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Wussup? The Name is Lianna, Im 20 y.o, I tend to give good advice, and be real with you. I say what i feel is right, i mean that will be the only way people actually listen. I recently had an account on here, but i deleted it. This is my new one. If you feel you need to ask me a question, please feel free to ask away, I dont discriminate.
Gender: Female
Location: Secaucus, NJ
Age: 20
Member Since: July 7, 2009
Answers: 93
Last Update: March 8, 2012
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I took two expired aspirins maybe an hour ago. My headache wasn't (and isn't) going away so I looked on the bottle to see when I could take more aspirin and realized that they had been expired for a couple of months. Am I okay or should I go to the hospital? And should I take other medication for my headache or will it interfere with the expired aspirin? (link)
it shouldnt be bad...in the case you feel any type of way seek a doctor or the emergency room...make sure you tell someone about this...also, dont take another aspirin you dont want to overdose plus its not healthy wait at least 5 hours for the next pill.


Whenever my mother brings up the subject that I need to get a job I have a feeling of dread and nervousness overwhelm me. I know I'm not incapable of getting a job though. Maybe I'm so nervous over it because I'm afraid I might mess up and get fired or something? I really need help getting over this stupid fear because it's really not good for me if I can't get of my butt to get a job at a fast food place when I'm a teenager how the heck am I going to survive all alone when I graduate? People are trying their hardest to get a job and I'm trying my hardest to run away from jobs! Please help! (link)
you got to grow up sometime.. you got to beleive in yourself, that you wont mess up or anything. actually having a job can be a good thing because you get your own money and later get to buy whatever you want!! Give it a try it doesnt hurt to try..


I just moved into my new apartment and I'm really nervous to be alone! It's a stupid fear, I'm sure, but I'm having a hard time falling asleep now. Are there any ways to cope with nervousness? Can anybody say something to make me feel safer alone in my new apartment? I know I live in a good neighborhood but... :\ IDK! (link)
Keep busy like, watch tv, computer, talk on the phone, invite friends over if already met new people. this would keep you distracted from being scared. for sleep, keep a night light next to your bed or keep a lamp light on.


hi my name is nichole nd i hve a boyfriend problem ill try to mske this short.i am 13 he is 14 we hve only seen each other once. wen we were together he was tlkin bout our future he plnned out our future together.nd wen he said he loved me i thought he meant dat nd da future he planned out was gonna cum true.did he realy mean it cause i thought he meant dat.it was a long distance relationship. me nd gerardo datz his name hve been datin for 3mnths he kept breakin up nd he kept askin me out again nd i kept sayin yes. He broke my heart. nd now he has a new gf named martha. he tells me wat they do nd evrytig is he tryin to hurt me?Me nd my ex used to be friends.bt now we arnt. nd wen we were friends. evn tho he had a gf he said he still luves me. nd my baby bro jus died nd i tld him nd he says i was lyin.nd im not he realy did die.soo my cousin tld him sumting. n now he wants to beat up my cousin dnt know wat to do!!! nd the crazy tin is i still love him!! (link)
he is still too young to even know what he wants in the future or too even know what love is. He is obviously playing with your emotions and heart. you really need to move on as much as you say that you love him. that shouldnt be the reason to keep holding on, if he love you like he says, dont you think he would be with you now? Also, you are young as well, there are plenty of other guys out there. dont let this one guy bring you down. He is hurting you and doesnt care. You need to call it quit.


I haven’t talked to this girl in 6 weeks and I want to say that I miss her.

The complication is that we dated for over 10 months and it's been almost 5 months since she left and I still care deeply about her.

There is a long story story behind all of this but it isn't entirely relevant. Basically we both had some personal problems and she decided to break things off. I didn’t take the break-up especially well either and did some things to push her away. (Small things like insisting that we talk about it right away)

As another note, saying to just move on is not helpful. I hear that enough from my family and friends. While it may be the easy thing to do from an outside perspective, I just cannot say goodbye to this girl completely. I believe very strongly that the two of us can work together, and quite frankly I still love her so there is nowhere to move on to for the time being. I can't search for something I have already found.

I was going to text or call her on the 4th of July but then I thought I should ask here first. Well, it's a few days after the 4th of July so I'm a little late in asking for advice, but everything is still relevant.

I don't want to upset her by any means and patience is always an option. If she is happy and I'm upset that is an acceptable circumstance at least for the time being. I really just want to let her know that I'm thinking about her and that my heart still longs for her without coming off as pushy.

