umm...im tall, blue eyes really sweet and get along wit pretty much anyone i meet. juss ask me anything cuz ive probably been through it all.
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Ok, theres this guy who is my friend and who has been hanging around me but like in a wierd way. He gives me "happy embarassed" looks and likes to sit by me at lunch. My friend told me she thought he liked me, but he denied it. Do you there is any possible way that he really does like me. I really need to figure this out. Please help.
PS. He also flirts with me alot alot alot!!!! (link)
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guys will deny lots of stuff. if u like him and he flirts a lot, then he likes u. so hang out w/him more and flirt back w/him. hope i helped ya!
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For the past few monthes i have gone through a lot. Family problems, friend problems, school problems...etc etc etc. All i have really wanted is someone to hold me and be there for me (to put it plainly i really want a bf) Just so he can be there for me to tell me its ok. Friends are great to have and all but i want someone to hold me when i need them. My problem is i can't seem to get guys to like me. My friends say i am really pretty and i have everything it takes to get a guy. But for some reason i can't get a guy. Could someone please tell me what to do? :-/ (link)
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every gurl wants someone to hold her and be there for her. if you have some sweet guy friends that you wouldnt mind getting closer to, then try that. go to them w/ur problems and talk 2 them bout it. even if they dont like you, u will still have some of ur closest guy friends there ready 2 support u when ur feelin down. if ur friends all say ur pretty then believe them and give the guys some time. bcuz believe it or not, theres always a guy out there that likes u. he may just be chicken and not tell u. hope i helped ya!
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I have always been worried about how i look in a bathing suit. This December i am going on a cruise and i really would like to look great in a 2 piece. Does anyone know any good work outs or diets i could go on just to shed some pounds in time for it so i dont look weird. (Most of the problem is my stomach and my legs) PLEASE HELP! (link)
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ok if you want to lose some weight, the best thing 2 do is replace it w/muscle. with ur legs, u can run around ur neighborhood, bike, rollerblade or something like that. with ur stomach, you can do crunches everyday. whatever you do, dont go on any carb diets. u need carbs 4 energy. so i would suggest eating foods like salads, breads, fruits and veggies. hope i helped ya!
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Over the summer i spent most of my time with my infatuation...lets call him fred. So fred and i were dating on and off during the summer but we always liked each other. We never dated anyone else and we spent the days talking to each other or hanging out. Before school started he asked me out again and then went on a 2 and 1/2 week vaca. Sfter he got back he broke up with me. It was like the first thing he said to me. I was crushed. Because i felt that i fell in love with him...and at one point he told me "i love you" but when i asked him if he meant it he wasnt sure. Now that school has started he was introduced to my bestfriend...lets call her mary. I have been so crushed because they both like each other and mary isnt even being conciterate of my feelings. They always flirt in front of me and it drives me nuts. Some nights i even cry myself to sleep. How do i get over this? Or how do i win him back? I would rather win him back...i really loved him with all my heart...and still do...
btw, sorry it was so long, but i rate high!:-)
~Signed, Lost in Love (link)
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dear lost in love,
this has to be the sweetest story ive ever heard. ok, this guy sounds like an idiot 4 not keepin you as his gf. I kno its definently hard 2 get over. but you dont have 2. try flirting when mary is around, and when they flirt, ignore it. he probably wants 2 make u jealous. if u really love him and hes still ur good friend, then tell him how u feel. if ur not great friends, then become better friends and then tell him. theres always a second chance. hope i helped ya!
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okay, i met this guy at a party.. and we like held hands and stuff and i think i like him but i'm not sure. we dont go to the same school but i know a lot of people at the school he goes to and everyone says he always talks about me (in a good way) and i dont know what i should do.. i talk to him online sometimes.. and once on hte phone.. im confused? (link)
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i think that u should hang out w/him more often. it sounds like he likes you. if ur not sure, then try to hang out w/him sometime so u can really get 2 kno him. if ur sure you like him after that, then go 4 it. hope i helped ya!
