Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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My wife seem to masterbait alot, Is this ok or should I talk to her about it, ( 2 to 3 times a week ) Thats what she tells me, I asked her what she is thinking about and she say's real dirty things Can you help J.D. (link)
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This is normal. Instead of talking to her about it, why don't you join her??
Unless of course your not living with her at present then you could talk 'dirty' on the phone with her.
She could just be trying to make her sex life exciting..??
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ok there is this boy who is in my lunch hour and i have a question. I don't know if you are good at reading body language but maybe you can help me. When he eats, he bites the food normally then when he starts to chew it he put his fist in front of his mouth. My mom says it's because he has some sort of insecurity about his mouth. What do you think? (link)
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Yes, your mum is probably right.
It could also be so that while he's chewing and hasn't had a chance to get rid of any food still hanging out of his mouth he hides it.. hehe.
It's also just polite!
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Having an abdominal pain and a white discharge water like kind of dischrge and sore breast, could it be a sign of anything. (link)
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Hi there,
The top 10 signs of pregnancy are:
1. Food cravings: Yes, it's a cliché, but food cravings sometimes can be a sign of pregnancy. Don't rely on them as a sure symptom (it may be all in your head, or even a sign that your body is low on a particular nutrient), but if cravings are accompanied by some of the other symptoms on this list, start counting the days from your last period.
2. Darkening of your areolas. If the skin around your nipples gets darker, you may have successfully conceived, though this may also signal a hormonal imbalance unrelated to pregnancy or be a leftover effect from a previous pregnancy.
3. Implantation bleeding or cramping. About eight days after ovulation, you may experience implantation spotting, a slight staining of a pink or brown colour, as well as some cramping. This is caused by the egg burrowing into the endometrial lining. You might also see some spotting around the time you expect your period.
4. Frequent urination. Once the embryo implants and begins producing the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG), you may find yourself going to the bathroom more often.
5. Fatigue. Feeling tired? No, make that exhausted. High levels of the hormone progesterone can make you feel as if you've run a marathon when all you've done is put in a day at the office. Fatigue is a hallmark of early pregnancy, though probably not a surefire symptom on its own.
6. Tender, swollen breasts. If you're pregnant, your breasts will probably become increasingly tender to the touch, similar to the way they feel before your period, only more so. Once your body grows accustomed to the hormone surge, the pain will subside.
7. Altered sense of taste. You may notice that your sense of taste changes. Some women say they have a metallic taste in their mouth, others that they cannot stand the taste of coffee, tea, or a food they usually like.
8. Morning sickness. If you're lucky, morning sickness won't hit you until a few weeks after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But as early as a couple of days following conception, you may begin feeling nauseated and queasy. And not just in the morning, either -- pregnancy-related nausea can be a problem morning, noon, or night.
9. A missed period. If you're usually pretty regular and your period is late, it's worth trying a pregnancy test. A missed period is the surest sign of pregnancy in a woman of childbearing age who usually has regular periods.
10. A positive home pregnancy test. If you've waited to test until at least the first day of a missed period and a blue line appears in the test window, you're most likely to be in the family way. Make an appointment with your doctor to confirm the good news.
Hope I helped :)
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okay my period has not cam on n i dnt no y. and dis is da second time it has happen da 1st time it was wen it was time 4 my period to cum on n it didnt n i had sex wit this boy but it came da nxt month then da sum days afta my period went off i had sex wit a boy n my period did not cum on dis month n i cnt talk 2 my mama bout it so i ask advice from u plz THNKS!!! SO 4 BEING SO LNG BUT I HAD 2 EXPLAIN WATS WRNG WIT ME! (link)
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Ok first of all, you need to slow down and write in english.
Second, how about you use protection so you don't feel like this everytime you have sex. If you are not ready to deal with the outcome of sex then you shouldn't be having it.
Stress definitely delays your period. So try not to stress. You sound like you are only young so your period may not be regular yet. I suggest you go on the pill so at least that way your are protected against pregnancy and you are able to keep a check on your periods. This will make them become more regularly.
