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I live in Ohio, and when I grauate from high school and college, I hope to get into the Medical field. I plan on joining the Air Force after graduation! I'm here for anyone who needs advice or needs help with anything. I'm an understanding person and a great listenerIf you need anything and you want to ask me personally you can email me or just sent me a message to my advicenators inbox.
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hey guys. my names callie (im new) :P im 14 and i want my nose belly button lip tounge or eye brow perced. they are not that much difrent in price. my mom says i can get 1. she thinks the nose. or eye brow. i like lip.. im still desiding. is there is there any things you would do? or anything bad about them. i really need to have a percing that is easy to take care of and wont scar my body forever. thanks :P
If I were you I would get the nose piercing only because the lip and eye brows send the wrong message to people and I don't think you want that and plus they leave scars and i don't think you want that either. After you get you 1st piercing i would get you belly button pierced but you have to remember it can get infected not only the belly button but all of those piercings.
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Hi.
I'm 13 and male. I am so different from all of my peers and most of them make fun of me. Today i found a typo in a book which we were reading and i pointed it put to a person iny group and she said tht is why people don't like me. How do i fix all of this and be accepted? Again, i'm vry different. I overuse the dictionary and listen to classical music. Plr
Please help! Ron777
Please don;t worry about those "friends". If they were really your friends thy would NOT laugh at you and WOULD accept you for who you are. Please just be yourself and do'nt change because you want to be accepted. Try to find friends that accept you for who and what you are. You are a very special person. Everyone is a special person and has good qualities and i just want you to remember that.
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I'm hear for you and for anyone
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theres this guy that I really really like. He's kind of out of my league though. I'm in seventh grade and he is in eight. My friends and I are sort of the popular seventh graders(not trying to sound coinceited) and him and his friends are the popular eight graders. The thing is, at my school, the eight graders think that they are soooo aabove seventh graders, so i dont think he would go out with me but i dont know maybe he would. So I'm gonna tell you about the times we've talked and tell me if he seems interested or not. The first time I talked to him was the first day of school and he was the one who started the conversation. He asked me what grade I was in and when I told him seventh he asked me what school I used to go to and I told him and then he he leaned against the wall I was leaning against. And once I was at this party and he was there and my friends and his friends were all sitting on this wall thing and the police were coming and he walked over to me and asked me if I was drunk or high and when I said no he sat down next to me, but we didn't really talk after that. then at the same party he asked me if the parents were there and I was like yea but they dont care if we drink or smoke and he was like oh ok and then walked away. and the third time he came up to me and told me that this guy liked me and I was like oh ok and then the guy came and said it wasnt true nd then he told me that he had just been kidding and i laughed and he laughed too and yea thats it. so what does it sound like? is he interested? should i try to make him interested? or should I just forget about him?
Its really how he was talking and how his posture was. If you really want to know if he likes you just be BRAVE and ask him. Or what you could do is say my 1 friend likes you and she wants to know if you will go out with her. If he says yes then tell him who that person is and stuff like that. Another thing to do is try to get to know him a little better. Don't try to push him into something that he does not want to be in. If he really wants you he will ask you and if you really want him you will go and get him.
If you need anything please you can always come and ask me.
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I'm a 19 year old boy and I'm only 63inches tall, I'm very short when compared to people of my age.
Is there any way I can increase my height.
you should just be happy the way you are if you want to find out other stuff talk to your doctor but there really isn''t you can do. Be who YOU want to be and not what others what you to be. If you don't like your height don't worry you might grow maybe 1-2 inches more of you never know you could grow later on down the road even though everyone stops growing when there like 16 or 17. Don't worry there are alot of other people that worry about the same thing but when people get older you shrink well as your age progresses.
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My mom and dad are redoing their kitchen.. my mom has been waiting for it for years, and they finally have enough money to do it. They're really excited and doing most of the work by themselves.. so for Christmas I wanted to give them a brand new pots and pans set.. possibly with spatulas and utensils that come with it.. as well as holders for these utensils.
My limit is probably 200 dollars.. I don't want to get them a really cheap one.. I want to get them one that will last. Any ideas where/what brand would be best?? I'd preferably like to buy online since a lot of times its cheaper.. but if not please let me know another place!
