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okay im having a problem with shoes. what is exactly "the in shoe" right now?? i know a lot of people wear uggs, but i don't want to buy $120 uggs for a few months. i've been wearing american eagle boots, but they wear out easily. everyone in my school wears clogs with socks, like everyone! i usually wear these-
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=clearance&scid=cat90062&sscid=cat90114&navroot=clearance&productId=1411_3606_brown
i have puma sneakers too, but im not a big fan. for spring, should i get a cute pair of flatts or something?? thanks!!
hey, well since its still cold out i wouldnt go for flipflops/sandals right away. i would try ballet flats from american eagle.
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_womens_shoes_detail.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90122&sscid=cat120147&navroot=womens
if you didnt want to do those then you could always get shoes from the namebrand uggs, but just not boots. that way they will last you longer and wont look as winterish as boots and also they are less expensive.
http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductsList.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=181&page=1
Well, I don't get them very often, but I've gotten a few quite recently and I need to make them go away by Saturday, the 27th [there's a dance at school]. Any suggestions? (preferably home remedies or cheap products)
Please & thank you!
hey, well get clearasil. you can get it at like walmart.
Where can I buy a tutu-like skirt?
I don't have any idea where to look.
If there isn't any, then where can I find a tutorial for making one? [I know you use tulle fabric stuff]
hey, well i would go to a dance store. like on your toes. i dont know if you have that where you live but i know they sell tutus.
so i havent known this one guy for long but i have i have question how to tell if he likes me
ok so like when i talk to him online and ims me 2 secs right after he comes back from away and he says hey! instead of like hi or hey. and hes reallyreally nice like one of the nicest guys EVER and whenever im sad he always tells me to call him to talk and just to talk in general and thats alot. and after i talked to him for awhile he said love you but he said as a friend way and he says to me everytime that he loves me but i dont know if he said that for being in a friend way just cause he doesnt want to seem things to go fast or if it really is a friend way
i dont know if he tells that to other girls as friends too cuase i havent known him for thatt long.and one day he comment me on myspace and my comment box says I LOVE YOU and your suppose to earse it and then type what you want but he said he left it there on purpose.
so help?!
i dont know if he likes me as a friend or more then a friend!!!?
hey, well i think he likes you. the only way to be sure tho is to ask him. just say something like you heard that he likes you and you wanted to know if its true. that way he will tell you.
has anybody heard about the usa junior surf team from pacsun? if you have do you know any info about it like if i can get on it somehow. any information about it will do. thankyou!
hey, well i googled it and tried many different phrases and nothing like that came up. you can always talk to an employee at pacsun and see if they know anything about it.
Do guys usually say yes if u ask them to a dance? Please give me advices so ican feel comfortable about asking this guy to a dance :] Im just scared that he wants to go with someone else.
hey, well i dont know what kind of dance your talking about. if your talking about like grinding and more like club dancing, them sometimes you can just go up to the guys and just start grinding on them if the time is right. if your talking about slow formal dancing then tehre sno way of getting out of asking him. you have a 50/50 shot and the worst thing you will get is a no. if he does say no then say something witty like "okay, your loss". just go for it.
recently I had two pimples on my armpits! Is that normal? because I heard of pimple on your front chest and on your back but never on your armpits! and it really hurts.
hey, well i dont know if its a pimple. try putting on clearasil on the area that you think is a pimple. im starting to think that its razor burn. try being more careful while shaving. use a venus razor and skintimate baby soft shaving cream. its in the light blue bottle.
my tummy is like, toned at the top under my boobs and when i flex its like big muscle but the lower part is just there. when i work out i feel like im only working the top of my abs. and at the bottem under my belly botton theres a whole flap of fat but everyone always says it for babys & when your pregnant (though mine is still pretty big). how can i do work outs and work my whole stomach?
hey, well when you do crunches it usually works the top of your stomach muscles before the bottom. toneing the bottom part is hard to do. just keep doing what your doing for excerise and eat right. go to the grocery store in the freezer section. get this diet food called "weight watchers". they have good meals that dont taste bad like regular diet foods. they even offer desserts in there food line.