Don't forget that the pill DOES NOT protect you against sexually transmitted diseases so use a condom. This will also double your chances of protection against pregnancy.
I think you should talk to your mother about the contraceptive pill.. this will also show signs of maturity from you. I'm sure she would rather you protected then not at all. Lets face it, regardless of what your mother thinks your going to be having sex aren't you? So think about it!
You will only do yourself out of it in the end if you fall pregnant or catch a disease.
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My friend keeps saying that when we're about to get offline from chatting and it's bugging me. We will be talking a lot and then it'll be like:
Me: Well, I need to take a shower so...
Him: So, that's my cue!
Me: Uh...what?
Him: Goodnight! TTYL
What does that mean?!
That's my cue?!? What? (link)
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It means that because you've said your going to have a shower.. he's said 'that's my cue'
That's my cue to leave you be so you can have a shower.
It basically means that its his turn to leave. Like in a movie they say cue.. which means go, start the scene!
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Okay, so I'm looking to dye my hair a really,really bright platinum blonde.
I was wondering if there was any way to do this myself?
Currently my hair is red/purple.
Will I have to go to a salon in order to get hair that 'white'?
If so how do I ensure it becomes that colour and not just blonde?
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Beauty & Style > Hair
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If you hair is a red/purple colour at present you will definitely need to go to a salon. It will take time to strip the colours out that you have at the moment.
You will basically need to start from scratch and gradually go lighter and lighter. It's like going from one extreme to the other so you wont be able to dye your hair and expect the results you want the first time.
Hope I helped :)
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does anyone know what the drug neuroproxin is actually for. (link)
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I can't seem to find any information in regards to that drug.
Could there be another name for it perhaps?
Sometimes pharmacies give a generic brand of medication which is usually the 'cheaper' brand and it could be called something different then the one prescribed.
I work in a medical centre, so let me know if you find out anymore info :)
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I just dyed my hair (not my first time) and it got on my feet and will not come off. I use the hair dye boxes that you can buy just about anywhere. I scrubbed and scrubbed and I don't know what else to do. How can I get it off asap? (link)
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Hi there..
Try Tea Tree Oil, Nail Polish Remover or apparently cigarrete ashes work ??
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sometimes i get these random balls of bulbs in my mouth that when i go to bite it, it pops and blood comes out. any ideas on what that might be? :( (link)
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Hi there..
They could be little ulcers in your mouth.
Ulcers may result from a variety of causes varying from friction from a denture or rough tooth, poor circulation, bacterial or fungal infection (Candida) or possibly an undetected food allergy.
With the exception of those caused accidentally, for example through inadvertently biting the tongue or the inside of the cheek, ulcers almost always occur in people who are 'run down' physically, or emotionally stressed.
Poor diet, lack of sleep, deficiency in Vitamin C, and antibiotics are the main causative factors.
I'd day get checked out by your GP or dentist.
Goodluck :)
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I have a sort of complicated issue, so bear with me. I don't talk...but only sometimes. okay so it's like this:
in school, i don't really speak up much or try to get myself noticed. I don't know why. so everyone thinks I'm shy. But when I go out with friends, I talk to everyone we meet. I'm the one to meet with strangers and talk to them and become friends.
BUT whenever I meet people through other people, I also get shy and don't talk. I also don't know why. I just feel like I might not have something too interesting to say, but i KNOW that I'm really smart and can totally contribute to a conversation. I guess I'm only shy when there are very outgoing people around me. Like at a party, I will be the shy girl. But whenever people are shy around me, I'm the life of the party and get everyone talking. So I really don't understand this issue. It's becoming a problem because I am almost 18 and am needing to find a job and I seem to be really shy at interviews and stuff. And having trouble talking to customers... I don't know I guess I get shy only when I feel scared of failure...Like with people I don't want to embarrass myself with or authority or very outgoing people. I have no clue. Can anyone explain this or give me any tips? I know of course, don't be afraid or anything, and just think that you wont fail...but that doesn't work I still stay quiet... so any advice???? (link)
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Hi there,
Seems to me like you are the 'shy person' when your in a situation that your not in control of.
