i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
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Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
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How much will it take for my cherry to pop? becuase im not even sure that i have one becuase when i masturbate and finger my self i can stick it super far up and nothing pops?
Do i just not even have one? (link)
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i wouldnt refer to it as a cherry .its called a hymen a thin layer of skin located in the fornt of your vagina not everybody is born with one and it can breaks at anytime you probably broke it already if you were born with one tampon,faling of a bike can cause the hymen to be broken.
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14 Female. I Started My Period When I Was 11. It was Normal Until Last Year. I didnt Get My Period From June Untill October! Then It Was Normal Again All The Way Untill May. I Didnt Get It Till The Begining Of September. I Havent Started Again And Its October!Is It Normal??? I Mean Ive Already Heard From My Doctor It Is!! But Does This Only Happen To Me?? Or Does It Happen To Other People Too. Also is There Such Thing As A Pre-period Because My Cousin Says She Had A Pre-period Because She Hasnt Had HEr Period IN LIke Forever And She Started When She Was 12 And Is Now 14! Thanks For Ur Answers In Advance! (link)
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your perfectly fine having your period can be very confusing .change of diet or execises can affect your period pretty much anything one of my friends got her period at the same age as you shes 16 now she gets her period every 3months.i had my period at 13 once and only once came back at 15 its still not regular.dont worry about it your going to be fine wish you luck.
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okk soo theres this boy I like.....but all my friends say hes too bad for you and all this crap and he doesnt deserve you and stuff....and he likes me 2.....what should I dooo???
Help....Plz,
Kateyy (link)
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first ask yourself do i like him if yes why should you care what other people think cause your the one thats going to be dating him.(they might be jealous you never know)go after what you want not what others want.good luck
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First off, don't tell me how it was a stupid thing to do because I already know that ok?
So here's what happened, my boyfriend & I had sex for the first time 9 days ago.
I'm on the pill, and have been for 5 months.
He wore a condom, but the thing is, he kind of put it on inside out but then fixed it.
I last took my pill sunday night at 9pm. It is now tuesday afternoon, and um there's nothing like a period.
um. am I actually pregnant?
ps. I started the pill to regulate my period.
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there might be a possibilty but as for now you cant really tell.symptoms starts within 2 weeks after 7 days you can take a pregnantcy test.i hope you learned something from what happened.good luck
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umm well i touched my bfs penis today, it was through his boxers today, and i umm like think it was a handjob but im not sure.
clarifications?
like what would i have to do to make it be one.. (link)
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are you sure your ready to be doing that anyways just so you know it might leads to other things .be very careful with your decisions i mean you dont even know what a handjob is i dont think your ready.but im going to tell you anyways cause that why im here for sorry for the lecture..you hold his penis at the base and go up and down thats about it.
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Well I was diagnosed with breast cancer and have started treatments and, the treatments take a lot of energy out of me and i just dont feel the same, my fiancee is horny almost everynight i can say babe im tired i just want to go to bed but then as soon as we go to bed he starts trying things, I feel bad telling him no, so I give in.... Its early in my treatment but Im losing sexual intrest Im not turned on as easily either, how can I get him to calm down and realize that I really need sleep, or am I being selfish? (link)
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your dealing with a very serious sickness so i would explain to him why im not that interested in sex anymore .i hope he understands cause someone who truly loves you would..i wish you the best of luck with everything keep hope alive..
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18/f. I just called my boyfriend because I am freaking out about school work and I need some support. And he sends me to voicemail! I get a text from him five minutes later telling me that he will give me a call later because he is hanging out with his friend Jenny. Wtf?! Couldn't he have at least answered the phone and tell me that instead of ignoring it?! Would any of you like that? Am I making too much out of this? (link)
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hun.. slow down you do not need to be stressing more than your already are.your right you do not deserve what he did .and im sure he doesnt deserve you too.but i would have a talk with him about why his acting that way and remember to ask him who the fuck is jenny.when talking to him be calm till he proves his point yelling and screaming will not help.good luck
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it was my first tiem doing it and it hurt so much that he couldnt even out it in all the way and i hada make him stop. will it hurt that much again? idk. just emphasize on the topic if you wish. idk what to expect. (link)
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you guys should try foreplay before having sex have him finger you first or oral sex touch each other .or you could use lube(k-Y jelly is a good one)use a condom of course tell him to take it slow.good luck hope it gets better.
