Hey...I don't really think you can help much with this, but I'm curious to see what you think of it all. This is probably gonna be long. Sorry.
Okay. My boyfriend and I are really close in every way. We love each other completely, and we're technically engaged. The only thing is...he'd told me he was staying here for college, but then he went on a trip with his family to see the rest of their family this break, and all of a sudden decided he wants to go there for college. That would be a four year separation, maybe more, and I don't know how to handle it. He went away this summer for 2 months and it, like, killed me. I can't imagine not seeing him for a year. We're not going to break up or anything, and I'm not going to try to make him stay (though I'd like to) because he'd resent me, I'm sure, if I did. I don't want to make him stay here for me, but he's planning to go to tech school. Can't he just stay here? I would go with him, but there are absolutely no good vocal programs where he's planning to go, and I already got accepted into a college here that does. (I'm doing vocal performance as my major).
Anyway...I don't know what to do. I almost don't want to talk to him about it because I'll end up crying and making him feel bad, then feeling bad about making him feel bad. Lol. Plus, I hate for him to see me cry.
So...anything to say?
you can take a trip every two weeks or whatever and go visit him! and if he really loves you, he wont do anything with another girl..plus if he does..ill beat his ass! lol
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is it weird to discharge when someones touching u sexually, like my boyfriend touches the insides of my legs and rubs my legs and stuff, is that weird because im not turned on or honrney or anything? is that normal? is there anything i can do to change it?
i dont think its wierd, i just think its you. Like its okay, cause girls do different things when guys touch you sexually. I mean, I dont think you can change it..i just think you like it so much and you cant control it so you discharge..but i dont think its anything to fret about! have fun with you boy toy ;D
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Ok thre is this guy that i like but he is 18 know and i am 15. And i just found out that his girlfriend is prenget and i like him really bad. but i have know him for since i was little cause he and my uncle were good friends. We use to party together but that was the old days. And i don't know if i should tell him bow i fell. But i hope some one can help me. Michy
uhm, i dont know if you should tell him becausse he has a baby on the way..(if it is his) but anyways..if he loves his girlfriend and you tell him, the girlfriend might bitch at you and i dont think you wanna start anything. UHm but im in a similiar situation..im 15 and i like and 18 yr old who has a g.f but shes not pregnant and i just dont know what to do but if you wanna tlk more..just iM me on my sn HIXIMCHRISTINE..ill hellp you a whole lot!
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP!
you can be like..bitches back off, i cant help it that i get to shit faster than yoU! and i cant help it that i get more action than your ugly asses! ahah i know its funny but it will work..cause people call me names..and i say shit like that and they totally back off !
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My BFF krystal ebel died in a TRAGIC car accident how should i handle it!?
aww babe im sooooo sorrry for you! Its hard losing someone..i mean you should really talk to a counselor or a parent about how you feel. I mean its okay to cry at night or anytime ..if you do cry. Keep a journal or something. My uncle died and when that happened i didnt know what to feel, think or do..i mean my mom was sad and she cries but i didnt really know him that great but i still felt wicked shitty cause he was my uncle and i dont really think there IS an easy way to handle this..you just have to live life to the fullest and keep your head up and while keep thinking about your best friend..jsut have fun, i know its hard to do something when your so sad but jsut try..IM SOO SORRYY!!! =[
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Ok, I like someone and they are a senior in high school. I know that we will never be together, but I can't help getting that funny feeling in my stomach whenever I am around them. Whenever they talk to me I feel like I am on top of the world. I don't want that feeling to go away. When I see them with someone else, I get jealous and I don't like being like that. What should I do?
you should deff. tell him/her how you feel..i mean whats the worst he/she can say? I mean if they didnt wanna be around you or liked you..they wouldnt be there in the 1st place. so give it a try!
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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
what should I do?
give her time, if she doesnt come up to you and tells you about these feelings or drops little hints that she wants to be with you in a few weeks then id say go for it! Walk right up to her, confront her about liken her and still having feelings and maybe then she will say the same if she really likes you. and if she just says she wants to be friends then respect that! hope i helped!
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i have little acne break outs from time to time, and i was wondering if any one knew anything over the counter to use to get rid of it and some of the scars from it? i will rate 5's~!
nutragena acne cream works great! just keep washing that face of yours and you'll be more beautiful than you already are!
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I am a 15/female and am redoing my bedroom (besides my furniture.) The furniture I currently have is like a beige color. My carpet is also beige and my walls are bare and white. My room is fairly large. Right now the design is like roses, but not cute ones, like old lady roses. I want to make the room more teenagerish, less my parents designing it when I was in second grade. Please, any ideas for my room or if you are a teenage girl, could you tell me what your room is like. All advice would be enjoyed! Thank you!!
well, making your room something that you will enjoy is sometimes hard to do. i mean my room, i want to remodel also cause besides being fun to do..i also want to make it more me. well, you can get like pretty colors for your wall,hang posters up&just make it something that relates to your personality. i mean your personality must be great so make it great just like yoU! Uhm well my room has mostly dolphins and shit..like cause my fav. animal is dolphins so im in love with em lol but make it homey, ask your friends to help you ..get some perspective! Just have fun while doing it..make it a friend project! =] hope i helped!
