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I'm a junior in high school, at the end of this school year I plan on moving out of my parents house and moving to another city. The city I plan on moving to is only 2 hours away. I would like to know if there is anything that I should consider about finances, I have money, a job and its not a mcdonalds job, its a well-payed job. Please dont tell me "its not right to move out" I have already decided that I am.
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You ask about any thing to consider abut finances, and you mention you have aperantly a very well paying job, you are a junior in high scool and you have made up you're mind to out from you're parent's house, the thing is are you ready to face the crul world, maybe you think that you will be safe after you move out, but the fact of the thing is this preditors that go after single girls and rape them slaughter them torture them and desmember there bodie's is excatly what you will become a clear target for there diabolic sedistec killings pleasures, there are several that after they do what ever they want with there pray they cook and eat tere human flesh, You think im kidding, things are getting to a point to where we will need armor protection in our own homes,Don't you see the News. Stay home baby.
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ok, well..
i have 34a's and they're always sore.
and when i lay on them they hurt.
they're hard and reaalllly tender..
WHATS WRONG?!?!?! (link)
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You need to see you're Doctor and have a brest memmogram.
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Female, 14... Well i was in cuba and i had a miscarriage.. And after i got my period like i would normally.. But now, just fourteen days later, i got my period again. I havent told my mom yet, the only one that knows is my boyfriend. Is this normal during a regular period? (link)
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First of all how in the world did you went to Cuba at 14 years old and how did you have a miscarriage and apreantly no one of you're family knew, there is something fishy on you're advice, apreantly after you're miscarriage shurly thing's will not be normal,becarfull of a hemerrage. Don't have sex till all you're bleading is back to normal. You're not old enough to be in the pill, but sometimes it's better then bleeding to death.
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Alright, My name's Nikki, I'm 15, female, and I have a bit of an issue. I dated this guy last year in my freshman year of High school. We'll call him Alex. Well, Alex & I dated for about a few weeks, then I went through this awkward stage of not wanting to be in a relationship at the moment. It was pretty early on in school, & I didn't want to attach myself to a certain person so quickly, you know? I wanted to get to know some more people before I started dating again. Whenever I broke up with Alex, he was pretty upset & he thought it was because of some other guy that I didn't want to date him anymore. I will admit, there were plenty of cute guys in a few of my classes, & about 2 I had a slight crush on, but Alex was throwing things completely out of proportion. I'm the kind of girl that usually wont date someone unless I think we can be friends. Well, somehow, I'm still not quite sure how, but somehow, Alex guilted me into dating him again. And a few weeks later, that same feeling of....I'm not sure how to put it....constriction? came upon me again, so therefore, I broke up with him once more. I just did not want to be in a relationship. Soon, it started to become a vicious circle & I ended up dating him at least 3 more times during the length of the school year. After it all ended, he blamed me for everything bad that happened to him, & even though we shared a whole lot of great memories, he could be a bit on the ignorant side. I asked him to be friends with me every time we broke up, but it was always the same response "No, I could never be friends with you. I'd date you, But I could never be friends with you." Now, this boy means alot to me. & I really do mean ALOT. I would give anything to spend some time with him like nothing bad ever came between us. But now he absolutely refuses to talk to me unless its to insult me for all the times I've broken his heart. I would do anything to fix it. I've tried to just forget him like he's tried to forget me, but I just can't. I keep thinking about random little moments we had together whenever I'm doing stuff that's nowhere NEAR related to that thought. School's gonna start pretty soon for me. He'll be a Junior, & I a Sophomore. I'm scared to see him again because I'm unsure of what will happen between us. I'm in a relationship with a certain guy right now, & I'm really happy, but I just can't get over Alex. I don't have any feelings for him other than the wishful hope for friendship, but I know he'll never forgive me. All I'm asking for is anyone to help me get over him completely, or at least a suggestion as to something I could try to at least somewhat fix things between us.
PS: just as a side note, Alex is the type of guy that loves to exaggerate things a bit too much. He gets angry over the smallest things, and if there's a memory in his head of a past incident, he never seems to let it go.
Someone help. Please? (link)
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You're sixteen years old and already having boy problems, well let's start with you, you are to young to be serious into a relationship, and that is what you should use with any boys that you meet, you can have a good friend but a serious relationship should not be in the picture, you can always say you're parents do not let you have a steady boyfriend until you are older, this way you can have boyfriends as friends, and can let go of a friend boy in case of problem's.
