I AM A 13 YEAR OLD GURL WHO IS ALWAYS LOOKING TO GIVE SOMEONE ADVICE. I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE OUT WITH THEIR EVERYDAY PROBLEMS. I AM AN AQUARIUS. MY B-DAY IS FEBRUARY 4. I LIVE IN NORTH HIGHLANDS, CALIFORNIA AND I LIVE WITH MY MOM. I HAVE 3 SISTAS AND 1 BROTHER. I HAVE ONE OLDER SISTA AND SHE IS ON THIS WEBSITE AND HAS AN ADVICE COLUMN TOO! SO NO QUESTION IS TOO STUPID FOR ME TO ANSWER SO DROP ME A LINE AND ILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU OUT.XOXOXOXO
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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tell your friend to stay single because then you can hang out w/ as many cute guys as she wants to!!!!!
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i am 14 years old.. i am 5'7 and i weight about 125 pounds!! am i fat? am i above average?? cuz i am worrying about my weight! (link)
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okay to answer your question no you are not fat @ all.I am 13 years old and used to weigh 120 pounds when I was in 6th grade,but you are average!I am 5'3!So you are not fat at any rate so dont let anybody talk crap to you about being fat it isnt true!!!!!Have fun and thanks for asking my advice!
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i have a pretty good life how come i am not happy (link)
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You are always bumming yourself for all the negative things in life instead of the positive things so you need to start to keep your mind busy w/ fun things!OKay!
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Me and my friends fight 24/7....and now that summer is here....I HAVE NOTHING TO DO!! I mean...I loved going to school to see some, people I was good friends with....but then when I got home and got on AOL IM the gurl I fight with would be on...and start IMing me and yelling at me for nothing. So know that summers here I ahave nothing better to do, then get on AOL.
What tips could you give me about my friends??
Is there anything better then AOL that I could do? (link)
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Of course there is better things you could do.So about your friends I was in the same situation and the best thing to do is to ignore them.A girl I was friends w/ got mad @ me 4 nothing too and she sent me a bunch of e-mail and I saved them all and just left her alone and she told our principle that I was threating her and so I brought the e-mail to the school and she got in trouble and I was off the hook!So just ignore her and pretty soon she will get tired of it and leave U alone!
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well, i have had my period but it's late. like a week and a half late, what should i do and why is this happening? (link)
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thats normal! I am going through the same thing right now!When you first start your period is not always going to be on time.Just dont do anything that would make you think you are pregnant!
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what do u do when ur best/f wants to kill herself and u cant do anything about it bc u dont live any where near her any more?
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You have to report it to the police but b4 you do talk to her.She is really going through somehting right now!I s it a boyfriend or another person that was very close to her that she lost!
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Ok, there is this guy and we are really good friends. We are such good friends that it almost out does any of my other friends that are girls. We talk about everything and you can never split us apart. But he has a girlfriend and i am not jelous or anything its just that he spends more time with me than he does with her. I want them to be together and ever since they started going out he has kinda ignored me until now! Once summer break hit so did he. We have done somethin every single night this week and i really like the attention but i dont want his girlfriend to be mad. Now we are going to Grand Rapids together to watch his girlfriend perform. What do you think i should do just keep goin along with it or ask him why he never spends more time with is girl friend. Help me
Signed confused (link)
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dear confused,It seems to me that your friend likes you,but @ the same time he likes his girlfriend!And dont worry about his girlfriend getting mad at you!It isnt your fault that he likes to hang around you!Obviously he must have known you first!
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how do u covince your parents 2 let u get a cell phone. and that u are responsible enough to have one. (link)
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you must tell them that you will split the bill or that you will pay for the cell phone,but you have to follow certain rules and not talk all the time!Just give them responsible reasons why you need a cell phone!!Like to call after school if any changes or something like that!!
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ok well i have this friend and shes awesome i love her soooooooo much and like one day i was gonna IM this guy that screwed her over and mess with him and i ended up calling him and i bitched him out for a while then like somehow i started to really like talking to him and i knew if she knew she would be soooo pissed and well i told her that i had talked to him and that i wanted to keep talking to him and she got really mad and said she hated me and wouldnt talk to me for a few days then i told her id never talk to him again but i have, i talk to him on the phone every once in a while and he wants me to meet him in person but i no i shouldnt but i still like to talk to him on the phone, only if she knew i still talk to him shed prolly never talk to me again and i dunno what to do, I REALLY LIKE HIM, i know its sick, and i know i shouldnt like him cuz he really hurt my best friend but i still do and i cant help it :( what should i do????? (link)
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Well, it might be hard,but you have to let him go!Look at it this way,if he screwed over your best friend,what makes you any different!Trust me it is the right thing to do!!!!!
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my mom is way overprotective of me. i mean, i am her first born, only daughter (i have 1 sibling, a brother 4 years younger), and getting ready to graduate next year. i know hse is just scared for me, but she wont let me do alot of stuff. i mean, i dyed my hair from blonde to black a few months ago and she wont let me touch up my blonde roots (i look silly) and she wont even let me do silly little things...like i want to go and see the fireworks this year with my friends, instead of my family like it is every year. is there any easy way i can make my mom realize that im NOT a little girl anymore, i am 17 and ready to do stuff for myself and make my own desiciions? (link)
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Well,just tell her that you are growing up and let her set limits!I know it sounds babyish,but it will probably get you a lot more trust.Also set up certain rules and consequences! Trust me, it will work!
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I liked this one guy for a little over a year. I was at a dance on Friday & was having fun, but then a slow song came on & he went & danced with this girl that I really dislike. As he was dancing w/ her, he kept smiling at me and staring at me. After that, I was dancing w/ a few of my friends, and he kept moving around so that he could see me. Then he went off during another slow song and danced with a total slut. He stared at me during that one, too. I'm really confused. What does it all mean? (link)
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Well, it seems to me that he sees you as a good friend! Thats good though because when he ever has a problem he might just come and talk to you about it and that will make you two closer than ever.So just wait trust me it works every time!
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One of my guy friends is really starting to annoy me. He just won't leave me alone! I will just be walking in the hall to my next class and he will follow me, even if he's not in the class. He's always poking me and putting his arm around me, and I don't want people to think we're a couple, which we're not. What should I do? (link)
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well,just ask him straight up if he will stop if you dont like it. If he continues, you just tell dont want to be freinds w/ him.I can not really relate to that,but my best friend has liked me b4 and it was annoying!
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Does anyone know any good recipes I can do with a Devil's food cake mix? (link)
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There is this thing called cherry-cola cake. Use cherries and cola(or diet cola if you are on a diet).It is so good.My grandma makes it on special occasions! Try it!!!!
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i have a huge zit on my chin and i tried putting this oxy face stuff clear gel on it but it wont go away...please anyone tell me how 2 get rid if this nasty thing!!!! ((if u cant tell...i hate zits)) (link)
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Well, I have been there! Try DOVE FACE PILLOWS.
They make your face smooth and clear. Also you have to cleanse your face twice a day w/ them. Also you have to keep your hair off your face almost all the time. Oils from your hair get into your skin and make pimples and zits.So try it out and see how it works!!!!!
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