My names Sam and I live in Georgia. I feel that I give good advice or I wouldn't be doing this. Sometimes I'm feeling sympathetic but a lot of the time I can be kind of blunt. That doesn't mean that I don't care, it just means that the truth isn't always what you want to hear. If it's a complicated question, about relationships and such, please IM me its a lot easier to work out that way. If you leave one in my inbox it will most likely be responded to by a question and a shot in the dark so include as much info as possible.
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Hi my name my name is jessica im 11 yrs old and im going out wit this boy that i think likes me but i dont know if i like him its hard cause i dumped him before so its just i have a feeling im not ready for a b/f and i tried to call him but he never answers what should i do? (link)
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it sounds like one of those relationships that 11 year olds have. Where you break up and go out and break up because ya'll dont know how to resolve a conflict. You could try to be mature and work things out, but your young, energetic, and should be out having a wonderful time, so what's the rush?
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I have been talkin to my best friends ex boyfriend a lot lately. and i think i like him. when we were talkin online he asked for my email address and eh emailed me a picture of himself. (hes cute too!) well when i was tlakin to my friend she was like "you don't liek him do you cuz that is a nono!" and i told ehr i didn't because i ddn twant her to get mead. but i really do like this kid any idea what i shoudl do??? I'll rate if your answer helps at all!! (link)
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You only live once. I don't know how it is for you, but I very seldom actually like someone. When someone comes around like that, does it matter if they dated your friend at one point? I know it might upset her a little bit, but would you prefer to be the one hurt? why is it better for you to sit in your room depressed then to have her a little mad at you. She could very well do the same thing to you one day.
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now almost 5 months but lately we've been fighting alot and i dont like it..like everyday something new to fight about comes up..we hang out like everyday so people say its because we need to hang out less..he brought up taking a "break" or time apart..im scared..=(..what should i do..and does it seem like its gonna work out in the end?
xO ManDiiE =) (link)
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It can work, and if you really want it to it will. First off, fights don't mean anything in a relationship. You just need to work it out. A lot of people just end relationships when a fight happens, its a lot smarter to at least try and work it out. Maybe you should hang out less though. People do get sick of each other and hanging out too much affects the rest of your life and relationships too. Just don't forget to make time for yourselves somewhere in there. One of my best friends fights with his girlfriend constantly. We try to get him to end it, but he really loves her and so somehow they work it out and have an incredibly strong relationship.
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i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast? (link)
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sometimes I pop them, but only cause it fun, and it only rarely helps, so wait until its so big it's disturbing and your ready for depserate measures. otherwise, you could cover it with make up, but that might clog the pore even more and make it bigger, i wouldnt do it, but I'm a guy so what do I know. Anyways theres not a whole lot you can do except to realize that no one probably cares near as much as you do.
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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu (link)
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These things happen and as horrible and unfair as they may be, theres not a lot you can do about it. It's absolutely alright to cry, some people say it doesn't help anything but every now and then things do build up and you have to release it some how. Your not a crybaby and if it makes you feel better than more power to you. If you ever need someone to talk to im on AIM or MSN messenger as much as I can be so don't be a stranger.
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what is the normal/ideal weight for a girl that is 5'8 and is 14 years old? (link)
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I'm about 5'8 too, but im a guy and 15. Girls usually weigh about 10-20% less than guys do, so maybe 115-130 would be the most attractive weight range, but if you mainly worried about health then all the way up to 150 is probably ok if you exercise.
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Hey, just wondering...what is 'moonshine'? I know its some kind of really strong alcohol, but does anyone know exactly what it is? My boyfriend wants to try it & I'm worried what will happen if he drinks too much of it! (link)
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oh that stuff tastes nasty as hell, It will knock you on your ass though. He won't die unless he drinks too much, and if he's never had it before, i doubt he'll be able to take too much.
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i love running! but i hear its bad on your joints in your knees...what else can i do isntead of running? (link)
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I love running too, or at least I used to and then I kind of well, anyways this is about you, not me. Running is bad on your joints, I had problems with my hips myself, but running trails is a lot easier on the joints. I myself am thinking about picking up triathlons which allows you to give up a lot of your running training for biking and swimming and mixing it up is always fun.
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hey - my best friend has this boyfriend .. and like i KNOW shes to good for him and whenever the THREE of us chill something goes down and she gets mad at me .. because i "flirt" with him .. like i try not to and shes such a bitch sometimes i just cant take it and then .. she goes and chooses him over me .. how can i tell her hes no good without hurting her .. and this is something that totally bugs me .. you have NOO CLUE .. and maybe if it was 2 guys and 2 girls i wouldnt get into a fite with her .. and you know what i cant help that i like her boyfriend a lil cause he is really really HOT .. help me please !! (link)
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First off don't be a cock block. Sorry to use slang like that, but if he's about to do something with her then don't step in or interrupt, theres nothing more annoying. Flirting with him isn't a big deal. If it bothers her that much then she probably isn't very seccure with the relationship. I flirt with my friends girlfriend all the time. He knows that she really loves him and so it's ok for me to joke around and flirt. Maybe you should talk to your friend and explain that your not actually trying to pick up her boyfriend and that if it upsets her that much then you'll try and stop.
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im going out with some of my friends and older guys next week.. and my friends and i are all matched up with guys.. but the problem is.. ive never french kissed anyone before.. and all my friends have so they dont understand what th ebig deal is.. but i dont really feal comfortable going wihtout knowing how.. i know htis might sound odd.. but in the pictures with yo and nathnan you seem to know what your doing.. could you give me tips liek.. were tp put my hands and basically how to french kiss? this means alot to me.. and thnaks
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Don't be too scared about it. Everyone is fairly bad their first time, well except for me of course.....haha ok maybe not, but the easiest way is to let him lead, just look for any signals he might give you. Like if he has to pry your mouth open with his hands, you've missed a few signals. The best way to tell is when he turns his head slightly sideways open up a little at first and then a little more after a little while, trust me, it's not as hard as you probably think it is.
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