play pranks on everyone. u see he wrote this in everyones year book. and i think it isnt a real number. so should we call it? or just leave it alone. it is really bothering us. it racks our brains. !!!
thxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

call it...and if its a fake number...all you can do is hang up! if it is fake..he's a JERK!

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ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!!

i bet you have more experience with that stuff than those girls! dont let them intimidate you...they like it! and if theyre rude to you, i bet its jealousy!! buuut...i say go for it and goodluck! =D

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How do i lose weight on my legs and not my other body parts? I will rate ya'll!

run!! you can like jog in the morning and just before it gets dark...

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