Job interview: you can be in control. The only way to be successful is to be yourself and go in there thinking you already have the job. Works a treat!!
It's ok to be afraid of failure, i'm a 100% certain that a lot of people are. Including me at times. The thing is, at the end of the day if you fail, try again tomorrow. It's not the end of the world!!
It's also ok to be the quiet one sometimes. Your allowed to be. Being out there all the time can be full on. As long as you don't pretend to be someone your not then it's all ok!
So what if people think your shy or too out going... Why do people care what others think?!? That's the problem most of the time. We all worry too much about what others think. Just let it go and be yourself. If people can't handle that, that's there problem!!
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At work, im known as the blonde little girl who is friends with everybody. I answer the phones for the company and nobody takes that postition seriously. I just wish that there was a way that i could get everyone to see that its not that easy dealing with customers calls all day. Any advice on how i can make my co-workers respect me more?
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Let the phone ring out... when it starts to drive them nuts tell them to pick up the phone.
Just hope it's a nasty customer!
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Hi iim 16 and a female OKAY i PLAiN ON GOiNG TUH MY BOYFRiENDx HOUSE SO WE KAN HAVE SEx BUT iim KiNDA SCAR3D TUH HAV3 SEx B3CAUZ i DNT WONT it TUH HURT AND i DNT WANNA GO TO THE DOCTER AFTERWARDx SO iF i DNT GO TO TH3 DOCT3R WAT DO U THiNK COULD HAPP3N?.......... AND WAT iZ A WAY i COULD STOP iT FROM HURT3N W3N W3 DO HAV3 S3x ... (link)
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Hi there..
I'm not sure why you think you need to go to the doctor after you have sex??
Every girl is going to feel a little uncomfortable during their first time having sex. You need to make sure you do a lot of foreplay to make yourself aroused and "wet" down there.
Make sure you feel comfortable and relaxed throughout the whole thing or you will tense up.
Be sure to use a condom to protect you against any Sexually Transmitted Diseases and Pregnancy of course.
If your not ready for the consequences of sex (including pain) I would then suggest that you are not fully ready for it.
Of course, it is your choice at the end of the day. Just be sure to practice safe.
Good luck :)
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Hi, I'm worrying about my period because still didn't come, is 3 days late now. When I touch my breast hurts me.
I didn't have sex, my bf just touched my vagina with my clothes on even he had clothes on. If he had an orgasm, sperm couldn't enter my vagina through clothes right? If I worry, it will delay more right? What can I do to not worry about it??
Sorry for asking, but I'm worried. I would appreciate if you reply!!
Thanks.
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Hi there...
The worst thing to do is worry. Stress causes your period to be late! I doubt very much that any sperm would have entered if you both had clothes on. That's even if he did ejaculate.
You haven't mentioned anything about your age but I would say your around 13/14. During this time your body is still growing and still getting use to things.
Your period wouldn't exactly come on the expected due date as your body is still trying to adjust to any new changes.
If your breasts are sore, could mean a number of things. Did your boyfriend grope them a bit too hard? Or have you noticed any changes? If the pain persists and you don't know why then contact your GP. That's not really an area you'd like to leave untreated.
As for the periods, If I am mistaken and you are older and becoming more sexually active, I would seriously consider some sort of contraception.
