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A few months back, a boy from my college started talking to me on facebook. He asked my friend for my name and starting making regular conversations with me being quite flirty and complimenting my looks. He never takes his eyes off me and notices my every move. I went to a party about a month after which he also attended, i ended up having sex with him and spending the whole night together. Ever since this happened, he just gets really shy when he sees me. When we talk, we cant look eachother in the eye, he goes shy but seems like he doesnt want to leave. He only makes eye contact with me if hes far away and when he does he will stare in my face for absoloutely ages until he gets closer he'll go red and look away. Are these signs? Does he like me? i like him alot and im really curious about whether he likes me too. Please help :(
yes he likes you silly:) get it girl.
I'm 15. And I hate pads. My stepmom and I don't get along and I live with my dad so that is kind of awkward to talk to him.. what do I do?
I think 15 is old enough to start using tampons.
If I were you, I would just go to the local CVS/Riteaid/Walgreens whatever's near you and buy a box, rather than ask. But that's just me personally, if you do want to talk to them I'd go with the step mom because think about it..dad's aren't KNOWLEDGEABLE in that area so it's not like he's got pointers haha you know?
sometimes i love the way i look and sometimes i feel disgusting. whats wrong with me?
Are you a girl?
lol bc if yes, nothing is wrong with you.
Everyone has their moments when they're like "I shouldn't be allowed in public"...we've all been there
11/f
Can you have a baby if you did masturbation once? Like, will u get preggo? Please help! I think i accidentliy did it in my sleep!:( im scared!!
no lol your too young for this site.
I'm 13 but I have big plans for when I get older. In order to live my dreams I'll need quite a bit of money though. I will be able to have a job when I get old enough so I can get a job but are there other things I could do? Online money making sites have never worked for me, they are too time consuming and jobs around the neighborhood won't work. I don't have any money right now and most likely won't till I start working. I will be going to college so that's more time to earn money but right after college, I want to start building my dreams. Could I buy land that has stores and stuff on it like Donald Trump did? Is it hard to manage? Please and thanks! :D
Not everyone's cut out to be Donald Trump, but if you have great ideas, great dreams, follow them. Always follow your dreams.
BUT, for a 13 YEAR OLD!!, I would say your best bet it babysitting, petsitting, housesitting. Once you get into real jobs, you get about 1/3 of each paycheck taken out in taxes! It sucks. Those are the best and easiest ways to earn money!
Good luck with your ideas & dream big:) xx
How can my friend develop social skills when shes very shy and wants to make more friends? Any advice welcome :)
Go to a bar and meet new people. If it goes badly..hey, you'll never see them again:) It's a good, relaxed environment to practice social skills
So, within the last few months ive developed 2 new weird habits that make no sense. I peel off the nail polish on my fingers, as a nervous habit. And i dont know why. If i get started i end up pealing off all of the nail polish on all of my fingers.. no idea why. and the weirdest one is pulling out eyelashes D: not a lot, just like one.. or a few? idk. but sometimes, you get sore eyelashes? and they try to go in your eye and stuff..well when i find those i usually pull the eyelash out so it doesnt bother me anymore. so i find myself finding an eyelash thats bothering me..and pull it out. weird. and idk why.
how can i stop myself from doing these things?
ughh just stop..those are super unattractive habits...
It's called WILLPOWER, and that's the only way to stop. It's a personality trait, I would work towards become a being with that beneficial trait.
19/f
I am just about finishing my first year of college :) I have done a lot of research about what I am interested in and I have come to the conclusion that I would like to work in the medical field for the rest of my future. I've tried narrowing the subject down and have come to a few results- either a medical technician/technologist or a medical scientist. Basically, I would love to work in a hospital/doctors office and work in the laboratory doing research and analyzing things such as cells, body fluids and such. I would also love to come up with research and experiments in order to find new cures or enhance current ones (aka the medical scientist career).
Now i'm having trouble knowing what to major in and going deeper in the future, what kinds of degrees and grad schools I would need. I talked to my advisor and she said that I could double major in my universities health sciences major and a chemistry major. If I did that, then what do you recommend I do? I did research for a medical technician career and it recommends that most medical technicians have a bachelor's degree. Is that better or worse than a master's degree? Would I need to go to medical (grad) school for that? If I didn't, what type of grad school would I have to go into?
I think my main dilemma is that a medical technician is a cross between medicine and science (chemistry in my case) so I'm having trouble deciding what to major in.. chemistry or medicine??
-confused haha
Hey- I am super knowledgeable in the health field because I want to go to med school (20, colleg). Having said this, I know that medical technicians for the most part do not make a lot of money...they make about $30-40,000/year. That's not a lot if you have college loans after you graduate.