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15 M/ ok well i'm kinda scared cause i've been waking up from a dead sleep and i'm ready to fight like i've made countless holes in my wall from just waking up and as soon as i wake up i'm swinging (and well i'm kinda sick of having to fix the walls) i haven't talked to my mom or dad about it cause they will just think i'm you know a "teenager" and i'm wanting to punch holes in the wall cause i'm mad but when i first wake up it's like i have to fight something off it's like i HAVE to in like risck of my life or something? and i have cold sweats and when i try to remember what i was fighing or doing in my dreams i just go blank i can't remember anything now i don't know if i'm going insane or what all i know is i need some advice on it. thanks (link)
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your not going insane but there is something wrong with you (maybe something has been bothering you emotionally)you should give your parents a try look serious when your telling them this maybe they might have a better idea on what to do .seeing a doctor would be one of the best ideas dont let this go on .
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idk why but these past months i have really wanted to feel loved, im really confused why....because before that i was always like 'you dont need a guy to complete you' and 'i am too busy for guys' but like when guys give me attention and ask me out and stuff they irritate me after not long. anyone know why i feel like this???? and what i can do to prevent feeling like this??? and also its wierd one day i feel like this the next day i dont :S (link)
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i've been in a similar situation your right about not needed a guy to make you happy you have to make yourself happy first. you should hang out with your family and friends more they love you no matter what.good luck
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ok so my problem is that my vagina has a really weird smell and i thought i might have an infection or something so i went to the doctors and she told me that i didnt have an infection, but she did say that sometimes your diet can effect the way it smells and i was just woundering does anybody no how i can change my diet to make it smell better down there cuz i really want to fix it, last time i was with my boyfriend he was going to finger me but i wouldnt let him because of the smell, please help (link)
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i might not be understanding you right but every vagina has a weired smell its what attracts man they love it.if i were you i would drink more water and eat fruits hope that helped good luck..
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That last one was for the bestfriend, but I honestly don't know what to do. So my bestfriend and I like the same guy, not to be concieted, but I think he like's me more. Age is just a number, but he's two years older. He's way way way more expierienced, and he flirt's with me face to face, but when we're talking online, it's like, ugh! But when he flirt's with me to my face, he always does the same thing with my bestfriend, who's always there. And if it's just me and him joking around, she join's in. Lately, i've been daydreaming about him too, I feel like a pathetic fool ): And i have a problem with always putting other's first, HELP! please (link)
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not to be mean but he sounds like a player trying to play both of you girls.becuase if he likes you why is he flirting with your friend.i would question him on his ways i honestly ,hope you dont fall for this guy because it doesnt sound like his worth it .good luck
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So, my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 years on and off. (btw im 17 adn hes 18) so weve known each other forever, and its not like weve dated other people, because we have, we just alwasy wound up together..we even stopped talking for a whole year..
I love him very much, and we hang out everyday which i love, but it seems like thimgs in our relationship have become boring..and i dont wanna let him go, i care about him wayyy too much, so i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions, like how do married people do it and stuff? just i wanna liven things up, both in bed and out of bed, but out of bed prefferably.
k.thx. (link)
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i would say to just see him a little less than usual and to not have sex alot cause that makes it boring or you could learn new moves .but when you guys do hang out go somewhere that you both enjoy somewhere new.good luck
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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=551688
Do you believe in human pheromones? Coz this lady i was talking about definitely got this scent that arouses me sexually. Is there such a thing? What should i do, stay away from her? We actually work in the same small room. (link)
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i've never heard that before but i believe theres such thing .maybe its the smell of her vagina or maybe it could be her body odor that attracts you to her.see im not going to tell you to stay away from her because thats going to be like starving yourself your mind is going to want her around.if you want her in like a relationship i would pursue her but if its only for the sex i would also pursue her but, i would let her know from the start.wish you the best of luck..