There is this boy, with whom I am in extra curricular activities. He is in a younger grade but he is the same age as I am, 16. Many people who do not know him or have seldom met him think he is a nerd-like person. I beg to differ, he is one of the most amazing guys I have ever met. My dad is the coordinator of our extra curricular activity that we are actively involved. He's always joking around with me saying things like 'well, you and (name) seemed very close tonight' or 'I like him, you should invite him over. Oh right you can't because of me...ha ha' . To explain that last comment, my dad is very weird, he thinks everything he says is funny but it's embarrassing. All to say that whenever he throws the comments my way, I join in on everybody else's thoughts and say things like 'Ew, I don't like him' and 'Yea, and what, you like that ugly cashier from the dollar store' (she was not all that pretty) and things like that. I feel really bad afterwards though. I talk to him for hours on end sometimes and I'm guessing that's what gives my dad the impression we're going out. Now for the twist, I love him. I have told him before that I liked him and well he took it in the sense that I liked him as a friend so he replied with 'yea, I like you too, your friendship means allot to me. For a second I thought you meant you like-liked me, that would have been weird.' That's what made the whole situation really awkward for me. Last night we were doing volunteer hours together for this french group of kids. We were watching a movie with them and we were sitting in the back selling popcorn and drinks. After a while business got slow so we sat together and just chilled while he explained this french movie to me. We were eventually like really close together after constant explanations and were like so close I kept getting those 'burst of nervousness' if you know what I mean. Normally when this happens he would pull away almost instantly as we'd touch because it's happened once and well that was the outcome. This time, he didn't and that's what's confusing me. I'm starting to wonder if his feelings for me have changed and that he's to shy to tell me. Is there any indirect way to find out? How do I keep all this nonesense away from my annoying dad? And any other advice is weel appreciated. Thanks =]
hey, well just keep flirting with him and touching. if he doesnt pull away then im pretty sure that his feelings have changed and that he likes you likes you. if the chemistry keep happening then you should say "i love you", when your saying goodbye on the phone. see if you says it back. if he does then maybe start talking to him about having a relationship together and hanging out outside of the volunteer work.
I need help on how to delete my account on advicenators.
hey, well make sure its what you really want to do. if you decide to rejoin in the future all your ratings, favorite columnists, advice, and your whole advice column will be gone! think about it. if you really want to then email dangernerd.
To all the guys on this site...when you like a girl, not just thinking she's hot but actually liking her, how do you show her? for personal reasons of confusion is my wonder. thanks in advance for the input.
hey, well since i am a girl im going to tell you what i find sweet. well my boyfriend of now [before he wasnt when he told me he liked me and stuff] was like "caitlin, i need you in my life and i cant see you not in it". he also said things like "if we was older i would ask you to marry me". so just say sweet stuff to her and flirt a lot. if you need any flirting tips or anything go to http://www.links2love.com
i have the enV from verizon wireless. my battery does not last long. i have to charge it at least once a day. is it because of the keyboard and the extra screen or what?? does anyone else have this problem?? i am a huge texter/talker. anything i can do about this?? do i have to keep buying batteries??
thanks!!
hey, well you will need to go the the verizon store. you can also go to the verizon website and get the number and call them about it, or even get the email adress of the company and tell them there.
Ok so i need to lose weight because i just want to and yeah so any good ideas i dont really have alot of time so it cant take long i've been eating healthy but that wont lose weight really it will only keep you at the same weight your at so please help i'm only 13 so yeah if that helps in any way i can take diet pills but those dont really work so unless you know it works dont suggest it and yeah ok help please
hey, well diet pills are very dangerous for people of any age. stay away from those seriously. go to the grocery store in the freezer section. they have food called "weight watchers". there pretty good meals too and they have ice cream sandwitches from there line of food. doing crunches wont help you loose fat on your stomach. it will just tone your stomach muscles, which means make your stomach muscles grow and get bigger so you will become muscular.
So about a year ago, I started working out and ended up losing a bunch of weight. I used to have a big tummy but I started doing sit-ups and crunches all the time so my stomach got less flabby... except in the wrong way. I developed this gut thing that wouldn't go away.
At first I thought it was fat so I started doing more sit ups but that didn’t help it disappear; my abs just started getting more toned.
Then my friend told me it was because I wasn't sucking my stomach in while doing crunches and sit-ups. Well, I've been doing crunches while sucking it in but the gut is still not going away.
So is there any way this process is reversible or am I going to be stuck with it forever unless I stop toning my stomach and start all over again and remember to suck it in?
Or is it there because of something totally different? I want a toned stomach for this summer and this thing is a pretty big obstacle.
Thank you.
hey, okay well "sucking in" while doing crunches is going to do nothing for you. dont try it. doing regular crunches will help you tone your stomach muscles. basically what tone means is to help your stomach muscles become bigger and grow. doing crunches will not help you get rid of stomach fat. it will just get you more muscular, but you will still have the same amount of fat. you need to eat diet food if you wish to get rid of your fat. at the grocery store, they sell weight watchers food. there in the freezer section. they have meals that you microwave that are very good and help you loose weight. they also have ice cream sandwitches from there line too.
