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ive liked this guy for ova a year on and off. He now my best friend and he nos i like him. Ive tried asking him out but he always says no that he doesnt like meh like that and wouldnt want to ruin our realationship. Me and a couple of my girl friends think its bc i wouldnt do much of nethin with him besides makeout. Wat could i do to change his mind?

well you shouldnt have to change his mind. Think of it like this. Do you WANT him to go out w/ you b/c he knows he can have sex with you... no, you most likely want him to go out with you b/c of you. So confront him. Be like not to be so blunt but are you not going out with me because of what you know i will and wont do. For some reaosn i just feel thats just not the reason. but i really dont know... if he says no maybe unfortunately he just wants to be friends. Tell him you dont think it would ruin your relationship, that it would just be a shot worth trying and that if ne thing happened ud always be friends

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i don't want a bf bc i luv 2 b sinlge but i never get ne action when im single. i mean there are sooooo many hot guys around and i really wanna make out wit sum but i never knoe how to approch them... any tips???
show this gurl sum luv and answer asap!

well 1st off.. maybe you should go out w/ some1. You should 'get action' while your going out w/ some1 cause if u go around makin out with every1.. you know what people will call u. So find someone your into, dont rush it, and things will go your way. I promise results... good luck sweeeetie

xoxo

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does anyone know any good places to make a babysitting flyer that will catch people's attention????? please help asap!! if you help, i'll rate 5!!!!!

try a local supermarket... or try putting flyers in mailboxes in areas where kids are around... hmm also try posting it our where your parents work if your allowed... or if you work then post it at your job. good luck!

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For a while i was a goody goody. i dint like to swear i never lied and was just to good for every1. I hated being called a goody goody tho so now i swear more i would make out wit a guy and ive tried to have people sneek ova b4. Still people just think of me as a goody goody and its annoying. Id never do nethin really drastic and the changes ive made where ones i wanted to make so its not like a really really pothetic person who just does things to be cool. I guess it is partly tho. I like the changes now. Neways how do i get people to stop. Guys dont want to go out wit a goody goody

well dont get yourself all in trouble and not doing good things just so you can change what people think. Screw them.. if they say your a goody goody be like no im just smart. Sry but girly u dnt have to change for ne body. If the guys worth it, he'll like you for qualities other than your rep.

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I have dirty blonde-ish/light brownish hair and its a little bit passed my shoulder. Last summer, I used Sun In only once and when I went in the pool, the chlorine made the highlights stay in. Now you can see the highlights growing out. I really wanna dye my hair but I dont know what color I should dye it. I don't want to go dark. Can someone please help me with my problem?

Thanks

omg... i have the best idea for you. GO strawberry blonde!! Its cute and unique, and not like anyone else. If you want to change your style, you could consider hilary duff bangs. Even if you dont like hilary duff, the style of bangs she has is REALLY cool. But for color gooo strawberry blonde. It would be ultra cute on you. Good luck!

xoxo

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I have this friend and I really like him, but my best friend likes him too. I just met him yesterday and my best friends has known him for awhile. I really like him and she does too. I asked him if he liked her and he said no, but he told other people before he met me that he liked her. Idk what to do! I'm so lost and I want to be happy for my friend but me happy too! I think I should get over it and let her have him since she's known him longer. But what do I do?

-signed sister in distress-

Ok.. its totally not your fault you like him. Just dont be mean to your friend about it! Dont have fights over it.. and you should definetly confront her and explain you know shes known him longer you just cant help your feelings. And if you truly LIKE him... you wont be able to give him up all that easily.. my take is that you should talk to him alot, and hang out with him. Dont be secretive if your friend asks if you've been hanging out tell her you have. And if he does for some reason like her... dont throw a fit. Wait your turn... or stay good friends with him. Even if a close friendship with him comes out of this, you will still benefit. If he likes you, hes your for the taking. Explain to your friend that you cant stop your feelings but you dont ever want that to reck your relationship.

good luck sweeetie
xoxo

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ok im going into the 8th grade and ive never made-out wit someone...most of the girls in my grade had...ive had the chance to wit a cute boy but i didnt want to and everythin...how can i get more comfortable wit doing it

Well you really shouldnt if you dont feel ready or you just straight out dont want to. Theres no way to make yourself more comfortable besides going out with someone you love and trust and know that they wont take advantage over you. Dont rush anything... b/c you might run into trouble.