Now, if you are NOT going to have loans and it's going to be something you'll love, then DO IT. However, you may need to consider financial criteria. If money is not an issue, let me know in the feedback, or drop by a question in my inbox!
I know it's nuts thinking about the future, and two huge things to consider: do what you love & make a SOLID living for yourself. You must be able to support yourself.
I’m finding myself becoming crazy about this guy who can do way better than me. I'm in a major where the environment has a lot more gay guys and girls than straight guys. I've never had a boyfriend. I'm about 20 lbs. overweight, very top heavy and I hate it. I guess I could be pretty if I lost some of that weight (plan on doing so this summer.)
The thing is, finding a boyfriend just for the sake of having one is not really a big priority. Lately, though I realize I’ve been deprived of any kind of intimacy my whole life. Now that I actually like this guy, I can't stop thinking about him. It takes a lot for me to like someone. I'm very inexperienced and shy with boys. And no, I really don't care that much about looks. I've only had true feelings for a few guys in my life, but it's always been the same situation. I always fall for the guy who is semi-handsome (never a hottie), REALLY nice, really friendly, and really funny. He's always a friend, sort of in the same circle but I've never been ridiculously close with any of them.
I fall into the trap of thinking that he likes me because he's nice and flirts with me. The problem is that said guy does this with everyone, not just me, and then I have delusions of grandeur about us being together one day.
It's really hard for me to meet straight guys. No one ever even approaches me. It's not even that I want someone so bad, it's that now I'm really falling for this particular person. This sounds really petty, but I know that if we had a "thing" it would be the talk of the town and I’d get so much positive attention. I just wish I could be in one of those situations, the center of a scandal, but in a good way. It would look so good for me to be with him. Everyone would be so entranced and want to know details. I could be like my other friends who are thin and beautiful and have scandalous flings. Ughh the chances of that ever happening.
I truly do have feelings for him. He’s adorable and hilarious and talented and we get along so well. Right now, I really couldn’t even see myself with anyone else, not that I have a chance with anyone else anyway. I don’t have any other straight guy friends. I try to make them but I don’t even know many straight guys and the ones that I do know I never seem to become friends with. Him and I are friends but I wish we could be closer. He’s older than me, so that makes it even less realistic for me. He’s very personable and friendly but shy with girl stuff.
Like I said, I’m chubby and he’s a little chubby too but the environment we’re in is much easier for guys, so just sucks for me. He’s also really tall and has beautiful hair. He's not beautiful but to me he's out of this world beautiful because I just love everything about him. I’m just smitten by him and I hate it. I know there’s almost no chance he likes me back. I’ll have to do the work because of how shy he is. I’m so shy too though! And I would hate to ruin our friendship,my reputation, and my self-esteem by making things awkward when/if he doesn’t reciprocate.
He’ll do things like randomly hug me and hold my hand and I’ll feel so warm and fuzzy but he does that to every girl (gay sounding I know, but he’s very straight) and even a couple of guys. All of the guys in my circle whether straight or gay have some femininity in them because of being surrounded by gays and women all the time. He had a girlfriend his freshman year who’s kind of weird and not the prettiest. He had a thing with this other girl who is very pretty so I know he can do better than me. His social status has also changed a lot since his freshman year.
I don’t even know the first thing about seducing a guy or initiating romance. It’s so frustrating. Him and I would be perfect together, in my opinion. I finally like someone, but I just don’t see this ever working. I’m desperate for intimacy physically and emotionally and I just want it to be with him. Advice? Thoughts? Personal Experiences?
1. Lose some weight, summer beach bod, etc.
2. Enroll in college, if you are already not a student.
3. Get a fake ;)
4. Go to bars.
5. Start meeting new guys.
^^^^^Bars are a great place to start talking to guys, and not being emotional. Try to play a cool, because from reading all ^^^ up here, I feel like ur the overanalyzing type. Just take a chill pill and go out there and beautiful on the inside out, and don't come off as a crazy girl, and it will be no trouble finding a good guy:)
Good luck xx
Me: 16/Female, Junior. Him: 18/Male,Senior. So this guy, we’ve been best friends for three years. Literally. Best friends. I could go on for pages and pages and pages and pages about our friendship, how much it means to me, how much its helped me through so many tough times, how he’s basically my rock yadayadayada. I can’t go on about it, but you got to get it in your head that this kid means SO MUCH to me.
And that’s also kind of the problem. He means so much to me. He means so much to me, and as of recently, we started hooking up. I know, BAD IDEA. Please don’t lecture me. We hook up, friends with benefits kinda thing, and we try not to let anyone know about it.
That’s not really the main problem though. The combination of him meaning so much to me, and me hooking up with him has obviously gotten me thinking some “more than friends” kinda thoughts. Which he has made it very clear on very many occasions, will never happen. I’m a junior, he’s a senior, he’s going to college, it’s just not going to happen. We will never date. It hurts me though. I literally think I’m in love with him. And it sucks. And I can’t tell him about it.
