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what do i do, this guy asked me out to go to dinner and a movie on saturday and i said yes now its a couple days later and he thinks were boyfriend and girlfriend
what do i do becuase im really not sure if i want to go out with him (link)
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The same thing happened to me once. Just be honest with him. You can't do any more than that. Emphasize that going on one dating doesn't mean you're dating. Tell him you only want to be friends and get to know him better so you can decide whether you want to date him or not (only say this if it is true). Otherwise, say it was nice being with you, but that you don't want to date him.
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OK so since the last time, i like someone new..
This guy i dont go to school with but theres some bad .. he is 4 years older does drugs and smokes.
but i did it again an once i realizd i liked him i tried to get my friend and him together. it didnt work and he was the one that got hurt out of it. i felt really bad and i started talking to him on the phone and texting and now i reallly like him and someone told me he liked me too so i went and did it again and tottaly ignored him he got really annyeed and so im talking to him again but only when other people are around. i dont know what to do because im afraid if i come near him he will ask me out even though that would be cool cause i like him so much it would also be like horrrible because he is 4 years older drugs smokes prob drinks but he is sooo cool an nice. (link)
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Sorry to say this, but you sound too immature to be in a relationship with someone so much older than you. Sounds like he just wants sex. The "afraid to go near him" thing while liking him shows immaturity and an inability to talk to him about your feelings. If you were more mature, I would say go for it. But I think your intuition is telling you not to date him. The smoking and dating make you uncomfortable and I think the fear you feel is telling you something-don't date him. Just be friends for a while.
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Where do you take this kind of program? I want to apply to a private liberal arts university and it says that apart from a high school diploma, you also need to have completed a college prep program. Do these things cost money to take? And how early in high school can you take it? Thank you! =] (link)
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What private Liberal Arts university are you applying too? The school I go to which is a private Liberal Arts school (Whitman) doesn't require a college prep program. Neither does Grinell or Oberlin or Cornell. I've never heard of this requirement...regardless, they usually do cost money, unless it's a special program the tax payers pay for. All states are different, so you should look up information for this online for your location. You can also ask your teachers for advice.
I found this quote, is this what you mean?
"completing successfully a college preparatory curriculum associated with an institution, such as a college or unified school district"
In any case a good web site is http://www.uccp.org/
Basically, they want to take an advanced curriculum at a college institution (only if your home schooled) or take the hardest classes at your school like Running start or AP. You can do this at any age.
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what should i do if a friend that use to care about you and help you out when you needed it, now he will never help out when i need it or if someone else does. (link)
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Keep in mind that friendships are give and take. Maybe this friend gave you a lot of help, but then didn't feel they were getting anything out of the relationship in return. You could talk to this person about how you feel, then listen to their reasons for not being there for you. It could also be that this person is just having a hard time in there own life and needs to focus on solving their own problems. Or maybe they just need a break from you for a while (this is not a bad thing, sometimes people just need breaks from each other.) Basically, you can't assume they don't care about you until you talk to them.
What does having had surgery have to do with this question? It doesn't stop you from using a computer or a phone. You don't need your friend to help you after having had surgery. You can ask other friends or relatives, or take care of yourself by yourself. You have the ability to deal with it. I've had 4 major knee surgeries which I recovered from while being a full time student. Having had surgery doesn't mean you can require your friends to help you. You can't force your friends to help you recover. You need to recover on your own. Being unable to get out due to surgery sucks a lot. I know. But it is transitory. Keep that in mind, and I'm sure you will be fine.
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