hey im Jourdan.im like this. ppl say im gothic others say im punk. i dont know what i am but i dress goth but im too happy to be one. i always look at the bright side of things. AIM me anytime u need to talk to me. im always willing to help. im a good friend so anytime u need to talk just talk to me and ill try to help what ever is bothering you. if you have a question put something in my inbox anytime you want to talk to me :) and jonny the homicidal maniac is my hero!!!!!!
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Location: from CA but moved to CO
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Age: 14
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I have a problem, I reallly like this guy, im calling him dave. Daves cute, smart,(im in GT), and nice. Since I'm in a gifted program, theres only 40 kids in a grade, so yeah. A guy likes me and I don't like him at all. I really like this guy, and I also like this guy who liked me last year, but I doubt he still does. I really need help, thnaks. (link)
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well you can pick i dont know how many but im gessing dave, the guy last year. hearing from what you say you like dave and id go for him
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I'm getting a haircut and I'm not sure what kind to get. I have dirty blonde hair to my shoulders. Its straight and really plain. No bangs. Any ideas?!?!?! I rate good if u give me a real answer!!! thanks a bunch!!
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i think you shouldnt cut your hair. my hair is like yours then in the 7th grade i cut it all off to liberty spike it then in 8th i had a mohawk. i like to try new things but its really hard to grow it back out since it grows pretty slow. cut it to your chin i had that and i thought it was really cute. you could layer your hair, look in magazines and look at diff things, look at what you like and what youd think youd like to do to your hair
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i have these bumps on my back iunno how to explain them but i just started getting them i thinkits cuz i have long hair and it always rests on my back.. any suggestions to get rid of em? (link)
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maybe you should start to put lotion on if you dont. it might help and if it doesnt, id go to the docs and ask them about it. it could be like skin cancer or something serious, id go just to make sure im ok
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OK, so my dad has cancer, my mom needs 2 hav surgery, my sista is a diebetic, my other sis just had a baby, and we hav alot of other things like that going on in my family. I really need an additude ajustment. When ever some1 else says somethin negitive, i become negitive, and every1 gets mad at me. How do i change this? (link)
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if it were me, i could get around the diebetic part and if your sister is at a reasonable age i could handle with the baby because i have a 1 1/2 little sis and a 5 year old bro. hope that your dad will fight cancer and make it through, look at the positive side it must be really hard for you. ive never lost a family member and i wouldnt understand on how hard it is. your mom having sugery i could live with, depending if its serious or not hope shell get well. just look at the bright side of thinks like that. im a pretty positive person, lots of stuff happend to me but i look at the bright side and make it better. sorry if i dont help at all
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okay.. my boyfriend and i have been having sex for like two weeks now. and i just got my period. my boyfriend told my older sister that i'm not a virgin anymore. my sister has been telling on me for stupid shit lately. my mom walks into my room and she's like "you know you can get pregnant while on your period, right?" i was like "yeah" and she's like "you don't have sex right?" and im like "no i don't" and shes like "uh-huh" and walks out of my room. what do i do?! i'm scared to shit?! (link)
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maybe you and your boyfriend should lay off for a bit. let your mom regain trust in you (if she lost any). tell your boyfriend not to tell your sister anything or just talk to your sister and tell her not to say anything to your parents about that because its personaly, maybe shell understand. sorry if i dont help
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Hey, it's Siren here...my best bud and I have known each other for 13 years. We're both seniors in high school. All of a sudden, this year, I feel like we just...split. I can't talk to her about the important things in my life the way I can talk to my other friends. Like, a couple of my friends from band and I - well, I guess - bonded one night and I feel like I can talk to them more than I can talk to her, and I've only known them for 2 years. I can talk to them about things like french kissing with pop rocks (just an example, lol) and if I tried to talk to her about it, she'd just go "oh...um, okay," and change the subject or something. She's always been a little less mature than me, I suppose, even if she is a year older than me. But it's never bothered me until now. I want to be able to talk to her about these kinds of things, but I can't, and it's bothering me. Because of it, we're pretty much splitting. It really sucks because we used to be like sisters. She used to know all my secrets. Now only one person does, and it's not her. I wish it was, though. I mean, I miss being able to talk to her about anything. Help if you can?
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ummmm. this has never happend to me. but id just talk to her get her opinion, see if shell start talking like you would like her too. if she doesnt or doesnt feel comfterble then youll have to learn to accept that about her and talk to her about stuff you could never to your other friends. hope i help, if i didnt im sorry
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I like this guy, but whenever i talk to him i get shy n think mmore bout what i say. I always do this around guys i like but he is also pretty popular. I am usually loud n talkative but it just doesnt work round him. Please give me advice on what i can do so we can talk more!
I will rate go0od if u try ur best to answer this.
x0x Thankz,
In Love & Lost (link)
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alright. scared to talk to him and being shy. i would just start talking to him, ask him his favorite color, what his fav show is, you get what i mean. just talk to him. it doenst have to be in person you can talk to him on the phone and sooner or later youll get more comfterble talking to him. hope i helped
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okay im 14/female and mi name is KASSIE!...and i rilly like this guy alot...we use to go out in lyke 6th grade..but i broke up with him for his best friend...but i didn't even lyke his best friend...now i rilly rilly like him alot...nd it seems like he kinda likes me too..but im not sure..lyke we never ever use to talk..but i called mi "friend" and i was talking to her on the phone about how i liked him so much..and she told me to just start talkin to him...so i did...and he started talking bak...but i think its kinda weird..but i think he knows i like him..but i don't know if he likes me or not? what do i do? uhhh this is so confusing..he was mi first "crush" :( (link)
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ok when you talk to him just ask him if hed like to do something with you like go to the movies, hang out, walk around, spend as much time with him, after a while when you get comfterble ask him if he likes you. if he doesnt then youll just have to accept the fact he doesnt like you. maybe later one he will start to like you. hope i helped
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now, But we've dated before for three months, then we broke up. but now we're back together. anyways now he acts different, before he would always be holding my hands or holding me arount the waist,but now he wont even touch me. I've confronted him about it, but he hasnt changed.what do i do? do i confront him again? Please help!! thanx! (link)
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i would confront him again on how you feel. if he doest change then i would dump him
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i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =) (link)
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i would talk to him. if you dont want to do anything that he does tell him and if he still thinks you two should do what he wants dump him, he should respect that
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 13 going on 14 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, have you ever got fingered of done ti to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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first of all dont tell your parents these things. if you really like him do it behind their backs and dont say a word about it ever to them. im 14 turning 15 and i wont go past kissing but thats what ive planed and thought about. you need to sit down and think if you really want to do this or if you want to wait. its up to you and dont let anyone pressure you into something you dont want to do. for me im waiting till im married and do everything past kissing but thats just me. hope i helped
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well i guess me and Tim are together and we have been for about a month, we talk evertynight on the phone and i know he means everything he says because they arent cheezy and he doesnt say he loves me, and i like that because every other guy i dated was like that so he knows what hes talkin about. well we always hangiut and we both really like eachother but he hasnt asked me out and i know he wants to because he told his friend? do you think hes scared or embarrassed, even thought he acts perfectly fine around me? well and a other thing.. im really not trying to sound stuck up, im not like that but my first kiss was when i was 12 and ive been hooking up since but now that we`re 15 he never kissed a girl until me.. and i really dont care about that but he really cannot kiss and i feel bad?i like cant even keep my balance.. im not gunna leave him but is there anything i could do? should i just kiss him when we are layin down how id do it? haha i sound so snobby
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hes probly scared of rejection and probly maybe not use to it and he doesnt want to get rejected by you. try sitting not laying down, you can do either one, but id do sitting hop i help
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Today at lunch my boyfriend of three and a half months broke up with me. I was very upset and cried for the rest of lunch, when I came home I sat around crying. Then, my friends came round and we all went to my other friend's house. I soon cheered up and realised that I was better off without him. Later on, most people left and we went to my house. After everyone had gone home, it was just me and one of my best friends (male.) He said he had to go home so we hugged and then he asked if I was okay. I told him I was and then he said: "Anything I do in the next minute is a mistake and doesn't mean I fancy you." Then we started making out. I don't understand, I know it was a total mistake but things are going to be really strange now. I have no idea whatsoever why I did it. What should I do? He's my best friend. (link)
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tell him that you didnt mean it. if you have feelings for him then its up to you if you want to date him or stay best friends. he even said it was a mistake. im not sure what id do if i was in your postion but id tell him that i didnt mean it
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this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug? (link)
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if you really like him ask him out or spend as much time with him as you can and hell ask you out. how to give you a hug????? ask for one, put your arms out like you want one, ect.
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I was wondering if it's possible to get pregnant from swallowing...my boyfriend and I have been messing around so this question came up. Thanks.
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no way! you cant. how can you. dont worry about it you cant get pregnant
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I just got braces a few weeks ago and my ortho told me that I would get them tightened every 3 months. But when I talked to all my friends who have had braces, they all said that they got theirs tightened every month. So my question is, what is the normal amount of time that is supposed to be between getting ur braces tightened? Is it one month or 3 months? I really want my teeth to move fast because I hate my braces and I want them off ASAP, so if I tell my ortho to tighten them more often (once a month instead of once every 3 months) will my teeth move faster? I think that maybe my ortho said I would get them tightened once every three months so that i would have to wear my braces longer and then he would make more money. (we pay him every month I have my braces on) Sorry this was long and confusing. Please help i'll rate 5's! (link)
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its a month. i get mine done every month. maybe your teeth dont need as much work as some. i get mine every month tho. you can go in if the wire in the back that holds ur braces together, you can go in earlyer and get them tightend. so you can call them and tell them that you need them tightend because its poking you and theyll tighten them. the amount of time youll have them or they have written down, its not gonna change my teeth are like pretty straigh they dont need work done and i need them from 1 1/2 to 2 years, your teeth need the time they give you, ask them how long you need them for. go in and say the wires bugging you and theyll tighten them
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Is it wrong to flirt with 15 guys when your already in a relationship?
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yeah it is. i mean if your taking a break with your boyfriend then no but if not then its wrong. just flirting with other guys while having a boyfriend is wrong. sometimes or most times we just have to watch what we say and do
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I am 14, in ninth grade, and I am female.
Okay, first I'm going to give a little backround information.
I had a boyfriend that tried to cheat on me with his ex girlfriend. I knew that I couldn't trust him ever again, so I broke up with him yesterday. Don't worry, I feel really good about it.
Well, a few days ago, I found out from one of my friends that another friend of mine, Ricky, likes me. At first, I wasn't sure I could trust the friend that told me, T.J., because T.J. is weird like that. Then, my best friend Megan told me yesterday that Ricky has liked me for a long time.
My question is, is it okay to go ahead and date Ricky so soon after dumping my previous boyfriend?
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yeah its fine i mean some people find someone new the next day, others find new people like in a month or more. its ok, if you like him the go for it
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my boy friend and i recently broke up .. because i was mad at him.. so he dumped me.. and i no i dhouldnt feel upset.. but i do.. how do i cheer myself up. kas it doesnt feel like anything has changed.. it feels like we r still goin out. how do i get over it? (link)
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look for a new guy. just hang with your friends youll get over him soon
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hey.. about 3 months ago i got out of a 2 yr relationship.. i thought that i would never be in love again or it would be hard to find a guy. Ive been eying this guy at my church for a while and about 2 weeks ago i went up to him and said hi and introduced myself to him. I come to find out that in middle school he useto be my friend. it was one of those hi, bye things. But till this day i dont remember. Today i saw him at church and i said hi and i gave him my number to go out this weekend. He is the cutest thing ever. The thing is im not sure if he has a girlfriend and hes a senior this yr and hes leaving to orlando this summer. but i dont know what else to talk to him about and im not a shy person anymore, i could pretty much go up to a guy i like and talk to him. and i did that with this guy but its been so long since ive done this and i dont know what to do around him.. any advice?.. tanx (link)
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well ask him next time you see him if he has like aim or something or get his number and call it and talk to him and ask him become friends and then ask if he has a gf or something you know
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