Play it Safe... Good luck :)
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alright. first of all ive been datin my boyfriend for almost 4 months, and im very happy. hes a really good guy, we hang out with my parents, hes hung out with my grandparents, hell pick me up if i have no where to go, plus hes a real gentleman and we get along great.
the problem is, my friends dont see it. they think that there is something fishy about it which i dont really understand because they dont hang out with him nearly as much as i do. i have a group of 4 best girl friends, but lately they dont seem like that at all.
my main best friend, 'Z', has a big party house. and her mom lets us do whatever basically, even hard drugs. ive done em a few times at her house and for the rest jus smoked and drank.
but the thing is, before z's house turned into a big party house, i chilled with her and our other friend and had fun with out that.
ive been growin up a lot this summer and i realized that i dont wanna spend my summer doin the same thing at that house everyday.
plus, her mom is very manipulative and possesive, and since me and z have been best friends for 3 years, shes like that over me.
so friday night, i got really drunk and went to a hookha lounge with my boyfriend to meet them there. then, we went to a party after that. they all left, and when my boyfriend drove me to catch up with him, 'P' (one of my best friends but i gotta watch out for her) yells 'yeah tricia, why dont you jus go give your boyfriend road head, we're goin to ihop'
sooo i was like 'fuck it lets just go back to the party'...and when i did, i made a horrible drunk decision to do morphine. i was feelin fine until my boyfriend found out and he went crazy! then it turned into a bad trip and i ended up sleepin on his floor freakin out that night. the only problem is i was supposed to sleep at Z's house...
so the next night i go over to Z's house to chill for a lil bit with my boyfriend (who they already dont like) and i told Z what i did the night before and thats why i didnt go pack, plus what P said. she acted cool about it so i thought everythin was fine. they wanted me to stay over and i was going to but then I DECIDED to go home so i did.
welllllllanyways.
z's mom calls my step-dad this mornin, and says that they have to get me away from my boyfriend. because im 'different' (i guess cuz im not goin over there 24/7) and that i did morphine BECAUSE of him (which isnt true & Z told all my friends) and that i was supposed to spend the night at her house saturday (not true)... and she said that im doing coke ! wtf
the first time and last time i did coke was WITH her.
i dont know. all my friends are turnin against me and theyve been my friends for so long.
i dont know what to do :/ help. (link)
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It's not your friends you need advice on.. It's the drugs you do!! Dude, you'll end up killing yourself!!!! Yeah Drugs = Death, Death = NO MORE, THE END, THAT'S IT!!!
Personally, I think you should ditch the drugs, you need to either ditch your friends because they are obviously the one's who influence you with the drugs OR help them too!!
First of all, you need to talk to 'Z' and explain that you like this guy and it's not something that she can control. This is YOUR boyfriend and it should have nothing to do with her.
Second, if they cannot get along and you want them all in your life.. then make time for all of them. Don't take your boyfriend to your friends house and vise versa. Mistake No 1.
Third, tell your friends that you are going to quit with the drugs and do something right for yourself. Your going to be the one who's laughing at the end of the day when they end up like junkies and your doing good for yourself.
There is NO EXCUSE!!!!
Goodluck
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Michael Jackson died today and he was only 50 years old. It really took me by surprise, but it wasn't as if I didn't expect it sometime fairly soon. There have been rumors flying around for some time now about his health problems. As a matter of fact, when Michael was on trial, one day he was late because of health problems. Obviously, the judge didn't feel that Michael's health was all that important because he threatened to have Michael Jackson jailed unless he made an appearance in the courtroom. Michael showed up in his pajamas. Does anyone else remember that?
People made it out to seem as if he was faking. Some people even made it seem like he was crazy and would do ANYTHING as he was suddenly "extremely unpredictable" and all. I guess he wasn't kidding or faking about having health problems, huh?
I'm going to miss Michael Jackson. He was a man who set out to hurt no one, but the world seemed hell-bent upon hurting him. Michael Jackson was seriously the King of Pop in so many ways. Maybe he's better off wherever he is since we trashed his good name without even giving him a chance to speak. I choose to believe that he is now seated up in Heaven, seeing God for the first time.
Does anyone feel like me about Michael Jackson or am I alone in this? When I was growing up Michael Jackson was such a big role model. Sure, he was a little weird but he seemed to care and love. I'm really hurt that Michael Jackson is dead :( almost like a large portion of my childhood has been abandoned. (link)
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Hi there..