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i relly really think my man is cheatn' on me bcuz
he talks ta otha gurls on tha fone so this is wat happened ...... 1 day i called him and he said hold on that time he had me on hold for whole half an hour just to talk ta some gurl kassy or something but then he says he doesn't giv out his # to gurls but i kno he is lyin'bcuz he got a bunch of gurls names on his cell phone. i really dont care if he is talkn' ta gurls but he ratha talk ta them more than he shuld talk ta me.
wat shuld i do i rate very high.
ps.wheneva i give a feed back im goin' ta say thanxxxx (link)
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ok if ur boi is actin weird like that, then talk 2 him bout it. if he denies it, then use his cell fone as living proof. tell him u feel like hes doesnt want 2 talk 2 u anymore. hope i helped ya!
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i REALLY like this guy...but im not sure if he likes me ... he flirts with me ..alot..but then not alot if you understand that ..but also i just really wanna know who he likes..but since he knows that i like him i dont wanna ask him ..wat do i do?!..also he is like dropping signs ((i think and my best friend thinks)) that he likes me ....i cant really explain the signes but yeah..wat should i do? (link)
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ya guys are really confusing at times. i think he likes u. if youre not totally sure, then u should ask ur best friend to ask him 4 u. hope i helped ya!
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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks! (link)
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its ok 2 be clueless. wut i think hes tryin 2 say is to call him! get 2 talk w/him more often. maybe he likes u 2. hope i helped ya!
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Okay!Well a month ago I broke up with my boyfriend who I am madly in love with. He is in love with me too but it is a long distance relationship, so I thought that he and I being friends would be the best thing for now. Yeah I couldnt see him whenever I wanted but just being able to talk to him made me happy. Our relationship was made up of trust and love. He is so in love with me. I miss him so much. He is now dating a gurl who he loves as a friend not a gf. we havent talked since we broke up bc it is so hard too. I had my friend call him and I grabbed the phone when he picked it up and hung up. Then she called back and talking to him. He wanted to talk to me but i couldnt bc it was too hard. I kno that no matter what he wants to be with me in the future but right now it is to hard. I also kno that no matter what he will never stop loving me. But what I am getting at is that I dont kno what to do without him .I feel so lost and empty. Like he always used to tell me that he loved me before I went to sleep and it was so conforting. I miss that so much. What should I do? he and I have been through so much in the past and its stuff that is unforgettable. Do you think that he and I will be together in the future. BC he said he wants to me and I DO MORE THEN ANYTHING.Its like if u are in love with someone and it is meant to be then it will happpen right? i hope so!
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i hope so too! i think you 2 are lovebirds. this sounds so sad. what u should do is call him and tell him all the stuff u just wrote about him. tell him how u feel and that ur just not ready to let go of him. hope i helped ya!
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alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high
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dear not ready to let go,
if you feel this way, then tell him. he needs to kno bcuz u never kno he mite be doin all of this stuff for your attention from u. just tell him straight up. dont even consider doin anythin 2 urself. i kno u love him w/all of your heart, but u probably have tons goin 4 u. if u want him back then tell him and try goin back out. tell him lots that u need him. tell him everythin u said bout him. that u need him, that hes ur life. u never kno wut could happen. hope i helped!
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I have these dark circles under my eyes. They're huge though, and I can't cover it with makeup! They go from my nose (by my eyes), and go down in a round motion (which lines up with the end of my nose). They fade as they go down. How do I get rid of it?? (link)
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try taking a nap everyday. there are also special cremes out now for circles under ur eyes so try some of those. hope i helped!
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Does anyone know a site where I can download it or a store where I can buy it...Jessica Simpson's CD Sweet Kisses...Song: I Wannna Love You Forever..INSTRUMENTAL ((without words)). Because I want to do this song for the talent show and I have to have the instrumental of it. Or Michelle Branch--Spirit Room--You Get Me. (link)
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u can always go 2 www.launch.com and look the song up by artist or title of the song. hope i helped!
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hey i have little freckles on my face n they r lyke really light so it looks like the skin on my face is dirty or something but i usually wear powder cover up by cover gurl on it and it works really well but it never lasts for a very long time...ive tryed liquid and i hate it it makes me break out..i wanna stick to powder but do any of u know any good brands that stay on long?? (link)
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it depends on ur skin. if nothing seems to give you the right result, then i would just go w/out the cover up. even if it makes u look dirty, its better then breakin out. hope i helped.