Thank you so much.
http://www.target.com/p/KitchenAid-Classic-10-piece-Aluminum-Nonstick-Cookware-Set-Red/-/A-12791135?reco=Rec_pdp_12791135_PopularProductsInCategory_item_page.generic_2
http://www.target.com/p/Chefmate-51-pc-Kitchen-Gadget-Set/-/A-10717429
I will give you links and the 2 above is for Target. The next is for Walmart. There will be 2 links to each place 1 for pots and pans and the other for the utensils and holders. I would like to know if you have any of these stores by or near you. With these links just copy and paste them into your web browser and if you don't like what you see just say so in your feedback and also in your feedback please tell me if you still would like online and I will do what I can to help you.
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Cookware-Sets/15567905
http://www.walmart.com/ip/6-Piece-Utensil-Set-Stainless-Steel-and-Silicone/15042541
just remember these places you can order on line or at the store.
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please im begging someone to figure this out cause i give.. ok so these r the cluse
1:its costs 218 euro
2:its water prof
3:it has something to do with light
4:it could be 3d
5:you can only have one for each persoin
6:its about the size of a big carboard box
7:if u kick it u will break it
8:has insurence cover on it
9:oh..and you can style it
that all please tell me thnx (oh by the way im a male)
I'm SSSOOOOOO sorry but all I can really help you with is the 1st clue you gave me the 1 were you said it costs 218 euros well how can I ask you that well the answer is euros is short for European currency(money) and 218 euros is equivalent to $294.61 U.S. Dollars.
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Ok so I never get invited anywhere!!! It's super annoying my friends know how alone I'm. They invite I'm places then cancell on me 2 mins later to be with someone else. I h8 it. At lunch they talk about hanging out with each other in front of my face. One girl in the group is super nice to me and includes mi. I want to hang out with her and others but she's always busy Bcuz ppl are lik obsessed with her and stuff. I'm not but shes my only friend and aren't friends supposed to hang with each other.
I understand that it is hard to go through this. I use to be the same way. I would never go places well go anywhere with anyone. Well this was only at school. I'm 14 and in 9th grade and I go to an online high school. I absolutely love it. You make friends very fast. They don't judge you or anything like that. Well back to your question I know that you want to hang out with all of your friends and I know it is hard because they cancel on you really fast. If I were you I would go to that 1 friend that you 2 really want to hang together and make plans to go somewhere with each other and if she cancels on you then you know that she is not a true friend.
If you have another question and need anymore help you can inbox that certain person and ask only them.
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I am his first girlfriend and well i slept with my old boyfriend and i have to break up with him. How should i do this I am his first girlfriend ever and my friend says that he is gonna tell me he loves me! Oh crap!!! What should i do?????he's never even kissed me!!!! oh shit!!!!!
To be honest you should of never slept with your old boyfriend. You should have been loyal to him. You should ALWAYS respect your boyfriend and trust his every word. Tell him straight forward and say like if you really want to be with him say I really want to be with you but I did something bad and and I want you to know that i will understand if you don't want to be wit him anymore but the time that we had together really meant alot. Well only if it truly did.
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I'm twelve years old and I'm stuck in class with fourteen year olds. The work is pretty straightforward and easy, but I always feel out of place when around other girls. They're all very nice, but they wear makeup, short skirts, tight tops, and high heels, and I'm always in sweatpants. They all seem so flawless and sophisticated, but my hair and face are always greasy and acne is ruining my complexion. Even worse, guys won't even look at me! I'm so sick of being the odd one out!
I know that you don't what and don't like to feel out of place but you have to just be yourself. Dont' worry what you think that other people think of you. If you like the way you are then so be it. If you don't like the way you are then try and change a little. Just remember change because YOU want to change and not what other people what you to do.
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ok im 13 f and i really want a new wardrobe because ive been starting to stop wearing hollister and aeropostel and start moving on to like forever 21 wet seal etc. so i really want more clothes but my mom thinks i have enough clothes but i really want newer clothes since mostly all my shirts say hollister and aero and stuff like that. but she still will say no but i really want to have a better style and not as boring especially for winter? what are some ways i can get her to get me newer clothes and go shopping??
