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hey ashley um i'm in love with a girl we talk and stuff like that but I don't know if she likes me back can u tell me wat to do ?
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you might not think she does but then again she very well could. Best thing to do its tell her that you like her and if she likes you back well then there you go...
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What should I ask you? (link)
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why must you ask something? there's a good one...
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My friend is such a freaktart! Lol she is only 11 and doesnt know wut the average weight 4 a 4'11 11 yr odl girl is. . do not make this confusing, ,
What is the average weight for someone who is 4 feet 11 inches, and is only 11 yrs old?!
She is like 90-91 pounds (link)
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Depends on there bone structure, some people literally have heavier or thicker bones so they weight more, some people also bulk up more with muscling than others... my guess is her 90 pounds for her is normal, but if I was that tall I might weight more... some people would weight less...
My friends and I weight 130
One is 5’ 2”
I am 5’ 5”
The other is 6’1”
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I got my period 2 days before school started hwich was september secound, I got my period August 31st, And it sbeen coming like the first of every month and I've had it for about 3 months now, and then all of a sudden its already the 6th of december and it hasnt come yet. . is this normal. . I ams till a virgin!!! I havent had sex or anything!! Please help! (link)
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When you first get your period it is highly irregular... it takes till about a year of having it till it seems to get some rhythm to it... so yes it's completely normal just relax! :)
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why do birds fly (link)
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Not all birds do fly but those that do fly to get from place to place since they can't really run, they fly to get away from predators or to find and gather (or hunt) their food... those are just a few possibilities...
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Ok well i used to be the girl who wrote the best peoms ever.Then bout a year ago my other friend started writeing her peotry and totally just critisizing mine and then my other friend started writing it oo and then my friend said whoa is she tryin to take m y place and then said well i took urs i mean my poetry is better well she didnt say that but implied it ever since then i have felt so empty b-cz peotry is the only thing i had why is she doing this what can i do to help and y do i feel like this? (link)
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Your poetry is better than anyone else’s in there own way plus since you started it first... your better ;) so no worries! You still rock... you can't criticize poetry it has no rules it comes from the heart...
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y cant penguins fly cause they have wings and stuff (link)
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Penguins don't need to fly, they live where there’s lots of cold and ice... there wings have adapted to be more useful to them... they use there wings to swim under water and propel themselves down ice banks rather than fly. Since there food is under water it makes more since to have a sort of flipper rather than wings to fly...
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ok i like dont like my friend any more because she is becoming some ones that she is not so what should i do cause i still want to be friends with her but not if she acts like someone shes not it just not right i dont know what to do
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Sometimes people change... I know first hand, friends have came and gone in my life, some have even come back... sometimes people go through stages were there trying to figure them self out so they seem to change... stay on "friendly" terms with this friend... but I suggest finding a new friend you can relate better with now... your other friend may change more or she may come back to who she was in which case you can rekindle the friendship and move on... or you could come to terms with her “new self” and accept it as who she is now and stay friends…
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okay so me and my boyfriend just met a month ago and we're already having sex. I really enjoy it but i think it s too soon! what should I do?
Love,
Horny Baby (link)
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If you think it's too soon and your not yet ready, tell him that, refrain... it's statistically unhealthy for the relationship to go that far prior to 6 months... be careful, if you continue make sure you use protecting and maybe birth control... you need to make sure you protect yourself... if you tell him you think you should slow it down that it's just going to fast he should except that if he doesn’t or threatens to leave you then let him go he's not worth it... he should respect you more than his hormones...
