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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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when people usually go on a date to like the movies, does the guy usually pick the girl up? or can they just meet there

hey, well younger teens usually end up meeting there. while older teens get picked up by the guy. cait♥

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my eighth grade graduation is coming up in about a month, and i got a dress, but idk if im completely happy with it. i love the colors and how it looks on me, but im just afraid its too short and not formal enough (even though graduation isnt really formal) the thing is, the graduation ceremony or whatever is before the dance, on the same night. so i go straight from the ceremony to the dance (pretty pathetic) so i'm afraid my dress is too party-ish looking like for the ceremony. here's a picture: http://img119.imageshack.us/img119/2091/10055544fq.jpg

do you think thats too short? im really self-conscious so maybe its just me. plus i'm not used to wearing dresses and shorts and stuff. ahh please help before i freak out because graduation is in a month!!!!!! thankss =)

hey, its so cute. its not too short either. i think its perfect for both the graduation and the dance. cait♥

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my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and I still sleep with my mom could that be becouse my dad died when I was 12 becouse ever since i've been sleeping with her and I want to know some ways I can stop sleeping with her.
please help!

hey, i slept with my mom until i was 11. my dad left us when i was 8. so yeah i think thats part of the reason. this is what i did. i would have my mom sleep in my bed with me. then after i feel asleep she would leave and go into her bed. usually she would leave around 12:00 wheter i was asleep or not. eventually i trained myself to sleep by myself. cait♥

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hey, i was the person that asked you about making your boobs bigger, and you said something about a cheerleader position, but i dont get it. so basically, is it push them together, apart, up and down t ogether, or up and down in opposite directions. thanks

hey, i cant explain it anymore. lol sorry. if you have AIM just leave another message in my inbox with your screen name and ill i/m you. cait♥

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Is it possible for a 13 year old to stop growing breasts? I'm 32A, my mom is 32A, and I started growing when I was 9. They haven't grown since I was 11 or 12. My breasts are identical to my mom's, and she developed really late. Does this mean that I'm done growing?

hey, your still going to grow! give ti time tho. cait♥

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i am really intrested in being like a lighting guy for like tv and bands like the guy who makes the lights go a different color and move and stuff

anyone got websites about it please give them to me ill rate


sam

hey, try google. cait♥

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http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90102&navroot=clearance&productId=0352_5324

i am thinking about buying this cami from american eagle (in PINK). i am going for a casual look. what type of pants/accessories should i wear with it? khakis? jeans? capris? and should i wear a cardigan over it?

hey, um no cardigans wiht this. this shirt would look awesome with a pair of tan/beige shorts or a tan/beige skirt. also tan/beige capris would look good. NO tan/beige pants. cait♥

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Is it possible that when you pick a song, or are listening to a song on your ipod nano for the album cover to come up next to the song/artist/album name? Ive seen it on the box and stuff but as that only if you buy a song or album off of itunes? rate 5s and feedback

hey, yes its possible. you can add "artwork" do a song on your ipod. cait♥

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Ok this is probably going to have top be answered by someone that lives in Virginia, so not sure how much luck I will have.

I am looking for a good area to camp in around here that meets the following criteria:

1: Not a commercial or government camp area with all of the pre made spots, where you are camping 25' from the next person.

2. Accessible by car with a modest or no hike to the camp area (under 1 mile hike).

3. Must be able to have an open campfire (rules the Appalachian trail out)

Thanks in advance for any suggestions.

hey, well im from massachusetts. but http;//www.google.com may be of help to you. cait♥

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The new guy I'm dating isn't a virgin. We were friends a long time before we started going out, and he'd always tell me about his sexual experiences. I want to save myself for marriage, but I don't care what others do. This isn't about that at all. It's just lately, all the things he's told me he's done with other girls has started rushing back to me and it bothers me. I guess it's some weird jealousy thing, I don't know exactly why I care. He's completely perfect in every way, but his past experience is really holding me back. I realize this is very irrational as most guys have some experience by now (We're both 17) but I can't let go of them. How do I let go of these thoughts? Has anyone had experience with this?

Thanks for your help.

hey, well tell him that you jsut want to stick to making out and other minor stuff like that. dont rush into anythingg. just think that all those girls are going to be pregnaunt by 20 and you, your going to get married first. cait♥

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Does anyone know a really good song for a wedding song from the bride to a father figure??