Try doing more things around the house to earn more money or just ask for them for Christmas.
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15f here. Well let's just start off with this I'm not attractive. I'm a little overweight nag I keep gaining more. I have never had a boyfriend/first kiss. The closest I've got with a guy was 2010 summer but we just randomly stopped talk ing no reason why. I allways blame myself for that I should have took more chances. I miss just talking about random stuff with a boy its nice to know someone cares. I'm not happy and I want to be friends with more guys. I still have feelings for that one guy but I do like other people but not As much as him. I act sorta tough. I allways feel like I'm wasting my life alone.noone understands my life style. I never asked to be like this. I'm not a bad person but I feel like I am bc I'm allways bringing myself down. I just want to be that same old happy girl who is courageous and brave. I try so hard to not care what others think.
When it comes to others, you don't have to care what they think. Yes I understand that every opinion counts, but alot opinions are not that great. All I can really say I know you try to be yourself but yeah just be yourself. There is someone out there for everyone but I cant tell you when. Dont worry your time will come and you'll turn back and say well this is the best life I could possibly have all because I waited for this!!!!
Remember just BE yourself.
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See I have depression and I have told my friends. They are nervous I might take my own life because I get bullied. They care but they avoid me. One of my friends mom said they were all afraid of me. I don't know why. Though one really great friend is there for me. And not scared of me. I just am more depressed now.
I say one day go up to your so called friends and say I want the honest truth why are you afraid of me.
Hopefully they will tell you the truth......
Please don't be depressed. I mean its not like its a bad thing. Everyone will and gets depressed at least once in there life time. If you get bullied your friends should help you. Not be afraid of you. If your friends really cared they would try to be by your side and help you through all of you problems and other stuff.
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If there is 1 certain you want to ask just sent the question to there in box.
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I found out that my 15 yearold boyfriend got me pregnant.I called him and told him and he freaked out. He told he can't take care of a baby now and that he doesnt want to be part of this.I don't know what to do about the baby.I don't know how to tell my parents and don't know what to do about my boyfriend.I need help and I'm scared.
I know it will be hard to tell your parents but calm down. DO your parents know that you had a boyfriend? If yes it will be hard but not as hard as if they didn't know. I say go to your MOM 1st and tell her and then go to your dad. Or if you only want to say it once say it to both of them at the same time. How do you know your pregnant? Did you get a pregnancy test?How did you get them well if you found out. Well I know that your only 13 so I personally think that because you so young well to have a baby I would say to just put your baby up for adoption but if you think you can handle him/he by yourself then so be it. You just need to calm down and just take a deep breath and go and tell your parents. When you tell then so like I'm sorry I wasn't thinking well if you weren't planing on it. were u 2 planing on doing it. Before you go and tell them think of what you want to say. If you do go along with your pregnancy you have to do certain stuff like take prenatal vitamins and all of that fun stuff. The most important thing is that you keep you and your unborn baby safe. If you need anymore help after this please ask away.
Just remember think it over and take a deep breath.
If you need anything else and you want to talk to a certain person about all of this stuff and you only want to talk to them send the question to there account in box.
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I'm 14, 5'2& a half and I weigh 118 pounds. From my weiste and up is skinny but my thighs and butt are big. Everyone says I have a "nice butt" cause it's kind of big. I hate it. I wish I was like the other girls in my grade. Skinny. How can I lose weight? I wanna get to like 100 pounds. What can I do, to exercise or eat to lose the weight as quickly as possible? Please help me. Thank you. :)
I don't think you should loose weight at all.... There are alot of people that want and need to loose weight but your not one of those people. Dont worry that you don't look like those other girls. Because I'm a nice person I will answer your question even I don't think you need to but her e I go. Try doing like 100 sit up every morning and night time. Try drinking more water, and try to stay away from sweets and by doing this you should loose the weight you want to fast but not 2 fast. Also try to limit your portion size like if you want 2nds only take a little bit and not pile it on your plate.