Good luck sweeetie!

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hi. my rich grandparents just bought me a saleen s7 for my 16th bday. I LOVE THE CAR and ive always wanted it. The only problem is, even though my neighborhood is fairly nice nobody has a car like mine and everyone is making fun of me! they say rich girl, spoiled brat, snob and stuff like that. My car got egged too :(. How can i make this stop??
thankz

SALEEN AWSOME GIRL!!! I LOVE THEM... second off.. be like dnt make fun of my ride. When people call u rich or spoiled, stare them down and tell them to stop. SOOO many ppl are just awfully jealous and you need to start yelling at them.. its not your fault you wound up with good fortune in the fam

x3 ..xoxo

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I get emails from alot of secret admirers who i guess go to my school. They say that im the hottest person they've ever known and want to fuck me and stuff like that. They also talk about specific parts of my body. Like they talk about my ass n boobs n stuff like that and its creepy! its happened more than 3 times. I feel like im being stalked! Help what should i do?
thanx

tell them you feel uncomfortable and what theyre saying is degrading.. tell them if they have feelings for you to come straight up to you in school and confront you respectfully.. and threaten blocking them... that should make them stop or atleast be respectful...

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does anyone know any good websites that has pictures of ashlee simpson with blonde hair??? cuz i'm getting my hair cut & colored like her and i need a good picture for the hairdresser. answer asap!! if it's a good website i'll give you a 5!!!!!!

http://camdenfamily.free.fr/ashlee.htm

BEST SITE WITH TONS OF PICTURES AND DIFFERENT SHOTS

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Who thinks Hilary Duff is fat?

just because people dont like her doesnt make her suddenly fat. Anyone who people dont like nowadays is 'fat' or 'gay' or 'poser' and you know what just b/c you dont love her doesnt make her fat.. if you think shes fat wait until you getta load of the real fatties that have there asses on stage... lol u kno??? well ne way..

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I am going into 7th grade and i am not allowed to have a boyfriend.I really like this guy and I know that he likes me.he asked me out and i told him i would think about it...what should I do.I really like him and i am afraid that if i say no that he will forget about me and...well just move on.I think that she is about to let me have a bf anyway.
Please give me advice.
~Thanx~

you like him. you love him. your parents wont know if you go out.. hate to say it but.. im usually not the rebellious type but just go out with him. Tell them your just friends. What you can do to be loyal is not go too far with him... not until your parents respect him cause things will get messed up. Otherwise it will just pass you by and you'll have regrets

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okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?

I TOTALLY think he was using her. He wanted nothing but a good piece of ass. In which case you should hold like ZERO respect for the child.. just ignore him.. and move on.. or better yet talk to the girl and tell her how degrading it is to be used just to screw around ((make sure thats if you know some more details and have things to back up your lecture))

or if you dont know her well enuff to do that.. you dont have to do anything but give him a dirty look and walk away with the thought that you just looked at the most disgusting guy that walks the planet...

but good luck xoxo

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whats a good icon site.

Iconator.com i would say good luck xoxo

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i have always had really short hair. it's been a dream of mine to grow it out, but right when it's a little past my shoulders, i always chicken out and cut it again! i think it's because there is no good styles for shoulderlength hair, but i still really want to grow it out. is there a product/way to grow it out more quickly so it can be long?

I dont know of any products, but seriously, once it gets past your shoulders think of how pretty and different it will look. Or tell your mom or guardian or whoever usually brings you to get it cut NOT to let you go no matter how much you please. If you really want the change you'll just let yourself get it... if you go and cut it then you probably really just like it short.

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ok...i know i just asked a question but stay with me here...im mean this ones been bugging me...im a low budget and i have a couple of old shirts ( some plain some with stuff) what are some cute DyI ideas that can give my tee's and new look!?! without spending a FOURTUNE!! haha!! thanks much!!!its really helpful!!

XoXo Lexi

ok hun, for what you do have, i would say just take the old tees and stud them. Like get those little gem lookin studs and just hot glue them right on... you can most likely buy them in walmart or a craft store and their dirt cheap, and you get a new look. Or you can buy some sparkle spray and perk them up... and if your on a low budget, totally go Marshalls. You'll be wearing brand name clothes with your wallet still stuffed. If no marshalls... I would check to see if you had a Forever 21 ((or in some states its called XXI) near you because they have suchhhh cute stuff and its dirt cheap... seriously i get my cami tops there for like $$5 bucks.. reallllly cute skirts for $7-$10... its the cheapest place you'll go..

but good luck

and if you have ne more fashion questions, im totally here for you.. but good luck sweeeetie...

IM x mercy me 14 x if you need me badly..

HEhE

XoxO

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I love to be unique when it comes to hair,make-up,and clothes..hahah especially clothes but i need some cute unique back to school make-up ideas i could do to go with my look? ideas with cool shadows,lipglosses,ect? it would be very greatly appreciated!!

P.S-and funkyhair ideas too!! ILL TRY ANYTHING!!!

XoXo Lexi

Ok girlly.. wen it comes to new nd improved, im there ... lol. Ok so we'll start with makeup. Try applying darker pinks to your eyes to make them STAND OUT!! But not too much.. too much can give you a bad name plus in my opinion is not the least bit attractive. Try putting some sparkle shadow over it.. it looks so nice in turn plus pinks are really nice when you can see them well. You can also try some silver eye liner.. I no it sounds crazy but your up for anything ... haha. Ok lip glosses-- I would definetly tell you to just go with a natural shiny look. I mean.. i dont think you need to go fancy with lips, its not anything that may be new but your eyes will do enough talking for makeup ;-) ha... so ok. Hair! YAY HAIR!! Alrighty well what I absoluttttely love for hair would be if you left some hair down, but took a part of your hair on one side, twist it, bobby pin it, then do the same with the other. You should have as much hair down as you would if you did half-up. Then with the left over WET hair, go ahead and scrunch your hair. Get Physique scrunch spray or if your looking for something cheaper that will still do the trick, try a mix of curling gel and mousse and take pieces of hair one at a time and "scrunch".. if you dont exactly know how to do that, or your just plain confused, leave on in the inbox or IM x mercy me 14 x

GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR new loooook!

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y do u act so meen 2 a gurl wen u lyk ha?

FIRST of all you have to understand a guy who does that is childish and probably not fully grown in the maturity department. After you accept that, you'll know that any guy who likes you and IS worth your time, is the guy to go all out for. Good luck sweetheart... and ignore them little boys ;-)

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i am 14 years old and i am pregnate. my mom wants me to give the baby up for adoption but the father of my baby doesn't want me to give it up. i am 7 months pregnate and i don't know what to do. it is a girl and i am afriad that if something goes wrong and i can't have children again and i give this one up i am never going to have a baby again. what should i do?

Ok if the father of the baby really wants to keep it, then you should. On account of the fact that you KNOW he will be there to help you. Chances are if hes irresponsible enough to get you pregnant hes irresponsible enuff to not be able to care for a kid. Plus your 14. You can't really do this.. its too much. Plus your Mother most likely knows whats best. If she says to put it up for adoption sadly, you should. If you give this baby up it most definetly wont mean you cant have a baby again if you got pregnant this easy this time it should be no problem in the future when you have sex responsibly. All i can do is wish you best of luck.. Im so sorry it must be hard for you but hang in there sweetie.

IM x mercy me 14 x if you need ne thing!


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do yall know ne raiting sites for people UNDER 18? besides buddypic. thanks a tons

Heyy there--

try RatingPeople.com ... best of wishes

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