i know there is probably a lot of questions like this but whatever haha. well anyways im 14 and ive never had my first kiss yet. i know it seems young and all but dont be like "it will happen when it happens". because by the way im in high school. i have had the opportunity, but turned it down many times...it is because im scared of messing up, or not knowing what to do, or forcing it too much or something. and i dont want to seem all inexperienced. some of my friends have even went all the way!! its disgusting and i would never do that this young, and im not wanting my first kiss since all my friends have had it, i just want to be able to like go to parties and feel comfortable with being with a guy. also, i avoid having boyfriends because i know they'll want to makeout, and i dont want to seem prude. because like with other things im not, it just is confusing to explain about my fear of messing up when making out haha. i just dont know what to do please help! thanks!! and please dont answer if you're just gonna say "just go with the flow blah blah" haha thanks!
Girl to makeout you need to just kiss a really long time. So like it has to be like 15 mins or more!! kiss him good!!!lol
good luck with the kiss
hope i help, your friend trina
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i really want to make more guy friends. i dont know how to though. sometimes i feel shy around them but mostly i'm ok. i just feel kind of self-concious i guess. i dont know how to branch out and make more guy friends. help?
hey to make guy friends don't be shy at all!! Make sure you are being yourself aroud the guys then fund out what the guys and you in common. After that ask him would you like to be my friend
hope i help :)
ps. i have alot of guys friends hope this help
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I just wanted to say i cant read your advice column -at all- with the really flashy background. I wanted to read it but it was hard to because I couldn't see the writing and the background was really flashy and hurt my eyes when i was reading it. Sorry! I didnt mean to be rude or anything lol
sorry but i love flashy stuff i just wanted to make things look great. thanks for your honesty
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I'm 5'2 and 100 pounds but i really wanna gain some weight. I try eating junk but it doesn't help cause i have a fast metabolism.what should i do as long as it's not danderous to my health?
this is hard ti explain but i'll try. So to gain weight you need to start going to ruby tuesdays its a place that have alot of colories in the food. In the cheesey vegtable supreme it has over 2000 colories i heard it on the news so try that.
hope i help :)
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Im a guy, im 20...so i used to be hella fat, then i started going to the gym, and eventually i started taking steriods just for like 2 months...those things mest my life up, they made me depressed, and shrunk my dick...now im strong skinny and i have a fine ass girl that likes me....but im embarrest of my penis...what should i do??????/
So What if you have a small ass dick if the girl really like you she won't care if you have a small dick.Also,never take steriods it can kill you!!!!
hope i help:)
ps. no body care if you have a small dick
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Hi, I have always been known as a tomboy, but I've been liking this boy for 4 years now! I told my friends that I liked his brother (whos his twin and they don't look the same) but I really liked him. Now, I told them I don't like him (the boy I didn't like) anymore and they forgot about it. But, now he's (the boy I do like) in my class and so is my best friend. My locker and his locker are RIGHT next to eachother! But, so are mine and my best friend's. She also sits next to me in a class and him and her friend sit in front of us. He always turns around and is SO funny. But, lately I've been feeling like she is starting to like him. I don't want to tell her because she is known to be a "big mouth", and I know she'll tell someone, but she's my best friend! What should I do? I've liked him for so long and NOW he's starting to pay attention to me and I don't know what to do!
ps. remember! im known as a tomboy!!! =(
Hey you been crushing on this guy for years now and he starting to notice you i know your a tomboy and all but still be yourself around this guy show him how you really feel about him get to know him by talking to him and maybe asking him out when your readdy
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hope i help :)
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I have a cuz that is so press. Every time i spend a night over her house she get all press all about her computer. Like one time she was playing runescape i took the mouse and change the web site on myspace to check my mail then she get her big brother and make me get off of myspace.i am not selfish!!!
plz tell me what i should do about my cuz
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Well, I have my first boyfriend. I was friends with him for awhile until i finially got the courage to ask him out, and obviously, he said yes.