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my mums best friends daughter and i have always been close, our families always go out together and we get on, we've always been there for eachother but in the past year we dont see eachother as much, we're so different; im loud and confident to talk to people and shes quiet and is doesnt really like to go out. i had a house party for my birthday and i mentioned it to her when i saw her about a month before it was happening, and she said she didnt know whether she wanted to come, i said she could bring someone and she still said she didnt know, i saw her a couple of times after that but the party didnt come up. i found out shed gone on holiday a week before the party and didnt know how long she was going for, but i did plan to inbox her to invite her anyway, but somehow i forgot and on the day of the party i remember thinking i should invite her, but didnt act on it, which i regret, i guess i thought id left it too late and i hadnt heard she was back so it was easier for me to just take it she was on hoiday. anyway about half hour before the party my mum asked whether id rung the girl and i said i thought she was on holiday, turns out she wasnt so i went to ring her straight away, but people arrived early and once again i just forgot, by the time i did ring her the party had started and her mum was angry and shouted at me for inviting her last minute, ive apologised and shes written back to say forget about it but our families dont speak anymore and i just feel dreadful, its always on my mind and i seem to find myself thinking about the day and whether i didnt ring her up beacause i forgot or just because i didnt really want her there, i just feel awful, would be great of someone could help!
i know that you two are in a fight now because you didn't invite her. I know you probably don't want to hear this but it if your fault and only your fault for not inviting your friend. If I were you I would let it go for a couple of weeks and then one day sent her a email or what would be better is if you sent he a hand written letter and say how you are so sorry and how she said that her family was on vacation and you didn't know when they would get back.. at the end say once again im sorry and maybe she will send something back and if she does not don't worry she WILL forget about the whole situation. If she does not reply with in a month try calling her and if she does not answer leave her a voice mail. Dont worry like I said before she WILL forget about the whole problem....
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Hi! I've had my dell dimension e310 for 7 years now and had only minor problems with it up until now. It has had a virus a couple of times and we took it to get fixed, but this time the computer guy says we have to buy a new hard drive. I was just wondering if it would be worth it, or if it would beb better to get a new computer.
Ron777
Hello I say well I think it would just be worth getting a new computer because you mentioned that you have had this computer for 7 years and if you just get a new hard drive you don't know if other problems will occur because of the computers age so if I were you I would just get another computer.
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How many days are you supposed to study before a test?
You should try to start studying as soon as you can. DON"T CRAM EVERYTHING IN THE NIGHT BEFORE!!!!!!
you should ALWAYS take notes and try to have like a folder and or a binder to put all of your notes and paperwork in and just start studying.
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Hey!
So ive always had a dream to become a fashion designer since i were a little girl,but ive never really had the chance to apply to fashion school yet.So now ive finally got the chance!Ive been accepted into this "design a wedding dress" competition and ive got about 200 something likes on facebook so far and its only my third day!But,i need more votes!So my question is,if you guys think my dress is pretty,would you please help me by hitting Like at the picture??Please help me fulfill my dream =(
Thanks
It is absolutly amazing!!!!!
Hey!
So ive always had a dream to become a fashion designer since i were a little girl,but ive never really had the chance to apply to fashion school yet.So now ive finally got the chance!Ive been accepted into this "design a wedding dress" competition and ive got about 200 something likes on facebook so far and its only my third day!But,i need more votes!So my question is,if you guys think my dress is pretty,would you please help me by hitting Like at the picture??Please help me fulfill my dream =(
Thanks
Thats amazing unfortunately I dont have a facebook because my mom says too much drama. but take my word for it,,,it is absolutely amazing. great job!!! :D
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Hey there thanks!(: thats so cool hah! ya i absoultly agree I like the schools the way they dress everything i like albert, willie, jeb, andy james they're so cute lol but other shows i like happy days, family ties, the wonder years, cosby show, andy grifith show, leave it to beaver, the cosby show, and a lot more. oh and the love boat, facts of life, different strokes also plus more
I like Little House on the Prarie, Happy Days, Leave it to Beaver, Andy Griffin Show and lots more. I never watched The Cosby show, or Family Ties. Have you ever saw Bonanza and or Gunsmoke? I dont really watch them but my grandparents do which by the way I live with them and that is the whole reason why I know all of the other shows. Besides all of those shows that I watch well have you Everybody loves Raymond. Its on at 9 to what ever time but I dont really like it that much but my grandparents do. I mean its a ok show but yeah you know what I mean.