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i knw that second base is like sex but what is third base?

Second base isnt sex. Home is. 2nd is like feeling up, making out, handjob,fingering. 3rd base is basically oral sex. Like eating out, and blowjob.

Everyone looks at the bases differently. So it all depends on what you think the bases are. But thats what I think they are.

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hi my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time. yes I lost my virginity to him. Girls use to say that you usually bleed for the first time.
When I lost my virginity to my boyfriend I did not bleed at all.

Is this a problem or not every girl bleed when they have sex for the first time?

That means he didnt break youre hymen.. If you do it again, you will probably bleed. If not, then the next time? The only way you wil bleed is if he breaks ur hymen.

Unless, you broke it on something else? Horseback riding?Tampon? Vibrator? anything can do it.

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i really really like my guy friend we are neighbors and he tottaly gives me mixed messages we see eachother everyday and i just can't stand to be away from him i don't know if he likes me or not should i tell him how i feel or not. pleez help i will rate five no matter wat the answere

I know exactly how you feel. Tell him how you feel. Since, he is 17 make sure he doesnt take advantage of you. Because he will know how much you like him, and use it against you. I made the mistake of doing that. So, just be careful of that.

just tell him and see how it goes from there

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ok. so my mom is going to iraq and my dad is moving me from west bloomfield, were my boyfriend lives to clarkston where my dad wants to live. we are moving next week. should i keep going out with him and do that whole long distance thing or should i break it off and explain?

Well, if you really like/love him then i would say TRY the long distance thing. If you dont and only have a tiny bit of feelings, i would say then break it off because you will always meet somebody new. Long distance relationships are very hard to maintane, you have to have patience and know that your probably not gunna see him as much as you normally would. So if you dont, then i suggest you break it off.

Luck to you.

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When shaving your legs, are brand new razor or razors that have been used about 1 or 2 times better? Like what type will get the hair off faster and more easier?

i think the brand new ones. Because, they are more likely to cut you.Yes. BUT the old ones are dull and dont get as much hair off.

I like venus:)

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ok so my boyfreind is 15 im 13 the age doesnt bother me that much but the fact that he has has sex before does we can talk about it openly and all but i think he thinks i am imature for telling him there is no way in hell i will lose my virginity when i am only 13 and stuff i dont really no wat my question is i think i just need to talk to someone about it help please

Dont do anything until you KNOW and are COMPLETELY sure you are ready. Sounds to me like he is an asshole. How are you immature for telling him that your not ready? If he is really mad about that, then i would say he is not worth it. Maybe, if you feel comfy enough, compromise with him. Only makeout, then feel up, handjob and stuff and gradually go up. JUST MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY. AND DONT DO ANYTHING YOU DONT WANNA DO. AND LASTLY, DONT LET HIM MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY:)

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when your pregnany is your dischrage anything different?

No, its just alot more than you normally would.

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I'm going to New York today and we're driving there. It's about a 2-2 1/2 hour drive. So I was wondering what me and my friend could do to keep busy during the ride. Thanks

Write all the different places people are from ( like on their lisence plates) Take a nap. Take a cd player and listen to music. Make a song..Make a poem. Sing..Talk about boys ...anything

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sorry i didnt know what categorie to but it under

13/f and i want alot of peircings. but my mom said i can only have my first hole in my ear periced [ which i have already ] and i kinda wanted my second hole done but she thinks it looks tacky. its really annoying but when i go to college or when im 18 im thinking about getting anything i want peirced you know since she isnt in control of me anymore and i was think about -

industrial peircing
http://www.tattooheka.com/Piercing/piercing88.jpg

nose -
THAT -
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d7/Septum_and_labret.jpg/250px-Septum_and_labret.jpg
OR-
http://www.pointedimage.com/site_content/tattoo-piercing-images/piercing-image-gallery/Nose/Nose2.jpg
which one? if i got one

tounge-
http://www.pleasurable.com/assets/images/db_images/db_tongue14.jpg


lip [ snake bites ]
http://z.about.com/d/tattoo/1/0/J/N/ericaface3.jpg

im really scared that they will hurt but i was wondering which one would hurt the most and the least and which 2 or 3 i should get.
thanks so much :]

Welp, i have 16 now. And i am getting my helix, daith, or tongue done soon. I have my belly and my nose, and tragus...the rest are ear ones and cartlidgeI would probably go for the nose and tongue. But its only my opinon. My nose didnt really hurt... and i pierced it myself (DONT GET IDEAS!) and people i know have their tongue and they said the worst part is when they put the clamp on it. I think that the lip and labret looks tacky. Why not try your belly button? that always looks cute

