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Hey i'm Elizabeth... im just like any other teenager. I will try my best to answer your questions!

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Lately I have been having thoughts of suicide. Like I used to have it once a month or once every two months, but now it's almost everyday. I even think about how I would do it, how it would feel, what I would say in my suicide note(I have even written one out), I think how my funeral would be and all, I like thinking about it. It gives me a thrill. I know this sounds sick and weird, but it's how I feel. Then there is another part of me that wants to live, that's trying so hard to fight back, but this other side of me is taking over so fast and Im afraid it will lead me somewhere I dont really want to do. I am seeing a therapist now, have told her everything, but Im just so scared it could be any day now. Just tonight my boyfriend was over and while he lay sleeping on the couch I got up and went into the kitchen and grabbed a bottle of pills, I think I would have done it but then I thought about him and reached into the drawer and cut myself to relieve myself from the anxiety and tension. After I cut I didn't want to commit suicide anymore and I felt better. Could someone try to explain what they thin kI might have? I am so depressed and so scared.

Don't think of suicidal life is not ment to be a breeze.. especially for us teenagers. I sometimes get anxious when im around people and get paranoid. But who cares if people are talking about you.. what comes around goes around. Dont be depressed nor be scared. Have postive thoughts life is going to get better. I have tension too. Just do something.. possibly reading takes your minds off of things.

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I'm having my senior pictures taken on October 1. I have 4 outfit changes, but I don't know what to wear? What kind of outfits should I choose?

: )
you could possibly look at last yr's pictures in the yr book that could give you ideas..

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my hair is straight and thin and its hard to do anything with it, but i really want to make it wavy, i want it to look like i just let my hair air dry and it went really cute wavy, but since my hair doesnt naturally do that, how do i make it look that way

well you could do this:
braid your hair before you go to bed at night and the very nice day take it out
or
you could take a quick shower and start messing up your hair just like act like you are scrubbing your hair.. or like just try to mess it up... like i scronge my hair

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I'm getting braces October 3rd and I need help. Do they hurt? What color bands should I get? (I'm kind of preppy, brown hair and eyes.) What should I eat afterward? And all the other things about braces.
I'LL RATE FIVES!

I had braces before
First time my color bands were my school colors... shakes are good nothing hard like chips yet...
eat slowly

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Ok how do you really know if a guys flirtting with you? Like this guy hes seriouly like my best friend! I can tell him anything! Well he like jokes around with me and stuff but how do i know if hes actually flirting? Like is he just being friendly...i don't think he likes me cause where just good friends even though sometimes i wish he did...so what would you consider to be flirtimg? but yea any advide??

it really depends... bc like for me its easy to talk to guys. Yeah they are just easy to talk to. But if he like smiles at you ALOT and just teases you then he probably likes you. Alot of guys do that though so you possibly ask around like his friends..

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What is an approiate age to have sex? I'm 15/F but I want to wait until I'm married. Is that the best time?

yeah best time to wait is when your married.. but if your deeply in love and that person respects you and truly cares... that might be a different story?

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my bf just broke up wiht me, and i am throwing up cuz of it, and i also can't breath wen im crying. what can i do to help?

relax
hang out with friends and possibly find a new crush.
Be happy read, listen to music, dont focus on him

be happy for being single
until you find someone new

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What are some excersizes to help me lose weight and inches in my stomach, legs, and, butt?

walk
cronches
DANCE!
skating

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I am in desprate need of a new AIM screen name. Any ideas? If this helps..
- my name is ali
- i like x's, xO's, x3's and things like that
- i like to dance
- i like words like crazy/i/ii, baby/i/ii, dance, and other words like that.
- my fav. songs are lose control, be my escape, like u,

please help!

CRAZiiDanca
xOxO(your sign)BABii (horoscope sign)


this is a site for sn ideas also
http://www.expage.com/erinzsnideas

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Im moving and i get to paint my room whatever color i want, any suggestions?

favortie color...

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i put my eyeliner on the top of my eyelid and the bottom, is that too much eye makeup? also i use mascara ..nothing else

not to much just dont put on toooooo dark. Also you could also use blush and lip gloss or something.

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my boyfriend tells me he loves me. but he never calls me... he says he's shy ...but, he is sooo not shy. what should i do?

you could call him.. or maybe your relationship isnt just a spark...
let go of him possibly and get a guy that does...

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hey..whenever i get my period i get really depressed and i hate it..and i feel liek whenever i feel this depresssed there is no way out of it..but whenver my period ends it's gone..i kno that this happens to some people..does anyone have any ideas on how to alleviate the depression?

sometimes when girls are on their peroids they get all moody.. thats normal. Just relax and dont think of anything upsetting

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I want to have pizza. The question is, should I have pizza in the morning, pizza in the evening, or pizza at suppertime? Now that pizza's on a bagel, I can have pizza anytime, but I'm just not sure when to have it. Kthx.

lol why not dinner

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what will help me lose weight that i can eat?

just exercise and eat less... lol thats what im trying to do

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Ok so Im a freshman and theres a new kid whos a sophmore, Macon, And he rides my bus and is in two of my classes on the other side of the room in one. Everyone thinks hes annoying becasue he asks a lot of stupid questions (beiing sarcastic) in class but i think its kinda funny. Hes kinda short but really cute. And idk if he even notices me besides when i get on the bus.. but i thought i saw him looking at me in spainish. I dont think i can ever EVER work up the nerve to talk to him. Im trying to look interested like today in class he said something and everyone laughed and i was laughing and i looked at him and smiled.. i think he saw. Hes also in my lunch on day 1 (theres 6 diff days) But .. I dunno everyone thinks hes stupid and i dont and i like him a lot but i dont think ill ever be able to talk to him unless he says something first ! AHHH ! WHAT TO DO WHAT TO DO !?

HOT DAMN! you like men that make a move.. same here! lol anyways you should try to get a nerve to talk to him and dont worry about everyone else! SCREW THEM!

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what are some good ways to bring up a past relationship when talking to your ex??
like for example if i want tot ell him that i still have feelings for hima nd that i miss him??..do i come out and just say it or what??

well if he still has feelings for you than go get him. IF he doesnt then sadly you might have to get over him : (. But hey like people always say there are plenty fish in the sea...

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ok so ages ago i thought i would buy a small pack of tampons.My mum knows ive started my period but she probably does not know i got these tampons and she found them.theres only 2 of them. in a tiny box. be cause she thinks i use pads which i do. So what im asking is what if my mum asks me where i got it? erm or something? 17/f

WHAT?! its a period... hun dont worry about it just say OMG mom im on my period! Theres nothing wrong with tampons... use 'em for swimming...

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Whenever my boyfriend comes over we usually just sit and watch T.V or a movie. This is really boring after a while and I want him to feel like he's having fun when he's around me. Is there anything fun that we can do whenever he's over? Nothing sexual or physical; I just mean fun by enjoying one another's company.
Ex: Making a cake, going to the park, etc.

Thank You.

maybe you could get a group of friends and go somewhere

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Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?

Thanks xo0ox

Maybe shes just jealous. I have to admit some of my friends that are girls have cute guys as boyfriends.

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