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I wanna get my nose pierced, i haven't asked my mom yet, but when i was 14 she said i could get it done at 15 and im 16 now. so she'll def. say yes. we're not allowed piercings you can see, besides your ears.. but there are a few kids in my school that have their noses pierced, because their like dating the principals sons and stuff, i don't think that should be allowed, its like their getting special treatment or something, right?
yes, they are totally getting special treatment. but you know what, if i was you..i would get my nose peirced, not because its what those girls are doing, its because i would wanna stand out from everybody else, i mean even if i wasnt dating the son or whatever id still get it done cause it doesnt hurt anyone or anything. so deff. get the nose peirced and if anyone says anything about it or you get in trouble..just bring up the girls that are dating the sons of the principal and tell them its not fair that they get special treatment and see what happens..be a bad girl ;D ..i would lol
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How can I rate someone? Please help me.
if you ask a question and then you get feedback from that question..it says rate this column..1-5 and thats how you rate!
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Hi i was the person thats 13 and is a female and in a long distance relationship.I really love him and I want this 2 work but I am only in 7th grade and I know what real love is and I think he is the one and I talk 2 him everynite on tha phone and stuff like that but if i talk 2 him like I dont think I am ready for all this do u think he will wait 4 me????? I dont want 2 hurt him at all. I really dont. What do I do??
hun, i think he will wait for you, if he feels the same about you as you do about him. but he is in a different town or something and he is older..so maybe he'll find someone new, not to say he will, i mean guys suck, and i know cause guys always break my heart but your only in 7th grade and you have your whole life infront of you, i mean i know you think you might love him but just wait..see what happens and understand him if he breaks up with you.. i mean i bet you'll still stay friends..and always ask me questions if you needa know something more
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ok tomorro night my dad and i are going out for a steak dinner and maybe some shopping. My friend tutored me for free a few times, which was really nice of her. My mom suggested me taking her tomorro.. my dad said he didnt mind even though he did mention he'd rather it be just the two of us. What should i choose to do?
even though your friend has been very nice to tutor you for free..i think its still very important that you spend time with your dad,i mean i think your dads feelings might be hurt. I think if i was you.. i would take my dad out for this steak dinner and then reward my tutor friend with something else. hope i helped =)
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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused
hun, i dont think he'll hate you if you dump him. Just say it in a nice way that he will understand..sit him down, call him on the phone but be nice about it. Say like "(boys name),I dont really feel like this relationship is going anywhere, i feel like we are at a standstill. I dont want things to change with you,or you to hate me but i cant be in this relationship anymore..i love you like a friend but nothing more, but i hope you understand! Im sorry" ..then the boy woould probably say something like "I understand, i still wanna be friends,& chill with you,just as friends ..you know" and your problem will be solved! =) hope i helped..rate!
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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!!
omg babe, deff. confront him! lying never solves anything, i mean maybe hes mad at you for something or maybe hes shy to tell you the truth but whatever it is..confront him, it will be better than what you thinK!
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i have a huge zit in between my eyes....is there anything i can do or put on it to make it go away really quick?!?!...like in a day?!?!...thanks so much!!!
well, if it doesnt go away for awhile..put on some cover up everyday if your embarressed but if uu put it on ..you have to wash your face before you go to bed everynight! All you really have to do is wash your face and sooner or later it will go away. are you sure its not a mole? i dont think it is but just maken sure!
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How do you get over a hangover?
dude, ive had a hangover before and it was bad ..i had the worst headache ever but all you have to do is rest and take advil. or you can take these tablet things that i see on commercials..i forget what they are called but i heardd they work wonders
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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!
hun, no relationships last forever when you are this young, i mean people still get divorced today. Talk to him..see whats up..see how things go and if you think he is the one, which you probably cant tell cause your only 13 and you will get so many more boyfriends in the future..just keep your head up and have fun with him while it does last
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tomorrow is my birthday but im not having a party cuz my parents r strict like that. family is coming over n stuff but see i havent talked to my best friend alice since the day before yesterday. i mean she knows its my b day tomorrow but idk if shes gonna come. should i invite her ne way? but i mean what would we do? its gonna be really gay ..please help. i rate even for effort. and i haven't even called her today, i dont know how to bring it up. ok thanks in advance! =)
hey babe, you should deffiantely invite her! I mean if she is your best friend and you truely want her there..then invite her! I mean its not like shes gonna say anything. Invite her, shes comes,she has a blast, you have a blast, you eat cake, try to stay away from family cause they are always a bore..but be nice, open presents and just have fun! Hope i helped babe
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i like my boyfriends best friend. what do i do?
hun, if you wanna be with the other friend without hurting your boyfriend all you have to do is simpley talk to your boy! i mean dont you think he would just want you to be happy? i mean you might be happy with your boyfriend now but you like the friend so go for it!
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