Ask TheRandomJuggalette!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback |

About TheRandomJuggalette



My Name Is Zuri :] You Can Call Me Zee :] I'm 13 years Old Im Kind of A Emo/Scene Type Girl. I Am Very Creative. I'm Into Art, Poetry And Things Of That Nature :] You Can Ask me Anything And I Will Most Likely Have An Answer For It (Trust Me I've Been Through A lot) So Don't Be Afriad To Ask

Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

Gender: Female
Location: Rocky Mount, Virginia
Age: 13
Member Since: September 18, 2009
Answers: 120
Last Update: January 2, 2010
Visitors: 7468

Main Categories:
Love Life
Random Weirdos
Work/School Relationships
View All


Advicenators.com



okay so i know how to kiss and french and all that jazz but i want to know some different techniques that i can use with my boyfriend. i want some new things to do!

OKay slightly claw or rub the back of his neck((guys r sensitive there))

Suck his bottom lip

pull him closer ((making things moer intense))

if you moan slightly --for some odd reason--guys love it

make it seem like you want more ((this gets guys excited))

increase you grip

hope i helped :]

[view]


other websites that are similar to myspace? there must be some, right?

facebook.com friendster.com myyearbook.com

those are really popular :]

hope i helped :]

[view]


My hair is AWFUL, I need help! Can anyone tell me of a good hair relaxer they have used? My hair is unbelievably frizzy, curly, and puffy. I can't stand it, I can never even wear my hair down because it's so bad.

ALL advice is appreciated. I've tried those cheap-o store bought ones and they didn't really do much, but that was years ago.

Theres This COnditioner And Shampoo Called Apho-Gee. Its GREAT!! Use It!! lol. and Theres another called Mane-n-Tail I Think? those are really good and will make your hair look great. also olive oil cream works good :] and if you have ethnic hair ((black people hair)) use Coconut Grease

[view]


when you're getting food delivered to your house,
is it okay to give a big bill with tip and delivery charge included or do you have to break it down and tip the driver/delivery person specifically with change? or do they do all that change stuff down at the eatery?

when you tip someone you do that seperately :D so then they can put that in their pocket. if you just give them all the money like just there the boss doesnt care he liikes extra money :]

[view]


I sit on my swings everyday, like 24/7. My thighs have red lines on them like every day. One of them has a welt on it (OUCH!). I try sitting on towels and pillows but it always hurts. What do i do? Are there such things as swing cozies or something? thanks
-Becca 13/F

try getting a carseat cover :] like the ones for babies :] it may work!! hope i helped :]

[view]


So I dated this guy we broke up he lied to me long story now were dating again,

what are some cute songs and quotes about
-waiting for a guy
-finally getting him
-or anuything to do with what i just told you?

thankyou so much in advanced

“Who knows how long I've loved you, you know I love you still. Will I wait a lonely lifetime? If you want me to I will.”

“Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear, too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice, but for those who love, time is eternity.”

“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.”

“Just so you know, there's a space that only you can fill. Just so you know, I loved you then, I guess I always will.”

“It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.”


Hope i helped ya :]

[view]


Hi. I was wondering if anyone knew of a video camera, high in quality that doesn't cost an arm and leg? I want the Sony DSR PD170 but the price is too steep. thanks

propertyroom.com its a place where police actually confiscated stolen goods from people..and are selling them back for cheap. the stuff from there usually is pretty good quality :D and usually VERY cheap. AND ITS LEGAL!! haha. hope i helped :] you can get alot of other stuff from there too :]

[view]


Heres some background: I have been on birth control for the past 3 years. I just recently got off of it (in July) because my parents are afraid of the negative side effects. I had my period in August (starting on the 15th) and in September (starting on the 12th). I had an irregular period before taking birth control, which is why i initially got on it. My boyfriend and I had sex on october 4th with a condom, but he took it off towards the end without telling me (he pulled out). I am ten days late for my period. Ive already taken 3 pregnancy tests and all of them have been negative.

I am in my 3rd year of college and have been taking adderall lately. I dont know if maybe the adderall is having an effect on my period. Also, I didnt eat for two days straight because I was so stressed about exams. So im not sure if its my nutrition or stress thats making it take so long to come. I know that im not pregnant (according to ept digital pregnancy test taken yesterday and the day before), but has anybody else run into this problem? Do you know what the cause could be? Or is there any way I can induce my period? Any input would help!

