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he wants me to call him
theres this guy that i've known for a week and a half. he has a girl friend but today he confessed he has a major crush on me. he's pretty cute and he's been going out with his girl friend for two weeks. he wants me to call him tonight. i kind of like him but i have to get to know him better. he thinks if we talk on the phone then ill get to know him better, i think talking online is good enough. normally i only talk on the phone to my aunts and uncles and my best friend if theres an emergency. he called me earlier but i didn't answer. now i feel bad and want to call him but i don't know what to say. what the heck should i say?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Call him back BUT don't get serious with him!
Trust me on this.
You would'nt want your boyfriend to cheat on you, would you? Even if you went out for 2 days! So, he is still going out with her, until he breaks up with her, then you can feel free to go out with him or anything like that.
Just tell him straight up;;"I dont want to get any farther with our friendship, friends will be fine for now"
orr, you can say it in a differant way, so it won't sound as qweer. hahah.
Also, make sure you know him really well before you get contact with him.
I hope I helped!
-speakfreely
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I don't want to seem harsh when I say this. However, you really don't want to find yourself or get yourself emotionally attached to a guy in a relationship. Why cause yourself the grief when I'd bet he hasn't even mentioned to you that he might break with his girl if she doesn't compare to what he thinks he can have with you? If he's making no effort, except for telling you that he has a huge crush on you, to give you the more active role that you're seeking in his life, then don't waste your time and energy there. He's taken and to me, it's like you're digging yourself in a hole that's too deep. Just be careful.
Unless you really want to be friends with him, although that's not what that sounded like. Anyway, you also said that talking online should be good enough to get to know him better. Also, arrange some dates to get to know him better b/c that too will help a lot. And also, it's not like you know he'll know that you deliberately didn't answer his phone call earlier. If he asks when you call him, or when he calls you again, just tell him you weren't home or something. I do it all the time to my guys and they go for it. Just don't make it big or complex; Keep it simple. And as far as what you should say, just say what you truly feel. Bye and hope I was some help.Just be careful with your heart.
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Hmm.Well maybe you should call him to get to know him better..and you may not know what to say..but you'll see yourself talking to him for hours.Because when I first called my friend Kara,I didn't know what to say and we ended up talking for 3 hours.
So it's up to you ^_^
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You should call him back and just be honest. Just tell him that you really don't like talking on the phone [you're not the only one.. I don't like talking on the phone AT ALL], and that you were nervous and didn't pick up. Just apologize and that can get your conversation started. Then just talk about your day or whatever.. and just ask him a bunch of questions. You'll be fine.
If you need elaboration- say so in feedback- and I will edit.. just be sure to look at it!
--Jack
(15/m)
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