There is this Boy Called Tom*
WE started walking down from school together as he lives up the road. we really got to know each other and talked on msn everynight . one night he asked me to come up the street with him , i did and everything went ok... untill we met people from our school he is a year older than me so the boys were all older. being boys they stated saying stuff etc The day after Tom told a friend that we went up the street , his friend started this rumour about us and Tom started not talking to me as if he did someone would say something. the only problem is i really like Tom and cant stop thinking about him ! I told him i didnt like him though to stop all the rumours now he doesnt like me ! he is kind of a "freak" to all of my friends so telling them is a no do .
Please help !! i know this sounds stupid and its a long message but i do need help ! any will do !!
hey, well you should have never told him that you didnt like him anymore if it wasnt true. set the facts straight and tell him how you really feel. go to his house since you basically are 2.5 seconds away from it. go up to his door and ring his doorbell. once he sees you he wont shut the door in your face if hes not a jerk. if he does shut the door in your face then dont even bother with him anymore. that would be a really low class thing for him to do and you dont need someone like that in your life. if he comes outside to talk just tell him how you feel. if he is sensitive to your feelings then give him another shot.
Does anyone know why High School Musical the play is banned from Atlanta? I caught the preview of the story on the news, but I was unable to watch the full story. All I hear was that there was some sort of controversy,
and now the play would not be continuing.
I was wondering if anyone knew why this
was, or if they had a link to a site that could tell me. Thanks :)
hey, well i googled it and tried many different phrases. i couldnt find any information about it being banned. maybe you heard wrong. like maybe they said that the needed a new high school musical band for the atlanta play?
Hello
This is for UK mobile users, thanks.
I'm on Orange Pay as you go, and I've been trying to text my boyfriend who is on 02 for the last 6 hours, and i keep getting the error message "message not sent, try again later"
I can text other people fine, and other people can text him.
Has anyone else experienced this (especially in the last few hours i.e. since 2am saturday 20 january)?
Any ideas what I can do?
Thanks!!
hey, well i doubt that your going to find a person that is from the UK on here and has a t-mobile from with this same problem or that will know what to do. so im just going to tell you to go to the t-mobile store or the place that you got your phone from and ask them. if you dont want to do that then go to the website and look for a number or email to use so that you can tell them about your problem there.
Lately, I kinda have been wanting a thong or like something pretty much like it. Just the thing is im kinda too embarrassed to get one. and if my parents ever saw it (mostly my dad) would like make jokes about it or pick on me about it (really embarrassing). anther thing is if i were to get one, id prob. want it from a&e or victoria secrets or something but im like really small. for my pants im a 14 slim (thats in abercrombie) && in pac sun im a 00.i dont know if victoria secrets would fit me or what. and then even if they did i find it embarressing just to go shopping for underwear/thongs!
hey, victorias secret is like where everyone goes to buy there underwear! thats the perfect place to go. im sure that most girls in there will be buying thongs because a lot of people wear them. the workers there wont make fun of you either. im sure they wear them and they work there so i bet they have a lot of girls shopping for thongs. you could also try boy shorts. i like thongs better, but both are good. also buy the low rise thongs. that way they wont pop out of your pants and show if your pants are very low. thongs come in thin strings and thick strings. i go for the thin strings. both are considered thongs, its just your preference. there are also double string thongs.
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=XH-171414&page=1&cgname=OSPTYPINPNT&rfnbr=2799
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http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=XH-196381&page=1&cgname=OSPTYBOYZZZ&rfnbr=1926
female. i know being a lesbian/gay/bi isn't a bad thing and i do not have anything against people that are, but im scared that one day i will be lesbian/bi? why am i scared of that. i know im too young to decide if im lesbain/bi/straight, but i think im straight. i love guys and i feel like this thing in my body when i see them and kiss them or think about them or think about the ones ive kissed. sometimes i even discharge, is this normal. is this normal to discharge and get these feelings. i couldn't see myself kissing/anything more with another girl and i've never had feelings for another girl. can u please tell me if all these thngs are normal. its kinda bothering me.
hey, yes thats all normal. everyone gets feelings like that. sometimes people just want to know what it is like to do stuff with the same sex. so dont worry if you start to get those feelings.
ive had discharge for like one or two years (im 13. i havent had my periodd yet but i've been getting cramps every once in a while. ive had cramps before in the past but they just stop after a while. im still having these cramps but not all the time. just wondering, do you think i might get my period soon. thankssss =]
hey, well that happened to me to before. then i got my period. eating bananas and taking midol helps for the cramps.