Thanks for the help!

well it could be because of stress, but also if you got off the pill recently its still going to be effective. it'll take a while to actually stop working. it could actually take up to 4 months! if all those pregnancy tests came up negative, most likely they are. don't be so stressed!! eat regularly and relax and you should be all right! try meditating ((you have noo clue how relaxing that is haha)) meditating helps your energy flow through your body, regulating your body. its actually real easy to do.

sit in a cross legged postition
turn off the tv and get rid of any sounds unless its soft and relaxing
((put on comfortable clothes!!!))
close your eyes and hold your hands on your knees
breathe in and out and say something to yourself like-
"i will not be stressed, i will be calm" or something like that. whatever youd like to improve or get rid of. ((stress)) I hope i helped!! :]

[view]


okay so im 14 and my boyfriend wants to kiss me..the thing is i never kissed anyone before and im really nervous and i dont wanna screw it up or do it wrong. please helpp :)

i always had this problem. these things are easily solved by message :D hehe. maybe message him and say.."hey, um. so i kinda think we should kiss" or something liek that. its so much easier by message. when messaging you can "just do it" while in person you have to be all nervous and all nyeh. haha. but by doing this, he'll have it in his mind and he'll keep trying to kiss you even if you dont know it. another methode ((the on i did)) was that i'd hug him alot and play with him and then after a little while, while i was hugging him i'd just kiss him on the cheek. after that he kissed me on the lips :D so hmm..you can try thaat. oooor.....just put your face close to his alot. and after or while your mind will go into that "just do it" state and you'll probably end up kissing him. even if its on the cheek, youll probably surprise him and make him want to kiss you. oh and another thing, he wants to kiss you too. theres no doubt about it. so why don't you make his wish come true? :] oh and dont worry about messing up. its your first kiss. first kisses SHOULD NOT be frenches anyway. and when you do start doing that its not hard at all. "a peach is a peach, a plum is a plum. a kiss isnt a kiss without some tongue" lol. its simple. just stick it in and move it around!!! lol. hope i helped ya out! peace :]

[view]


Is there a website where if I type in "angel/devil" for example it will show pictures of girls/sorority girls wearing angel/devil costumes. I'm in a sorority, and a lot of are parties are themed, girls will go all out, and I don't want to spend money on costumes, and I'm not really creative to make my own costume unless I have a picture of what I want, therefore if I saw what others had on, I could go buy some fabric without sitting there thinking what I should make of this.
I hope this makes sense, and I would really appreciate it.

well excuse me, but rating a 1 is actually abuse. just because you did not like my answer. at least i tried to help you. because nobody else cares. ha ha

[view]


I'm having a party at my house for my 17th birthday and it's about a month away. There'll be around 28-35 people. I already have basic ideas of what I'm doing as far a having music playing and having a lot of food. My parents will be home so obviously there'll be no drinking, and I really don't drink and go to big parties to begin with. I am however thinking of doing virgin pina coladas so hopefully that'll work out. This is supposed to be just a hang out and talk type of party, nothing wild. And I know sometimes parties like that start out kindof quiet and boring but then unravel and things start to become fun on their own. I know this because I had a party at my house last year and that basically happened with less people than I'm having this year. But just in case I'd like to have some ideas of something fun to do during the party. All ideas will be considered, but here's just a list of things to keep in mind:

-Obviously nothing involving drinking
-My parents will be home, so they may or may not be in and out of the area.
-I don't like cheesy things like themes or cheesy games. I really just don't like it when things are cheesy, so no cheesy suggestions haha.
-The guy I like will (hopefully) be there, and he knows I like him but he doesn't really like me that way and we're still good friends. He does like someone else right now, but I still want to maybe do something that'll get him to like me. So along with ideas of things to do, some ways of subtly trying to get him to like me that day would be appreciated

That sounds pretty cool. Haha. but first things first..wear an absolutely gorgeous outfit. you just have to. Haha. For some odd reason at my birthday party ((my brother was there)) all the guys i invited wanted to wrestle with my brother ((those wierdos)) O.o that may spark an idea for you but i dont know ((just throwing that out there)) Im not a fan of themes either, cuz they make things seem..ehh. If you know what i mean. What you could do is have a prize draw kind of thing. you can buy a roll of tickets ((usually at Wal-Mart)) and then pick a bunch of numbers at random out of those tickets and put them in a container. when people come to your party give them
a few tickets and then after about an hour commence with the prize draw!!! (woo) but get awesome prizes of course. nothing dumb like a stuffed animal :/ if you can get a band to play or if you are broke like me ((lol)) actually start singing yourself ((yaay mini-concert)) lol. these ideas pretty much are what you make them. i hope i helped at least a little :]

[view]


I take Spri-Lo-Sintec and I got my period a week earlier than I was supposed to and I don't know why. My period lasted for 6+ days and I had all my normal PMS symptoms. My friend recently died so I'm wondering if it could have been caused by stressed? But also, a few months ago they gave me the wrong birth control by accident, so I don't know if it's maybe because of that?