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ok well im a female and im really curious about sex but i wont until im married so in order to pleasure myslf i have to finger myself but im not sure how to i mean i know im supposed to like put my finger in my hole but i dont get pleasure by diong that so what should i do and how should i finger myslf well how do i finger myself? (link)
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Contrary to belief this is not bad, it's very natural to masturbate... 99.9% of guys do it (and if they say they don't there probably lying) 1 in 3 women do it as well... for some reason there is a cultural taboo about women doing this... it's not sinning, its NOT Adultery at all you can't hurt yourself unless you really want to or you scrape yourself with something sharp... those beliefs make it seem bad... it's actually a proven way of releasing tension and stress, and lower blood pressure... so it's actually healthy... also it's proven that it gets your body more receptive to touch and more likely to "peak" when you actually do it... not reaching orgasm is a fairly common problem for women, so why not do what you can to help yourself become more satisfied when you actually do it...
(if your wondering facts come from my research and my mother who tells me way more about sex, women and your reproductive track then I ever wanted to know)
Anyways to your question... you want to find your clitoris, you can use a finger and slowly message in circular motions between your fold around your virgina, relax, and try and find what feels good, fingering yourself is not the best answer... good luck...
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Why do cows have spots? (link)
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Not all do... but the one's that do carry a gene for spotting on the coat, which they inherated from one or both there parents (sections of non pigmented skin)...
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Is it possible to become pregnant through oral sex (female giving to male) ? I was wondering since if you ingest semen isn't it possible for it to work through your body?
Also, is it possible to become pregnant if a couple is merely kissing or say fooling around and the male ejaculates into the vaginal area? They are not naked, boxers and shorts on the male and underwear on the female.
This may seem silly but I really need to know since I am having a difficult time finding alternatives to sex since I feel I am not ready for that yet. Advice would be great! (link)
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You can't get pregnant from oral sex... your digestive system is totally separate from your reproductive track, even if it wasn't those little swimmers would die in your stomach acid...
As for the fooling around the more clothing the less probability, although it is highly unlikely...
Good for you for looking for alternatives, your questions clearly show me your not ready for sex... there are many alternatives... I'm guessing your quite young... If I might give you some advice to help you with your quest... with your significant other be sure to set up boundaries, in my relationship's early stages (first few months) our boundary was nothing below the waist with your hands... as time goes on and your more comfortable with each other than you can extend those boundaries... however be clear about them and stick to them, I believe it’s better that way. An alternative to sex could be something like a picnic, or talking, or kissing; intimate touching and rubbing and whatever else is not the only way to show affection, and if your relationship ends up only involved in that aspect of it then your lacking and it might not be as successful... shirts off, bra off, bottom fully clothed is a good safe way to be close with out risk... using hands to rub each other as an alternative to oral sex... you can even do that fully clothed... there are many ways to get close with out getting “close”... I myself am not comfortable with the idea of oral sex, and I know in the beginning many women aren’t so you might want to find another alternative to that as well... and remember be safe and set up boundaries to stay comfortable...
And good for you for asking
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i've been friends with this boy for a couple of years, just friends, but now, after spending most of the summer and after school with him i now have a crush... he has a split personality... one minute, he's the nicest, funniest, all around good person you'd ever meet, but sometimes he hangs around druggies... this scares me... (link)
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Move with caution... just because that is the people he hangs out with does not mean he does it, but it is more likely… You can fish around to find out if he does his "druggies" friends would probably tell you if you asked if he did, most of them think it's great so why hide it... You have to decide if you know and like him enough to not let his taste in friends kill it, and if your moral convictions are too opposing of his views... also are those guy's really druggies or do they just fit the standard stereotype?
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Okay i like this girl a whole lot but i am to afraid to talk to her becuase i got helled back this year so now she's in eighth grade and i'm in seventh so should i still talk to her (link)
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Sure why not... woohoo, one grade is not a big deal, sounds like you're probably the same age. Go for it! talk to her! It will be worth it!
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How can i stop myself from being self-consious? (link)
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Lots of people in this world are self-conscious... we have to all remember we are our toughest critics. Our standards of what we should look like are ridiculous, and we view our selves with all our imperfections. The only way to relax and look at yourself as more beautiful is to believe you are, and that those little things you find wrong with yourself others probably don't notice. Tell yourself each time you look in the mirror that you are great, pretty (handsome?) you are just as good looking if not better than the other people you know (of your sex) and you have to truly start to believe it... remember that in all fact most people don't remember what they wore yesterday let alone what you wore, and there are probably people out there that with they could look like you too...