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ok so lately all ive felt like doing is crying whenever someone says something to me i wanna cry even if its nice and im always yelling at my mom n my sister just so they leave me alone and i get annoyed by the easiest things.and my sister is MR(mentally retarded) n she gets on my nerves sooo bad cuz she doesnt know when to shutup! i hate being mean to her! n like yesterday we were out and these 3 guys were making fun of her and i just went off on them i dunno what happened it just came outta the middle of nowhere. i get pissed off so easily..but i never used to be like that.ive been sleeping alot n being really tired.Whats wrong wit me? i rate high! thanx! (link)
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its ok to feel down sometimes. everyone goes through sometime in their life when they just want to cry all the time. your family can sometimes seem like an annoyance but they really love you. im sry to hear that bout ur sista. my cuzin is ADD and i kno that stuff gets annoying. i hate being mean 2 him but it does get through. in this world, people get made fun of a lot. i hate 2 be mean but im glad you went off on them like that bcuz they need 2 kno that they were wrong. my sister sleeps a lot too. its just normal stuff that everyone goes through. if u can make it through this, then u will be so happy with yourself. hope i helped.
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Am really close to my older cosin and all ways have been. She started seeing this guy james ive known a while. They both love each oyher very much but the problem is she NEVER spens time with me any more. I was the 1 that got them together and now my jobs done am left behind. I know it will end in tears and she'll come runing bak but am stuk for what to do just now. (link)
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you need to tell her now that she is already spendin 2 much time w/him and not enough w/u. if u never tell her, she'll never kno somethin wuz wrong.
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my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.
i rate very high.
signed confused friend. (link)
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u should straight up tell her. dont ever be afraid to tell your friend the truth. if u arent honest 2 peeps, then someday somethin really important might happen and you mite be able to stop it. hope i helped!
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Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!! (link)
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this gurl definently wants to be the center of attention. if it bothers you all enough, then tell her straight up that u love her like a sister, but shes startin to get so annoying. tell her how bad it makes u feel. if she doesnt understand, then shes not worth feelin bad.
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These past 2 years i've been feeling really depressed and its reflecting the way i act towards people now. I feel as if i can't trust anyone, and unpleasant things have been going on. Since 6th grade i've been cutting (im in 8th now). And now, It's like i always want to,and i cant stop, but its gotten to the point to where i dont even know it. I cant concentrate because i've lost most of my friends, and the 2 friends i have now act like they dont even want to be around me. All this anger is built inside of me, and i have no one to talk to about it and so i take it out on myself because i feel like its my fault even though it may not be. Im losing almost everything, and i always feel like my friends talk about me behind my back. I want help, but i want help from people who understand me, and who actually want to listen and care about me, but it seems none of my friends can really fill those needs. (link)
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i hate 2 admit this, but hey i kno wut ur goin through. i cut b4. i kno its not fun and peeps dont understand u at all. wantin 2 get help is so good, im not even brave enough 2 do that. a great thing 2 do is find someone that has cut b4 or something serious like that. they will really kno where ure coming from and u'll get the best answers that u can.
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I feel that I need a boyfriend. All of my friends have one. But no, it's not because of that. You see, I think I need someone to talk to, someone that will make me feel better, someone who is sweet and there for me. I want a boyfriend, and it's NOT because I wanna impress people that I have a hot boyfriend. I just feel lonely. But IDK how to get a bf. I wana ask guys out, but I am SOO sure that they'll say no, because they don't like me. They like the popular, hot girls. Not fat, ugly, stupid, weird, girls. (link)
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i must be your twin. i totally feel the same way 24/7. what you have to do is just stick with it. some of your best guy friends can fill your lonelyness by listenin to you when u need someone there. if u really want a bf, then just ask some guys. if they say no then atleast u'll kno u tried.
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relationships never seem to work out...
the guys that like me are the ones i would rather avoid...
but the guys i like see me only as a good female friends.
what should i do? (link)
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i kno exactly where youre comin from. and i have the exact same answer my friends tell me. thats just the way guys are rite now. i kno its super hard to just wait for a guy to ask u out, but the guys that u like will eventually see wut a great person u are. just wait and see.
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