17/f

Thanks!

well even on the pill your periods could be all "blah". but also it depends on how long you have been raking the pill. you have to be on it for at least a month for anything to become effective. so if you havent, this couldve caused it. and yes, stress could cause this too, but unlikely. hope i helped :]

[view]


So I was in this amazing relationship back in July-August and I loved every minute of it. He was an amazing guy that made me happy and I made him happy and everything was perfect in our relationship. Except for the fact that his parents did not like me (mainly his father because he thought I was just using him because I was "too pretty) and his brother who hates me because he thinks I'm a slut. Oh yeah and our classmates don't like us together either. They constantly gossip about me and call me horrible names (mainly girls) because I was dating him. Why did our amazing relationship end you ask? Well because I had enough of the drama and stress that came from our relationship and I ended it and I regretted it ever since. Like to this day I still get butterflies when I pass him in the hallway, in class, etc. I don't know why though :/ I can't stop thinking him either which is weird. I'm zoning out in class because he pops into my head frequently which is crazy right? I'm usually an A student with all AP Classes but lately I've been just out of it :/ So anyone wanna help me out here/give me tips/advice?

you still like him because you werent ready to end the relationship obviously. in all honesty ((not trying to put you down)) but it was stupid to break up with him because of other people...if you still feel such a way about him that probably means that you are in love with him and you just couldnt take the pressure of the outside world against your relationship. it's very understandable tho.

[view]


I am looking for a cheap costume. It can be all made or partly made and my sister can make like parts of it. Btw i am mexican, dark, brown wavy hair, brown eyes, and i am chunky so preferably something i would be comfy and not embarrasing. P.S. I have been all types of princesses and witches. And i would want to spend just around 20-40 by the most Thanks 13/f

i agree with the other chick hehe. a gypsy would be amazing. also a pirate because they wear mostly baggy clothes. unless they are slutty pirates....hehe but that's besides the question. go to spirithalloween.com and look there. they have all types of stuff for cheap

[view]


So its halloween time and i know there are a lot of questions about costumes, but this is just for my baby ;]. Im 21/f, hes 23/m. Weve been dating for over a year, and although our sex life is good, i want to spice it up a bit. What are some easy costumes that i could MAKE, not buy, but make, to wear for him at night? I want to surprise him when he gets home from work or something. Like, what are guys fantasys? Thank you! and ps, ive already done the whole schoolgirl thing. He liked that one haha.

Dude you wont believe how easy it is. here are some ideas-

sexy school girl/teacher
sexy police officer
you know stuff in that region\

now they are really easy to achieve and you dont have to make them just take normal clothes and put it together right

now with the school girl/teacher just get a regualr white button down shirt and put it on. unbutton the top buttons and yank up the bottom so itll be under your breasts and then tie it. get a tie and put it on loosely. now get a plaid skirt ((short)) and put it on. now get some thigh high tights and put them on. shoes- ehh stillettos duhh. Hehe

for the police officer do the same stuff but let the stuff be in a blue or brown color. and get one of those badges that you' buy for a little kid at the dollar store hehe. get handcuffs too!!

and something that will always look amazing- if you have long hair put alot of big curls in. :] hope i helped!!

[view]


22/F

Over the last few years, I've been in a huge battle with depression. I failed out of university, lost contact with my family, and almost lost my boyfriend. Things were awful.

It's only been a year and a half since I was hospitalized, but since then I've been healing at an incredible rate. I'm finally happy again; I'm in school, talking to friends and family again, and enjoying life. I've beat the beast, and I want to commemorate all that I've done somehow.

I feel like I've been through so much, and it just doesn't show on the outside. I want something, even if I'm the only one who knows what it means, that externalizes the strength I feel and the pain I've gone through to get to where I am.

I think a great way to do this would be to get a tattoo. Now, I'm not an ink and piercings kind of gal. I wouldn't get a tattoo unless I was 100% sure that it was important to me. You are marring your body permanently, after all.

I'm thinking small. The main idea I have is to have "Veni, Vidi, Vici" (I came, I saw, I conquered) done in a nice script, somewhere hidden.

Now for my questions:

1) My boyfriend HATES the idea. He understands why I want to do it, but he just hates tattoos. He's even told me that he's okay with scarring (which I am far too squeamish for), but not tattooing. I don't want to put that on hold because of an aesthetic preference.

2) Any suggestions for design or placement? I don't want anything big or colourful. I want to keep it invisible, so no shoulderblades, ankles, wrists or tramp stamp areas.

3) If I don't get tattooed, does anyone have any other suggestions? I really want to do something for myself. Something permanent; not like a new outfit or a spa day.

umm i saw nothing wrong with my punctuation. Everybody's So Fucking Picky All I Was Doing Was Expressing My Opinion And It Wasn't Even Attitudinal.