Another side of our relationship: the side where I’m a push over and he loves it. He’s a 6’2 jacked up football player. I’m 5’3 100 pounds, and yes, I’ll admit it, weaker than shit. Already physically he pushes me around a lot. He’s a very impatient, pushy guy. Nothing bad, he’s never hurt me or anything, he just knows that if he wants something his way, he’ll have it his way and I can’t stop him. I don’t know how to explain it. We’re good enough friends that if were sitting in his car eating some chips and I wanna turn the volume on the radio down, I’m gonna reach over and turn down the volume. And he’s gonna grab my wrist and turn it back. Ill reach with my other hand and he’ll just hold both my wrists in one hand and not let go until I say “fine, you win, volume stays where it is”. What else can I do? I let him push me around in other ways too. I hate it, but yeah sometimes I feel like his bitch. That’s just my personality, I do what I’m told, I don’t like causing a lot of issues. But he takes advantage of this and I know it.
I just don’t know what to do. He really is a good friend to me. I’m not saying anything about all the good parts… Like how he constantly sticks up for me, uses his size to protect me (or beat my ex boyfriends ass when he slapped me), or holds me when I cry and buys me ice cream when I’m sad. I’m so confused about everything… How he treats me, how I feel about him… And I just don’t know what to do from here but I’m not happy. Please help.
Do not have a long distance relationship w him... as someone in college, trust me. Enjoy your high school years.
I Would suggest ending things on REALLY REALLY good terms. Like have a wonderful summer with him and make a bucket list to make it epic...and when he's gone, he's gonna wanna meet college chicks, and you should make the last of your 2 years of hs. Really enjoy them because they go so quick, and I miss them. Haha I feel so old saying this (PS I just turned 20)
These people suck here' I can't say what I want here''!!! Just to die die diiiiiiiiiieeeee!!!!!!!!!!'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'!!,,,,,,
You think I'm crazy ..igoi
Do one of these 2 things:
-Go talk to your school counselor
-Go talk to a therapist or psychiatrist
Good luckkkk
I was masturbating and I got closer than i've ever gotten to reaching orgasm, but by then my arm was getting sore..and I just couldn't finish. I felt like I had to pee really bad (although i kind of had to go before i started) And yeah...Plus i was doing it in the bathroom so i was kind of limited on time because that's the only place i have privacy. what should i do for the next time?..
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Imagine if you were jumping on the same leg for an extended prd of time...it would tire out. That's what was happening to the muscle groups in your arm. You should switch arms up or whatever so that you don't overexhaust the same muscles repeatedly.
EDIT: you gave me a 3 which is chill I don't really care about ratings because I rarely go on this site, but this is what you said:
Thanks, but i'm right handed so i can hardly do anything with my left. I can barely even throw a ball straight with it XP
Now, you are a high schooler and I am in a Pre-Medical student in college, and going back to that, it's all about the muscles. The reason you can't throw a ball with your left is because you probably don't work out a lot, and you probably never tried. Think about it, if you were to go out and throw a baseball with your left hand every day for a month, by the end of the month you would be able to quite decently throw with your left hand.
Again, I don't care about ratings, but as a very,very athletic & health conscious individual, I would suggest you to start working out 3x a week, even if it's just for 30 mins, and working on your left = BALANCE!!! This is something you learn in exercise science classes.
I am crushing on this guy. He said he wants to be friends and go from there and take things slow but hes physically and emotionally attracted to me...whats he mean?
It means:
He's nervous
or
He's not ready for a relationship yet.
That's all, so go with him and start slow, no reason to rush things! See where it goes from there:)
If you use or used MAC and/or Sephora (
I love sephora. There are a bunch of products that I would recommend but I doubt we have similar features, so you should ask one of the workers what works for your face, they make great suggestions. That's how they helped me find some great products that I love:)
One thing I'm obsessed with is the tarte cheekstain, ask about that. Theres like 10 colors and its got great natural ingredients! xx
Ok so dont even waste your time reading this if your going to comment and say its unhealthy or dangerous or lecture me, i dont want to hear it. Anyways Ive been prescribed adderall since the end of my junior year and now im 19 and i still take it just not everyday because i only work some days and dont feel the need to take it. However I took it my whole senior year and at the end of the year I was the smallest Ive ever been, due to adderal. Now Ive gained that weight back plus more and Im the biggest Ive been. Its depressing and with summer right around the corner I need to get back in shape. Ive been putting it off for so long and now I need to get down to business and I plan to take my adderal everyday to help control my appetite but this time I dont have all year to loose the weight, I need to loose it asap. Any suggestions on when to take it, what to eat, what exerises to do etc? Does it work well combined with any other diet pills? Thank you. And its 20 mg.