I asked him..a week ago. And I havn't seen or talked to him since, other than myspace.
But, I'm seeing him tonight, me and some of our friends are going rollerskating. and i'm kind of nervouso, what happens if he kisses me or something? I don't know how to do it..at all. lol.
any advice on this would be appreciated...
Hey don't be nervous. if he kiss you kiss him back. Don't be nervous if he does kiss you. I know you want to kiss him don't you. Just don't be nervous if he try to ok.Just go with flow and lightly make both your lips touch.
i wish you goodluck with the date make sure don't be nervous.
hope i help :)
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There is this new kid in my school well actually not that new maybe a month or two. But I dont know how to start a conversation with him. I REALLY REALLY REALLY like him! He seems shy ish. I just want him to notice me he is kinda ok really short but not all guys care if the girl is taller then them right? please help
guys love tall girls that why my Dad married my mom lol. You should be yourself start off as saying hello then try to find things in common with yall two. Also, since he shy in all make him feel comfortable. Make him feel he don't need to shy any more. try this and i promise you he would be falling for you as you been falling for him
hope i help :)
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hey...well my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a couple of months now and we were doing really well...now we've been through a whole lot and we pretty much know how it is with each other...it hasnt been so great...it seems that ive been the only one putting in effort into the relationship and he says himself that he doesnt care about most things...i changed some things about myself for him but when it comes to him its like he doesnt even try...i would say everything on here that happens but theres way too many things that go on...it seems like now its comming to an end and at the same time ive learned a lot from it...i talked to him last night and he said that he doesnt think we're right for each other...i couldnt bear with what he was saying i felt so hurt but he wants to wait a little longer just to see if it gets anyt better all but i dont know how long that'll last and i dont know if i should wait...i need some advice on how to get over him...ive stayed up all night for weeks with this...missed school...cant concentrate..i cant let him go i just cant see him with another girl it hurts too much...and i dont know if i should end it...i know i should but i cant...thanks for anyone who tries to help i really appreciate it...
17/f
Girl i know this is hard for you but you have to let him go. He is the wrong person for you he is standing you up!! He might be cheating on you or he doesnt really care about you. He is a wrong for you. You should find a real man that care for you and would give all his efforts into the realationship like you would do. You need to get over this guy trust me.
He is making your life a tragic he is making you miss school and cant concentrate on your future.
Need to get over this guy!!!
hope i help
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okay so yeah my brother has a best friend and we are MADLY inlove and we do stuff secretly. if he were to find out what we did, my brother would kill us both! i dont want to leave him but i think i should move on cuz i cant go out with him until next year. we always talk about being together forever and getting married. what should i do? im 14 and he is 16. should i move on or should i stay with him because i can honestly say i LOVE him.. but i think i might want to move on. HELP PLEASE!!!1
If you love someone you should hold on tight on that person. You can't let no one get in your way of love.Don't move on!!!! Even though your bro would go all crazy on you and your lover you should till hold tight on the man you love
hope i help and if you have anymore problems talk to me
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ok i need a boy friend i havn't dated a guy in like 2 yrs so i need help soo it would be nice if some people gave me advice.
Thanks, Bailey
Meet a guy you are interested in try to flirt. first start off as being yourself. Then ask him to go out with you. then later after yall dating you will have a boyfriend hope i help cause this never fails me trust me.
remember be yourself!!!!
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My boyfriend lately has been acting really really weird. He doesnt do the same things as he used to, and if he does, he just doesnt seem as interested to do them anymore. Like in the hallway when we're walking together, he'll hold my hand but he doesnt talk to me anymore.. and I dont know why. And then when he kisses me he doesnt kiss me as hard as he used to its like hes kissing a feather and pulls away really quick. So what I'm asking is how can I get him to be more interested in me or get him.. "whipped." please help me, I've been dating him for 4 months and we havent had sex.. because im waiting for a year before we do that.. and all we did was that he fingered me.