[view]


15/f so three of my best friends birthdays are coming up and i have no idea what to get them!
i was going to get one of my friends an ipod since she lost hers (some of us were gonna get together and put in like 20$ for it each) but her parents are getting it for her :/
so basically i need three really good and thoughtfull presents, there all turning 16 and their birthdays are all in the same week.
i got two or them rings last year, so not jewlery...
idk i really cant think of anything, any help would be greatly appreciated! :)

Everyone Knows Getting SOmething Big For Birthday Is Awesome But If You Kinda Wanna Cut Back On Price And Size Something God To Get Is A T-shirt And Not Just ANy T-SHirt SOmething Funny That They Will Actually Wanna Wear. Something Custom Made. Ummm Tye-Dye Hoodie Would Be Cool...and even if her parents are getting her/them an iPod get one of the awesome things that plays the music. like the iPod pillow/stuffed animal i think it's called a docking station.the big ones. theyre like..ehh ....15-20 dollars i think and theyre always adorable. :] heres a place you can go to give u some ideas :D http://www.gifts.com/

[view]


i applied for my school paper, and didnt get in.
i really really want to get involved with writing this year; i want to be a writer someday and i want it to look good on my college application ... so what are some alternatives i can do if i cant be on the paper?
i know this is a vague question considering nobody knows where i live or anything around me, lol. but its worth a shot.

Well What I Do Is That I Get AN Account On A Bunch Of Different Web Sites And i Post What I Want On All Of Them. Like Articles And What Not. People Will Start Reading Them If You Post Enough And On Enough Websites And Sooner Or Later It'll Start Getting Big. Post Lots Of Blogs And Things Where People Can See And Make Sure They Are Interesting. Also What You Could Do It Type Up A School Newsletter Of Your Own And Ask The Teachers If They Will Hand Them Out To Students During The Course Of The Day :]. Post Things IN Your Local Newspaper And Things Like That :] Hope I Helped :D

[view]


This summer I spent a month with my brothers friend on vacation, he came along with my family. I had already liked this boy for quite some time and naturally being with him for so long caused me to want him even more. Well the last week of the vacation we hooked up, I mean we got up to third base and all and I usually dont see myself as that kind of person doing the whole hook up thing I just feel kind of dirty I guess. Well about a week after we got back he asked me out and told me that he couldnt stop thinking about me and I was the happiest girl in the world. Now we've been going out for a month and a half and I've been super happy but he keeps pressuring me to...go back to third base and I know we've had the physical aspect of a relationship familiarized before but I cant help thinking that 1. its too soon in our relationship to get so hot and heavy, 2. he might just want me because I'll give him physical attention and he might not like me as I like him so much and 3. since he already has gotten me to go to third base with him he going to expect it all the time. Anways I'm just really confused, Im 16 and I feel like maybe I'm too young? I'm not sure, any advice or experience that you may have with this would be really helpful! Thank you so much!

well first of all just say something like "look, i know we've done this before but i kinda think we should wait for that again..i was just in the moment" and if he doesnt respect that or breaks up with u then ur just sum booty. buuut if he says "ok" or agrees then he's fine :] some guys are just like that he actually may not be doing it on purpose. he could actually just be really attracted to you :] so just ask him to wait and see how it goes :] hope i helped :]

[view]


15/f
i like this boy who is a swimmer and he is a year older than me and he is really hot but the problem is, we have never once talked before. i'm pretty sure he doesn't even know who i am. i asked him to be my friend on facebook randomly, he goes to my school. he is not very social, and he has a twin brother who i hear is his best friend. sometimes i see him at lunch, he sits a table away from me with an asain boy (also a swimmer), and they barley talk. he is really shy. its really weird, we look at eachother sometimes and make eye contact, but thats all. we've never said hi. the people i sit with at lunch dont know i like him. i really want to say hi and talk to him or something but i dont know if he'll think im weird or something or i don't know. will he? is that weird to do? since we totally dont know eachother? were not in any classes together. i also wanna talk to him on facebook chat or something but i don't know what to say. any ideas? i saw him going into art one time and i'm in art too so i could be like hey i saw you holding a sketchbook, do you like art? but i don't know if that's weird to like randomly say. help please!!! anything will help.

what i do when i want to meet someone is i actually jsut go up to them and say "Hi I'm _____!!" and usually they get freaked out but thats fine. you will see them more often and just say "hi". and then when you think of something like "hey did you go to that football game last week" or something like that go ask him!! little things such as that help generate convos and will get yall as friends. and thennn.....the rest is whatever you make it :] Hope i helped :]

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker