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my friend's exboyfriend was really cute
and I liked him before she dated him
and it'll be a year in about a month and a half
that I have liked him and he's dating a girl I dont really like

before Feb. we talked almost everyday and he just stopped talking to me, now I see him every single day at band pratice and I don't know what to do, talk to him, ignore him, or just move on?

You should totally go for it! Talk to him! It wont hurt to try, who knows, you might get him back! Try as hard as you can to keep in touch with him everyday!


I hoped I helped!

-Speakfreely

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I'm 15 and I'm female

well..I broke up with my last boyfriend on new years and he hasn't be the same so i was wondering what i should do..

he doesnt really talk to me much
my friends tell me he still likes me but
i dont want him to think i like and him and him starting asking me out..but still i want him to know im here but should i talk to him?
or stay quiet?

Yeah, start talking to him.

But if you don't want him to ask you out, piont out that you dont want to be in a relationship "as of now". Soon, he'll know what your trying to say.

I hope I helped!


-speakfreely

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theres this guy that i've known for a week and a half. he has a girl friend but today he confessed he has a major crush on me. he's pretty cute and he's been going out with his girl friend for two weeks. he wants me to call him tonight. i kind of like him but i have to get to know him better. he thinks if we talk on the phone then ill get to know him better, i think talking online is good enough. normally i only talk on the phone to my aunts and uncles and my best friend if theres an emergency. he called me earlier but i didn't answer. now i feel bad and want to call him but i don't know what to say. what the heck should i say?

Call him back BUT don't get serious with him!
Trust me on this.

You would'nt want your boyfriend to cheat on you, would you? Even if you went out for 2 days! So, he is still going out with her, until he breaks up with her, then you can feel free to go out with him or anything like that.

Just tell him straight up;;"I dont want to get any farther with our friendship, friends will be fine for now"

orr, you can say it in a differant way, so it won't sound as qweer. hahah.


Also, make sure you know him really well before you get contact with him.

I hope I helped!

-speakfreely

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hmm hi.
i'm just wondering if it's possible to lose about 60 pounds in a month.
and if so how?
PLEASE help would be GREAT.
:D

Wow, 60 pounds is alot. It IS possable to lose that in a month, BUT in an unhealthy way. You just have to break it down. Limit it to about 10 pounds each month. Make it easier for yourself.

Just start a strict diet if you want that much pounds off.

And when I mean diet, it means EAT but eat healthier. Dont skip breakfast,lunch or dinner. That's NOT the right way to do it.

Limit your breakfast with healthier foods. That also goes with lunch and dinner. Have alot of water and eat alot of fruit. Watch what you eat!!

Also, reguarly excersize every day.
Don't over work yourself,take about 2 hours of your day to excersize.


I hope I helped!

-Speakfreely

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alrighty there's this kid alec ok? and he's suchhh a cutie.and in 6th and 7th grade i absolutly hated him because he was emo and he hated me too.but now my thoughts on emo people have changed and i like him alot now..but i think this guy still hates me and i never talk to him.how do i approche him and start talking to him without him not wanting to listen to me?

Anything is helpful :]

Ahh, I hear this alott.

Just say hey or something, try to start a conversation.

If he doesnt say anything back, apologize. Tell him that you should leave whats in the past in the past.

If that doesn't work, dont give up! Keep trying!


-speakfreely

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I was just recently sick with a temperature and right now have a 99.3 ferenheit. I need to go to work at a restaurant the day after tomorrow. Do you think i will be ok by then? What should I do to get better?

Ohkay, the thing that always helps is SLEEP. Just rest. Don't be all up and around. And what else might help is soup. That usually helps. Or if you don't have soup, make tea or somehting warm.

I hope I helped!

-speakfreely

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