Thank you in advance.
What you can do to get him interested is start being more sexy. Make him feel like each day he want you more and more. You can probably try having sex with him but if you don't want to have kids use pills so you don't get pregnet. Also, ask him why don't you kiss me like you use to and why You don't talk to me anymore. Also, maybe this kinda over the limit but you can try spying on him if he has another girlfriend behind your BACK cause boys mostly act weird cause they are keeping a secrete from people.
hope i help if he keep acting weird that mean he is cheating or keeping something from you that he don't want you to know
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Well, I always do boring hairstyles like wearing it down, or putting a clip in it. I'm getting really tired of those hairstyles! So I was wondering if anyone has some hairstyles that you use that you think are unique, or hairstyles that you seen on a website would be great too. I have a curling iron, straightener, and a waver, so I'm pretty much up for anything cute!
THANKS!
I suggest dying your hair thats the most outrageous thing to do and giving it layers with a sexy bang to the side!!!
Guys will go wild
if not that then how bout curls with a hump at the top like gwen stephanie that would be hot
if not that clip your hair in a high mohawk with a lil hanging down you would look amasing
hope i helped'
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So I like this guy and I'm playing hard to get. We talk n stuff, and he talks to me in the halls each time I see him. i need to know If i should stop playing hard to get or what? I like him but hes just too popular and such a chick magent and so hott. Im starting to not like him anymore because I like this other guy whom I met at a dance. So I dunno who to pick. And the second guy asked me for my phone # and we talk a lot he also goes to my church. The first guy is so ah-dorable!! I have been trusting my instincts a lot and Im pretty good at it. Its just if i dont go for the popular guy he eventually is going to talk to me more. And if I stop talking to the other guy who goes to my church even though hes easier to get then I dunno what to do. So What should I do with this situation right here???
p.s. And I would appreciate it if you didnt say just express your feelings to them or talk to them.
I think you should choose the guy you better understand and connect too.
Someone who you feel tends to make you feel good and can talk to them for days after days
The one that you feel you connect and like the most
I think you diggin the first guy but your playing to much of hard to get tone it down a bit see how he feels..
I think you can give the 2nd guy a break for a while because your not interacting he just asked for the number but if he calls test him...
as for church boy they say the best ones you can find at church so its between the popular guy and church guy which one you would feel more confrontable being with and talking to
But like I said tone the hard to get thing down..
Hope i helped
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what is an orgasm and how do you know if you had one?
i am a female.
An orgasm is when you get wet{cum} from a pleasure
It doesn't even have to involve sex you can cum from someone touching you in a sexual way
depending on your own body
Like fingering yourself, using objects, someone eating you out, sexual contact, and etc
hope i help
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my boyfriend & i have done it about 10 times now..but i wanna know if there is any like fun things to do before or during sex. and differnt ways of doing it.. for both of us to like.. please help!!
Oral sex..
Trying new positions
In the shower
In a car
On top of a moving washing machine-great!!
On a water bed
Doggy styles
Upside down
sideways
You on top
standing up
talk dirty
Cum in your mouth
beat him off
he finger you
hope i helped
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i have had sex with one guy.
and i think its incrediable!
is it bad that i like it so much?
Naw its not bad at all that you enjoyed the sex that givin was givin to you thats normal...
Just dont go to any dude and say wanna fuck me...
But its not bad nor nonnormal...
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what do you model for?
Why you think im ugly to be a model or sum10 why would you ask???
I can show you pics im me
Littlemisstrina@aol.com
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when my boyfriend fingers me for the first time. will i bleed? and if i do. will he be disguisted?
:(
Well im 99% positive that you will not bleed you will only get wet make sure that if he does do it the first time that you are confortable and that he does it slowly because its the frst time you experienced this happening to you..
And if he pops your cherry or break you hymen I think you may bleed everyones diffrent but you may just have a a very milky discharge Oh and make sure you wash up before him doing this so he wont have wat they call a stinky finger
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