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I'm 17. I have taken swimming lessons, and used to go to the gym regularly. I stopped and havent gone in about 2-3 months. I would like to start swimming, to lose weight. I would like to become a fast swimmer.
Are there any techniques, workouts, exercises that may help me? Are there any websites that can also help?
when i start swimming, how long should i swim and how many laps/set if there are sets.
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Get back on the same program you seem like you was doing good, Hope i helped.
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so i signed up on cash crate to do the paid surveys. i didnt do any, and then like a day later i decided i didnt want to anymore, so i cancelled my account. however im still gettin e-mails from all the ads and stuff. i get almost 100 a day, and i mark every one as junk and delete it, bu it continues to send more and more. how can i stop it ?? (link)
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Call you're Internet provider and have them adjust you're e-mail to trash there e-mails directly to you're trash bin, the go in later and delete them at one tome. Hope tis helps.
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My golden retriever had a sebaceous cyst on her back, near the top of her tail. It burst and scabbed over. After a few days the scab was just matted to her fur and was hanging off so I cut it. Then the cyst filled up and burst again, and then scabbed over. She had a cyst on her back leg that burst and scabbed over, and she just licked the scab off and it healed. Since this one's on her back she can't lick it but it doesn't seem to bother her. A piece of the scab fell off a few weeks ago and started to bleed, so I don't want to try to take it off. The cyst is starting to fill up again. Is there a way to get the scab off and keep the cyst from coming back besides having a vet remove it? (link)
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I had a friend sometime ago who his dog had the same problem, he said he gave his dog alfalfa powder mixed with dog food according to directions, he also said he gave his dog a pinch of flowers of sulfer also mixed with dog food, he said what he was feeding his dog for food was bad for him and had to change his diet. Hope you're dog get's better.
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ok well im a jr this year and me and my ex broke up right befor summer started i thought i was gonna have the worst summer ever but it turned out great. ill tell you from the begging freshmen year i liked this guy "billy" we flirted and had our thing but went our separte ways that summer and i ended up getting with my recent ex well all sophmore year me and billy didnt talk about it we both thought the other had gotten over it so we were just friends. well afer me and my ex broke up me and billy started talking alot more and i found out that he still liked me and i knew i still liked him to my feelings for him never went away and well this summer i fell in love with him and we both have feelings for eachother and he makes me so happy i know that i wanna be with him and idk im just crazy about this boy but there is a problem his best friend is in love with me and he cant do that to his friend so its so complicated we know we both want eachother but we cant be and it sucks i dont know wat to do oh and his ex is one of my friends i dont know if thats a big problem either all i know his he makes me really really happy and i didnt think i would fall in love again after my ex but billy has my heart and im just so lost i hate this situation so bad please any advice that would help ??? (link)
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Put you're brakes on baby, you seem to want and want and want, well the route you are going reminds me of those T.V. love novels, you're repution is at stake if you care having a decent one, you are not confused you seem to get off on this thing's you're asking advice on, if i am rong OK. if im right then get you;re act together, you know what i mean sister.
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Okay, since I've been with my boyfriend, his ex has been harassing me.
Threatening to kill me, late phone calls, prank calls, throwing harsh sentences as she goes down the hall.
We took it to the principal, more than once, he never done a thing.
I had to spend the last three days of my sisters senior year at the house while she still went to school.
This summer she's even egged my boyfriends house, four times.
My mom went to file charges with the CDW.
My boyfriend ex is phycho, seriously. She'll never stop.
We've even called it truths, not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES!
And she just wont stop.
She's now accusing me of harassing her, saying i called her, then she asks for my number, she's just wanting an excuse.
Its gotten so bad, that mom and dad are threatening to change schools if I don't do something about it.
I would fight her, but the truth is, I'm afraid of the embarassment of getting whooped.
Please help...if you need more info I'll be happy to give. (link)
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Don't need more info, you're really dealing with a phycho person or a mean demonic evel person, seem's to me like the best thing to do at this time and in the bad condictions things are is for you to move away to a place where she don't know where you are at, seem's she is the kind of person that would fallow you to where ever you go, the only thing that would help you if you move shoe's that you are trying to avoid a confrentation which might end up in serious trouble, or who knows how far she might go as fighting you, normally this kind of person's don't fight clean, she could use a weapon or something, i would move and try to avoid getting in trouble and having this bad record fallow you the rest of you're life, You do have a serious problem and you should try as hard as you can to keep away from a person like thisone. Go to the DA's office and speak to a agent and get advice from him on what to do, file charges if he recomends it, you are in danger, i guess you know that better then anyone else. Good Luck.