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There is someone, a kid a guy. . well im not sur eif he likes me or not. . See we sit next to each othe rin math class. . and well he talks ot me alot laughs wiht me and well he trys to ge tmy attention laot, and he plays aroudn like hits me and stuff, liek not hard but playfully. . and its like I duno if he just my firnd or if he lieks me more than that!?>!?! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Well honestly the only way to know is 1. Flirt a lot and hope he one day says something 2. Ask to exchange sn/numbers see if her calls you or IM's you and wants to talk outside school 3. If you’re not yet in high school then you are young enough to do the all time famous ask a friend deally, or write a note. 4. Tell him you like him, or don't, and just ask him strait up if he likes you.
The only 100% sure way to know is to ask him, if you ask me he seems to act as though he does and odds are good…
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Well i don't know but i would like to know if being a little fat has to do with any thing i just can't seem to get a girl to like me i'm nice i am a beliver of the Lord what should i do? (link)
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Well, honestly be glad your male, as long as a guy has a great personality many girls will never think twice about you being heavier... You need to get some girl friends, talk to girls around your area online (be careful of course) give them a chance to get to know you for you... also if you are too busy worrying about your weight to stop, talk, and flirt with the girls you might be interested in, well then that might be a problem, you can't really get girls to want to be with you if they think you’re a hermit, shy or don't care...
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Okay like who did it???Why did you take my chocolate???? (link)
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Chocolate is good... very good :) and so easy to swipe, could have been anyone, time to get an alarm installed...
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I listen to Simple Plan everynight, Im obsessed iwth them! GOSH! PIERRE IS SOOO HOTTT! but Shawn is hotter, 4 a younger eprson lol. .but honsetly Am I going crazy. . is my whole liek all about Sp!!!!!!!!!??????!!!!!!!!! I luv them, my desktop is sp, I used ot have an aim exspression of sp! my icon was sp, I listen to them i love their hwole cd, and I wanna be just like david, I wanna play a bass!!! lol I DONT KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont know but just tell me if im crazy. . . Dont asnwer this if u dont like sp. . just dont cuz u will say i am crazy!
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My desk top is incubus, aim icon: incubus, have all there cd's know all the songs... its ok to really love a band or singer, it's when you start stalking them, or getting arrested because of it then well your ok. ;)
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Okay, there's this guy who I am madly in love with. I think of him 24/7, I doodle his name all over my school work, and I dream about him at night. But, as far as I know, he has no idea that I like him. Now he's got a girlfriend. I have no clue what to do. I mean, just because he has a girlfriend, doesn't mean that I can just turn off my feelings like they never existed. I mean, I cry everytime I see him and his girlfriend together. And I see him ALL the time. Everyday in class, weekends, summer. It's crazy. I just don't know what to do. But my problem is that I don't know how to tell him that I love him, because I'm positive that he doesn't feel the same way. All of my friends say I should move on...but it's just so hard. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer. (link)
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First off that is NOT love... and don't mistake it for that. What you have is known as infatuation, and it's not bad, it’s entirely normal... crushes are generally based on infatuations, many relationships start that way... Love is when you know that person would trust them with your life and while you understand your differences and acknowledge they exist you can accept then quarks and all... True love usually takes a lot of talking and time (a few months at least) to developed... As for your situation many people have been there, and your friends are right. It's not healthy to become nearly obsessed and cry over a guy that you probably barely know... what you need to do is get out and look at the selection of single guys roaming the streets... get your mind off him and understand that if it is meant to be then when the time comes that he breaks up with his girlfriend then you will be single and can be together... but honestly DON'T wait for him, I did that and it was a waist of good time, its not worth it. You can't change your feelings just try and get your mind off them.
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