I totally feel the exact same way. How could people say things, hateful things about someone who they don't even know...?!?
As for his "nanny" who is now saying that she had to pump his stomach a number of times due to him taking pills... CRAP!!! It all comes out now and he doesn't even have a chance to defend himself.
I think people should stop with the jokes, stop with the nastyness and let him RIP!!! He was a legend and a better person then any of those cruel harted people could ever be. They are pathetic if you ask me!!!!
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I met this guy in my work n he's really nice n that. He got my number off of one of my friends about 2 months ago and has been txting me ever since. A few weeks ago a party we were drunk and ended up kissing. But we both said the next day there was no regrets. He's been inviting me out to with his friends and again we're still like hooking up and stuff. He told me that one day he wanted to kiss me in work but didn't no if he was brave enough. And yesterday he did and he came to see me again today and kissed me today. I don't want to mention anything about a relationship just now because its early days but it was just kind of weird because its now in and out of work if that makes sence. I've heard stories that he's been a bit of a player in the past but faithful when he has a girlfriend. I'm not sure if i want a relationship just now n i'm happy like kissing him n stuff but i don't want to get used. (link)
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Well.. if, for now your just happy kissing him and 'stuff' then i'd leave it at that. Then when and if the time comes where the word relationship pops up... i'd have a serious chat with him.
Let him know that there are boundries that he needs to follow. Until then, just have fun doing what your doing.... :)
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any ideas of what I should get done next?
I already have a belly button piercing.
and I dislike nose and eyebrow piercings.
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-Back of you Neck
-Ears (top and bottom)
-Tongue
-Nipples
-Chest
-Lower Back
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So I dated this guy for two years. I always felt like something wasn't right. I finally broke up with him. And he isn't handling it well to say the least. I want to be his friend. And he says we can be friends, but he is still in love with me. I really care about him so i can't just cut him out of my life. we argue a lot. He is under a lot of stress at home and I feel like he needs me. His friends are all distant now and don't act in a way either of us approve of. So I'm really the only thing he has. I feel like an idiot but what do i do? He still acts like my boyfriend. He's extremely jealous even though I am not dating right now. I just have A LOT of guy friends. And I do like one of them. He gets mad when I don't answer my phone or don't reply to his texts and its driving me crazy. I know he needs time but how much time?! How long will it take for him to get over me and what can I do to make sure I don't hinder the process of falling out of love. I need him to turn into my friend. Is this even possible? (link)
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Ok.. first of all.. it's easy enough for you to say here because you are the one who lost feelings. He still loves you. Try to be in his position. He just lost the most important thing in his life.
In saying this, if you care about him, you will leave him alone. Try not to be his friend. It isn't possible. If you think he is jealous now wait until you do start dating...??!
My suggestion here is to allow him to say his goodbye's and you walk away for good. You can't just keep hanging yourself infront of him as it gives him false hopes. Yes he may need a friend right now but that friend can't be you.
You need to work out your feelings and decide if you want him in your life and be his girlfriend or cut him out completely regardless of how much you do care.
It will make him a stronger person down the track!!
Hope I helped
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id really like help, im wearing a beautiful navy dress to a party, but what coulor of shoes do i wear? alot of people say navy and red go perfect but i just dont know.
any suggestions would be helpful and thankyou
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Yes red and navy do go together but any colour really, as long as you have the same colour handbag and accessories to go with it, you'll be fine.
I'd say if it's a long dress and a bit more formal then wear gold or silver or even bronze. If its more of a casual dress then Red would look hot.
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Sorry i dont know if t would fall into this catergory or not but my girlfriend currently brought me underbelly boxset the other day and we started watching.. Now i have found out there is two can any one tell me which undebelly is the first one and which one is the second one... because the one i am currently watching at the moment has all Kiwi characters in so i dont know if it is the first or second..... sorry if it makes no sense its just hard to explain
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I told you to look on the box set we borrowed and see which one was made first...dah!! xoxo
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