Thanks

hey, "in my daughters eyes" by Martina McBrian. cait♥

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For some reason everytime my ex boyfriend is around I make sure I'm all over my current boyfriend. Why is this??

hey, its cause you wqnt ot make him jealous and like make him wish that he had you back. its totally normal. all girls do this. cait♥

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So, me and my mates go out alot,usually chat up a few guys, get a few numbers and sometimes a new boyf. Its all good, but usually when we're at whatever place we're in, the guys we chat up are usually hanging out with their girl mates as well. The girls chat to us, ask us if we fancy any of their mates, and 'would we like on of the guys numbers?' and so on, and usually the girls are really nice. Me and my mates thought it would be cool to stay in touch with them and hang out sometimes, but we never do. The thing is, to stay in touch with any of the girls we meet you have to get their numbers. And we cant exactly say "Hey, can I have your number?" to them ecause it will sound like we're lesbians or something. Is there a way of getting the girls numbers so we could make more friends and hang out with them that wont sound like we're chatting them up? Cos we wouldnt chat them up, we're girls that are into guys, and would just like some more cool girl mates. Any ideas?

hey, well you could maybe ask one of hte guys for the girls number. say like wow "christine" sounds cool i might want to hang out with ehr sometime can i hvae her number? or find an excuse to ask the girls. like say she interested in reading and you havea bookclub. be like if your interested heres my number. then she will give you hers. thats what usually happens. cait♥

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I have a friend, a bisexual guy friend who just got out of a pretty serious relationship (with a girl), the details of which I am unaware of. What I do know is that they were close friends and then one day, he just decided he didn't want to be in a relationship with her anymore. The thing is, up to about a few weeks ago, he's been spending a lot of time with me - for instance, one week, we'd see each other every other day. We go to the movies together, bowling, the park and he'd come over and have dinner with me. But, he never calls (well, once or twice, but only because I think he felt guilted into it) or emails or anything. We get along great, and lately, I've been feeling very attracted to him. The thing is, how do I find out if he feels anything for me? It seems like he is really soured from his ex, and he told me he's no longer interested in dating any friends. Yet he keeps hanging out with me, just the two of us. This is so confusing! Does he want more? I think I might.

hey, well the only way to find out is to ask him! dont be shy if you guys are close freiends then there shouldnt be a problem. cait♥

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i just got a ipod video ! and it wont let me download no videos ? it downloaded all the songs auto ... but im not sure how to even try to download videos ?

can you help?
love k

hey, look in the instruction manual. you could also call the apple company. cait♥

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Does ANYONE know where some already made flyers for baby-sitting are or do you have any ideas for them! I NEED HELP!

hey, ust write basic information about you on there. make it sound professional so taht people dont thnk that tehre leaving ther kids with some sped. cait♥

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Here's the deal. Me and my Girlfriend have been going out for a year and she's now at a different school than me. We live a fair distance apart so we rarely see each other and we seem to be talking less and less.

And now when we see each other it seems the spark just isn't there. I think we should break up but i'm not sure how to tell her.

P.S. I'm a 14 year old male

hey, just tell her that you dont think the relationship is working how it use to. DONT tell her i just want to be friends. a girl hearing that is like one of the wrose things in the world. its like having your dog getting ran over by a car and then your mom saying you can still keep it lol. well good luck. cait♥

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when i go away on aim [i have the aim 5.9 i think? the one right before trition...] after a few minutes, i get taken off of away

does any one know how to fix this?


ill rate

hey, well un-install it and find antoher place to download it instad of the one you used. if you go it frm the AIM website use google to download it. if you used google use AIM. cait♥

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If i live in California and want to text someone in Florida will it cost me any money for like long distance or something? I have Cingular, and i get 200 texts for the month (wich i have not used) Will rate and give feedback.

hey, with cellphones you can text someone in africa and it wouldnt cost money. cait♥

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Whats the difference between anorexia and bulimia?

arent they technically the same thing because either way you aren't getting food into you system?

and which one would cause the worst effects to your body?

hey, anorexia is straving yourself. bulimia is when everytime you eat something you throw up the food you ate. there both horrible for your body. eating and keepign food in your system is the best way to go = ]. cait♥

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