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I'm really interested in creating a website to put up my writings (short stories, chaptered stories, and pictures (drawings, photography, and all that jazz)--but I also want to be able to update it daily with like journal entries as well as put up different pages about different topics.
Here's what I'm looking for in a website (wow, sounds like I'm picking a date lol):
-Free
-Easy to manage/handle/build/create (I'm not good with website building)
-I want anyone to be able to visit it and leave comments
-Please don't say Myspace (bad history with it)
Thanks!
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Most internet provider's offer a free websites, however you will have to deal with search engines, and most of the time you will have problems with a free website untill you up grade it to a pay site, it depends how mush time you have to try to correct problem's and those arefree to, in another manner you can use this time with you're website to get experience and train you for a good wesite.
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my really good friedns had to go to summer school and she started hanging otu with the wrong ppl now she does pot out of a can a drinks lots of achocol nad i dont know what to do (link)
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I would go to her parents and tell them the whole story about what there daughtry is doing, she is definetly in the danger zone, after you talk to her parents and do so because of her sake, keep away from her until she cleans her drug act, no telling how far she is into drug's sometimes by trying to give good advice to someone doing drugs theyll see you more like there enemy then there friend. try to understand a person on drugs is not on her right mind.
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Ok, I'm 15/f.
I have my helix pierced, and then two on each lobe.
I'm 16 soon and my parents said I can get any piercing for my birthday.
Now I'm stuck between.
Something on my ear(tragus, industrial, conch, anti-tragus, forward helix,rook or snug?)
Tongue
Side lip
Navel
Eyebrow
I'm not 100% girly. But I'm not a tomboy either.
So like casual girl :P
Thank you!
Oh, I don't want anyone to be like err what the fuck is a ?
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It's you're body, why ask anyone else where you're next plugging is going to be, please you're self, when you weigh 40 pounds in lead make some bullets and wow. by the way be carefull with infections thats one thing piercing is good for.
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look i am Really Depressed and i dont know how to handle it i cry almost every night and ive already tried opne way it Didnt work! I need HELP
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How do you know you are depressed, what is causing the depression, i don't understand what you mean by (opne way) in any event you cring every night is a serious thing so try to get professional help and see what really is the problem, try to work with correcting it and findout what you need to change about you're life, don't try to correct or hide this by you're self most of the times you need to talk and releave the problem confide on you're parent's as soon as possable. keep in touch on how you are doing,Ask Jesus Christ to give you strength to counquor you depression.
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Lately my b.f has been taking me for granted. Losing the little things he used to do for me when we first started dating. I just came back from being away for 2 weeks and i got sick on return. Instead of calling me to see how he was i called him and he was busy with his friends and showed no true affection. Naturally i got mad and burst on him that night telling him that i felt i was being taken for granted and unloved sometimes. Now my mom isnt that happy with him because hes not making me happy. I love him so much and he promised me it would change but what should i do about my parents and him? its important for me for them to like him. I love him and knows hes been busy this summer working for school but i just want some more time from him so we can have a summer like last. Thanks in advance and any advice on any of this would be helpful. By the way im 20 and so is he and we've dating for a little over a year (link)
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You seem to have come into a problem most boyfriend and girlfrend and even married couples have, however this is one to the things that will sooner or later you will find out if he is being busy with work or with another girl, it's better to find out sooner then later how serious is he with you're relationship, i am not trying to put you're relationship down the the thing is you're feeling unsecure with you're boyfriend and asking for somekind of support that would help in this problem, about you're parents you have to understand you're the one that will carry the load not them, so look into whats happening find out so you can find releave or hoping not the end of a realationship. Good luck.
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ok well i know this guy and we used to go out and i really loved him but now we are "just friends" but like we were really good friends 4 a while and now he is ignoring me and i still love him. we still talk sometimes but now i have a diffrent boyfriend but he doesnt know that i still love colby he think s we are just friedns too but i fell bad 4 my boyfriend cuz i dont really love him. but i dont wannna lose him either what the hell do i do?? (link)
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It seems to me like you are very mixed up and you don't honestly love either one or the other, feeling bad or sorry does not bring and truthfullness in either of you're relationships, get out of hell A.S.A.P. and make you're decision on which of the two you are going to stay with, before something serious happens, you're playing with fire, and incase you don't know, you play with fire and you will get burned.