I actually take 20mg addy a couple times a week too (prescribed)... so I wont say its unhealthy/dangerous but it some ways it counteracts that, because it speeds up your metabolism so when you finally DO get hungry (like after it wears out), you might eat more.
DO NOT COMBINE IT WITH ANY OTHER DIET PILLS!!!! double dosing stimulants can literally stop your heart.
I would just eat five 300 calorie snacks/small meals a day instead of meals, and do 1 hour of cardio
Cardio is the best way to BURN MORE CALORIES...
adderall DOES NOT BURN CALORIES, and it's really bad to run on adderall because your heart rate can go too high.
in conclusion: Eat many small meals throughout the day, and do an hour of cardio. on days when you DO take addy, do NOT do cardio, and do strength/flexibility exercises instead.
BEST way to lose weight: cardio, hands down (BURNING calories!)
Hey im from Georgia im 16 and just got a 21+ fake id that has the template of South Carolina. It does not have a hologram on it and isnt scannable. What is the likelihood of me getting into small music venues becuase thats all i want to use it for. Places in Atlanta like the Tabernacle, Masquerade, King Plow, just small venues for concerts. Thanks
I go to USC and can't say what its like in GA but here you definitely wouldn't be able to get in but that's bc its an SC id... It might be super hard getting in without holograms because most places require that, but do not require scanning.
Another thing is unless your a super hot developed 16 year old, some clubs don't want to let in girls that look like in high school, they want COLLEGE GIRLS. So you're gonna REALLY have to work on your look if you're gonna be working with that crappy fake. BUT GOOD LUCK!! I hope you can use it :)
**Your best bet would be to find an older person's ID, because you might be more likely to get into a club with a real id that doesn't look as much like you than a blatantly fake id without holograms.. good lucky tho:)
It's like we first meet and they're excited and it's easy for me to be comfortable around them, and then we drift. I suck at keeping friends and I literally have no friends to hang out with and I'm about to graduate high school and I literally haven't even hung out with a friend from school in like 2 years. whats wrong with me dear god. and all i'm left with are people i dont really get along with who are not even in my grade instead of the people i once got along better with, in my actual grade but i just f*** up everything and it's just all f***Ed upand idk why i cant have a proper friend correctly, apart from on the internet. its so frustrating, i'm going to have to blackout most of my adolescence cause it's nothing i'll look back on fondly and it's all my fault
My best advice is to realize that college is a NEW SLATE, and everyones looking to make friends. You should analyze your behaviors that turn people off, and think about the person you could want to be. Practice being more charismatic/flirty/confident, such as with waitors at restaurants. Then, use that practice to make friends with ppl at college. Everyone loves a confidant, fun person.
On February 18th i had sex for the first time, and again on February 25th.. we used protection both times, and i don't think they broke. I'm supposed to get my period the end/beginning of each month. It hasn't came yet. I'm really worried.. is it normal to miss your period after the first time without being pregnant..?
Nope not normal. Go buy a pregnancy test asap
So I was wondering what clothes turn guys on or make a girl look cute?
-Skinny jeans
-Shirts that show 2inches of tummy (kind of a crop top, but don't show the belly button unless your at a concert, but at school only 2 inches)
-RIDING BOOTS. hot leather boots look soo good, but they're kinda expensive (around $150 usually)
-High waisted skirts (for going out)
-Headbands
I wasn't always like this but everyday when I come home I'm really hungry so I eat....and eat and eat and eat. Then play violin till I my food is digested enough to work out. Then I do jumping for 2 hours. But when I eat I eat so quickly! I got a water bottle about 5 minutes agoa nd those used to take me hours to finish and I've almost finished it already! I'll give an example of what I ate one day after school. 3 inch cheese steak sub, chicken wing and sauce, icecream, sandwich, oatmeal, and ceral. All in less than in hour at about the same time. I never get full though. I only stop eating because I'm too scared to eat more. I'm 110lbs and 5'4. Im 13/f. I have a full 6 pack but how do I eat so much and stay this healthy? How can I break this habit? Thank you!
Because you're hitting puberty so your metabolism is speeding up..i'm 19 and ate a lot when I was 13 too and I'm 120/5'7 back then was like 115/5"5.... If you notice weight gain, you should STOP ASAP but if your not gaining weight, than that means:
caloric intake = #calories you burn in 24 hrs = maintained weight, which is nothing to worry about
Just try to slow down when you eat, and chew eat bite 23 times, because that gets the enzymes in your mouth to breakdown your food better so you can digest it easier & more efficiently, which will keep your metabolism steady.
But I wouldn't be too worried because you're growing/PUBERTY, but just don't get to the point of being over 130lbs, because than that means you're gaining too much weight too quickly.