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My brother is 18 years old and works at the same place as i do. (I'm 16). Long story, very short, he and his friends easily steal money. My bosses have no clue, have no cameras, and are not very on the ball. I'm talking grand theft. He's stolen approximately 5,000 dollars I'd say. It's extremely horrible. I've SEEN him steal some money, and I've heard from a couple of his friends that he confides in tell me that he does this. My brother is basically a straight A, seemingly nice kid, and my parents are too stupid to piece together that he's a thief. He bought half of a 15, 000 dollar car, and my parents thought nothing of it. They were pleased with his "savings and hard work ethic". I work the same damn job as he does and I've saved up maybe 1500 dollars, if that. My grandma asked me how he got such a nice car, and I was THIS close from telling her about everything. I don't know what to do. (link)
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you should of told your grandma that was your chance your bro will go to jail if anybody finds out and someone will find out eventually, stop this before he gets caught tell a family mamber that you can trust grandma,mother,sis, someone do not let this go on.good luck
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Is there a way to break your hymen yourself? Like I have tried fingering and everything and never felt anything unusual or bled, but i don't know... maybe it's already broken? I mean I heard that tampons can stretch it and I do wear tampons mostly but I can't tell. I just thought that would make it alot less painful when you have sex for the first time? haha I have no clue...
16/f by the way (link)
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not everybody was born with a hymen you probably broke it as a kid horseback riding or maybe when you fell off your bike a tampon can definitely break one. not having one means you wont bleed the first time you have sex sometimes it doesnt break the first time you have sex .having one does not means its going to be painful the first time .hope i helped you good luck
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can u get any sexual diseases from masterbating cuz ive been doing it lately and ive notice a bump and some white dots and ive never had sex before (link)
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its probably nothing because you cannot get any diseases from masterbation give your private a break without touching it and see if it continues if it does tell your parents to take you to the doctors good luck.
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I'm male, single(never had a girlfriend before!), and 22! I speak English though I'm not from the US. We are a Catholic nation.
I have this officemate/friend of mine whom i am attracted to. She's pretty, witty, friendly, and kind. But it bothers me if i really like her for who she is because i find her noisy and sometimes i think i can't relate to her(she's full of positivity and jolliness while i am more of a serious- and silent-type of person).
However, i can't stop thinking of her. And it bothers me that when i think of her, its always about sex. It makes me wonder if i really like her or i just think of her as a sex object.
And yet, we are catholics; and she is a very devoted one. Thus, if i only like her for sex, then i won't be able to have sex with her coz the Catholic point of view of sex is that it is done after marriage; and she sticks to our religious principles.
I have actually courted her before, but stopped because of some issues like me being jealous (this is another topic/issue of which i believe i am overcoming now).
Do you think things will work out for us if i court her again? I am so attracted to her (though i don't know if my reason for attraction is right). Should i stop this? Thanks!
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i do not find you weird in any way because its your life and im not going to judge you.i believe that you just explained lust to me well when you actually like someone you have to have at least one reason why you want to be with that person besides sex.i know you find her attractive but sometimes looks arent everything . once the relationship starts you got to be able to look past that .a devoted man like you should look for a woman thats smart pretty fun to be around just someone that makes you happy everywhere possible.your checking out the wrong ladie go for someone you wouldnt normally go for .good luck hope i helped you in any kind of ways.
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ok. so ive had sex twice. two different guys. but ive never had an orgasm..ive heard its not too uncommon because sometimes girls masturbate and give themselves orgasms but ive masturbated and ill get so close like ill get this amazing feeling but nothing happens.
any tips on masterbating or having an orgasm?
thank you (link)
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okay i dont know if this will work for you cause it always work for me take one finger and rub over your clit in circle motion.at the same time think dirty thoughts or if you comfortable with watching porn then i would do that.good luck
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Okay so I like this one guy. We'll call him Bob.
My bestfriend, We'll call her Sally likes him too.
Bob has liked Sally for a week or so now and my bestfriend Sally has a boyfriend. She doesn't liker her boyfriend and is going to dump him today or tomorrow to go out with Bob.
I don't want to tell Sally I lik Bob because Bob likes her, Sally likes Bob and I don't want to screw anything up. Should I just wait until they break up or do I say something?
Bob is also a year older and I don't want to look like a fool.
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i would say something to her but,if bob likes her dont you think your wasting you time.
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