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it's driving me crazyy.


Question Posted Friday July 20 2007, 10:17 pm

alrighty there's this kid alec ok? and he's suchhh a cutie.and in 6th and 7th grade i absolutly hated him because he was emo and he hated me too.but now my thoughts on emo people have changed and i like him alot now..but i think this guy still hates me and i never talk to him.how do i approche him and start talking to him without him not wanting to listen to me?

Anything is helpful :]


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dakota53194 answered Saturday July 21 2007, 10:33 am:
well fisrt off if you have any classes with him talk to him during thoose and also at lunch you can try to talk to him then if you know any of his freinds then you should always ask them whT HE THINKS OF YOU IF ANYONE MIGHT KNOW ITS HIS FREINDS. i MEAN BESIDES THAT THERES NOTHING else you could really do =( srry this probably didn't help

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volleyballgamer answered Saturday July 21 2007, 12:25 am:
well..if i were you, i would acctually just confront him like you were thinking about something different then liking him. like you could be like "okay, iknow you hate me but i just wanted to tell you that i dont hate you anymore and i think it would be cool if we were just friends and stuff because its kind of stupid to hate someone who you havn't even talked to in a long time, so do you want to be friends?" and hopfully he'll say yes, then you can go to the next step since you already broke the ice by becoming better friends, then you can get to know him, talk about things you have in common and then he might start liking you. hope something helpe. good luck. :]]]

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Deana answered Friday July 20 2007, 11:18 pm:
Ahh, I hear this alott.

Just say hey or something, try to start a conversation.

If he doesnt say anything back, apologize. Tell him that you should leave whats in the past in the past.

If that doesn't work, dont give up! Keep trying!


-speakfreely

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Cux answered Friday July 20 2007, 10:25 pm:
First off- if you ever hurt him [emotionally] in anyway.. you need to apologize to him. Just approach him and tell him that you're really sorry for how you hated him or whatever.
I don't think it would be wise to just come out and tell him that you like him just yet. Maybe become friends first- and you'll probably end up liking him more- and he may even like you.
I've never heard of people going from hating each other to suddenly dating.
Again- just let Alec know you're sorry and that you would like to be friends with him. If he rejects it- there are plenty of other people out there even better than him- trust me!

**EDIT**
Just walk up to him one day- and say "Hey!". If he doesn't respond- just start to apologize, like I said. And like I also said- if he doesn't respond- he may need time or he may not want to talk to you. Just say, "I hope you consider what I said- and I hope we can be friends.. I'll give you all the time you need to think about it."
Does that help?

--Jack
(15/m)

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