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I know myself the good and bad things in me I am tall smart with a Mediterranean look and beautiful green eyes.I am loyal, forgiving sincere and altruistic...I am confident in many things such as drawing, dancing, cooking, giving good advice and at school.
But due to my negativity on myself I am finally realising that it is the cause of my problems such as quarrelling and having conflicts with friends all the time.Consequently I am making friends easily and changing them all the time.
Besides this also I find it difficult to believe that my desire to have a guy I really like as my boyfriend will ever come true.I dont really know how to interact well.I have a big mouth so he knows I like him but often when I last tried to talk to him he completely ignored me.I know he is a bit shy like me but he has to ask me out.I am fed up of waiting and I give up. (link)
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There is a lot of confussion on the way you describe you're self,first of all you start by saying you have most every thing beautifull about you thats not mentioning how smart you are, how ignorant you treat you friend's and how you desire you're boyfriend but he does not seem to make a move on you, maybe ??? maybe??? that's the way you act the way you describe you're self, another wards you act like you are it, if you know what i mean, probebaly you being you're worst enemy is working against you, try to walk right with out bumping the person next to you and show some care about people instead of waiting for people to admire you at first side, be more humanage kind and giving, show love and use loving way's for you're boyfriend and friends. if i am rong please forgive me, i don't mean to give you bad advice in any way. Good Luck.
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I just want to know my vagin changed and most of the time is wet am wondering why ? And a part of it is bigger I want to know do I sufer from any diseas or what (link)
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You probably have what you call a viginal discharge, most females get that even before loosing there virginity, however it's safe for you to have it checked for any kind of desease, to be on the safe side, having unprotected sex you are always on danger of getting a sexual desease. as for as it being wet it can be that way from now on. hope i helped you.
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Ok, I've been looking at your advice column. You tend to give good advice but honestly, your grammar is bad and what you type is really hard to read.
I'm not trying to be mean, honestly. I'm just giving you a tip.
Some of the advice you give is brilliant, and you have a good view on things, but please clean up the grammar because it took me four attempts to read one of your answers to understand what it was about.
Don't bitch at me for this. It's just a comment.
And once again, I'm not trying to be mean, You're a good advicenator.
Read through some of your answers and see where you've made mistakes.
Like this one maybe:
Sometimes it's hard on thing's that happen's between friends, but she seem's to be the cold kind with no feeling's , I would look for another friend before she might try something that might cause damege and hurt you.
None of those apostrophe S's were needed. :)
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I am not mad at you i know that my writing is not that good that's the best i can do, i have a cyst on my brain and ever since it started giving me problem's i have had problems writng reading and talking, i am on two very srong medications for my cyst, and i am trying to stop taking then, but this medicine have some chemical it is like i am hooked and can't stop taking it, i used to do better then now and i also was very sick for 15 years till i started experamenting with alternetive medicene and i say i am about 6 out of 10 better, belive me i was dying that is how bad i was, i only thank Jesus Christ my savior for his help, Tell me if you want me to stop giving addvice i will stop, my goal is to try to help any one if i can, in no way i intend to hurt no one, ounce again i thank you for you're honesty and kindness.
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i broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years becuz i started liking somebody else and i didnt think i loved her anymore. i didnt care for the first few weeks and she would call and call to try to win me back but i didnt want her. after awhile i started to miss her but i didnt let it get to me. after about 3 weeks of being broken up i really started to miss her but i just let it go. a few days later she got in a car crash and died. i know how much she really loved me and it was so hard because she'll never know how much i really loved her i was just very confused. i broke it off with the other girl, but i dont know what to do. how do i deal with this pain?
also does anybody know any songs about losing somebody they love and never getting to say goodbye? or something like my story? thank you.. (link)
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It's not easy going through on what happend in you're life, You must be strong we all make mistakes and wish a million times things should have been different, but sometimes this things happen to us before we know it, we must try to forget go forward and make the best of it, ask Jesus Christ to give you steanth and help you get over this tregady soon.
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my friend and i have been best friends for a long time. we are in 7th grade now and she has new friends who take control of her and she lets them! One time we were in the bathroom and the girl is just like dont be jealous because she wants to sit with me and not you and my friend just stood there and let her say those things!!! we are on the same cheerleading squad and her mom and my mom are one of the coaches. now her mom is being kinda different to my mom. my friend doesnt even care that were not friends anymore!! Can you please give me some advice on how i should handle this?? (link)
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Sometimes it's hard on thing's that happen's between friends, but she seem's to be the cold kind with no feeling's , I would look for another friend before she might try something that might cause damege and hurt you.
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