She has asked for space, and even though it was a while ago I'd like to respect that so, just outright saying I miss you may not be the best option...

Any help is appreciated, Thanks. (link)
you need to be really honest with her, tell her how you feel about her and how she makes you feel. alot of guys are usually not the ones to express their feelings but it really helps us girls alot when they are. its worth a try, be very open with her..tell her you miss her terribly. Do this face to face ONLY.


im about 5'3 and weigh about 110.. im skinny but i have rolls when i sit and my stomach is almost flat but i got that fat band at the bottom how do i get rid of it? (link)
do sit ups every single night...eventually u can have a great stomach in less than 1 month if you do this.. im the same as you, it works for me.


im 17 pretty short and skinny.. i have a nice butt and a flat stomach but i have no boobs im like 32b.. do you think theres any chance they will get bigger lol. (link)
maybe not, or eventually when you give birth lol..but most guys dont like big boobs so you shouldnt worry. atleast your pretty with a nice butt. that can keep people distracted from your boobs.


OK If I go to a clinic or a doctor's office to get tested for HIV or AIDS and they find out that I have HIV or AIDs then what do they do? Do they mail me a letter that says I have HIV or do they call me and tell me I was positive for it? What happens? Do I go back to the doctor and ask them about my test results? I'm confused and I don't want to just wait this out and hope I find out--I want to know so I know what to do if I don't get the called/mail/whatever...anybody know? (link)
they would call u asap.....although they may forget to call, so you should keep calling them for the results. good luck


Michael Jackson died today and he was only 50 years old. It really took me by surprise, but it wasn't as if I didn't expect it sometime fairly soon. There have been rumors flying around for some time now about his health problems. As a matter of fact, when Michael was on trial, one day he was late because of health problems. Obviously, the judge didn't feel that Michael's health was all that important because he threatened to have Michael Jackson jailed unless he made an appearance in the courtroom. Michael showed up in his pajamas. Does anyone else remember that?

People made it out to seem as if he was faking. Some people even made it seem like he was crazy and would do ANYTHING as he was suddenly "extremely unpredictable" and all. I guess he wasn't kidding or faking about having health problems, huh?

I'm going to miss Michael Jackson. He was a man who set out to hurt no one, but the world seemed hell-bent upon hurting him. Michael Jackson was seriously the King of Pop in so many ways. Maybe he's better off wherever he is since we trashed his good name without even giving him a chance to speak. I choose to believe that he is now seated up in Heaven, seeing God for the first time.

Does anyone feel like me about Michael Jackson or am I alone in this? When I was growing up Michael Jackson was such a big role model. Sure, he was a little weird but he seemed to care and love. I'm really hurt that Michael Jackson is dead :( almost like a large portion of my childhood has been abandoned. (link)
sad he was amazing RIP MJ


i have virtually small breast between an A/B cup.. i want the most cleavage i can get lol.. what do you think is the BEST push up bra out there..and links to wear i can buy it. (link)
no link..but go to victoria secret, its called miricle bra..a bit expensive but works wonders.


So when you go visit a gyno and get checked out, and he finds something out, for example, you having a disease or something ? Do they tell your parents ? Or do they keep it a secret ?

Thanks in Advance ! (link)
its always a secret, they will never tell. the conversation is between u n the doctor and noone will know.


hii guyss. well i just finished getting my period and today i had sex and iwas on top and when i got off my boyfriend said the condom fell off and it was in me. then i had sex for about like 2 minutes without a condom but he already finished before and he wasnt hardd.. so i wanna know is it bad the condom fell off ( i took it out like 10 seconds after) andd with the no condom is that bad? i know there is always a chance no matter what i do but i just wanted to know how worried i should be and if i should take the plan b pill or other wise known as the morning after pill..
thanks guys! (link)
yes its bad, most likley u can become pregnant..i would suggest taking PLAN B asap. it may be expensive but its not more than having a baby.


Hey im 18/f and i got caught shoplifting at a shopko with my friend. The thing is though is i helped her take the blame even though i didnt shoplift, they left the room and she gave me some of her stuff and i thought being a good friend i would help her take the rap. They decided not to press charges/prosecute us and we didnt have to go to court or anything just pay a fine. Is this still on our records even though they didnt take any action, besides sending us a fee? I know this was really stupid of me, but at the time it seemed like the right thing to do was to help my friend. Thanks! (link)
nope it will not be on your records..It would've been if you want to jail. but no worries just dont do it again.




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