Good luck

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HEY GOTTA QUESTION ABOUT CONDOMS.

now me and my bf were about to do stuf the other day and he told me he couldnt because he got the wrong condoms. and i fuess he said *sensitive* condoms were made to feel more but he said they BREAK easier. soo is this true? just wondering becuz i think its a good idea u kno for all those who do purchase the *sensitive, ultra sensitive..etc.*

A condom is a condom. Im pretty sure the only ones that are easily broken is the Ultra Thin or something. Besides, It could be any condom that breaks whether it says *GARUNTEED NOT TO BREAK* it still has a chance of breaking, and you take the chance...everyone who buys them does.

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HI, im just wondering if anyone could help me find any of those cute japanese online diary things that people have? Ive searched everywhere and i cant find any.....
Thank you very much!! xx

I dont think its japanese.
But.
http://www.mydeardiary.com

Hope i helped

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I was watchig Christina Argulara (sp) music video, "Come On Over"

I really like her hair, where it is blonde with some red in it. I'm thinking about getting mine done like that.

Does anyone know where I can find a picture of her hair like that?

http://connection.christina-aguilera.net/discography/mireflejo.jpg

http://www.swr3.de/__pix/cover/500x435/6644.jpg

http://connection.christina-aguilera.net/videography/coob.jpg

http://xtina.thermann.de/Pics/Media/V-COOB.jpg

Hope i helped. :)

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when your pregnant do you still discharge?

Yes you do,ALOT.

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ok.
so it feels like my vagina is being presured. i dont really no how to explain it. it feels like i have to pee a lot. but i dont think its a UTI. any one know what it is or how to get rid of it?!

Sounds like a UTI to me. If it hurts when you pee, then it definetly is a UTI.

1)Go see your doctor
2)Drink water and cranberry juice
3)Dont wait!

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I'm in love with my best friend. But unfortunatly he is going out with some girl I really don't like. She's the type that will hurt him really bad inside and will leave him for someone else. That is her process. How do I break them up without him knowing I did it on purpose?

Oh and he (best friend) knows im madly in love with him.

f/13

I was in a situation similar to this. Except i didnt love him. And well, i kinda just stayed out of it and he finally realized she was no good. And they broke up and i stayed out of it mostly.

So, Just stay out of it and he will realize that she is no good. Give it time.

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hey everybody! my question is how old do you have to be to get a small vibrator from spencers at the mall?
Thanks

You dont have to be a certain age here in PA. It could be different in all states. But i am pretty sure you dont have to be a certain age.

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My mom might get liposuction. Does anyone have cautions for me or advice? Thank you.

Im not sure if this is what you are looking for.

http://www.countrydoctor.co.uk/precis/precis%20-%20Plastic%20surgery%20cautions.htm

But it might help.

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ok, i have an online friend who i've been friends with for 6 years now and i sort of have a crush on him and i think he does too...he's just an amazing guys but lately he's been moody with me and just an ass sometimes...sometimes he'll be so sweet and tell me sweet things like he likes me and that he wants to be my boyfriend and then the next time we chat, he's such an ass and denies everything he said the last time we talked!

what is that about???? can someone explain?? is he just playin with me? should i just stop talking to the guy?

I guess i should point out that he's never had a g/f, would that have anything to do with it?

ok thanks in advance for any advice given :)

Hmm..well this is a pretty complicated situation. Uh..Maybe somebody goes on his sn, just to mess with you? i had that happen to me before.

Um..Maybe he is just scared because he knows he likes you, and since he has never had a gf he doesnt know exactly what to do.

Ask him about it? That is probably the only way you will ever know.

good luck

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Okay, there's this Buy It Now item on Ebay, and it comes with a Slim PS2, 2 controllers, 86 games, and all of the cords and memory cards needed to make it work. It comes with everything and everything is in New condition never tooken out of the box. The Buy it now price is $210.00 and $19 shipping. Is that a good price?

Yes.

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this might be in the wrong category but oh well.. well I'm going to the attic this coming week at myrtle beach..its a dance club for people under 21.. are they alot of like 13 and 14 year old boys down there? will they ask you to dance even if they don't know you?

All ages will probably be down there. Im not too sure about 13 or 14 year olds. Probably more around 15 and 16.

All guys are different. If he is straight forward they might ask you. Just smile and make eye contact


Good luck

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