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Location: Massachusetts
Age: 16
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Member Since: May 25, 2005
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Last Update: August 23, 2005
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...ummmm...how do I put this...My friend well...stinks. Like literally! Like I dont know how to tell her to get a stronger deoderant or somthing but like being around her makes my stomach hurt. Please someone help me!

haha well next time you are putting deoderant on around her just be like "this stuff works really good!" and maybe she will want to try/buy some. or you could buy her some body spray or perfume and just be like "hey this smells really good!", she won't even know that you think she smells lol

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Does anyone think it would be okay to go swimming on your period, and without wearing a tampon? My mom said I have to wai till I'm about 15, and I'm a couple of years younger. What should I do??!!! And if so, what do i do after i get out of the pool?!

noo! not a good idea, water does not stop your period no matter what anyone says. there's a chance you won't bleed while you're in there but most likely you will. i dont see why you have to wait until you are 15 to use a tampon, just tell your mom that you will read the directions carefully!

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My friend is ova at my house and she is really annoying like singing and stuff!!! AHHHHH!! help

tell her to shut up

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ok this may sound gross but whatever.. ok my b/f has only ate out 1 girl and thats me. he had an other g/f but never ate her out and he was the 1st person that i let eat me out so there is no chance of him having any infection in his mouth if he ONLY ate me out and if i never let anyone eat me out..... am i right???????????





-so he never ate out his ex
-he ate me out
-i never let anyone else eat me out
-so..he never ate her out he ate me out and i never let anyone eat me out

so therefore he couldnt possibly have any infection right?????????? so basically what im asking is
could i have an infection???









you could get an infection from anything, it doesnt mean it will be permanent or an STD but yeah, you could have an infection. but dont worry about it unless you start having weird symptoms

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Hey everyone, um, i have a really bad problem with looking at porn. the longest i have gone without looking at porn is 1 week. I really honestly think i am losing my faith. I am afraid that i am getting further and futher from God. A lot of bad things have been happening to me and my friends. I cuss a lot more. I do stuff, I look at porn more and more and i cannot stop. Please dont tell me that what i am doing is wrong cuz i know that. I need some really good advice

well honestly i dont think that looking at porn has anything to do with the bad things happening to you, you're probably just associating it all back to that because its constantly on your mind. looking at porn doesnt make you a bad person but if you really think it is then u need to stop!

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when you go to get a physical.. sumtimes yoou have to pee in a cup right? well can they tell by ur urin if you have smoked weed.. cuz i thought that when you go they get a urin sample to see if you have done drugs?? or maybe im thinking of sumthing else.?? PLEASE I RATE HIGH

if you are not dumb about this i will rate you a 5..

you won't have to pee in a cup unless you tell the doctor that you are having problems down there, like if it stings or hurts when you pee. or if you parent/guardian requests a drug test, yes they can tell if you've smoked week but only if you've done it within the past couple months!

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I'm home and I need to think of something to eat for lunch. My dad won't make anything for me. My mom would freak out if I ate the wrong thing. And if I eat another God-forsaken sandwhich I would freak out. So what's something I could eat?

kind of a weird question .. ask ur mom what u can eat i guess

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ok so i want to change my name on myspace. when i was about to do it...it said make sure this is what you want because you can never change it. so...i changed my mind and didnt change my name. but..i have a friend and his has said...edge like me...then he changed it to..you can be edge like me...and then finally its...you can be edge with me. so...was that just a joke the person who owns the site put on there for some reason? can you really neverrr change it once youve changed it once?? he also has a music one...and it said worse case scenario...and then he changed it to beneath the silence. im just confused.

u cant change the URL, but you can change your name & your display name.

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Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
Signed,
Screw this
.P.S. I rate high

flash them haha .. they're just jealous anyways, they're gonna say what they want because well people are immature.

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what does 69 mean?

its when a girl & a guy give each other oral sex at the same time

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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!

considering its his birthday and you invited him, you should pay. hes probably probably thinks it is his birthday gift.

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my frend wants a bf and asks me to help her find 1. i dont want to help her. how should i tell her?

just tell her you dont want to help her because you think it will better if she finds her own boyfriend. let her know that by picking out her own boyfriend she is more likely to actually like him a lot and get along with him better!

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Umm when the health teacher said that kids should never do oral sex wut does that mean? Plzz tell me!!

oral sex is blowjobs & eating out.

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ok. im a freshman , or i was last yr. and i just got my report card in the mail. i didnt do to good but i dosn't say anywhere if i passed or not? i only got a 1.4 GPA and 5 credits and my mom isnt to happy .but it dont say if i got promoted to my sophmore year?? can anyone possibly help me out. thanx
-Francesca

well in high school u dont really get "promoted" to the next grade. if you havent taken all the necessary classes or you dont have enough credits by your graduation year then you will have to stay another year to make it up.

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i am 13 and i want to have sex but like when it comes to that i get scared like i want to pratice with someone that wont laugh if i mess up ..... i love makeing out and i want some body that i can pratice with....it dosent matter guy or gurl i dont kno who to turn to

please help

sex isn't something you should just go around practicing. when the time comes, it will happen. if the guy knows it is your first time he won't care, and i mean you really can't mess up.

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i think i am way fat. everyone tells me i am skinny, but seirously, i am 5'3" and 112 pounds. my friends think that just cause i m going on a diet, i will be anorexic. help!!!!!!!!!!!!
i give high ratings

you're not fat umm at all. if you want to feel better about yourself then just exercise, dont diet theres no need for you to.

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I have bad stretch marks on my legs and I was wondering that when I turn 18 is there any procedures I can do to have them removed or something? Or do I have to put up with them for the rest of my life. I figured since there is plastic surgery for everything else than there might be for this. Also, until then (I'm 15) is there any way I can make this less noticeable? They are really, really bad and I don't know how I got them so bad! I'm not even that fat just a little chubby and I only thought bigger people got them! Well anyway, thanks for the advice, I wasnt sure where to put this!

all girls usually get stretch marks, they are not just from being fat. you can get them if you gain weight too fast (any amount) you can also get them just from growing in general. im not sure of any procedures that you can get to remove them (im sure you could google it though) to make them less noticeable use cocoa butter lotion. it wont get rid of them but deffinetly will lighten them!

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I got my period 7 monthes ago but im still getting discharge... does it ever stop!

Discharge is normal. It never goes away.

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is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship

not at all!!!!

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hey well i got my period in the middle of march (it was my first one) and i still haven't got another one! is there anythin wrong with me? i know it usually takes a while, but does it take this long? plz help

yes it's perfectly fine! it takes a year & sometimes longer for your period to get on a regular schedule.

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